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Siwsan

(26,386 posts)
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 10:34 PM Aug 2023

I have such sad news to share. Tudor just passed away.

He was OK this morning. As the day went on he got quieter and sleepier. Unfortunately there are NO emergency vet clinics open on the weekend in this whole county!!!

I have been sitting with him, all afternoon, giving him liquids and holding him. About 10 minutes ago I knew he was gone.

I did everything I could and have no idea what caused his death. Maybe his mother sensed something I didn't. and that's why she neglected him.

The one thing I can say I'm grateful for is that I gave him one week of life he wouldn't otherwise have had.

And I am crushed beyond repair.

Thank all of you who were such a part of his short existence on this earth.

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I have such sad news to share. Tudor just passed away. (Original Post) Siwsan Aug 2023 OP
Oh, Siwsan, I'm so sorry! Laffy Kat Aug 2023 #1
This. Permanut Aug 2023 #6
This. nt Dear_Prudence Aug 2023 #17
Oh no! So sad. So sorry. Walleye Aug 2023 #2
Oh, noooooooooo! 3catwoman3 Aug 2023 #3
That was my thought also. pazzyanne Aug 2023 #57
This. soldierant Aug 2023 #96
So loved. blm Aug 2023 #113
Such sad news. TexasTowelie Aug 2023 #4
Heartbreaking MoonlightHillFarm Aug 2023 #5
Oh no, this is devastating news. I'm so sorry to hear this. virgdem Aug 2023 #7
😿😿😿So so sorry😿😿your love made his short life better💙 we can do it Aug 2023 #8
Oh, I'm so sorry for you and that sweet little baby. sinkingfeeling Aug 2023 #9
I'm so sorry. You did all you could and gave him comfort. Arkansas Granny Aug 2023 #10
Oh, no! I am so sorry. What a shock. We were just getting to know him. LoisB Aug 2023 #11
I am so, so sorry. Poor baby. You gave him his best chance. Nt spooky3 Aug 2023 #12
You gave him a wonderful week of care and love. MLAA Aug 2023 #13
So sorry. 58Sunliner Aug 2023 #14
Oh no! DUgosh Aug 2023 #15
I'm so sorry! Ocelot II Aug 2023 #16
I am so very sorry Siwsan. revmclaren Aug 2023 #18
I am so sorry Siwsan. Diamond_Dog Aug 2023 #19
I'm so sorry, it's such sad news wendyb-NC Aug 2023 #20
;-( elleng Aug 2023 #21
Oh, no, I am so sorry MacKasey Aug 2023 #22
My heart goes out to you. Beartracks Aug 2023 #23
Oh no! I'm so sorry you lost him. AllyCat Aug 2023 #24
He knew love and happiness with you that he wnylib Aug 2023 #25
I can't even. Ever so sorry. Was rooting for him every single day. Peace. ALBliberal Aug 2023 #26
So sorry godsentme Aug 2023 #27
He passed being so very loved. Bless you both. ALBliberal Aug 2023 #28
You gave him warmth (physical and emotional) and a belly full of food for a week. You were fierywoman Aug 2023 #29
That is so sad. Mr.Bill Aug 2023 #30
Oh dear! 2naSalit Aug 2023 #31
I am so sorry! Freddie Aug 2023 #32
😿 Deuxcents Aug 2023 #33
My sincerest condolences majdrfrtim Aug 2023 #34
So sorry Siwsan. c-rational Aug 2023 #35
Oh Siswan MN2theMax Aug 2023 #36
Sometimes our purpose is to make sure a little one has a loving departure... and that is such an Karadeniz Aug 2023 #37
I am so sorry, Siwsan. Be good to yourself. Tudor sensed how much you loved him debm55 Aug 2023 #38
I am heartbroken. I check in all during the day to see how Tiny Tudor is doing. Polly Hennessey Aug 2023 #39
I am heartsick to hear this InstantGratification Aug 2023 #40
OH NO! ☹ ShazzieB Aug 2023 #41
Aww sorry love PrincessMorgan Aug 2023 #42
Oh Siwsan. I am so sorry. MontanaMama Aug 2023 #43
I'm so sorry... I gasped on your post Ellipsis Aug 2023 #44
So sorry. Randomthought Aug 2023 #45
Oh, I'm so terribly sorry. stage left Aug 2023 #46
Oh no Siwsan.... I'm so sorry. I'm devastated for you. Thank you for letting him know onecaliberal Aug 2023 #47
I'm very sorry. Tudor was a cute little guy, and you gave him a great one week. PatrickforB Aug 2023 #48
My heart is breaking for you, Siwsan! herding cats Aug 2023 #49
How beautiful that you got to help WhiteTara Aug 2023 #50
I'm so sorry! Bayard Aug 2023 #51
Oh, so sorry to hear, Siwsan. calimary Aug 2023 #52
I'm so sorry, Siwsan. But you did everything you could for him, gave him love highplainsdem Aug 2023 #53
I am so, so sorry to hear this. You tried so hard to help him survive. judesedit Aug 2023 #54
I'm So Sorry Lemon Lyman Aug 2023 #55
So sorry for you and Tudor. Fla Dem Aug 2023 #56
I am so sad to read this. cilla4progress Aug 2023 #58
I'm sorry to hear it. Grumpy Old Guy Aug 2023 #59
Oh Wow Siwsan! 😥 SimplyHadEnough Aug 2023 #60
So very sad and sorry...you gave him so much love and care, bless you for that. Jack-o-Lantern Aug 2023 #61
So sorry Siwsan. ❤️ littlemissmartypants Aug 2023 #62
Humans raising a kitten from birth is difficult. I have done it successfully and other times lost appleannie1 Aug 2023 #63
You did the sweetest, most sincere thing you could... bluboid Aug 2023 #64
Awhhh..so so sorry! PortTack Aug 2023 #65
Peace and Strength to you at this sad time. We all love you and yours. LeftyLucie Aug 2023 #66
Sorry for the loss of your treasured friend Artcatt Aug 2023 #67
So so sorry. He knew he was loved. catrose Aug 2023 #68
Thank you for what you do Siswan. JustinBulletin Aug 2023 #69
Lady Bast, please take Your little Tudor gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace niyad Aug 2023 #70
I'm so sorry. nt Phoenix61 Aug 2023 #71
God bless you, Siwsan. You gave Tudor wonderful memories to take over the Rainbow Bridge. keopeli Aug 2023 #72
so sorry to hear this sad news. peacebuzzard Aug 2023 #73
So very sorry to hear this. Shipwack Aug 2023 #74
Hugs mercuryblues Aug 2023 #75
You open your heart to the fragile and most vulnerable, and that takes strength Donkees Aug 2023 #76
Thank you for bringing him to our lives... 2naSalit Aug 2023 #77
I am so very sorry. You gave that little soul so much contented life, however short. hlthe2b Aug 2023 #78
I am so sorry, Siwsan. brer cat Aug 2023 #79
I'm so so sorry Siwsan. You gave him the love he needed, and a loving place... Goddessartist Aug 2023 #80
I am sorry for your loss LetMyPeopleVote Aug 2023 #81
I'm so sorry, sister! Glamrock Aug 2023 #82
OMG, I am so sorry! Mad_Dem_X Aug 2023 #83
I am sorry for you, but you gave him comfort and love for the time that he had. TNNurse Aug 2023 #84
So sorry Siswan Picaro Aug 2023 #85
... orangecrush Aug 2023 #86
Oh no.. I'm so sorry. mountain grammy Aug 2023 #87
So very sorry for you. He was an adorable little kitten scarletlib Aug 2023 #88
broken hearts Aaeia Aug 2023 #89
So sorry Saoirse9 Aug 2023 #90
Oh no. My heart goes out to you. Bless you for caring for him. Raven123 Aug 2023 #91
So very sorry, Siwsan. gademocrat7 Aug 2023 #92
So sad to hear this Rebl2 Aug 2023 #93
condolences Jean Genie Aug 2023 #94
So sorry Jaye52 Aug 2023 #95
Oh Siwsan I am so sorry! You did all you could. CousinIT Aug 2023 #97
I'm so sorry for your broken heart. Death is never a welcome visitor. 1WorldHope Aug 2023 #98
So sorry Siwsan! kimbutgar Aug 2023 #99
Oh no, Siwsan! femmedem Aug 2023 #100
oh, sweet little kittie-boy... GoldenMezzoDiva Aug 2023 #101
A short life with meaning and love lostnfound Aug 2023 #102
So Sad cactuslady Aug 2023 #103
I'm so sorry! Thank you for loving him. GPV Aug 2023 #104
How is Dylan doing? Does he realize that Tudor is gone? nt avebury Aug 2023 #105
Damn BumRushDaShow Aug 2023 #106
So very sorry Jilly_in_VA Aug 2023 #107
Oh, I am sooo sorry... CaptainTruth Aug 2023 #108
Poor little guy Marthe48 Aug 2023 #109
Dear Siwsan, MorbidButterflyTat Aug 2023 #110
I am so so sorry Chicagogrl1 Aug 2023 #111
😢🕯️ blm Aug 2023 #112
I am so so sorry. You went above and beyond in taking care of him. irisblue Aug 2023 #114

Laffy Kat

(16,404 posts)
1. Oh, Siwsan, I'm so sorry!
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 10:37 PM
Aug 2023

What a shock. I don't know what to say, except he knew he was cared for and loved his entire life. You are an angel.

pazzyanne

(6,560 posts)
57. That was my thought also.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 12:09 AM
Aug 2023

I've lost an occasional kitten to "fading kitten" syndrome, a couple from my house cats and 4 more feral rescue kittens. My dear, Siwsan, as sad as these deaths are, nothing can be done about them. The term given to kittens dying between birth and when they’re weaned is “fading kittens.” Hypothermia Hypoglycemia (low blood sugar) and Dehydration are common causes, especially with feral kitties. You were doing the right things, but they don't always work. My heart goes out to you, but the final care you gave Tudor was all you could do in this case.

Safe crossing of the Rainbow Bridge, Baby Tudor. You were loved while you were here.

TexasTowelie

(112,999 posts)
4. Such sad news.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 10:40 PM
Aug 2023

At least he had the one week where he could play with the other kitties and also know that he was loved.

virgdem

(2,133 posts)
7. Oh no, this is devastating news. I'm so sorry to hear this.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 10:42 PM
Aug 2023

You did all you could for sweet little Tudor. Kittens are so fragile and sometimes they don't make it for a variety of reasons.
I know you are heart sick, but at least you made a mighty effort to save him. And that matters.
Please take care of yourself.

MLAA

(17,417 posts)
13. You gave him a wonderful week of care and love.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 10:48 PM
Aug 2023

I am thinking of you and sending hugs during this heartbreak.

Ocelot II

(116,157 posts)
16. I'm so sorry!
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 10:53 PM
Aug 2023

You did everything you could - but even if a vet had been available it wouldn't have made a difference for a fading kitten. Sadly, it just happens. You gave him love and comfort while you had him and that's everything.

revmclaren

(2,590 posts)
18. I am so very sorry Siwsan.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 10:54 PM
Aug 2023

You did everything you could and you were there at the end for him to give comfort.

wendyb-NC

(3,366 posts)
20. I'm so sorry, it's such sad news
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 10:57 PM
Aug 2023

I know you are beside yourself with heart break. Poor little fellow. You are right, you gave him every comfort, nutrition and fluids and love for the week. You are so kind and generous, a true advocate for the kittens that are born without homes.

Poor little guy, probably had a physical impairment that caused him to not thrive like his siblings. Take care of you, and your own cats.
You are a blessing to all of them. May little Tudor R.I.P.

wnylib

(21,925 posts)
25. He knew love and happiness with you that he
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:02 PM
Aug 2023

would not have had otherwise. We do what we can but some things are beyond our control.

Take care of yourself as you grieve, and cherish the other rescued ones that you have with you.



fierywoman

(7,713 posts)
29. You gave him warmth (physical and emotional) and a belly full of food for a week. You were
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:06 PM
Aug 2023

with him when he passed.

Mr.Bill

(24,431 posts)
30. That is so sad.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:07 PM
Aug 2023

You made us all feel as if he was our own. Thank you for bringing him into our lives. We all share the sadness along with many nice memories.

2naSalit

(87,195 posts)
31. Oh dear!
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:07 PM
Aug 2023

When you said he was lethargic this morning I had a bad feeling. I didn't want to say anything, I could have had that feeling for no reason.

I'm so sad, you had so much hope for him after all that you both had gone through.





Snuggle close to your other babies tonight. Maybe they knew too.

Freddie

(9,300 posts)
32. I am so sorry!
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:08 PM
Aug 2023

Got worried when you mentioned he was covered with fleas. I lost a kitten years ago to what the vet called flea anemia - a severe allergy to flea bites that an older cat can survive but not a young kitten. What a crushing loss! Give all your fur babies big hugs.

MN2theMax

(1,453 posts)
36. Oh Siswan
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:11 PM
Aug 2023

I am so sorry. You worked so hard trying to help that little guy thrive.
Know you must be heartbroken, and I’m right there with you.
Thank you for watching out for him. 💔

Karadeniz

(22,639 posts)
37. Sometimes our purpose is to make sure a little one has a loving departure... and that is such an
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:13 PM
Aug 2023

important role!! Tudor was SO fortunate to have you during his short time on earth. When you described his behavior this morning, I feared he was leaving us. I suspect he was born with failure of a vital organ. Years ago I had a little one who began screaming late at night. Since he was such a greedy guts, I made him a bottle. He emphatically refused it, which for him was an alarm. I whisked him up and raced to the emergency vet, a five minute drive, rubbing him in my lap. He was still alive when I handed him over, but they immediately told me he was gone. Based on what I don't know... they did draw some blood...
They thought his pancreas had failed. He was only a few weeks old, but I had his future mapped out, he was such a doll. Thank God I still had his brother to take care. I still had a purpose. Having your other little ones will be your biggest help. RIP Tudor... we all loved you!

debm55

(25,861 posts)
38. I am so sorry, Siwsan. Be good to yourself. Tudor sensed how much you loved him
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:19 PM
Aug 2023
May he always be in your heart.

Polly Hennessey

(6,836 posts)
39. I am heartbroken. I check in all during the day to see how Tiny Tudor is doing.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:21 PM
Aug 2023

My stomach feels sick. You and Tudor always made my day better. All of your kittens bring much happiness to all of us. Tudor, you weren’t here long but you made a difference.

Siwsan please know that we are all grieving with you. Remember, you also bring us much joy. Don’t stop the kitten stories we love 💕 them and you.

40. I am heartsick to hear this
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:24 PM
Aug 2023

I lurk on your threads because you are always positive and helping those who are ignored by most of our society. Let me say this LOUD AND PROUD to you. **YOU** gave him so much more in that short time than fate was going to give him. That extra week of love, of living, of just being a cat. The chance to sit in your lap or sleep on your shoulder. The chance to romp in your yard. The chance to play with siblings. The chance to be a CAT for awhile. But most of all, the chance to KNOW that he was so very **LOVED**. All those were things that he wouldn't have had without your love and doting attention. We all thank you and admire you for what you do and for sharing it so we can be a small part of it too. I don't think there is a soul on DU who would disagree that you are a SAINT.

THANK YOU from all of us!!!!!!!!

ShazzieB

(16,752 posts)
41. OH NO! ☹
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:25 PM
Aug 2023

I literally gasped when I saw the title of this o.p.! I am so, so, SO sorry to hear this heart-breaking news, and I can only imagine how terrible how you must feel. I hope you can somehow find a way to take some comfort in the knowledge of how much you did for him, how much love you gave him, and how how hard you worked to care for him and make his life the best it could be. He obviously formed a strong bond with you during the short time you had with him, and I am sure your presence gave him comfort at the end.

Tudor was a beautiful, delightful little boy, and I know it must be incredibly hard to lose him. I hope that the passage of time will bring you healing and that your memories of this dear little boy will always be close to your heart and eventually be a source of joy and not only one of sorrow to you. I also hope your kidcat family will be in a snuggly mood tonight and surround you with warmth and purrs to help cushion your grief.

Thank you for sharing him with us this past week.

😿💔😢

MontanaMama

(23,378 posts)
43. Oh Siwsan. I am so sorry.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:27 PM
Aug 2023

Thank you for giving that beautiful boy a wonderful life…as short as it was by our standards. You gave us joy via Tudor. You gave Tudor love, food, water and security. You gave him a gentle crossing. I wish I could hug you.

stage left

(2,970 posts)
46. Oh, I'm so terribly sorry.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:34 PM
Aug 2023

I feel like I knew that little mite and his brothers and sisters. You gave him a week of joy and for that you are blessed.

onecaliberal

(33,086 posts)
47. Oh no Siwsan.... I'm so sorry. I'm devastated for you. Thank you for letting him know
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:35 PM
Aug 2023

The tender loving care of a mother. 💔 damit.

herding cats

(19,569 posts)
49. My heart is breaking for you, Siwsan!
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:40 PM
Aug 2023

I know how hard you tried, how you let the little man in your heart, and how much you hoped for a better outcome.

I'm crying for and with you. I'm deeply sorry he didn't make it.

WhiteTara

(29,745 posts)
50. How beautiful that you got to help
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:42 PM
Aug 2023

little Tudor cross the rainbow bridge. It is such a privilege. I'm sorry for your pain. You gave him such love.

Bayard

(22,338 posts)
51. I'm so sorry!
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:44 PM
Aug 2023

He knew you were holding him, and he loved you even more for being there to comfort him.

calimary

(81,702 posts)
52. Oh, so sorry to hear, Siwsan.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:49 PM
Aug 2023

Thank you for sharing him with us even for such a short time. Such a sweet little thing. Sounds like his passing was quiet and peaceful, and you sure made him feel loved.

highplainsdem

(49,207 posts)
53. I'm so sorry, Siwsan. But you did everything you could for him, gave him love
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:50 PM
Aug 2023

and great care.

I believe he's playing happily at the Bridge now, healthy and watched over by your other loved ones, and you will see him again.

judesedit

(4,452 posts)
54. I am so, so sorry to hear this. You tried so hard to help him survive.
Sat Aug 26, 2023, 11:54 PM
Aug 2023

I am devastated, so I know you are absolutely crushed. He must have had some degenerative illness. Organs not functioning correctly, or something. You made him sooo happy while he was here. Keep remembering that. He's now jumping and playing on the Rainbow Bridge with all the lovely ones that went before him. Bless you for giving so much of yourself.

Lemon Lyman

(1,368 posts)
55. I'm So Sorry
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 12:08 AM
Aug 2023

I'm sorry Siwsan. I love your posts. Losing one of your fur babies is just awful. We're all thinking of you and your kitties.

Fla Dem

(23,990 posts)
56. So sorry for you and Tudor.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 12:09 AM
Aug 2023

You did all you could for him. He had love and caring in his short life thanks to your kind and caring heart.

SimplyHadEnough

(48 posts)
60. Oh Wow Siwsan! 😥
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 12:12 AM
Aug 2023

You have my deepest heartfelt condolences on the loss of your sweet kitten Tudor. I truly enjoyed your updates on his adventures and felled in love with him too. You did all that you could to help him. Know that we share your loss and will miss him too. Your not alone in your grief. Take care of yourself and hugged your other Kitties tight.

appleannie1

(5,086 posts)
63. Humans raising a kitten from birth is difficult. I have done it successfully and other times lost
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 12:23 AM
Aug 2023

them no matter what care I gave. Even feeding and keeping their bladders empty and bowels moving every two hours round the clock and laying them on warm water bottles with a cover over them does not always work. You did everything you could so don't blame yourself. Mother nature sometimes knows more than we do.

bluboid

(567 posts)
64. You did the sweetest, most sincere thing you could...
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 12:26 AM
Aug 2023

I'm so glad you were there for him...
Take care of you, knowing that you did everything you could.

JustinBulletin

(77 posts)
69. Thank you for what you do Siswan.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 12:52 AM
Aug 2023

You did everything you could do. Please take care of yourself. These losses always take such a toll even when we only know them such a short time. They are all so precious. And so are you for taking such good care of them.

niyad

(114,310 posts)
70. Lady Bast, please take Your little Tudor gently home in Your loving arms, and send peace
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 01:02 AM
Aug 2023

and comfort to our grieving Siwsan.

My heat is breaking for you, dear friend. You gave him a wonderful, even though so very brief, life full of love and caring, joy and comfort and play. He is going to come back, in a strong, healthy body some day.

We are all here for you.

Rest well, Tiny Tudor.

keopeli

(3,532 posts)
72. God bless you, Siwsan. You gave Tudor wonderful memories to take over the Rainbow Bridge.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 01:48 AM
Aug 2023

Your soul and Tudors soul will always be together along with all your blessed kitty family.

And may it be true for all of us.

peacebuzzard

(5,191 posts)
73. so sorry to hear this sad news.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 02:59 AM
Aug 2023

a sweet gentle life cut short...I am so grateful you shared his brief little story.

Shipwack

(2,195 posts)
74. So very sorry to hear this.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 04:28 AM
Aug 2023

My condolences, and I am glad you were there to make his short life as good as possible.

Donkees

(31,597 posts)
76. You open your heart to the fragile and most vulnerable, and that takes strength
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 05:31 AM
Aug 2023

Keep your heart open for the next fragile soul seeking refuge.

❤️

2naSalit

(87,195 posts)
77. Thank you for bringing him to our lives...
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 05:54 AM
Aug 2023

Even though we were only distant observers we were able to send love and concern. You gave him some joy and an easier passing than he would have had, he knew love and that is worth more than we can ever know. He was a happy kitty for what time he had and it was because of you and your compassion. Please try to find some comfort in that.

And there are all those others who also need you, give them some love for me today too. Remember, we're here with you.



hlthe2b

(102,681 posts)
78. I am so very sorry. You gave that little soul so much contented life, however short.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 06:37 AM
Aug 2023

You have yet another little guardian angel hovering over you and your efforts toward his extended family of kitties.

Goddessartist

(1,929 posts)
80. I'm so so sorry Siwsan. You gave him the love he needed, and a loving place...
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 07:00 AM
Aug 2023

You are a very special person. Fly high little Tudor, over that Rainbow Bridge...

Glamrock

(11,803 posts)
82. I'm so sorry, sister!
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 08:05 AM
Aug 2023

I too fell in love with him. I reached out to you to see if he needed a forever home. My deepest condolences.

scarletlib

(3,420 posts)
88. So very sorry for you. He was an adorable little kitten
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 09:30 AM
Aug 2023

You did your best. You loved him and cared for him. I am so sorry and sad for you.

Aaeia

(65 posts)
89. broken hearts
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 09:34 AM
Aug 2023

You are a most wonderful person loving and caring as you do. But, even then every now and then your heart gets broken. I know you'll just spread his love to all your other wee charges. Blessings on all your efforts.

Rebl2

(13,682 posts)
93. So sad to hear this
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 10:03 AM
Aug 2023

Know this. You did all you could for him and you gave him love and care. Thank you for sharing him with us. Take care of yourself. 🕊️

Jean Genie

(297 posts)
94. condolences
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 10:37 AM
Aug 2023

So Sorry. We all fell a bit in love with tiny Tudor. Know that you made his brief life a happier, better one than he might otherwise have had, had you not so lovingly cared for him.

May he always be a happy memory for you, and may he now frolic forever with the other kitty cat angels at the Rainbow Bridge.

Be good to yourself. You are the best cat mom ever!

Jaye52

(12 posts)
95. So sorry
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 11:15 AM
Aug 2023

Siwsan our hearts are with little Tudor as he makes his transition. We are here to grieve with you my dear.

As a long time lurker who never posts and mother of two foundling kittehs may I add another word or two of comfort?

How many people came out of lurkdom to send their love and condolences to you? Multiply that by 1000s who don’t post but wish they could. YOU are loved Siwsan. May that love, warmth and healing energy envelop you in the coming days.

CousinIT

(9,306 posts)
97. Oh Siwsan I am so sorry! You did all you could.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 11:26 AM
Aug 2023

You added comfort and joy to his short little life. Because of you, he knew love and warmth and comfort.

1WorldHope

(714 posts)
98. I'm so sorry for your broken heart. Death is never a welcome visitor.
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 11:50 AM
Aug 2023

You have so much love and support here on DU. What would you do without all these friends?. You also have a houseful of friends who have probably missed you and will be there to grieve and comfort you until the cows come home. Bless you sweet Siwsan. 🪷

lostnfound

(16,212 posts)
102. A short life with meaning and love
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 01:21 PM
Aug 2023

Is worth 165 recommends..
We are sending you a collective hug. Hope it helps.
A DU special.

cactuslady

(14 posts)
103. So Sad
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 01:42 PM
Aug 2023

You gave him care , love and happiness . I am so sorry for your loss . I think all of your admirers got attached to him too. I like to think of the rainbow bridge for comfort.

BumRushDaShow

(130,653 posts)
106. Damn
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 02:08 PM
Aug 2023

So sorry to have seen this. I have been getting to know your latest set of kittehs and have been fascinated how you come up with the names. That little one has gone over the rainbow now and is at peace, and the journey was a gentle one.

Jilly_in_VA

(10,064 posts)
107. So very sorry
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 02:53 PM
Aug 2023

It sounds like Fading Kitten Syndrome, perhaps also flea anemia. You did what you knew to do for him and kept him fed, warm, and most importantly, LOVED, for the last week of his short life. I'm sure he'll tell the others all about you on the other side of Rainbow Bridge.

CaptainTruth

(6,637 posts)
108. Oh, I am sooo sorry...
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 03:04 PM
Aug 2023

I hope you can find some comfort in knowing you did everything you could for him, & he knew he was loved.

Marthe48

(17,205 posts)
109. Poor little guy
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 04:15 PM
Aug 2023

You think his Mom knew something and I think you did too. Immediate bond and exceptional care of a poor little kitty.

MorbidButterflyTat

(1,918 posts)
110. Dear Siwsan,
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 06:39 PM
Aug 2023

I read your post last night, and have been thinking of you all day today.

You have a real gift. Not everyone could do what you have done for these sweet babies, even people with love and compassion in their hearts.

You are a gift, to the kittens and cats you save, and to a person like me, who appreciates and admires all you do, and that you choose to share your loving journey with us.

My warmest thoughts and deepest sympathy are with you.

Goddess bless.

Chicagogrl1

(425 posts)
111. I am so so sorry
Sun Aug 27, 2023, 07:59 PM
Aug 2023

You are a true cat heroine. Mother nature can be cruel. You did your best & that is all anyone can do. Sending you lots of hugs.

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