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In reply to the discussion: I am heartbroken about my friend. [View all]Croney
(4,814 posts)14. So, his sister is your only source of information?
If she dislikes his wife, her observations will always reflect that.
Leaving him alone sounds ok for a while, no? If she's a retired nurse, she's better at assessing the risk than many would be. Do you think she wishes to do him harm intentionally? Does she obviously not love him? If so, you could consider intervening. But if the sister is trying to break them up, you wouldn't want to be an unwitting accomplice.
It might sound like I think you're worrying needlessly, but I'm not. There is something going on for sure, if you're so concerned. But you need to chat with your friend, rather than trust parties who may have an agenda.
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Irony: Wife and I are on friendly terms, but she LIES, not just to me, but to everyone.
no_hypocrisy
Nov 2019
#8
I think my breaking point is the fact that he was pushed aside and ignored.
no_hypocrisy
Nov 2019
#13
Please focus: elderly man recovering from a recent severe car accident with a broken neck.
no_hypocrisy
Nov 2019
#16
Maybe you could offer to drive him to physical therapy if his wife won't.
Liberty Belle
Nov 2019
#17
Thank you. I think my heartbreak is realizing there are limits to friendship when
no_hypocrisy
Nov 2019
#20