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Aristus

(66,587 posts)
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 04:07 PM Nov 2023

Whew! Prepped for the first day of work tomorrow. Got everything done before noon.

Put my outfit together. Pressed some clean khakis. Starched and ironed a clean lab coat. Polished my best pair of clinic shoes. Even washed and hung to dry a bunch of my wife’s scrubs.

I won’t be pulling clinic for this first week or so. But it’s my first day at a new job in thirteen years. I want to make a good first impression.

I’m so grateful for the love and support from my fellow Loungers. You give me the strength of soul this line of work really requires.

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Whew! Prepped for the first day of work tomorrow. Got everything done before noon. (Original Post) Aristus Nov 2023 OP
You da man Aristus. a kennedy Nov 2023 #1
You sound so prepared! chillfactor Nov 2023 #2
Good Luck and Best Wishes Always. The clinic is lucky to have you!! Stuart G Nov 2023 #3
I'm happy for you. Good luck! lapucelle Nov 2023 #4
Just goes to show... 2naSalit Nov 2023 #5
Best wishes, Aristus. Take care of your health as well! KY_EnviroGuy Nov 2023 #6
Thanks for helping everyone, every way. erronis Nov 2023 #7
You aren't walking into that new job alone. MOMFUDSKI Nov 2023 #8
Onward and upward, Aristus. democrank Nov 2023 #9
"Strength of soul". I like that. Doing good work again. Nice. RussellCattle Nov 2023 #10
Your patients are so blessed to have you taking care of them. fierywoman Nov 2023 #11
I am so impressed that you can starch and iron! Bayard Nov 2023 #12
I'm a pretty casual dresser. Mr.Bill Nov 2023 #13
Thank you. Aristus Nov 2023 #14
You are a good man, Aristus. sheshe2 Nov 2023 #31
Hi, sheshe! Aristus Nov 2023 #34
Good luck, Aristus. debm55 Nov 2023 #15
Thank you, deb. Aristus Nov 2023 #16
Eyes and ears. Note pad for questions at the end of the day. cachukis Nov 2023 #17
How many years True Dough Nov 2023 #18
If 67 is the target age, then twelve years. Aristus Nov 2023 #22
A little over halfway there? True Dough Nov 2023 #23
Yeah. I started practicing medicine thirteen years ago at the age of forty-two. Aristus Nov 2023 #24
What was your previous profession, Aristus? True Dough Nov 2023 #25
Before Mrs. Aristus started studying dental hygiene, Aristus Nov 2023 #27
Seriously? You were both held up at gun point in your respective banks? True Dough Nov 2023 #30
I was lucky. I was robbed by a professional. Aristus Nov 2023 #32
That's some terrifying stuff! True Dough Nov 2023 #35
Like me with my homeless patients, Mrs. Aristus has her own favorite population. Aristus Nov 2023 #36
Well deserved rewards! True Dough Nov 2023 #38
Good luck, Aristus. RussellCattle Nov 2023 #19
Have a proper breakfast! Drum Nov 2023 #20
All the best on your new adventure!! Fla Dem Nov 2023 #21
Congratulations on the new job. It's always nice to feel you're prepared, and will look your best. rsdsharp Nov 2023 #26
Ex-military? Aristus Nov 2023 #28
No. I'm a retired attorney. But both my parents and my older brother served. rsdsharp Nov 2023 #33
You got this! MLAA Nov 2023 #29
For the work you do Marthe48 Nov 2023 #37
So excited for you and proud to know you. littlemissmartypants Nov 2023 #39

erronis

(15,532 posts)
7. Thanks for helping everyone, every way.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 04:44 PM
Nov 2023

One of my wonderful close relatives is a doctor in NYC helping the homeless. They had been spared for several years from Covid but is now dealing with long/very long Covid.

I admire everyone doing these necessary tasks.

Hope you have good cushioning shoes! (That's my personal major concern.)

MOMFUDSKI

(5,882 posts)
8. You aren't walking into that new job alone.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 04:53 PM
Nov 2023

You have the entire DU crew right there with you. Have a great first day!

Mr.Bill

(24,406 posts)
13. I'm a pretty casual dresser.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 05:23 PM
Nov 2023

I've rarely had a job with public contact, so I could wear Levis and Tshirts. But I somehow feel a little more comfortable when a professional is dressed for the part. My stepdaughter is an Assistant Director at a hospital, and aside from being drop-dead gorgeous, she spends a fortune on clothes. I think she dropped about $400 on the outfit she wore to her first interview.

We have a hospital in a city near here that has formal portraits of all their CEOs going back to the day they were founded. All very well dressed distinguished looking people. Except for the current clown that wore a Hawaiian shirt to his portrait sitting. (he's not Hawaiian) Very unprofessional, if you ask me.

Best of luck to you tomorrow.

Aristus

(66,587 posts)
14. Thank you.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 05:47 PM
Nov 2023

My mentor, the PA who trained me, practices medicine in cargo pants and an old sweater. He’s a brilliant clinician.

But I’ve always preferred to wear a shirt and tie for clinic, to show my respect for my patients. That was reinforced early in my clinical career by an amusing incident.

My first assignment was at the first primary care clinic in town to offer care exclusively to the homeless population. Prior to the opening of the clinic, my patients could usually only get primary care at a clinic that operated for around two hours, one day a week, in the basement of a church somewhere. The providers were volunteers, although I suspect that at least a few of them had been ‘voluntold’ by their superiors, and resented having to care for homeless patients.

That was the impression I got, anyway. In the absence of any regular primary care, most homeless people have to go to the emergency room for primary care issues, which they aren’t set up to do.

Whenever I have a new patient, I close the visit by offering them my card, and encouraging them to come in any time they had a primary care concern. One day, the manager of the facility hosting the clinic came back to my office chuckling a little, and told me she had found a new patient wandering around in confusion and holding my card. She asked him what the problem was, and he pointed to my card and asked: “Is he going to be my doctor now”. (I’m actually a Physician Assistant). She replied “If you want him to be, yes.”

He got even more confused, and she asked him why. “He’s……he’s……HE’S WEARING A NICE SHIRT AND TIE!” She didn’t have to explain. I understood instantly that what he meant was I wasn’t like all those reluctant providers pressed into service for homeless health care, and were waiting for their turn in the barrel to be over. I wanted to be there and I wanted to be their very own medical provider.

She and I had a nice laugh over that. But I’ve never forgotten that dressing professionally and respectfully earned this guy’s trust. I hope it made him feel like he deserved to have his own provider, just like everyone who isn’t homeless.

Aristus

(66,587 posts)
24. Yeah. I started practicing medicine thirteen years ago at the age of forty-two.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 08:26 PM
Nov 2023

Twelve years to go.

True Dough

(17,433 posts)
25. What was your previous profession, Aristus?
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 08:33 PM
Nov 2023

Good on you for having the determination to make the career change, particularly to one that is so much in demand and does a world of good.

Aristus

(66,587 posts)
27. Before Mrs. Aristus started studying dental hygiene,
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 09:12 PM
Nov 2023

and I started studying clinical medicine, we both worked in banks. I worked as a teller, teller trainer, and a loan officer. And before that, we both worked in the retail gulag.

We both got tired of people sticking guns in our faces and demanded money. So Mrs. Aristus started looking around for a career that paid well, but didn’t come with such hazards. She decided on dental hygiene, but didn’t have any college credits.

I worked a job I hated for four years while she went to school. When she graduated and started making good money, she told me to go do what I wanted. I worked as a Medical Assistant for five years to earn the clinical hours that would qualify me for PA School.

And the rest is history.

True Dough

(17,433 posts)
30. Seriously? You were both held up at gun point in your respective banks?
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 09:27 PM
Nov 2023

I can't blame you for bailing out on that!

Aristus

(66,587 posts)
32. I was lucky. I was robbed by a professional.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 09:49 PM
Nov 2023

He rushed in, flashed his gun and said no one would get hurt if we gave him the cash in the drawers. Most terrifying five or so minutes of my life. I was more scared then than during the entire time I was in the Gulf in 1991.

Mrs. Aristus wasn’t so lucky. She was robbed three times at gunpoint, the last time, it was by three scared kids with guns. They didn’t know what they were doing, they didn’t know what to do, and they were nervously pointing guns everywhere. She had to assure them that no one had alerted the cops, and to walk them through the process. She stayed calm and told them the staff would do exactly what they wanted. She got them out of there, and no one got hurt.

That was one week after I proposed to her.

Since becoming a PA, I’ve had a patient pull a knife on me just once. But other than that, the stresses of clinical medicine aren’t life threatening.

True Dough

(17,433 posts)
35. That's some terrifying stuff!
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 10:25 PM
Nov 2023

Particularly for Mrs. Aristus! Glad you both got out of those hair-raising incidents safely.

Hopefully it's smooth sailing until retirement for you both!

Aristus

(66,587 posts)
36. Like me with my homeless patients, Mrs. Aristus has her own favorite population.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 11:02 PM
Nov 2023

The developmentally disabled. She has a number of DD patients whom she absolutely adores. One of them died earlier this year at only forty-six, and she was inconsolable for days. They love and trust her in return.

We have both been fortunate enough to draw priceless emotional rewards from our jobs.

True Dough

(17,433 posts)
38. Well deserved rewards!
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 11:16 PM
Nov 2023

I'm sure if we could hear from those patients, they would sing your praises and Mrs. Aristus would get accolades as well.

rsdsharp

(9,267 posts)
26. Congratulations on the new job. It's always nice to feel you're prepared, and will look your best.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 08:56 PM
Nov 2023

I’m retired, and rarely have occasion to wear dress shoes anymore. However, I find polishing shoes relaxing, so recently I mirror shined a couple of pairs of cap toes. They are likely to sit on a shelf for quite awhile, but they will look good doing it.

Aristus

(66,587 posts)
28. Ex-military?
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 09:17 PM
Nov 2023

I’m ex-Army. I hated polishing boots while I was in, but now there’s something kind of soothing about shining my dress shoes. I must have about thirty pairs.

When I was in PA School, we would have to dress up every once in a while for special functions. You could always tell which of the guys were veterans, because we were the only ones who shined our shoes.

rsdsharp

(9,267 posts)
33. No. I'm a retired attorney. But both my parents and my older brother served.
Sun Nov 12, 2023, 09:53 PM
Nov 2023

I got the basics watching my brother polish his low quarters when he was getting ready to go back after a leave.

I’ve found Saphir products make it a lot easier than using Kiwi.

littlemissmartypants

(22,980 posts)
39. So excited for you and proud to know you.
Mon Nov 13, 2023, 02:02 AM
Nov 2023

It's a noble thing to devote your life to helping others. I know you'll be great! Enjoy the day!



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