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On a Thursday night in December, well before the coronavirus pandemic had reached the United States, two to three hundred women were gathered at Sue Ellens, a remnant of Dallass once-bustling lesbian nightlife. As one regular put it, Chick Happy Hour is a roving monthly congregation of the citys lesbian socialites who gather the first week of every month, each time at a different bar. On this particular night, patrons passed from room to room in the two-story bar, flirting with one another as they made their way to the downstairs counter, sometimes ordering two drinks at a time. The place was so packed, someone could practically sober up before even making it back to their seat.
Dee Pennington, the creator of Chick Happy Hour, sat on a grandiose wooden armchair (which she calls her throne) on the Sue Ellens stage. Here, you can often find duos singing Indigo Girls covers, drag and burlesque performances, and karaoke. Pennington was celebrating her sixty-first birthday at the happy hour that night. After the bar collectively sang Pennington a happy birthday, she pulled a Barbie from her cake and licked the icing from the dolls legs. Pennington says she felt happyand yes, gaythat night surrounded by so many loved ones, including the bars owner, Kathy Jack. A few hours before, Jack had dusted off Penningtons throne and presented her with the cake and the accompanying toy inside.
A matriarch of the Metroplexs queer nightlife, Jack is a 62-year-old with a closely cropped silver fade. More than thirty years ago, she broke through in the Dallas queer nightlife scene as one of the citys first women to manage a bar. (There mightve been one before I came into the community, but not that I know of, she says.) Jacks presence and ability to take charge of a room are rivaled only by her capacity for making patrons feel welcome. She has the kindest brown eyes, says Kathy Corbin, whos been singing at the bar for two decades and, before that, dated Jack on and off. Theyll fill with water almost every time she makes a speech to the staff.
Except for a brief stint away from the bar in the mid-aughts, Jack has presided over Sue Ellens since it first opened in 1989. The venue sits among several queer bars lining what locals call the the Block along Cedar Springs Road in Oak Lawn, the citys gayborhood thats home to many LGBTQ bars. Sue Ellens remains indefinitely closed during the pandemic, though it briefly reopened last month. But Jack believes the bar will live on forever, and so do her regularsafter all, the bar has survived an epidemic before. Other lesbian bars have not been so lucky. Even before the pandemic closed countless small businesses around the nation, a 2018 report counted fewer than ten lesbian bars left in the country. Sue Ellens is Texass oldest, and is thought to be one of two left in the state (the other is Pearl Bar, in Houston).
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jimfields33
(15,793 posts)Thats astonishing.
TexasTowelie
(112,168 posts)is because the payment gap that has existed between males and females. While the gap has closed some within the past couple of decades it still exists and women have less disposable income than men.
Another factor is that LGBT bars have closed over the past couple of decades as "hook up" spots because people can meet over social media apps.
Liberal In Texas
(13,552 posts)but always thought was a cool welcoming place no matter gender or sexual preference.