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Dark n Stormy Knight

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107. Thank you, DET ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Wed May 26, 2021, 08:51 PM
May 2021

I haven't been able to reply to most of the lovely posts here, but they are appreciated. I did want to respond to you in case anyone else is curious about those details.

I said "particularly nasty" to indicate that it's not one of those cute and cuddly cancers so many people seem to have heard about that sit politely in the prostate of a host who dies of something else before it can get up the gumption to cause any real trouble.

KT's Gleason score was determined to be a 9 at the time of the biopsy, which was on March 11th, though he didn't get the results until the follow-up appointment on March 31st. We wanted him to have the surgery almost immediately, but of course it doesn't work that way. So much time for it to have spread between then and now!

History of KT’s PSA Test Results compiled after the fact:
2018-10-03: GP 3.7 Ultrasound & some blood tests ordered. Not to worry, says the doc. Just take FloMax.

2020-11-19: GP's PA 5.7 PA called to order a new glucose test, no mention of the PSA. Grrrrrrr.

We had to find a new GP because that one was switching to a "concierge" model. To continue with his practice, each person would have to pay nearly $2000 annually. That on top of your health insurance premiums, co-pays, etc.

2021-01-07: 5.8 Ordered in late December by our new GP who suggested that more should have been done by our previous GP and strongly recommended KT see a urologist, which led to the biopsy, and the diagnosis.

2021-05-10: Same GP 7.2 ordered upon our request. We were bothered by the fact that in all of the appointments KT had to discuss the stage of the cancer and treatment options, they were going by the PSA from late 2020. Though, as it couldn't speed up his surgery date and only served to alarm us at the increase, we're not sure why we requested it.

Updates on surgery here: https://www.democraticunderground.com/100215466368

Your husband will be in my prayers LetMyPeopleVote May 2021 #1
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #4
Prayers Up! ❤ littlemissmartypants May 2021 #2
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #5
You and your beloved husband are in my thoughts, my dear Dark n Stormy Knight... CaliforniaPeggy May 2021 #3
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #8
sending LOTS of good vibes. it will go well Demovictory9 May 2021 #6
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #10
The best good luck, great team, successful surgery, uncomplicated recovery! electric_blue68 May 2021 #7
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #11
I'm sending good vibes to you. Nt spooky3 May 2021 #9
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Many thanks. Nt. Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #13
sending love and light around you and your husband babydollhead May 2021 #12
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #16
🕯 questionseverything May 2021 #14
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #39
Sending prayers, good vibes, etc. from Illinois! ShazzieB May 2021 #15
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #41
I will keep you and your husband in my thoughts and send all the good vibrations I can muster. cayugafalls May 2021 #17
Your kind words are much appreciated. Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #40
Sent. salin May 2021 #18
Thank you. Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #42
May all go better than expected. blogslug May 2021 #19
I like that wish. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #43
Wishing You and KT Most-Positive Energies wyn borkins May 2021 #20
Those are my wishes as well. Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #44
Adding my prayers for a successful surgery and speedy healing for your husband, pazzyanne May 2021 #21
Thank you for those kind and comforting words. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #46
I've just lit canetoad May 2021 #22
That's wonderful. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #47
The best positive vibes and prayers appalachiablue May 2021 #23
I don't feel strong and if my dear husband does does not recover, Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #48
sending up a prayer to the universe orleans May 2021 #24
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #49
.... AKwannabe May 2021 #25
Awwwww. That made me smile. Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #50
My best to you all. My great uncle, survived his bout w/ his prostate cancer and then went on to... SWBTATTReg May 2021 #26
Sending all those powerful and incomparable DU vibes that we've got Rhiannon12866 May 2021 #27
I send good energy to your husband for his surgery. Ka-Dinh Oy May 2021 #28
Vibes on the way, Dark! 💗💗💗 SheltieLover May 2021 #29
Best of luck to your husband!!! Beacool May 2021 #30
❤️ to you and KT both Hekate May 2021 #31
Sending, warm healing, supportive, positive and encouraging hugs your way. Fla Dem May 2021 #32
May KT's surgery be as successful as my dad's and my neighbor John. FuzzyRabbit May 2021 #33
Your Husband Should Be Fine DET May 2021 #34
Welcome to DU, DET! And thank you for your loving post. CaliforniaPeggy May 2021 #45
Thanks! DET May 2021 #79
All good advice and, take heart Disaffected May 2021 #97
Such great info. I have not been through this,but a friend has, soldierant May 2021 #99
Thank you, DET ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #107
Live And Learn DET May 2021 #108
I hope others will read this. Dark n Stormy Knight May 2021 #109
Adding more positive energy and prayers for both of you. bearssoapbox May 2021 #35
Best of luck! We're all rooting for you both ailsagirl May 2021 #36
Done! TrollBuster9090 May 2021 #37
Will be sending you and your husband all my positive vibes, prayers and love today...... a kennedy May 2021 #38
Sending prayers and light to both you and your husband! woodsprite May 2021 #51
Prayers coming your way! LiberalLoner May 2021 #52
I missed the latter part of your post! My, goodness you've electric_blue68 May 2021 #53
Prayers and positive vibes now being sent yours and your husband's way. Demsrule86 May 2021 #54
Prayed for him FeelingBlue May 2021 #55
... spanone May 2021 #56
My prayers for both bobnicewander May 2021 #57
Hoping it all goes well Bettie May 2021 #58
You and your husband just had a prayer said for you. lark May 2021 #59
Sending love and energy! MLAA May 2021 #60
Vibes and incantations sent! momta May 2021 #61
Prayers Duncanpup May 2021 #62
Thinking of you and KT. lpbk2713 May 2021 #63
On it! WinstonSmith4740 May 2021 #64
I will light a candle for all of them and for you. So sorry for all your sorrow. ratchiweenie May 2021 #65
❤️ mobeau69 May 2021 #66
Absolutely, here you go... hwmnbn May 2021 #67
Healing love to your xxqqqzme May 2021 #68
May the surgery successfully treat it 💙 benfranklin1776 May 2021 #69
As a man with prostate cancer JPPaverage May 2021 #70
My thoughts will be with you seta1950 May 2021 #71
My best friend Omaha Steve May 2021 #72
Thoughts and prayers to you and husband. Dan May 2021 #73
Some kind words and warm, positive thoughs are the very least we can do for anyone, let alone... BobTheSubgenius May 2021 #74
Healing vibes sent.......nt Heartstrings May 2021 #75
Sending good vibes malaise May 2021 #76
... Nevilledog May 2021 #77
Sending good vibes wendyb-NC May 2021 #78
Best of Healing Energy Cha May 2021 #80
All will go well, thinking positive for the outcome chocolatpi May 2021 #81
May he have peace and good health. Magoo48 May 2021 #82
May he have peace and good health. Magoo48 May 2021 #83
Positive thoughts XanaDUer2 May 2021 #84
Sending positive vibes and well wishes to your husband. Niagara May 2021 #85
Keeping you both in my thoughts... CaptainTruth May 2021 #86
Just saw this post, Hope surgery went well and speedy recovery! Cozmo May 2021 #87
More positive energy! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ calimary May 2021 #88
Positive vibes! I hope it goes well. You're overdue for good news. ancianita May 2021 #89
All the best vibes and well wishes in the world crickets May 2021 #90
Prayers and positive vibes... Unknown Beatle May 2021 #91
Wishing a speedy recovery Nululu May 2021 #92
Sending positive energy and the very best of outcomes. GoodRaisin May 2021 #93
May the Great Spirit guide the surgeon's hands DFW May 2021 #94
Sending you all the good vibes stage left May 2021 #95
I'll include him in my nightly prayers. n/t Peregrine Took May 2021 #96
Good thoughts and prayers headed your way. 11 Bravo May 2021 #98
I'm late and hoping it went very well barbtries May 2021 #100
Sending love and hugs AwakeAtLast May 2021 #101
Had this surgery last October...robotic. I'm good. He will be too. spanone May 2021 #102
Hoping everything is well Naio May 2021 #103
I'm late here, just wanted to let you know my husband had the same operation and phylny May 2021 #104
Sending hugs and prayers to you both! Hang in there! raging moderate May 2021 #105
Sending you vibes. applegrove May 2021 #106
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