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Related: Culture Forums, Support ForumsSo my mom has Covid
I am assuming she does. Her husband went to the VA days ago and he definitely has it. He may or may not still be in the hospital. She truly has no clue.
Shes weak, has been for about 8 days now. He has the same symptoms. No coughing for her, just fatigue.
I cannot convince her to go to the hospital. Some public health folks (maybe from the hospital?) showed up a few days ago and checked on her to see if she was ok. Im a bit surprised to hear that but I assume its because her husband was in the hospital with covid.
Shes just not into medicine. Or vaccines. Yes, she is unvaccinated. Since shes in her early 80s, I fully appreciate what that means.
I live several hours away. I cant just drive down the street and drag her unwillingly to the hospital.
luckone
(21,646 posts)MLAA
(17,360 posts)I appreciate it
hlthe2b
(102,494 posts)if you don't trust what you are hearing on the phone... Best wishes.
Ill keep them in mind.
viva la
(3,358 posts)They're actually supposed to be administered early, before hospitalization. Any chance that a doctor can get her to take that?
MissB
(15,813 posts)and eat foods that she thinks will boost immunity. She wont go to the hospital or seek what Id consider standard health care.
viva la
(3,358 posts)It's just sad that she's making you worry about her. I wish she'd care more about that.
malaise
(269,256 posts)Lasher
(27,661 posts)Rapid antigen tests detect active COVID-19 infections and provide results in minutes. I think that would be a good first step if she won't go to a doctor for that.
https://www.cvs.com/shop/home-health-care/home-tests/home-covid-test
MissB
(15,813 posts)Im going a family member that lives closer will be willing to help with that, but I doubt shell go for it. She thinks its food poisoning.
luckone
(21,646 posts)because before the swab is inserted some chemical of 6-8;drops has been placed in to the sleeve to react with the cotton swab being inserted . If she is against cotton swabs after that explanation not much can be done
Someone could get Amazon Walmart or target to deliver it if she agrees and is too sick
Corgigal
(9,291 posts)Im sorry. So much stress, Im sorry.