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In reply to the discussion: Stop Telling Women How to Not Get Raped [View all]Nikia
(11,411 posts)Some of them might be disappointed that you just wanted to date them after all, though. As a woman, I have had male friends who I wanted to date, but did not want to date me. Yes, sometimes I thought that they were sending mixed signals. I usually accepted this, though, and tried to focus my attraction on someone else. I did have male friends that I had no interest in dating though, often it was because they were unattractive or had some personality flaw that would make a long term exclusive relationship undesireable.
Was there actually a woman who was passed out drunk who told you that she wanted to have sex with you? Did you try to make a date? If you did and she refused, she either did not want a relationship with you or is so messed up psychologically that you probably did not want to date her anyway.