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Lesbian Sues U.S. Army and Air Force Over Boss' Demand She Grow Her Hair and Wear Makeup
For nearly 14 years, Tech. Sgt. Kristin M. Kingrey has served her country as a member of the West Virginia Air National Guard. Now Kingrey, a 37-year-old lesbian, is suing the Army and Air Force, claiming a senior male leader said she should grow her hair, wear makeup, and ultimately appear more feminine, or prepare to face the negative professional consequences.
Kingrey told The Daily Beast that after the remarks were made a job she had successfully applied for was suddenly withdrawn, and the Guard also refused to hire her for a position she was qualified for, despite her satisfactory performance as a federal employee, as her lawsuit, filed in a federal court, states.
When the comment was allegedly made, it was not the first time. From 2016 to 2018, I was constantly being pulled into my seniors offices being told my hair was out of regs (non-regulation), Kingrey told The Daily Beast. It crossed a line into harassment, and I carried on my person a copy of our regulations in regards to female hair length because I was not breaking any rules.
Kingrey, from Charleston, West Virginia, believes that sexism and homophobia are key parts of her caseshe was singled out as a woman, and a lesbian woman specifically. Hers comports to a stereotypical lesbian appearance, she says, and her boss wanted her appearance to be more conventionally feminine.
https://www.thedailybeast.com/lesbian-sues-us-army-and-air-force-over-bosss-demand-she-grow-her-hair-and-wear-makeup
Kingrey told The Daily Beast that after the remarks were made a job she had successfully applied for was suddenly withdrawn, and the Guard also refused to hire her for a position she was qualified for, despite her satisfactory performance as a federal employee, as her lawsuit, filed in a federal court, states.
When the comment was allegedly made, it was not the first time. From 2016 to 2018, I was constantly being pulled into my seniors offices being told my hair was out of regs (non-regulation), Kingrey told The Daily Beast. It crossed a line into harassment, and I carried on my person a copy of our regulations in regards to female hair length because I was not breaking any rules.
Kingrey, from Charleston, West Virginia, believes that sexism and homophobia are key parts of her caseshe was singled out as a woman, and a lesbian woman specifically. Hers comports to a stereotypical lesbian appearance, she says, and her boss wanted her appearance to be more conventionally feminine.
https://www.thedailybeast.com/lesbian-sues-us-army-and-air-force-over-bosss-demand-she-grow-her-hair-and-wear-makeup
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Lesbian Sues U.S. Army and Air Force Over Boss' Demand She Grow Her Hair and Wear Makeup (Original Post)
demmiblue
Jan 2022
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TexLaProgressive
(12,158 posts)1. Looking at her picture, I don't see a problem.
Her haircut doesnt meet the male regulations, but certainly the female regulations. I hope TSGT Kingrey prevails in her suit.
AFI 36-2903, DRESS AND PERSONAL APPEARANCE OF AIR FORCE PERSONNEL
3.1.3. Hair-Female. No minimum hair length, to a maximum bulk of 4 inches from scalp and allows proper wear of headgear. Hair will end above the bottom edge of collar and will not extend below an invisible line drawn parallel to the ground, both front to back and side to side unless worn in authorized ponytail or long braid(s). One or two braids or a single ponytail may be worn down the members back with bulk not exceeding the width of the head and length not extending below a horizontal line running between the top of each sleeve inseam at the under arm through the shoulder blades. The braid(s) or ponytail cannot be worn over the shoulder or pulled in front of the body. It must go down the members back. Bangs, or side-swiped hair, may touch eyebrows but will not touch or cover eyes. When in doubt, assess correct length of hair with Airman standing in the position of attention. Exception: While wearing the Physical Training Gear (PTG), long hair will be secured but may have loose ends and may extend below a horizontal line running
https://foreverwingman.com/air-force-regulation-on-hair-faqs/
cbabe
(3,549 posts)2. It's not about the hair, it's about the hate.