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In reply to the discussion: My hubby & I made approx same salary for 17 years [View all]LiberalFighter
(51,299 posts)36. I agree...
both need to sit down and find out what is happening. This time of year might also be a factor. If he is willing to talk about it and listen to what she has to offer on her end which it would appear she is already doing. Considering that she might be working further away might be an issue that makes him feel threatened and also likely require him to make some sacrifices too. Too difficult to determine without knowing the particulars.
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People can say awful things they don't mean, when they are under duress. He loves you.
WinkyDink
Nov 2012
#4
I have no answers to your specific problems but hope that after 18 yrs its not solely about the $$
riderinthestorm
Nov 2012
#8
We have not had a huge arguement like this for over a decade. We love & appreciate each other.
peacebird
Nov 2012
#27
Yes, it's difficult to determine without knowing the details or the people involved.
Beacool
Nov 2012
#38
During a crisis, sometimes you find out how strong your relationship is. I hope things work out.
Michigan Alum
Nov 2012
#40
You know the man better than we do. Is this remotely expected from him? He could be under some
bluestate10
Nov 2012
#58