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Liberty Belle

(9,540 posts)
17. Thanks to her family for having the courage to publish this.
Thu Aug 23, 2012, 11:44 PM
Aug 2012

When I was a young married women with a much wanted pregnancy, I became doubled over with pain. My doctor thought it was a tubal (ectopic) pregnancy and though he's a good Catholic docotor told me I'd need to terminate the pregnancy to save my life, if this proved to be the case. Thankfully it was a misdiagnosis.

But a friend of mine nearly died of the same condition. I learned that 1 in every 50 to 100 pregnancies is ectopic, meaing the fertilized egg implants in the Fallopian tube, not the womb. You cannot possibly carry it to term. If nothing is done, the tube bursts and the woman risks peritonitis, sterility or death. There is no "baby" to save since there is no room for a fetus to develop in the tube. My friend collapsed and was taken to the hospital. She had no insurance. Her coworkers including me decided to pitch in to pay for the abortion she needed to save her life.

Mercifully she miscarried before it could be done. But it she hadn't I would have gladly helped her to survive, as any decent caring human being should do.

1 in 50 to 100. That could be your sister, daughter, or friend. This is just one of many conditions that are life threatening. What of the woman who develops cancer and needs chemotherapy? They won't do if you are pregnant. There are so many other conditions that are dangerous. It enrages me that the right wing wants to risk women's lives--condemn some women to death--to impose their narrow minded religious agendas.

March For Women's Lives -- Yes, I remember it well rocktivity Aug 2012 #1
I have seen this picture before, and it never fails to horrify me... CaliforniaPeggy Aug 2012 #2
I havent... awoke_in_2003 Aug 2012 #15
And, the most disgusting part about that... GoCubsGo Aug 2012 #54
"no apologies for the language"... awoke_in_2003 Aug 2012 #56
You don't spend much time in The Lounge do you? GoCubsGo Aug 2012 #58
If I am in the lounge... awoke_in_2003 Aug 2012 #62
You should drop on in every once in a while. GoCubsGo Aug 2012 #63
I might just do that. nt awoke_in_2003 Aug 2012 #64
horrifying. Liberal_in_LA Aug 2012 #3
Don't want an abortion? Don't have one. But they are LEGAL and we will keep them that way. AzDar Aug 2012 #4
I remember seeing this photo Le Taz Hot Aug 2012 #5
DUer 'control-z' is one of her daughters. alittlelark Aug 2012 #6
I was at the March for Womens Lives. riderinthestorm Aug 2012 #7
It was hard to rec this but it needs to be seen. MadrasT Aug 2012 #8
. Starry Messenger Aug 2012 #9
And A MAJOR Hat-Tip To niyad, For Reminding Me Of This... WillyT Aug 2012 #10
I have daughters. I worry all the time that we will return to this someday. rurallib Aug 2012 #11
Thank you fo rthe OP, for the reminder, and even for truedelphi Aug 2012 #12
"I can never figure out if I am angry or afraid or just plain sad." WillyT Aug 2012 #13
me? handmade34 Aug 2012 #19
I can only speak for myself... Scootaloo Aug 2012 #51
Well, they want us to be "productive" not unproductive. truedelphi Aug 2012 #55
... TahitiNut Aug 2012 #14
i hope angry because sad is passive and we can not afford it dembotoz Aug 2012 #16
Thanks to her family for having the courage to publish this. Liberty Belle Aug 2012 #17
"Pro-life" site quoted only HockeyMom Aug 2012 #53
Shocking new stats: 1 in 38 pregnancies is ectopic! Liberty Belle Aug 2012 #68
K&R n/t DeSwiss Aug 2012 #18
K&R B Calm Aug 2012 #20
kick JanMichael Aug 2012 #21
That Is My Wish As Well... WillyT Aug 2012 #24
thank you for this, and for posting that pic (which I could not figure out how to do) niyad Aug 2012 #22
Your Post, Generated My Post. WillyT Aug 2012 #25
you are welcome niyad Aug 2012 #37
Ghastly ailsagirl Aug 2012 #23
This is why we fight, and I don't believe 1 in 10 of you would even get off the couch Egalitarian Thug Aug 2012 #26
You don't know that. Le Taz Hot Aug 2012 #45
Yes I do, Just like Erma saw, it's painfully obvious that the numbers of committed feminists Egalitarian Thug Aug 2012 #67
Willy T, I know who this woman was. I'm sorry, you need to edit it. Please. NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #27
That picture was in magazines. It's been on DU before. There's a graphic warning on the OP. LeftyMom Aug 2012 #29
That it was published before is NOT AN EXCUSE!!! NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #31
Do I know you? Control-Z Aug 2012 #33
Hey... I'll Delete This Whole Thing If You Want e To... WillyT Aug 2012 #35
Willy, I love you and think the OP is important and poignant. NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #36
I would prefer you respect the victim and her family by using an edited pic... NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #30
That's Your Solution ??? WillyT Aug 2012 #32
The image is personal. NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #34
I Was At A Forum With Over One Million Human Beings, Her Daughters Were There, And That Picture... WillyT Aug 2012 #39
I disagree Le Taz Hot Aug 2012 #46
IF the woman's daughter is ok with the image... YellowRubberDuckie Aug 2012 #50
Thanks for your mom's story. freshwest Aug 2012 #28
+1 NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #38
I'm sorry it's been a rough night for you. Care Acutely Aug 2012 #40
Thank you. NYC_SKP Aug 2012 #41
Hey N_S... Been There Four Times In The Last Three Years... WillyT Aug 2012 #42
K&R. As graphic and heartbreaking as it is . . . tilsammans Aug 2012 #43
That happened to Mitt Romney's "dear relative" Freddie Aug 2012 #44
One of her brave daughters is a DUer Duppers Aug 2012 #47
+1 Starry Messenger Aug 2012 #48
Jesus! lunatica Aug 2012 #49
That's One Of The Things That Was So Powerful About It... I've Never Been Among A Million People WillyT Aug 2012 #59
kick Blue_Tires Aug 2012 #52
Evening Kick !!! WillyT Aug 2012 #57
+1 Poll_Blind Aug 2012 #60
.... The Doctor. Aug 2012 #61
. lunatica Aug 2012 #65
Just Thought You Ought To Know... And Control-Z... WillyT Aug 2012 #66
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