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Omaha Steve

(99,628 posts)
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 04:58 PM Apr 2015

Mechanicville child pornographer gets lifetime sentence

Source: Times Union

By Brittany Horn

A Mechanicville man will likely spend the rest of his life in prison following his sentencing on Friday for sexually abusing and photographing two young girls under his care.

Robert V. McLaughlin, 58, received the maximum 60-year sentence for manipulating a 7-year-old girl and an 8-year-old girl whom he babysat between 2012 and 2014 to engage in sexually explicit conduct so he could produce child pornography, according to court documents. Federal Judge Mae D'Agostino ruled that should McLaughlin ever be released from prison — which is unlikely given his age — he will be under supervised release for his lifetime.

One of the young girl's mothers begged the court to impose the greatest sentencing possible in a letter submitted by the prosecutor. She said that as a mother, she felt she had failed her daughter in the worst way possible by not seeing the abuse sooner and protecting her from McLaughlin.

"I don't want her to go through life looking over her shoulder wondering if she'll see him or run into him out in public, because this is something that she is very scared of," the mother said. "I want justice for my little girl. Please help me. I failed when I let down my guard at protecting her before, but you can protect her now."

FULL story at link.


Read more: http://www.timesunion.com/news/article/Mechanicville-child-pornographer-gets-lifetime-6179165.php



About F---ing time!!!

He is going to be so loved in prison. That is a prison taboo. It could have been their family!
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Mechanicville child pornographer gets lifetime sentence (Original Post) Omaha Steve Apr 2015 OP
Waiting for some here to complain the sentence was "too harsh" FLPanhandle Apr 2015 #1
Someone will do exactly that. wryter2000 Apr 2015 #2
Hmmm I'm waiting for the hypocrites who claim to be anti death penalty to chime in cstanleytech Apr 2015 #3
if you can't be anti-death penalty in a hard case like this Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #8
"I'd acquit." Orrex Apr 2015 #14
justifiable Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #15
Justifiable how? Orrex Apr 2015 #17
Risk puts a limit on the latter Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #20
Regardless, you endorse vigilante murder Orrex Apr 2015 #65
You tell me Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #67
Not so fast Orrex Apr 2015 #71
When did I say "random stranger"? Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #73
Excuse me. You wrote "some private citizen" in repy #8. My mistake. Orrex Apr 2015 #75
Not so Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #77
Spare me. Orrex Apr 2015 #78
I'll spare you when you get it correct Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #79
Spare me. Orrex Apr 2015 #81
"There is no doubt as to the rapist." Aye, there's the rub. Stonepounder Apr 2015 #90
So you're not anti-death penalty then. NuclearDem Apr 2015 #22
you can interpret it that way if you please Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #24
Ah, so in addition to kinda-not-actually-anti-death penalty NuclearDem Apr 2015 #25
Not at all Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #33
No, clearly you don't. NuclearDem Apr 2015 #37
OK I will now treat you like you treat me Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #41
Ah, that nonsense again. NuclearDem Apr 2015 #43
I see you don't dispute the charge Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #46
The fuck? NuclearDem Apr 2015 #95
Maybe you didnt intend it but if you say that you would probably cstanleytech Apr 2015 #27
Nope, there's a clear distinction here Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #31
So your only against the death penalty if a jury makes the decision after a trial??? cstanleytech Apr 2015 #36
Nothing unusual about that Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #39
I agree with you, although I do support the death penalty 7962 Apr 2015 #42
The trouble with that rule Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #45
Now here one area I agree with you on and thats the immunity bit because cstanleytech Apr 2015 #50
No, no room for accidents. ncjustice80 Apr 2015 #92
I disagree, there just some things that a prosecutor cannot control and the universe is one of them. cstanleytech Apr 2015 #94
No there are plenty of cases where the "alleged" killer is known guilty at the start 7962 Apr 2015 #51
What assertion? Those were your words shooting your alleged anti death penalty stance cstanleytech Apr 2015 #48
false equivalence Man from Pickens Apr 2015 #55
Ok lets call it what it is then.....murder. Either you are for it or not simple as that. cstanleytech Apr 2015 #57
I am anti-death penalty.... awoke_in_2003 Apr 2015 #54
It can be tough to distinguish between a visceral, emotional reaction LanternWaste Apr 2015 #104
I am as cynical as they come, yet even I don't expect to see such defense for him here Dragonfli Apr 2015 #7
What do you mean "appropriate treatment from other prisoners," exactly? Scootaloo Apr 2015 #13
I would hope the other prisoners would make his life miserable FLPanhandle Apr 2015 #21
Hooray prison rape! NuclearDem Apr 2015 #23
You can shed some tears over him if you want FLPanhandle Apr 2015 #29
Oh that tired old canard. NuclearDem Apr 2015 #30
Child rapists deserve whatever they get FLPanhandle Apr 2015 #32
Being against rape means being against all forms of rape, against all victims. NuclearDem Apr 2015 #38
+1. You nailed him. Larry Engels Apr 2015 #49
In the case of child rapists, I have no sympathy FLPanhandle Apr 2015 #53
Neither will I. AngryDem001 Apr 2015 #59
If you want something done, you should do it yourself Scootaloo Apr 2015 #68
If it were my daughter, I would have no issue pulling the trigger FLPanhandle Apr 2015 #93
It's not sympathy for child rapists, it's disgust for someone advocating rape and torture Scootaloo Apr 2015 #98
so half-witted as to be unable to determine the difference between sympathy for a rapist and the jus LanternWaste Apr 2015 #105
I am against the death penalty BrotherIvan Apr 2015 #69
Sorry, not a fan of extra-judicial punishment... blackspade Apr 2015 #97
Life in prison sounds good to me... Helen Borg Apr 2015 #4
Life prison term is too harsh. It is cruel and unusual. Hoppy Apr 2015 #5
Put him in with the regular prisoners bluestateguy Apr 2015 #6
+1 appalachiablue Apr 2015 #12
Here, here! AngryDem001 Apr 2015 #60
Yay for prison violence. Codeine Apr 2015 #91
Post removed Post removed Apr 2015 #9
He will NOT have a good experience in prison. Good. 7962 Apr 2015 #10
I hope you are right. 840high Apr 2015 #11
I can't help but wonder, what kind of mother thinks it's okay to have a middle-aged man babysit scarletwoman Apr 2015 #16
That's probably the most bluntly sexist post I've read on DU all day. Orrex Apr 2015 #19
Be that as it may, I won't apologize. scarletwoman Apr 2015 #28
I'm with you. I've never heard of non-family male babysitters at that age 7962 Apr 2015 #40
Thank you. As I said, I don't know the backstory. scarletwoman Apr 2015 #44
An equally sexist post about women would rightly have been hidden Orrex Apr 2015 #63
Whatever. Or maybe it's because males are far more often the offenders, scarletwoman Apr 2015 #66
Statistically it's bullshit Orrex Apr 2015 #70
Okay, I'm a sexist. Happy now? scarletwoman Apr 2015 #74
Happy? No. I would prefer it if you weren't sexist Orrex Apr 2015 #76
Oh, by the way... scarletwoman Apr 2015 #84
It's admirable that you can admit the deficiencies in your character Orrex Apr 2015 #85
LOL nt scarletwoman Apr 2015 #87
This message was self-deleted by its author ncjustice80 Apr 2015 #101
Then perhaps you can help me. Orrex Apr 2015 #103
Id call it a teachable moment for him. ncjustice80 Apr 2015 #106
Of course, that's a dodge rather than an answer. Orrex Apr 2015 #107
I have to think "all day" is a bit of understatement, BobTheSubgenius Apr 2015 #35
You did know that there are some women who molest children as well? cstanleytech Apr 2015 #34
However, it WAS a man in this case, which is why I'd like to know the backstory. scarletwoman Apr 2015 #47
Why in the world would it not be ok to have A "middle-aged man babysit"? uppityperson Apr 2015 #56
If it were my own father, or my own brother, or my own son, I could see it - as long as I actually scarletwoman Apr 2015 #58
She fessed up that she failed and she did yeoman6987 Apr 2015 #64
Yes, I read that. But how and why did she pick THIS particular guy to "babysit"? scarletwoman Apr 2015 #72
You do know that there are female pedophiles, yes? AngryDem001 Apr 2015 #61
Fine. Please tell me what percentage of pedophiles are females vs. males. nt scarletwoman Apr 2015 #62
Percentages are irrelevant. AngryDem001 Apr 2015 #88
This message was self-deleted by its author ncjustice80 Apr 2015 #102
With our srewed up justice system project_bluebook Apr 2015 #18
You can bet your life it's a BIG prison taboo. Literally. BobTheSubgenius Apr 2015 #26
The murderers and robbers get all huffy about the child molesters. Larry Engels Apr 2015 #52
Lots of prison rape fantasies in this thread alcibiades_mystery Apr 2015 #86
Yes. Larry Engels Apr 2015 #96
Here ya go, Larry: Prison Is 'Living Hell' for Pedophiles Zorra Apr 2015 #99
Thanks for the link. Larry Engels Apr 2015 #100
If only as a society this 58 yr old would not have fallen through the cracks for help. First as an Sunlei Apr 2015 #80
More than 10 years ago, here, a man in his 70's committed suicide the night before his trial SharonAnn Apr 2015 #82
Increadably sad to know every child contact in his 'age range' was abused in some way. Sunlei Apr 2015 #83
Post removed Post removed Apr 2015 #89
I love it! (no text) Quantess Apr 2015 #108

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
1. Waiting for some here to complain the sentence was "too harsh"
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 05:09 PM
Apr 2015

And that life sentences are cruel,and he should be eligible for rehabilitation and parole after a little while, etc.

There are always some regardless of the crime committed.

Myself: I hope he gets appropriate treatment from the other prisoners and never sees life outside of a prison again.

cstanleytech

(26,291 posts)
3. Hmmm I'm waiting for the hypocrites who claim to be anti death penalty to chime in
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 05:18 PM
Apr 2015

that he should be shot and yes I have seen people do that here on the DU.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
8. if you can't be anti-death penalty in a hard case like this
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 06:15 PM
Apr 2015

then you're not really anti-death penalty.

I don't support the death penalty in this case, or any other.

Giving that power to the government has proven to be a terrible mistake, and this case doesn't change that.

However, if some private citizen should take matters into his own hands and I ended up on the jury, I'd acquit.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
15. justifiable
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:15 PM
Apr 2015

citizen juries are the least appreciated branch of government, yet they do still have the power to do this

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
17. Justifiable how?
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:20 PM
Apr 2015

You're not talking about a relative of the victims; you expressly identified "some private citizen." By what right does that person get to kill another person with impunity?

In other words, although you nominally oppose the state's use of capital punishment, you endorse vigilante murder.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
20. Risk puts a limit on the latter
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:35 PM
Apr 2015

Immunity makes it so there's no limit to the former. But the vigilante takes a huge risk, so it's only likely to happen in the most extreme, clear-cut cases where he can be sure a jury will let him go.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
65. Regardless, you endorse vigilante murder
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:33 PM
Apr 2015

As long as someone is willing to risk an unsympathetic jury, murder is just dandy.

I don't see how that's morally superior to executions performed by the state.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
67. You tell me
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:39 PM
Apr 2015

Man finds out his kid got raped, and there is no doubt as to the rapist. Kills him, gets sent to trial for murder.

You're on the jury. Those are the facts laid out before you. Would you send him to prison?

I already explained how it's morally superior to executions performed by the state. The state has demonstrated that it is racist and bigoted against the poor, that it can conspire to hide the truth at zero risk to the conspirators, and that it has repeatedly and knowingly put to death innocent men.

If those are moral non-factors to you, then I eschew your morality.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
71. Not so fast
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:50 PM
Apr 2015

You declared that you'd acquit some random stranger who summarily acted as executioner. Now you're asking how I'd vote on a jury if the killer was the victim's father. That's moving the goalposts.

As to your newly posed question, well, it depends on how the judge instructs the jury, doesn't it? And how the defendant pleads?

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
73. When did I say "random stranger"?
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:57 PM
Apr 2015

If those goalposts have moved, it was you who moved them. I made no such stipulation.

My question actually pertains to a recent real-life scenario where exactly that set of events occurred. Father went to trial for murder, end result 6 months probation, no jail. Seems like a reasonable result to me.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
75. Excuse me. You wrote "some private citizen" in repy #8. My mistake.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 10:04 PM
Apr 2015

You certainly didn't include the family of the victims in your broad, blanket acquittal. I see that others have called you out for your vigilante exhortation, too.

You're doing the same thing as the hypocrites who claim to reject the death penalty but who adopt an "oh well" attitude when the attacker is murdered in prison. Tell yourself whatever you want, but don't pretend that you oppose capital punishment.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
77. Not so
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 10:16 PM
Apr 2015

The way it goes down in real life is that the person who takes revenge is always someone with a personal stake in the matter. Pretending that there is some wide universe of cases where it is otherwise is a fantasy scenario with no relevance to the real world.

My opposition to the death penalty as a matter of law is very simple: there should be major, life-altering risk in getting it wrong. Doing it under color of law eliminates that risk.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
78. Spare me.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 10:34 PM
Apr 2015

You can rationalize it however you want, but you're still explicitly pro-death-penalty. I see it and others here see it. You're the only one who doesn't see it, in fact, or at least pretends not to see it.

The way it goes down in real life is that the person who takes revenge is always someone with a personal stake in the matter.
Sure. Like Jack Ruby, for instance. And even if it's true, it's irrelevant; you're arguing in favor of summary executions.

Pretending that there is some wide universe of cases where it is otherwise is a fantasy scenario with no relevance to the real world.
If you really meant "someone with a personal stake in the matter," then you should admit that you were being disingenuous in reply #8 when you declared your intent to acquit "some random person" who acts as vigilante executioner.
 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
79. I'll spare you when you get it correct
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 10:49 PM
Apr 2015

The words "some random person", as you quote, are your words, not mine.

You own that. Not I. Deal with it.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
81. Spare me.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 10:53 PM
Apr 2015

I'm posting from my phone--forgive me if I don't memorize your every word.

You can rationalize it however you want, but you're still explicitly pro-death-penalty. I see it and others here see it. You're the only one who doesn't see it, in fact, or at least pretends not to see it.

The way it goes down in real life is that the person who takes revenge is always someone with a personal stake in the matter.
Sure. Like Jack Ruby, for instance. And even if it's true, it's irrelevant; you're arguing in favor of summary executions.

Pretending that there is some wide universe of cases where it is otherwise is a fantasy scenario with no relevance to the real world.
If you really meant "someone with a personal stake in the matter," then you should admit that you were being disingenuous in reply #8 when you declared your intent to acquit "some private citizen" who acts as vigilante executioner.

Will you now answer the question? Or will you find some other bullshit excuse to justify your fondness for vigilante murder?

Stonepounder

(4,033 posts)
90. "There is no doubt as to the rapist." Aye, there's the rub.
Sun Apr 5, 2015, 12:09 AM
Apr 2015

A conviction of a crime requires that the prosecution prove 'beyond a reasonable doubt', yet we still see inmates being released time and again when new evidence comes to light showing them to be innocent. You admit that the government makes mistakes. Yet, you seem to think that one person who decides to be judge, jury, and executioner is somehow superior to a trial. Sorry, I just can't accept your argument. What is the difference between "beyond a reasonable doubt" and 'no doubt"?

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
24. you can interpret it that way if you please
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:50 PM
Apr 2015

when it comes to legislation I am 100% anti-death-penalty

If a man wants to blow the brains out of his kid's rapist, I'll not tell him he's wrong to do so.

When the state does it, they put people to death when they know he didn't even commit the crime, and have hidden the evidence that he's innocent from the courts and from his lawyer.

Difference between these situations is night and day to me, should be to you too.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
25. Ah, so in addition to kinda-not-actually-anti-death penalty
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:54 PM
Apr 2015

you're against the entire concept of a criminal justice system.

Enjoy your vigilante paradise.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
33. Not at all
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:03 PM
Apr 2015

I fully support a criminal justice system.

Perhaps in your fantasy world there's no discretion on the part of a jury, but in the real world there is.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
37. No, clearly you don't.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:12 PM
Apr 2015

What you call discretion is actually nullification. How you can advocate that and still claim to be in favor of a criminal justice system confounds me.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
41. OK I will now treat you like you treat me
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:18 PM
Apr 2015

After your dogged persistence it appears perfectly reasonable to derive from your posts that you support a racist system of institutionalized murder against the poor and minorities, despite the mountains of evidence that many of the people put to death are innocent of the charges against them and that prosecutors routinely withhold that information from courts and juries.

You're on the record supporting aggressive wars and now the death penalty. Any other Democratic positions you completely repudiate in favor of their GOP alternatives?

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
46. I see you don't dispute the charge
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:33 PM
Apr 2015

Now it is clear that you unrepentantly support aggressive wars in the Middle East, and all it takes is a little bit of war propaganda which you willingly swallow whole, not a whit differently than the neocons did in lying us into the war in Iraq.

I'll give you credit for owning up to it.

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
95. The fuck?
Sun Apr 5, 2015, 09:06 AM
Apr 2015

Did you even read my posts at those links at all?

7. Justification for war in the Middle East based on WMDs?
Sorry, not buying that bullshit a second time.


2. Guess we're at war with Eastasia now.
We've always been at war with Eastasia.


1. But at least we'll stop Assad from gassing people!
Screw long-term consequences!


Exactly in what fucking universe can any of that be construed as supporting a war?

cstanleytech

(26,291 posts)
27. Maybe you didnt intend it but if you say that you would probably
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:55 PM
Apr 2015

choose to look the other way when someone kills someone else it kinda does shoot the whole claim of being anti death penalty a good one in the foot.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
31. Nope, there's a clear distinction here
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:02 PM
Apr 2015

The death penalty as law is an institution that bakes in hardcore discrimination against the poor and minorities, and is often knowingly used against innocent people.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
39. Nothing unusual about that
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:15 PM
Apr 2015

People are acquitted of murder charges for reasons of justifiability all the time.

This is well within the existing process of justice under the rule of law.

The only thing I am saying that is even slightly controversial is that I think killing a sexual predator who targets children is justifiable homicide. You want to take the other side of that assertion, go for it. I'm very comfortable with my position on the matter.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
42. I agree with you, although I do support the death penalty
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:25 PM
Apr 2015

But i think the rule for it should be that it is only sought in cases where there is ZERO doubt as to the guilt of the accused. There are PLENTY of those cases out there. That would do away with the chance of executing an innocent

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
45. The trouble with that rule
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:31 PM
Apr 2015

Is that often "zero doubt" is produced by deliberate withholding of evidence.

And the prosecutor is immune from criminal charges even after it is conclusively established that that withholding led to the death penalty.

A regular citizen, on the other hand, would have a much much higher risk if he were wrong, the kind that gets him a murder-1 conviction and 20 to life.

That's the kind of risk that is much more likely to make it only happen in actual zero-doubt cases.

cstanleytech

(26,291 posts)
50. Now here one area I agree with you on and thats the immunity bit because
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:42 PM
Apr 2015

I dont believe immunity should apply when its a deliberate act by a prosecutor.
Accident? Sure, give them immunity.
A deliberate act? Throw their ass in jail for a long time.

ncjustice80

(948 posts)
92. No, no room for accidents.
Sun Apr 5, 2015, 08:09 AM
Apr 2015

If a prosecutor has an "accident" innocent people lose theur freedom. If a conviction is overturned the prosecutor and arrrsting officer should serve a day in jail for each day their victim did.

cstanleytech

(26,291 posts)
94. I disagree, there just some things that a prosecutor cannot control and the universe is one of them.
Sun Apr 5, 2015, 08:34 AM
Apr 2015

Accidents happen in this universe all the time and by accidents I mean things like new evidence is uncovered to prove someone that was convicted is innocent and its something that the prosecutor wasnt aware of at the time.
Or evidence that the prosecutor simply wasnt aware of nor suspected provided to them by the police, the crime lab or someone else that later turns out to be falsified.
Those types of things do happen from time to time and thats when immunity should apply for the prosecutor.
if on the other had you can prove the prosecutor knew and or suspected that evidence was false or if they hide evidence then immunity should be revoked and the prosecutor should be looking at a similar length of time in jail at a minimum to what the person they either were trying to send to jail or did send to jail.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
51. No there are plenty of cases where the "alleged" killer is known guilty at the start
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:46 PM
Apr 2015

I know of cases like you speak of, and I think the people involved should ALL go jail. For a LONG time.
Here's a good example of what I'm talking about: the Atlanta Courthouse shooter. The guy took a gun from a guard and killed her as well as killing another officer while on the run. Shut down most of the city for quite some time too. There is NO DOUBT he is the murderer. There is no need to fake evidence or hide evidence. He did it, he's on tape doing it, there was no one else who COULD have done it
There are plenty of cases like this out there. No "reasonable doubt" for death penalty cases.

cstanleytech

(26,291 posts)
48. What assertion? Those were your words shooting your alleged anti death penalty stance
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:39 PM
Apr 2015

in the foot not mine.
I mean either you are either a true anti death penalty person no matter who carries it out or your not, simple as that.

 

Man from Pickens

(1,713 posts)
55. false equivalence
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:55 PM
Apr 2015

"The death penalty" refers to a specific type of legislation, an action carried out under color of law. And I remain 100% opposed to it, with nothing I have said contradicting that stance in any way.

What you appear to be mad about is that I won't extend that to a "no killing is justified ever" stance. But the reasons I oppose the death penalty - which I've made as perfectly clear as can be - don't apply to those other situations.

Perfectly consistent and ethical. You may or may not agree with the stance but I cannot be fairly accused of inconsistency.

 

awoke_in_2003

(34,582 posts)
54. I am anti-death penalty....
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:51 PM
Apr 2015

cases like this make it hard sometimes, but I think he should spend the rest of his life in prison.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
104. It can be tough to distinguish between a visceral, emotional reaction
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:33 PM
Apr 2015

It can be tough to distinguish between the merely visceral and emotional reaction, and the rational, more academic premise coming from the same person.

I've seen that inability on DU too.

Dragonfli

(10,622 posts)
7. I am as cynical as they come, yet even I don't expect to see such defense for him here
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 06:14 PM
Apr 2015

Maybe at Free Republic....

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
13. What do you mean "appropriate treatment from other prisoners," exactly?
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:00 PM
Apr 2015

I want specifics, what are you angling for here?

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
32. Child rapists deserve whatever they get
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:02 PM
Apr 2015

There, that's my list.

As for your tired old sympathy, tell me why you disagree

 

NuclearDem

(16,184 posts)
38. Being against rape means being against all forms of rape, against all victims.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:14 PM
Apr 2015

It's never acceptable.

 

Scootaloo

(25,699 posts)
68. If you want something done, you should do it yourself
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:39 PM
Apr 2015

So. Give us details, FLPanhandle. What sort of "misery" do you want to inflict?

FLPanhandle

(7,107 posts)
93. If it were my daughter, I would have no issue pulling the trigger
Sun Apr 5, 2015, 08:12 AM
Apr 2015

Your sympathy for child rapists is noted though.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
105. so half-witted as to be unable to determine the difference between sympathy for a rapist and the jus
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:40 PM
Apr 2015

I'd feel rather embarrassed were I to walk through life so half-witted as to be unable to determine the difference between 'sympathy for a rapist' and the 'justice system'. If the most rational argument I could devise were simply to apply fictional conclusions to other people, I'd consider myself rather blissful in my ignorance.

No doubt though, you know the difference between the two; and could even craft a more rational argument if given enough time, resources and tools... That's very special.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
69. I am against the death penalty
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:40 PM
Apr 2015

But not against life sentences. I think that someone who has committed a crime so horrific that they should be removed from society, or a series of crimes showing a pathology that means they will offend again, then a life sentence is warranted. That might not be a popular view.

blackspade

(10,056 posts)
97. Sorry, not a fan of extra-judicial punishment...
Sun Apr 5, 2015, 02:54 PM
Apr 2015

Weather from the cops, prison inmates, or vigilantes.

That said, I have no issue with the sentence.
This guy was a sick fuck.

 

Hoppy

(3,595 posts)
5. Life prison term is too harsh. It is cruel and unusual.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 05:48 PM
Apr 2015

Last edited Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:18 PM - Edit history (1)

I think it would be more fair, if he was shot.

Response to Omaha Steve (Original post)

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
16. I can't help but wonder, what kind of mother thinks it's okay to have a middle-aged man babysit
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:20 PM
Apr 2015

her children - of either gender?

I don't know the backstory on this. How did this man come to be a "babysitter"?

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
28. Be that as it may, I won't apologize.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:55 PM
Apr 2015

It's a statistical fact that sexual predation of children is far more common to males than to females.

 

7962

(11,841 posts)
40. I'm with you. I've never heard of non-family male babysitters at that age
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:17 PM
Apr 2015

I dont care if it sounds "sexist" or not. Sometimes shit just has to be said.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
44. Thank you. As I said, I don't know the backstory.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:28 PM
Apr 2015

If someone would care to post the background on how this man came to be a babysitter for two little girls, I'd be grateful.

As for anyone else who wants to chide me for being "sexist", I don't give a shit.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
63. An equally sexist post about women would rightly have been hidden
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:30 PM
Apr 2015

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Consider yourself lucky that your sexism is deemed acceptable.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
66. Whatever. Or maybe it's because males are far more often the offenders,
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:36 PM
Apr 2015

and everyone knows it because the statistics back it up.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
70. Statistically it's bullshit
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:44 PM
Apr 2015

You identify a tiny, non-representative sample (predatory pedophiles), and you extrapolate this extremely aberrant behavior to men in general.

One could as readily declare that women are unfit to work as teachers because women are more likely to engage in inappropriate sexual relations with their male students.

There are any number of ways to justify sexism.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
74. Okay, I'm a sexist. Happy now?
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 10:02 PM
Apr 2015

As for "men in general" - as a woman I have been well-schooled in what "men in general" are capable of doing.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
76. Happy? No. I would prefer it if you weren't sexist
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 10:08 PM
Apr 2015

Last edited Tue Apr 7, 2015, 08:04 AM - Edit history (1)

Short of that, I'm somewhat gratified that you can at least own up to your broad-brush generalizations.

Every sexist, male or female, can rationalize their sexism, having been "schooled" the same as you.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
84. Oh, by the way...
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 11:23 PM
Apr 2015

I have as much sympathy for men crying "sexism!" as I do for whites crying "racism!". That is, absolutely none at all.

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
85. It's admirable that you can admit the deficiencies in your character
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 11:28 PM
Apr 2015

Call it what you will, sexism or otherwise. I don't care to get into a pointless debate with you about semantics.

By your own declaration, it's clear that you see fit to judge men by poorly justified broadbrush generalizations.

An equivalent post by a man about a women would rightly have been hidden. You are fortunate that your gender-based prejudice gets a pass.

Response to Orrex (Reply #85)

Orrex

(63,209 posts)
103. Then perhaps you can help me.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 03:25 PM
Apr 2015

This is the exact semantic debate I did not wish to enter in order to address scarletwoman's unjustified mischaracterizations based solely on sex.

If you can identify a readily accessible (i.e., non jargon-esque) term that accurately descibes grossly incorrect generalizations or anti-preferential treatment based on sex, I will be happy to consider that term for future use.

Absent a convincingly concise alternative term, it is unhelpful to preempt the use of a single two-syllable word simply because it doesn't capture the entire breadth and depth of a centuries-entrenched power structure.

If a white man were fired (or excluded) from a job specifically because he's white or because he's male, how would you characterize that action? If not as racist or sexist, then what?


Whatever term you suggest, the point remains that scarletwoman's statement was an unfair generalization based entirely on sex.



Orrex

(63,209 posts)
107. Of course, that's a dodge rather than an answer.
Tue Apr 7, 2015, 10:51 PM
Apr 2015

Suppose that we're talking about that most imaginary of creatures, the white male who understands his Privilege, and he is nonetheless fired or excluded from a job because he is white or male.

Since this mythical entity is already aware of his fortunate position in the socio-politico-sexual landscape, and since he doesn't need a snarky bystander to instruct him on this "teachable moment," by what term can we describe his mistreatment, which is based solely on his race or his sex?

If you can't offer an alternative to "racism" or "sexism," then you really have no basis to complain when a non-imaginary white male uses either term to identify such behavior.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
35. I have to think "all day" is a bit of understatement,
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:07 PM
Apr 2015

...but I appreciate noninflammatory, downplayed descriptions.

While the demographics of statistical surveys wander all over the map, it's still safe to say that there ARE female abusers. While the prevalence of female offenders may arguably be less, in any given child care situation it only takes one.

cstanleytech

(26,291 posts)
34. You did know that there are some women who molest children as well?
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:03 PM
Apr 2015
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Female_child_molesters

Granted it doesnt appear that there are nearly as many female ones as there are of males but still they do exist, as to why this women would let him babysit maybe it was money related after all daycare centers (and babysitters) for children are not cheap and alot of people cannot afford to pay as much as alot of them want.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
47. However, it WAS a man in this case, which is why I'd like to know the backstory.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:33 PM
Apr 2015

It's very possible it was money-related, as you say. My question is, how did it happen to be THIS man? Why? What were the circumstances that led these mothers to entrust their children to this person?

uppityperson

(115,677 posts)
56. Why in the world would it not be ok to have A "middle-aged man babysit"?
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:00 PM
Apr 2015

Not "this man" but "a" middle aged man?

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
58. If it were my own father, or my own brother, or my own son, I could see it - as long as I actually
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:13 PM
Apr 2015

trusted them.

But some non-related man? How much did the mothers know about him? How long had they known him? That's why I said I'd like to know the backstory.

Ask the mothers of the children abused by clergy why it might not be such a great idea to have their children babysat by middle-aged non-related men.

 

yeoman6987

(14,449 posts)
64. She fessed up that she failed and she did
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:31 PM
Apr 2015

Heck I am a male adult and would NEVER babysit or work in a day care center. For one thing it is not only protecting the children but yourself too. The daycare center case in California ruined so many lives and many babysitters have been ruined due to over zealous prosecutors with a situation that did not happen. I am not saying this with this case but it is a dangerous job to watch children no matter who you are.

scarletwoman

(31,893 posts)
72. Yes, I read that. But how and why did she pick THIS particular guy to "babysit"?
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 09:50 PM
Apr 2015

That's what I want to know. Did he advertise his services? Did a friend recommend him? I mean, how in the world did this mother come to entrust this man with her daughter?

Also, I get what you're saying about protecting yourself.

AngryDem001

(684 posts)
88. Percentages are irrelevant.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 11:55 PM
Apr 2015

The fact is that they exist.

The fact is that they typically get lighter sentences than their male counterparts.

Response to AngryDem001 (Reply #88)

 

project_bluebook

(411 posts)
18. With our srewed up justice system
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:28 PM
Apr 2015

he will probably get parole in a few years while someone smoking pot gets 10 to 20.

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
26. You can bet your life it's a BIG prison taboo. Literally.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 07:55 PM
Apr 2015

I saw a short video earlier today that was about an inmate that killed his cellmate because that guy was not only a child molester, but a "bad" one, and wouldn't shut up about it. In his confession, he said, more or less..."yeah, I did it, and I'd do it again."

"I got down off my bunk, and because he was bigger than me, I hit him in the face a few times, then wrapped an electrical cord around his neck and took his life."

He said it with all the emotion of one choosing Salisbury steak or fried chicken for dinner.

 

Larry Engels

(387 posts)
52. The murderers and robbers get all huffy about the child molesters.
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 08:47 PM
Apr 2015

I find this amusing. But we send people to prison not for punishment, but as punishment. Dream up all the gory things you want done to this guy. I find that contradiction amusing, too! You do not have a coherent belief system, so your emotions dictate your politics. There are ways to get beyond this, and some people here have done so. Those are the people I pay attention to.

 

alcibiades_mystery

(36,437 posts)
86. Lots of prison rape fantasies in this thread
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 11:30 PM
Apr 2015

At least at DU, we've trained the prison rape fetishists to put their fantasies in weird code or get their posts hidden. That's a start, I guess, but we still have over a dozen prison rape fantasies being expressed here, even in the OP.

Miles to go before fantasizing about sexual violence is eliminated as a legitimate post on this board.

Sunlei

(22,651 posts)
80. If only as a society this 58 yr old would not have fallen through the cracks for help. First as an
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 10:52 PM
Apr 2015

abused foster child. Then he abused his own daughter, who knows how many others? A Marine with no psy. help. He got away with a lifetime of abusing young girls.

Prison for life is not good enough. He should get the help he needs to reveal his entire history. Everyone he abused should know he is off the street for good.

These type of prisoners should have a prison option to 'self suicide' with an overdose of heroin or downers. To hope for prison abuse by inmates or beatings, abuse from guards is not the answer.

SharonAnn

(13,772 posts)
82. More than 10 years ago, here, a man in his 70's committed suicide the night before his trial
Sat Apr 4, 2015, 11:03 PM
Apr 2015

Two of his granddaughters were going to testify against him about the sexual abuse they suffered from him. I was told that he had probably molested 100+ young girls over his lifetime. His daughters, their friends, neighbors daughters, their friends, his granddaughters, etc.

It's hard to believe that no one reported him during those 50+ years.

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