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rainlillie

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4. You're talking to the wrong perosn here.. Here's a little history to help

Reply to lunatica (Reply #3)

Wed Dec 5, 2012, 10:16 AM

Dec 2012

you understand where I'm coming from. My sister was abused for years. In the end her husband tried to kill her, ended up killing her friend who was trying to protect her and himself. My older cousin was killed in court while attending a custody hearing. So.. I think I know how hard it can be. The point is, before the relationship gets serious, if there's a hint of something not right don't ignore it. Get out, before you have children, before you are married. Whenever we asked my sister about her bruises and injuries, she always lied.

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Jovan Belcher case isn't just about gun violence, it's about domestic violence [View all] rainlillie Dec 2012 OP

I had a simple rule, hit me one time and I leave. Period. No exceptions. peacebird Dec 2012 #1

I agree, a rule to live by. rainlillie Dec 2012 #2

You know what? It's not always that easy. lunatica Dec 2012 #3

You're talking to the wrong perosn here.. Here's a little history to help rainlillie Dec 2012 #4

Well my abuse didn't start until right after my son was born lunatica Dec 2012 #9

I think the case can walk and chew gum at the same time, but your advocacy fighting violence bettyellen Dec 2012 #5

I really don't see this case as a gun issue, abusers will always find away to kill if that's their rainlillie Dec 2012 #7

We should not fall into the single minded mindset of the MSM bettyellen Dec 2012 #8

Case in point, Chris Benoit Great Caesars Ghost Dec 2012 #15

I think John2 Dec 2012 #6

Are you acquainted with four women? lapislzi Dec 2012 #10

This case, to me HappyMe Dec 2012 #11

Im glad you included both... joeybee12 Dec 2012 #12

I would say there's a nexus. ellisonz Dec 2012 #13

It had nothing to do with guns, period Great Caesars Ghost Dec 2012 #14

Yeah, I think he would have found away to kill his girlfriend one way or another. rainlillie Dec 2012 #16

I believe.... ShadesOfBlue Dec 2012 #17

So now it's the battle of the stats? Jovan killed himself, he wasn't a victim of gun rainlillie Dec 2012 #18

For black males 15-34 the leading cause of death is homicide Fumesucker Dec 2012 #19