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WillyT

(72,631 posts)
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 01:04 PM Oct 2015

Sandra Bland's Mother Says It's What Bernie Sanders Didn't Do After They Met That Earned Her Respect

Sandra Bland's Mother Says It's What Bernie Sanders Didn't Do After They Met That Earned Her Respect
Madhuri Sathish - Bustle
10/16/15


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During the first Democratic debate earlier this week, the candidates received an important question: "Do black lives matter, or do all lives matter?" Sanders made it explicitly clear that he is on board with #BlackLivesMatter, but he went one step further — he said Sandra Bland's name, and slammed the broken justice system that resulted in her being found dead in a jail cell. This would not have been possible without the work of activists across the country shutting down his rallies, protesting, marching, proposing policy changes, and ultimately pressuring him and the other candidates to recognize the disproportionate ways in which black people are affected by police brutality. But something else happened, just five days before the debate, that might have pushed Sanders to say Bland's name: He met her mother.

Last week, the Rev. Hannah Adair Bonner — curator of The Shout, a spoken-word activism movement — wrote a post for Soul Unbound about how she and her sister were having lunch with Shante Needham and Geneva Reed-Veal, Bland's sister and mother, when they noticed Sanders eating at the same restaurant. Bonner then approached Sanders to tell him that she was with Bland's mother, and thought that perhaps he would like to meet her. He did, and he and Bland's mother began to converse.

“What happened to your daughter is inexcusable,” Sanders told Reed-Veal. “We are broken, and this has exposed us.” According to Bonner, Sanders promised that he would "continue to #SayHerName #SandraBland" and persist in the pursuit of justice. The women then asked Sanders for a photo, and he agreed.

But it was what Sanders didn't do that earned him Bonner's gratitude.

He did not impose upon Ms. Geneva to ask for a picture of his own. He did not use the moment as an opportunity to promote his campaign. He took no record, he made no statement. He did not try to turn it into a publicity stunt. He simply made space for a sacred moment, and then let it pass without trying to gain anything from it. For that, I respect him. For that, I am grateful. That choice may not have made him a very good politician, but it made him a better man.


Not only did Sanders make no mention of this meeting in the public sphere, but...

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Link: http://www.bustle.com/#/articles/117535-sandra-blands-mother-says-its-what-bernie-sanders-didnt-do-after-they-met-that-earned-her




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Sandra Bland's Mother Says It's What Bernie Sanders Didn't Do After They Met That Earned Her Respect (Original Post) WillyT Oct 2015 OP
As someone else said already, Sanders might be redefining what 'being a good politician' means. Erich Bloodaxe BSN Oct 2015 #1
Bernie is a STATESMAN Vincardog Oct 2015 #12
He is, absolutely. LittleGirl Oct 2015 #15
Yup. This is the word I use when describing Bernie as well. ion_theory Oct 2015 #22
I disagree Politician = Weathervane/panderer. Stateseman = Well Vincardog Oct 2015 #23
True True... ion_theory Oct 2015 #24
considered not reactionary Vincardog Oct 2015 #26
Everything this man says and does reinforces my support for him Feeling the Bern Oct 2015 #20
I just don't see Bernie putting up O'Malley as VP, but other than that I agree. n/t ion_theory Oct 2015 #25
Bernie= ruffburr Oct 2015 #2
K&R me b zola Oct 2015 #3
Good story. Rafale Oct 2015 #4
Thank you. K/r 840high Oct 2015 #5
We have a choice. Do we want a genuine good person or business as usual? LiberalArkie Oct 2015 #6
wonderful to hear a story like this nt karynnj Oct 2015 #7
This the man he is. Comforting a grieving family, defending jwirr Oct 2015 #8
Post removed Post removed Oct 2015 #9
This has no place here. It is disrespectful to every Person of Color here and elsewhere. jtuck004 Oct 2015 #17
I donno, go back to the hole you crawled out of. Now. roguevalley Oct 2015 #27
That moment defines the idea of "class act"...for all concerned.. Stuart G Oct 2015 #10
Kicked and recommended. Uncle Joe Oct 2015 #11
The greatest tragidy, Bernie is what should be, not what is. Half-Century Man Oct 2015 #13
Kick and R BeanMusical Oct 2015 #14
He is a mensch and the most decent person in US politics n/t sarge43 Oct 2015 #16
So true. America's Senator, Statesman & next President. Heartfelt wishes to the fine Bland family appalachiablue Oct 2015 #39
One of the many reasons why I support him deutsey Oct 2015 #18
He is a rare politician. Anyone else would have used that chance meeting for their own interests. sabrina 1 Oct 2015 #19
"He did not try to turn it into a publicity stunt." Spitfire of ATJ Oct 2015 #21
K&R Go Vols Oct 2015 #28
Kicked and recommended! Enthusiast Oct 2015 #29
Bernie is a Leader... worth following. AzDar Oct 2015 #30
In essence, Sanders did not turn this into a photo-op for himself. DinahMoeHum Oct 2015 #31
. libodem Oct 2015 #32
Damn. Nothingcleverjustray Oct 2015 #33
The US doesn't deserve to have him as its leader Doctor_J Oct 2015 #34
k & r delrem Oct 2015 #35
K & R ctsnowman Oct 2015 #36
Bernie is a good man. Lunabell Oct 2015 #37
Kick! simmonsj811 Oct 2015 #38
That was very moving. sabrina 1 Oct 2015 #40
Reminder Kick... WillyT Nov 2015 #41

Erich Bloodaxe BSN

(14,733 posts)
1. As someone else said already, Sanders might be redefining what 'being a good politician' means.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 01:18 PM
Oct 2015

And it starts with being a good person. As happened here, NOT using every possible angle to advance your own personal interests. Not attacking other people, even your rivals, simply because you can. Staying focused on the issues that are hurting millions or billions of people, rather than the ways you can attack one other person.

LittleGirl

(8,293 posts)
15. He is, absolutely.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 03:01 PM
Oct 2015

I believe what he says, I believe his intentions are sincere and I believe he has the nerve to try to prove it to us.
#FeelTheBern

ion_theory

(235 posts)
22. Yup. This is the word I use when describing Bernie as well.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 04:01 PM
Oct 2015

Usually politician and statesman are used interchangeably, but statesman doesn't seem to have the same negative connotation IMO.

 

Feeling the Bern

(3,839 posts)
20. Everything this man says and does reinforces my support for him
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 03:35 PM
Oct 2015

Put the Socialist, humanistic Jew (I'm Jewish) in the White House.

Sanders/O'Malley 2016!

ruffburr

(1,190 posts)
2. Bernie=
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 01:18 PM
Oct 2015

CLASS and AUTHENTICITY, Very rare in politics , Kind of like chicken lips , in Washington now days BS and corruption are all you Will find.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
8. This the man he is. Comforting a grieving family, defending
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 02:29 PM
Oct 2015

Hillary when it might not help him at all. I think that if we looked we could find a lot of other examples of selflessness in his actions.

A truly good man.

Response to WillyT (Original post)

 

jtuck004

(15,882 posts)
17. This has no place here. It is disrespectful to every Person of Color here and elsewhere.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 03:17 PM
Oct 2015

And everyone else who cares about respecting that moment, not bringing in an unrelated squabble to tarnish it.

Waste of space.

Half-Century Man

(5,279 posts)
13. The greatest tragidy, Bernie is what should be, not what is.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 02:53 PM
Oct 2015

His normal behavior is what seems so amazing in a politician.

appalachiablue

(41,323 posts)
39. So true. America's Senator, Statesman & next President. Heartfelt wishes to the fine Bland family
Sat Oct 17, 2015, 11:37 AM
Oct 2015

in maintaining strength and hope in this time of immense grief and loss from tragedy that is devastating families and this country.

deutsey

(20,166 posts)
18. One of the many reasons why I support him
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 03:30 PM
Oct 2015

I saw the same genuine character and concern in him when he was trying to protect Andrea Mitchell from being stampeded.

sabrina 1

(62,325 posts)
19. He is a rare politician. Anyone else would have used that chance meeting for their own interests.
Fri Oct 16, 2015, 03:35 PM
Oct 2015

He didn't tell us about it.

And he kept his promise without saying why he was saying her name.

I am proud to know we still have a few honest people left in DC, but not very many.

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