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ansible

(1,718 posts)
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:05 PM Nov 2017

Man arrested after punching woman over apparent 'manspreading' comment on subway

BENSONHURST, Brooklyn (WABC) -- A man has been arrested after reportedly punching a woman in the face over a 'manspreading' complaint on the subway in Manhattan.

Derek Smith, 56, was arrested and charged with assault on Saturday evening.

Samantha Saia said the ordeal started as soon as she took a seat next to the man on an N train in Bensonhurst during the morning commute.

"He started pushing me and manspreading me into the wall," Saia said.

That's when Saia said he turned violent.

"He told me expletive, you expletive, I've raped white b****** like you before. You're nothing and then he elbowed me," she said.

So she said she put her earbuds back in and then it turned even uglier.

"He said 'Don't ignore me. I felt this.' I turned around and bam, I banged my head into a wall. And at that point I just felt blood gushing."

Her lip was bruised, swollen and bloodied.

But it could have been worse if a Good Samaritan didn't step in, and that's when a passenger on the train started recording.

The Good Samaritan jumped in and confronted the subway attacker. He forced the man to exit the train at the next stop.

http://abc7ny.com/man-arrested-after-punching-woman-over-apparent-manspreading-comment/2667562/

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Man arrested after punching woman over apparent 'manspreading' comment on subway (Original Post) ansible Nov 2017 OP
Press charges. Hopefully he'll fail at making bail oasis Nov 2017 #1
+1,000 malaise Nov 2017 #16
Have to say that I have recently been seeing more and more guys doing stupid shit on the subway late dhol82 Nov 2017 #2
This message was self-deleted by its author WinkyDink Nov 2017 #22
Thank God others intervened. What is really scary is when you are alone with someone like this. Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #3
eons ago I sat next to a man who started to grope me angstlessk Nov 2017 #4
Today you don't know who is packing a gun and might shoot you. Scary. nt Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #5
NYC has eliminated gun crime in the last 40 years and terrorism in the last 16 years Not Ruth Nov 2017 #6
Wow, I had no idea. So it is more dangerous in the small towns now than the big city. nt Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #7
When you adjust for population, absolutely Not Ruth Nov 2017 #8
Thanks for the info Not Ruth, very interesting. Irish_Dem Nov 2017 #9
That's a bit strong. Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #17
Adjust for population and gun crime / terrorism are very much non existent Not Ruth Nov 2017 #18
Tell that to the more than 998 people injured by nonexistent gunfire Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #19
This message was self-deleted by its author WinkyDink Nov 2017 #23
What is a shooting incident? MyNameGoesHere Nov 2017 #20
Just using the label given by the NYPD in their year-end report Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #21
Post removed Post removed Nov 2017 #30
I wonder if this could be prosecuted as a hate crime. n/m RhodeIslandOne Nov 2017 #10
I am so sick of people like this. I can't tell you how many times I have had smirkymonkey Nov 2017 #11
The last time I witnessed manspreading was in 7th grade ProudLib72 Nov 2017 #12
This is awful. The manspreading thing has been around forever. phylny Nov 2017 #13
Really glad she's okay. My unsolicited advice, ecstatic Nov 2017 #14
Sometimes, you don't see the crazy until it's too late... backscatter712 Nov 2017 #24
That title is misleading Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #15
No, the title is right; it's that the article missed out that step muriel_volestrangler Nov 2017 #25
Pretty odd that the article leaves out the one line that supports its title. Ms. Toad Nov 2017 #29
When I first heard of "manspreading," I didn't believe that it could possibly exist Orrex Nov 2017 #26
Have you ever been on the subway? Not Ruth Nov 2017 #27
I've only been on a New York subway two or three times, and not recently Orrex Nov 2017 #28

oasis

(49,381 posts)
1. Press charges. Hopefully he'll fail at making bail
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:09 PM
Nov 2017

and he won't be out to intimidate witnesses or cause more trouble.

dhol82

(9,353 posts)
2. Have to say that I have recently been seeing more and more guys doing stupid shit on the subway late
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:21 PM
Nov 2017

lately.
Manspreading, backpacks on the seat, luggage blocking a seat.
All with an attitude.
I have been able to wiggle my way into some seats but some of the guys look ready to rumble.
Not pleasant.

Response to dhol82 (Reply #2)

Irish_Dem

(47,026 posts)
3. Thank God others intervened. What is really scary is when you are alone with someone like this.
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:26 PM
Nov 2017

No one to help you.

angstlessk

(11,862 posts)
4. eons ago I sat next to a man who started to grope me
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:32 PM
Nov 2017

I stood up and declared to everyone on the bus he was touching me...the bus driver stopped the bus and forced him off.

That was the end of that!

 

Not Ruth

(3,613 posts)
6. NYC has eliminated gun crime in the last 40 years and terrorism in the last 16 years
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:49 PM
Nov 2017

It is probably the safest city in the world

Irish_Dem

(47,026 posts)
9. Thanks for the info Not Ruth, very interesting.
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 10:53 PM
Nov 2017

Edited to add:

If NYC can do it, the rest of America should be able to do it too.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
17. That's a bit strong.
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 10:59 AM
Nov 2017

There were 998 shooting incidents in NYC in 2016. It is significantly down - but significantly down is not eliminated.

As for terrorism, the truck on the walking path earlier this month is not terrorism?

It may well be a safe city, but eliminated is an extreme word that doesn't apply.

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
19. Tell that to the more than 998 people injured by nonexistent gunfire
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 11:08 AM
Nov 2017

Or the families of the 8 people who died in the nonexistent terrorist attack

I'm not disputing the safety of NYC - I'm disputing the use of the word iliminated or non-existent, both of which assert there is none.

Response to Not Ruth (Reply #18)

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
21. Just using the label given by the NYPD in their year-end report
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 11:24 AM
Nov 2017

Bullets struck 1181 people (some incidents wounded more than one person), so shooting incident is not just firing the gun into the air or at targets other than people.

Beyond that, you'd have to ask the NYPD what they meant.

http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/nyc-crime/nyc-historically-number-shootings-2016-article-1.2933098

Response to Not Ruth (Reply #6)

 

smirkymonkey

(63,221 posts)
11. I am so sick of people like this. I can't tell you how many times I have had
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 11:36 PM
Nov 2017

to politely ask a man to please let me sit down because he was taking up the width of two seats. Unlike this unfortunate woman, I have not been assaulted yet. It is a problem for female subway riders.

ProudLib72

(17,984 posts)
12. The last time I witnessed manspreading was in 7th grade
Sat Nov 18, 2017, 11:37 PM
Nov 2017

I thought it was stupid and childish then. Nothing has changed to alter that perception. Seriously, this is just a case of a man being physically stronger than a woman and using that to intimidate her for fun. Wish he'd been pepper sprayed.

phylny

(8,380 posts)
13. This is awful. The manspreading thing has been around forever.
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 12:57 AM
Nov 2017

I remember I used to drive to Jamaica, Queens and take the 7 train to the city. I took turns driving and rode the subway with a young woman named Sophia, I can still hear her voice with her perfect New York accent: "What, you think you have something huge between your legs that you need to take up three seats??"

This was in the early 80s

ecstatic

(32,701 posts)
14. Really glad she's okay. My unsolicited advice,
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 01:17 AM
Nov 2017

and this has nothing to do with victim-blaming, it's about protecting one's body and life through common sense:

NEVER engage a crazy person. I would have walked away from the moment he started manspreading, but after the first violent rant she should have booked it to the next train car, if necessary. He said he raped women! How do you put your earbuds back in after that, as if nothing happened? WTF!

Ms. Toad

(34,069 posts)
15. That title is misleading
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 10:53 AM
Nov 2017

It makes it sound like she said something to him, and then he turned violent in response.

I can't find anything that indicates he is reacting to a complaint about manspreading - as opposed to just being an aggressive male who used manspreading as part of a larger parttern of physical violence against this particular woman who did not respond to his initial manspreading advances.

muriel_volestrangler

(101,311 posts)
25. No, the title is right; it's that the article missed out that step
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 12:15 PM
Nov 2017

From the Daily News article:

Saia was riding the N train through Bensonhurst on Thursday morning when the man sitting next to her opened his legs wide, crowding her into the side of the subway car.

The man allegedly flipped out and got in her face after she asked him to make room for her.

http://www.nydailynews.com/new-york/nyc-crime/manspreading-maniac-arrested-punching-woman-viral-video-article-1.3642485

Orrex

(63,208 posts)
26. When I first heard of "manspreading," I didn't believe that it could possibly exist
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 12:22 PM
Nov 2017

It seemed so pointedly absurd that I figured it was just a joke that everyone was in on.

Reality proved me wrong, of course.


What kind of a self-important asshole does that?

 

Not Ruth

(3,613 posts)
27. Have you ever been on the subway?
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 12:35 PM
Nov 2017


IMHO, this has “inspired” a new kind of selfishness, and well as counterattacks. If you are a people watcher, it is fascinating to watch someone put a bag on a seat next to them, or take up more than their allocated space due to weight or social issues........and watch someone (all genders) go out of their way to counter by sitting directly in the path of the storm, even with an empty set of seats inches away.

I am NOT saying that is what happened here, but manspreading is real, and not confined to men.

The fight is real.

Orrex

(63,208 posts)
28. I've only been on a New York subway two or three times, and not recently
Sun Nov 19, 2017, 01:01 PM
Nov 2017

I don't recall it to have been an issue on Pittsburgh's trolleys or buses, but maybe I wasn't aware of it?

I sure as hell hope that I was never guilty of it. I don't think that I did it, but I haven't used Pittsburgh's public transit in several years.

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