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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsWhew! Prepped for the first day of work tomorrow. Got everything done before noon.
Put my outfit together. Pressed some clean khakis. Starched and ironed a clean lab coat. Polished my best pair of clinic shoes. Even washed and hung to dry a bunch of my wifes scrubs.
I wont be pulling clinic for this first week or so. But its my first day at a new job in thirteen years. I want to make a good first impression.
Im so grateful for the love and support from my fellow Loungers. You give me the strength of soul this line of work really requires.
a kennedy
(29,841 posts)chillfactor
(7,599 posts)I am thrilled you are going on a new journey! Best of luck to you!
Stuart G
(38,477 posts)lapucelle
(18,423 posts)2naSalit
(87,122 posts)That you do your homework!
KY_EnviroGuy
(14,510 posts)erronis
(15,532 posts)One of my wonderful close relatives is a doctor in NYC helping the homeless. They had been spared for several years from Covid but is now dealing with long/very long Covid.
I admire everyone doing these necessary tasks.
Hope you have good cushioning shoes! (That's my personal major concern.)
MOMFUDSKI
(5,882 posts)You have the entire DU crew right there with you. Have a great first day!
democrank
(11,117 posts)Best of luck tomorrow.
RussellCattle
(1,541 posts)fierywoman
(7,711 posts)Bayard
(22,303 posts)Hope the new job goes well.
Mr.Bill
(24,406 posts)I've rarely had a job with public contact, so I could wear Levis and Tshirts. But I somehow feel a little more comfortable when a professional is dressed for the part. My stepdaughter is an Assistant Director at a hospital, and aside from being drop-dead gorgeous, she spends a fortune on clothes. I think she dropped about $400 on the outfit she wore to her first interview.
We have a hospital in a city near here that has formal portraits of all their CEOs going back to the day they were founded. All very well dressed distinguished looking people. Except for the current clown that wore a Hawaiian shirt to his portrait sitting. (he's not Hawaiian) Very unprofessional, if you ask me.
Best of luck to you tomorrow.
Aristus
(66,587 posts)My mentor, the PA who trained me, practices medicine in cargo pants and an old sweater. Hes a brilliant clinician.
But Ive always preferred to wear a shirt and tie for clinic, to show my respect for my patients. That was reinforced early in my clinical career by an amusing incident.
My first assignment was at the first primary care clinic in town to offer care exclusively to the homeless population. Prior to the opening of the clinic, my patients could usually only get primary care at a clinic that operated for around two hours, one day a week, in the basement of a church somewhere. The providers were volunteers, although I suspect that at least a few of them had been voluntold by their superiors, and resented having to care for homeless patients.
That was the impression I got, anyway. In the absence of any regular primary care, most homeless people have to go to the emergency room for primary care issues, which they arent set up to do.
Whenever I have a new patient, I close the visit by offering them my card, and encouraging them to come in any time they had a primary care concern. One day, the manager of the facility hosting the clinic came back to my office chuckling a little, and told me she had found a new patient wandering around in confusion and holding my card. She asked him what the problem was, and he pointed to my card and asked: Is he going to be my doctor now. (Im actually a Physician Assistant). She replied If you want him to be, yes.
He got even more confused, and she asked him why. Hes
hes
HES WEARING A NICE SHIRT AND TIE! She didnt have to explain. I understood instantly that what he meant was I wasnt like all those reluctant providers pressed into service for homeless health care, and were waiting for their turn in the barrel to be over. I wanted to be there and I wanted to be their very own medical provider.
She and I had a nice laugh over that. But Ive never forgotten that dressing professionally and respectfully earned this guys trust. I hope it made him feel like he deserved to have his own provider, just like everyone who isnt homeless.
sheshe2
(84,171 posts)💙
Aristus
(66,587 posts)debm55
(25,800 posts)Aristus
(66,587 posts)cachukis
(2,302 posts)True Dough
(17,433 posts)until retirement, do you figure?
Best of luck tomorrow!
Aristus
(66,587 posts)A little over halfway there.
True Dough
(17,433 posts)Reminds me of this hit from our youth...
Aristus
(66,587 posts)Twelve years to go.
True Dough
(17,433 posts)Good on you for having the determination to make the career change, particularly to one that is so much in demand and does a world of good.
Aristus
(66,587 posts)and I started studying clinical medicine, we both worked in banks. I worked as a teller, teller trainer, and a loan officer. And before that, we both worked in the retail gulag.
We both got tired of people sticking guns in our faces and demanded money. So Mrs. Aristus started looking around for a career that paid well, but didnt come with such hazards. She decided on dental hygiene, but didnt have any college credits.
I worked a job I hated for four years while she went to school. When she graduated and started making good money, she told me to go do what I wanted. I worked as a Medical Assistant for five years to earn the clinical hours that would qualify me for PA School.
And the rest is history.
True Dough
(17,433 posts)I can't blame you for bailing out on that!
Aristus
(66,587 posts)He rushed in, flashed his gun and said no one would get hurt if we gave him the cash in the drawers. Most terrifying five or so minutes of my life. I was more scared then than during the entire time I was in the Gulf in 1991.
Mrs. Aristus wasnt so lucky. She was robbed three times at gunpoint, the last time, it was by three scared kids with guns. They didnt know what they were doing, they didnt know what to do, and they were nervously pointing guns everywhere. She had to assure them that no one had alerted the cops, and to walk them through the process. She stayed calm and told them the staff would do exactly what they wanted. She got them out of there, and no one got hurt.
That was one week after I proposed to her.
Since becoming a PA, Ive had a patient pull a knife on me just once. But other than that, the stresses of clinical medicine arent life threatening.
True Dough
(17,433 posts)Particularly for Mrs. Aristus! Glad you both got out of those hair-raising incidents safely.
Hopefully it's smooth sailing until retirement for you both!
Aristus
(66,587 posts)The developmentally disabled. She has a number of DD patients whom she absolutely adores. One of them died earlier this year at only forty-six, and she was inconsolable for days. They love and trust her in return.
We have both been fortunate enough to draw priceless emotional rewards from our jobs.
True Dough
(17,433 posts)I'm sure if we could hear from those patients, they would sing your praises and Mrs. Aristus would get accolades as well.
RussellCattle
(1,541 posts)Drum
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Fla Dem
(23,960 posts)rsdsharp
(9,267 posts)Im retired, and rarely have occasion to wear dress shoes anymore. However, I find polishing shoes relaxing, so recently I mirror shined a couple of pairs of cap toes. They are likely to sit on a shelf for quite awhile, but they will look good doing it.
Aristus
(66,587 posts)Im ex-Army. I hated polishing boots while I was in, but now theres something kind of soothing about shining my dress shoes. I must have about thirty pairs.
When I was in PA School, we would have to dress up every once in a while for special functions. You could always tell which of the guys were veterans, because we were the only ones who shined our shoes.
rsdsharp
(9,267 posts)I got the basics watching my brother polish his low quarters when he was getting ready to go back after a leave.
Ive found Saphir products make it a lot easier than using Kiwi.
MLAA
(17,387 posts)How exciting, a new and better chapter in your book.
You are ready to rock!
Marthe48
(17,189 posts)you deserve all good things
littlemissmartypants
(22,980 posts)It's a noble thing to devote your life to helping others. I know you'll be great! Enjoy the day!
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