New York Police Sergeant Commits Suicide After Sex-Crime Charges
Source: New York Times
A New York police sergeant who was arrested this month on charges that he had sex with an underage girl he met online committed suicide on Thursday, the police said.
The sergeant, Joel Doseau, 43, who was suspended after his arrest, killed himself at his home in Canarsie, Brooklyn, a police official said. Earlier, the official had said he died at a home of a relative.
A family member went to the sergeants home after he had not been heard from for a few days and discovered his body. The official said the sergeant had inhaled gas fumes and appeared to have died from asphyxiation.
Sergeant Doseau was arrested on Aug. 5 and arraigned in State Supreme Court in Brooklyn on 40 criminal counts, including rape and sexual abuse. He had worked for the Police Department for 12 years at the time of his arrest.
Read more: http://www.nytimes.com/2015/08/21/nyregion/new-york-police-sergeant-commits-suicide-after-sex-crime-charges.html
mahatmakanejeeves
(57,427 posts)Last edited Fri Aug 21, 2015, 10:12 AM - Edit history (2)
Before we get the inevitable post saying that "he did everyone a favor," I'm going to reprint this information. It's time, too, because I haven't posted the links to suicide prevention hotlines since April.
From the College of William & Mary:
According to national resources such as the Jed Foundation and the American Foundation for Suicide Prevention (AFSP), one in ten college students has at one time considered suicide, and suicide is the third leading cause of death nationally among those 15-24 years of age. Almost all who die by suicide are suffering from an emotional disorder, most commonly depression. As the AFSP notes, "90% of all people who die by suicide have a diagnosable psychiatric disorder at the time of their death." Therefore, identifying and treating these illnesses is especially important; someone with an untreated emotional disorder may be more likely to attempt suicide in the wake of stressful life events.
Recognizing Warning Signs
The most effective way to help in preventing suicide is to recognize warning signs, take those signs seriously, and respond appropriately. Fortunately, people who are suicidal CAN be helped with the proper treatment. Common warning signs of suicide include:
Hopelessness
Rage, uncontrolled anger or seeking revenge
Acting recklessly or engaging in risky activities, seemingly without thinking
Feeling trapped, like there is no way out
Increased alcohol or drug use
Withdrawing from friends, family, and society
Anxiety, agitation, inability to sleep or sleeping all the time
Dramatic mood changes
Expressing no reason for living or no purpose in life
Inability to see the future without pain
Inability to make decisions or think clearly
Decision to stop taking prescribed medication for depression or other psychological disorder
Recurrent thoughts of death or suicide
How To Respond if You are Concerned About Someone
DO Listen and offer support in a non-judgmental way
DO Help the person explore feelings
DO Widen options and explore alternatives for problem solving
DO Ask direct questions about the person's intentions; ask if the person is considering suicide
DO Communicate your concern for the person's well being
DO Recommend that the person contact a mental health professional
DO Call a professional yourself and offer to accompany the person to an initial appointment
DO Call the police if you believe the risk of suicide is immediate
DON'T say "everything will be alright"
DON'T dare the person to "do it"
DON'T tell the person about someone who "has it worse"
DON'T promise secrecy to the suicidal person
DON'T leave the person alone if you believe the risk of suicide is imminent
From June 2014: Need help? In the U.S. or Canada, call 1-800-273-8255
National Suicide Prevention Lifeline
Ayuda en Español
¿Qué pasa cuando llamo?
Cuando usted llama al número 1-888-628-9454, su llamada se dirige al centro de ayuda de nuestra red disponible más cercano. Tenemos actualmente 150 centros en la red y usted hablará probablemente con uno situado en su zona. Cada centro funciona en forma independiente y tiene su propio personal calificado.
Veterans Crisis Line
Young Adults
ETA this comment to the article at Gawker:
Mississippi Tea Party Leader Commits Suicide After Conspiracy Arrest
Yesterday 12:18pm
Before anyone jokes about this guy's suicide, I should say that whenever someone with a mental illness (hi!) reads about a suicide, there's a certain amount of fear the thought process is sort of like, "Well I always tell myself I wouldn't do it, but clearly some people do, so what's saying that won't change?"
No question he did something awful, no question his political beliefs are unreasonable. But suicide is a horror.
Suicide prevention hotline: 1-800-273-8255
And, yes, I do find this scary.
April really is the cruelest month (if I am not mistaken):
The Season of Renewal and Suicide
Why are people more likely to kill themselves in springtime than during the holidays?
By Brian Palmer
The suicide rate does not peak during the holidays, and the media should stop saying it does, according to a report released Tuesday by the Annenberg Public Policy Center. In fact, the suicide rate is highest in spring and summer. The holiday suicide-spike myth persists because it has a convenient narrative: Lonely people become despondent around Christmastime. So why do people kill themselves in the spring?
Possibly because they interact more. Doctors first observed in the 1820s that suicide rates spike during late spring. Researchers have since postulated and tested all sorts of explanations for the global phenomenon, making this one of the most studied questions in psychiatry. Theres still no consensus, but evidence suggests it has to do with so-called sociodemographic factors. During the winter, many people go into semihibernation: They work less, see fewer people, and are exposed to less frustration and conflict. That all changes in the spring, when increased interaction with others and the stress of work may trigger suicidal thoughts. The theory is based on a couple of observations. First, the spring suicide peak is more pronounced among people employed on farms or in factories who experience greater seasonal variation in the intensity of work and social interactions. In addition, developing countries with a higher proportion of agricultural workers see more seasonal change in the suicide rate than do developed countries. The magnitude of seasonal changes in the suicide rate is more than 10 times higher in Uruguay, for example, than in Belgium. Researchers have also detected a smoothing out of the seasonal variation in suicides in recent decades as more people move from farm to office. (There are smaller peaks in other parts of the year. Cubicle workers are more likely to commit suicide in the fall than in the spring, as are mothers who send their children off to school in September.)
In Britain: Male suicide rates: 'My father left and took his own life'
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Are you affected by this?
Samaritans provides emotional support, 24 hours a day for people who are experiencing feelings of distress or thoughts of suicide
Its number is 08457 90 90 90
Rethink Mental Illness has more than 200 mental health services and 150 support groups across England.
Its number is 0300 5000 927
List of suicide crisis lines
yeoman6987
(14,449 posts)Suicide is something that does not descriminate and happens in any situation of economics, ethnic, cultures anyone. I had an aunt who committed suicide at 44 in 1995. Horrible thing.
NuclearDem
(16,184 posts)Suicide is not something to take lightly.
Demit
(11,238 posts)The unnecessary snottiness about what you think people will inevitably say is not. Why be belligerent when your purpose is to be helpful?
7962
(11,841 posts)The guy was a coward who preyed on children, so no sympathy here.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)candelista
(1,986 posts)Although having to do a bit for statutory rape does not seem to me to be a price worse than death. But that's how it seemed to him at the time.
7962
(11,841 posts)Children are defenseless.
But I do think theres a big difference between someone killing themselves for seemingly no reason and doing it because you know you're going to go to jail. The former likely has some mental issues. The latter is trying to avoid punishment
candelista
(1,986 posts)Please explain.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)Cheers.
candelista
(1,986 posts)Just saying.
closeupready
(29,503 posts)I guess he's saying that since it's likely he knew what he was doing was wrong and that he'd be punished severely, meaning his life is basically over, he chose to end his life now rather than 'man up'.
Nonetheless, I've seen people compare suicide to cowardice in all kinds of different situations, and I find it offensive. I actually worked on a suicide hotline many years ago, so perhaps I'm 'over'-sensitized to the comparison.
Wernothelpless
(410 posts)Had a distant family member who had been a sex criminal all his life, when he finally was really really caught, and going to do 50 years in prison he committed suicide ... but ONLY because he was going to jail ...
Games over, the jig is up, and so they kill themselves ... you can call it cowardice or not but going to jail wasn't in their fantasy
candelista
(1,986 posts)Is it only "cowardly" to avoid punishment if you're a sex criminal?
7962
(11,841 posts)for all kinds of crimes. Killers, rapists, scammers, etc. They're refusing to be held accountable for their actions
Didnt your parents teach you about taking responsibility for your actions when you were growing up? Or did they say "Do whatever it takes to avoid being punished for doing something wrong"?
candelista
(1,986 posts)I don't think "cowardly" is the right word. Are people who break out of prison "cowards"? Bad guys, yes. Dangerous guys, yes. But "cowards"? That seems queer to me. Especially when they may take great risks to escape and avoid their punishment.
This is what people call a semantic question, but it's interesting, isn't it?
closeupready
(29,503 posts)Thx.
Demit
(11,238 posts)Kaleva
(36,298 posts)OP said "Before we get the inevitable post saying..," which is singular.
eggplant
(3,911 posts)CBGLuthier
(12,723 posts)Even if this man was a lowly piece of shit I imagine his loved ones would rather he had faced up to his misdeeds and still were alive. I think Hitler was the last asshole to blow his brains out that no one and I mean no one should give a shit about.
Wernothelpless
(410 posts)Anyone who has had a predator in their family (speaking for my own personal history) is relieved when they're gone so they won't be bothering any more young people ever, ever, ever again ...
They may have an old delusional mother or grandmother, but by and large it's a huge sigh of relief when they're finally in a place where they can never hurt someone again ...
left-of-center2012
(34,195 posts)Life in prison for a cop who had sex with a girl young enough to be his granddaughter would have been hell.
valerief
(53,235 posts)closeupready
(29,503 posts)With Harvey Keitel? Your post reminded me of that dark film.
valerief
(53,235 posts)Oneironaut
(5,493 posts)Hope the victim is doing okay.