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eridani

(51,907 posts)
Wed May 21, 2014, 05:13 AM May 2014

A Kid Stands Up To Literally Everyone In His Class


http://www.upworthy.com/a-kid-stands-up-to-literally-everyone-in-his-class?c=upw1

I’ve had a lot of heroic moments where I face a bully and give them a piece of my mind. Unfortunately, they’re all in my head. Watch this kid do a very brave, very rare thing: stand up for himself.



Jake is now a junior in high school, and unsurprisingly, he’s doing great. Here’s an update directly from him:

"Bullying has had a big impact on my life, but since the movie I’ve made a lot of friends. Recently, I have joined my high school football team! At first I thought they would all be complete jerks, but actually they are pretty cool guys and have helped me through a lot of situations — they stand up for me!

"For other kids with autism, if you're getting bullied, try and tell them to stop and not give a reaction — if that doesn’t work, go to an adult. It might seem hard cause we can’t handle stress as well as other kids, but you will get through it and you’ll be awesome — actually you already are!

"Bullying does not make you cool — you might think you are on the top of the food chain — but you’re not going to be there forever."
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A Kid Stands Up To Literally Everyone In His Class (Original Post) eridani May 2014 OP
Big DU Rec there, Jake... MrMickeysMom May 2014 #1
"I see you guys laughing over there..." ret5hd May 2014 #2
He's making his own bully free zone marshall May 2014 #3
Jake is indeed brave. I'm very interested in how this direct approach (head on) works for him. drynberg May 2014 #4
K&R. JDPriestly May 2014 #5
Most "bullies" are extremely insecure. You teach kids to be secure by listening to them and McCamy Taylor May 2014 #6

ret5hd

(20,491 posts)
2. "I see you guys laughing over there..."
Wed May 21, 2014, 07:59 AM
May 2014

Damn, what a brave kid...looked at them directly and called them out.

marshall

(6,665 posts)
3. He's making his own bully free zone
Wed May 21, 2014, 08:14 AM
May 2014

Hopefully he will inspire others to find their inner strength.

drynberg

(1,648 posts)
4. Jake is indeed brave. I'm very interested in how this direct approach (head on) works for him.
Wed May 21, 2014, 09:06 AM
May 2014

So, please post any follow-ups to this video.
Thanks.

JDPriestly

(57,936 posts)
5. K&R.
Wed May 21, 2014, 12:17 PM
May 2014

Parents, teach your kids that all children are "different." Each of us is unique.

The child who accepts others as they are will more easily accept himself as he is. And being able to accept yourself is one of the keys to a good life.

McCamy Taylor

(19,240 posts)
6. Most "bullies" are extremely insecure. You teach kids to be secure by listening to them and
Wed May 21, 2014, 01:59 PM
May 2014

validating their opinions and emotions. You do not teach them to be secure (and not to bully) by bullying them. Therefore, if you want to raise your child to NOT be a bully, let your child cry, get mad, express an opinion, ask questions, question authority.He will do the same for others.

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