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The New York Post recently highlighted an article on raceconscious.org about how that's probably not a good choice if your kid is white, and revealed that "moms are freaking out" over the culturally appropriative costume. Needless to say, the Post's coverage has only amplified the debate around what does, and doesn't, constitute cultural appropriation. Last year, Disney came under fire for its Maui costume, which depicted the demigod's painted brown skin. The company ultimately pulled the costume in response to the uproar, telling Entertainment Weekly in a statement that "The team behind Moana has taken great care to respect the cultures of the Pacific Islands that inspired the film, and we regret that the Maui costume has offended some." The Maui question may have been settled, but this year, there are plenty of tweets out there asking the internet (and Lin-Manuel Miranda) if it's OK to dress as Moana for Halloween.
The original article, written by Sachi Feris, discusses how her white daughter was torn between dressing as Elsa, from Frozen, or the titular character from Moana. Feris expresses concern that while an Elsa costume might reinforce notions of white privilege, dressing up as Moana is essentially cultural appropriation the act of reducing someone's culture to stereotypes, and thereby belittling it. Though Feris puzzles over how one might wear a Moana costume respectfully, she ultimately decides it just isn't a good idea.
At this point, you might be saying something like: "But, I dressed up as Jasmine as a child, and I'm not a racist!", or, "It's just a Halloween costume, please chill the f*ck out." But one of the best things about time is that it moves forward. You should too. You can (and should) strive to be better than you were 10, 20, or 30 years ago. If you missed the mark when you were younger, maybe think about using this Halloween as an opportunity to teach your kids about the importance of cultural sensitivity. If your child's dream costume feels questionable, don't just throw up your hands and hand over your credit card. You're the parent here, and the onus of what your child wears falls on you. If your kid wears a racist costume you're kind of wearing it too.
http://www.cosmopolitan.com/lifestyle/a13069023/moana-halloween-costume-racist/?src=socialflowTW
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Another year, mom made me a clown costume. Sis and I were both witches one year. I was a pumpkin another year.
Never had these issues back in the day. Never cared to dress as a Disney character. All I remember from those days would be Mickey or Donald, but I had no wish to dress like them.
Im so glad I was a kid then.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)If not, do you remember seeing others who did?
Demsrule86
(68,561 posts)sexy flapper...I was a teen. If you think about it a witch is petty bad too. How many innocent women were tortured for the imaginary crime of being a witch? We trick or treated until we went to college! Everyone did. And none of this four -six shit either. We went out at dark and stayed out...people who didn't want to give out candy turned their lights off...and our town had epic toilet paper, eggs (left under the bed for a couple of weeks to attain full ripeness) and shaving cream fights. We didn't put them on houses are cars. My Dad would have...I don't know what he would have done...too scared to find out! The next morning the whole town was strung with toilet paper. I lived in Ridgefield Connecticut during middle school and high school and still remember the neighborhood battles...Mimosa vs Twixt Hills was epic.
MontanaMama
(23,314 posts)but I dress up as a witch every single year. I have a huge Halloween display in the front yard to lure the neighborhood kiddos to my house where I give out full size candy bars, bags of Cheetos or Pirates Booty. Mini-bottles of various alcoholic beverages for the parents with little tags on them that say "I'm just here for the Boos." Nothing makes me happier than kiddos running it wide open all evening long on Halloween. Best holiday...IMO.
Demsrule86
(68,561 posts)MontanaMama
(23,314 posts)I will say that I find it odd how many kiddos (including mine) who seem to want to dress up as specific character, like Pennywise or Darth Vader. When I was a kid, we dressed up as something more generic - a gypsy, a witch, a belly dancer...we made our costumes too. My child would NEVER consider making a costume. He's a nightmare that way. It has to be an exact representation of whatever the thing is.
LoveMyCali
(2,015 posts)and I AM a belly dancer. I think everyone just needs to calm down, it's just Halloween. BTW, I'm going to be a belly dancing witch this year.
MontanaMama
(23,314 posts)You're a real belly dancer?? I've been fascinated with your craft for forever. Very cool, IMO. A belly dancing witch should be especially delicious!!! Yay belly dancers and yay witches!!
LoveMyCali
(2,015 posts)Granted no one is going to think I'm a belly dancer that you would see in a James Bond movie. I never even took a class until I was in my 40's but now dance with two troupes and have danced with veils and swords. It's a blast, I love it!
EllieBC
(3,014 posts)Are you not allowed to be one???
I too am fascinated with it. I lack the confidence to take classes though.
LoveMyCali
(2,015 posts)but belly dancing was started by women for women partially to help make child birth easier, it's great for strengthening your core. There are also so many styles now, I have one teacher that likes to stick to Egyptian style and another who likes Tribal Fusion which has a little bit of everything even hip hop thrown in. The only time I mind when people comment on me being a belly dancer is when they confuse belly dancers with strippers. Not the same thing at all.
I started out with a community group and never had any intention of dancing in public but our little community group started dancing at fundraisers for cancer awareness like Making Strides for Cancer and Relay for Life. Now I also dance with a performance group and have danced in a theater of over 300 people and also at the state fair.
Belly dancing does wonders as far as improving your confidence and body image. There's so much camaraderie among dancers even from different troupes. I used to say I belly dance, now I say I'm a belly dancer. Give it a try, I bet you'll love it.
ProfessorGAC
(65,013 posts)One year i dressed as a very rich Arab sheik. Probably wouldn't be cool today.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Halloween was fun in those days.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)but there are always those that are trying to rile things up. Some of it justified, a lot of it not.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)I guess grinches come around for all the holidays now, not just Christmas lol!
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Smh.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)Even made my own bow & arrow
Texasgal
(17,045 posts)as a child I dressed up like a Geisha! I loved that costume and won the neighborhood costume contest... My Mom and I put hours and hours into that costume.. I was a kid that enjoyed dressing up for halloween. Not a racist.
Buns_of_Fire
(17,175 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)In terms of box office.
Orrex
(63,208 posts)I have a friend whose young son loves the Wicked Witch of the West and is dressing as her for Halloween, complete with green face. Maybe he shouldn't be allowed, because he's a privileged male?
Hekate
(90,674 posts)...and I'm sure not going to be the killjoy who says she shouldn't dress up as Moana on Halloween if that's what she wants.
grossproffit
(5,591 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)Seems like a reasonable point.
Loki Liesmith
(4,602 posts)And no one owns a culture.
Response to Loki Liesmith (Reply #12)
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whistler162
(11,155 posts)petronius
(26,602 posts)of a five year old. But I promise, just as soon as I've dealt with all the moms and little girls, I'll definitely settle that dude's hash...
grossproffit
(5,591 posts)There's a difference.
Orrex
(63,208 posts)These aren't idiot racist fuckhead frat or sorority assholes donning blackface for hell week.
These are children loving a character.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)This is as stupid as insisting Santa Claus is white.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)... as simply dressing up as just a generic member of a culture.
If young people admire Moana, then why not dress like her?
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Demsrule86
(68,561 posts)Disney princess. It gives me hope for the next generation.
grossproffit
(5,591 posts)Demsrule86
(68,561 posts)out of college so I guess patience is in order...that and maybe a marriage hah. But I have had a request to make a costume so I watched the movie...very cute. And I am making the costume...this little one lives in Georgia by the way.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)bearsfootball516
(6,377 posts)If your kid wants to be Moana for Halloween, then they can be Moana.
Blue_true
(31,261 posts)I respect people's culture, but if a kid wants to dress up as another race or ethnic group because the kid admire things about the culture that he or she wants to dress up as, I see positives in that and a chance for teaching moments.
Dorian Gray
(13,493 posts)But Is it racist to dress as a princess without changing your skin color? I mean, kids LOVE moana. They don't understand racism. Isn't it a little racist NOT to dress as her because she's not a white princess?
We went on a disney cruise, and my daughter wore her Tiana nightgown to Tiana's place for dinner. No, she never in a million years considered changing her skin color to look like Tiana. But she LOVES Tiana. And she wanted to wear her dress. But that nightgown looks like a dress. It's not costumey.
So is dressing as Moana worse? Or did I make a mistake in allowing my daughter to wear the Tiana dress?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Dorian Gray
(13,493 posts)It makes me think, of course.
But let me say the following (which maybe a bit long winded, but it's a real question. I want to think this through out loud.)
When Frozen was all the rage, hundreds of kids descended upon my neighborhood dressed as anna and elsa for halloween. I live in Brooklyn, so there is a mixed ethnic background in my neighborhood. Plenty of little Elsa's were not caucasian. She spoke to people of other backgrounds. Southeast Asian/African American/etc kids wore the dresses. On Halloween or just on a regular day because they loved her.
Wouldn't it be empowering for a culture to see that Tiana or Moana were beloved amongst the entire population as Elsa was? That kids everywhere want to emulate them and love them?
Or is that completely wrong thinking. We should leave them for Hawaiian or African American girls to emulate?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I do understand where you are coming from.
I think it would be good to hear from someone from that culture to get a sense of their perspective on the subject.
Of course there will be a multitude of different opinions, but it's worth exploring the question.
Dorian Gray
(13,493 posts)I would love to hear from people of Pacific Islander background about Moana costumes and what they think about little kids of all background embracing it for halloween.
treestar
(82,383 posts)"make fun" of those cultures. Which is a sad place to be coming from, especially when you are talking about little girls.
A lack of self esteem. Instead of being proud of the culture, and that people outside it are interested. And it is teaching the white kid that they are to be excluded from that culture, which could have the effect of teaching the white kid that in turn, their white culture is to exclude the nonwhite people.
These are just kids and they can't figure out "cultural appropriation" (a ridiculous thing to attempt to ban, as it happens constantly and always has). And they have no intent to "make fun" of the other culture.
Dorian Gray
(13,493 posts)too, but I also wanted to invite conversation about whether I wasn't seeing the full picture.
snooper2
(30,151 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)Although chief might no longer be an appropriate term.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)Origin
Middle English: from Old French chief, chef, based on Latin caput head.
chief (adj.)
c. 1300, "highest in rank or power; most important or prominent; supreme, best," from Old French chief "chief, principal, first" (10c., Modern French chef), from Vulgar Latin *capum (also source of Spanish and Portuguese cabo, Italian capo, Provençal cap), from Latin caput "head," also "leader, guide, chief person; summit; capital city" (from PIE root *kaput- "head" .
chief (n.)
c. 1300, "head, leader, captain; the principal or most important part of anything;" from Old French chief "leader, ruler, head" of something, "capital city" (10c., Modern French chef), from Vulgar Latin *capum, from Latin caput "head," also "leader, chief person; summit; capital city" (from PIE root *kaput- "head" . Meaning "head of a clan" is from 1570s; later extended to American Indian tribes. Commander-in-chief attested from 1660s.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Given the nature of the article.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)of color -- to the extent of wanting to BE them -- the fewer racist assholes there will be in the future.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)Look it up please.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)At least in the initial version.
Brown skin is not a costume: Disney takes heat for Moana Halloween costume
Over the weekend, Disney did something it often does: It released a new Halloween costume on its online store.
But, unlike its Buzz Lightyear spacesuit, Elsa princess gown or Mickey Mouse bodysuit, this costume depicted actual skin brown skin covered in tribal tattoos, to be specific.
The costume is that of Maui, a demigod in Polynesian mythology who has been animated and voiced by Dwayne The Rock Johnson as a character in Disneys upcoming Moana. Although Disney has featured brown-skinned people in its films before Pocahontas comes to mind it has not released a costume in which said brown skin itself is depicted as part of the outfit.
The costumes description reads, Your little one will set off on adventures in this Maui Costume featuring the demigods signature tattoos, rope necklace and island-style skirt. Plus, padded arms and legs for mighty stature!
https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/morning-mix/wp/2016/09/20/brown-skin-is-not-a-costume-disney-takes-heat-for-moana-halloween-costume/?utm_term=.2329b99c7f41
Captain Stern
(2,201 posts)The costume with the brown skin, tattoos, and fake muscles, is a costume of MAUI....a male character in the movie.
The author of the article is objecting to girls dressing as MOANA. The Moana costume never came with any brown skin.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I appreciate the clarification and apologize for the conflation.
alphafemale
(18,497 posts)That is not appropriate.
The tattoos could have been printed on sheer fabric and been fine.
A stretch fabric that was somewhat form fitting would have made those tattoos look great.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)Which is what this article is addressing (in part).
Loki Liesmith
(4,602 posts)A convenient redefinition of racism. Most dont.
tonedevil
(3,022 posts)dominant class.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)And my opinion is just as valid.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I just think that the argument made by the article is with respect to white people, not non-white people.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)I don't see how admiring a character of another culture and wishing to emulate them is appropriation.
I mean, we are not talking about girls (or boys for that matter) dressing up as "hula girls," which would be appropriation in my view. We're talking about a specific character.
If white people are told they can never identify with non-white characters, how does that advance the goal of countering white supremacy?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I appreciate you sharing them. A lot to consider, to be sure.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Excellent point.
treestar
(82,383 posts)and you have the makings of advancement.
whathehell
(29,067 posts)Does that mean we should discourage boys and men from wearing drag or any "girl" costume,?...Intersectionality -- You could go on endlessly.
phylny
(8,380 posts)can portray George Washington on Broadway (not to mention people of color portraying Alexander Hamilton, James Monroe, and Thomas Jefferson - edited to add, I saw the show and having people of color portray the founding fathers and mothers is a very GOOD thing, I think), if my white child was so excited about a costume that they didn't see they were the "wrong" color for the character, I'd consider it a success. Not, "No, I can't be Tiana, I'm white!" but "Look, I'm TIANA!"
obamanut2012
(26,071 posts)It is a celebration that a child wants to portray a brave, resourceful girl with a realistic body shape, who is from a now-marginalized group. Maori leaders and academics are loving this! All main characters are either Maori or other Pacific Islander heritage. There is a 100% Maori version of teh audio and soundtrack. Kids are becoming interested in Maori culture because of Moana, ESPECIALLY KIDS WITH MAORI HERITAGE.
Moana is a Disney Princess, but is so much more than that, just like Wonder Woman. She is a role model.
This is all so ridiculous.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)The idea that a white person is wearing as a Halloween costume something that is culturally meaningful to a non-white person?
obamanut2012
(26,071 posts)The reality is literally THE EXACT OPPOSITE OF THE STUPID ARTICLE.
This is a good thing, for white children to ID with POC and non-white cultures.
Adrahil
(13,340 posts)Appropriation isn't just about wearing culturally meaningful symbols or clothing, or whatever. Appropriation is about CLAIMING those things and imbuing them with a meaning that serves the appropriating culture.
Admiring a character from another culture and dressing as them is not appropriation, in general.
phylny
(8,380 posts)I can see how someone would feel insulted by Rachel Dolezal, the woman who was white but pretended to be African American. That's insulting. I can see how it would be insulting for someone to mock a culture or race. But little kids pretending to be a Disney character because they love them is as innocuous as a white kid wearing a LeBron James jersey. They admire someone/something and it makes them happy to wear it/pretend.
mainer
(12,022 posts)I'm Asian and as a kid, I dressed up as Lt. Uhura because I loved her on Star Trek. Imagine that, admiring a non-white character so much you want to be just like her.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I thought the article raised interesting points, but I see that most folks here don't agree. I am not sure how I feel about the issue. I just found the situation worth considering.
I think kids dressing up as who ever they want is a good thing, makes it less of an issue.
Now, the costume with the actual skin and tattoos, that's kinda weird. But the grass skirt, I can't see that as an issue.
Bettie
(16,104 posts)went with the large fake muscles as few seven year olds would have the physique (or the tattoos) of the character.
A lot of kids' costumes are full body suits these days and made to fit tight.
Which reminds me that instead of fooling around on the internets, I should be making the clone trooper costume my youngest boy (9) wants.
WinkyDink
(51,311 posts)going to make a comeback as a request of the Minority?
We do NOT have to give any credence to even the TERM "cultural insensitivity"!
P. S. David Suchet isn't really Belgian. Lawrence Olivier wasn't a Moor or a Dane. Go ahead; it's a fun game.
obamanut2012
(26,071 posts)Should anyone wear "brownface" to be Maui or Moana? Absolutely not. But, Maori leaders and academics have said this is the best thing for Maori culture/language, etc. ever, even though there was a small blip for Whalerider. All the major characters are at least part Pacific Islander heritage, many, like Rachel House (also in Whalerider), are Maori. They have recorded a complete audio and musical soundtrack in Maori for Moana.
Seeing children dress up to celebrate a brave, resourceful girl (WHO HAS A REALISTIC BODY SHAPE) from a now-marginalized group of people is wonderful, and it's also an educational moment. It makes children -- and adults -- learn more about the Maori than the All Blacks haka.
Ridiculous article, as is your defense of it, although that is no surprise.
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)obamanut2012
(26,071 posts)demmiblue
(36,846 posts)Little girls should be able to dress up as the strong characters who inspire them (sans black/brownface).
Whale Rider is a wonderful movie; I need find my DVD to watch it again!
Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)Well, if you're altering it to be a green martian or a blue avatar alien, that's fine.
obamanut2012
(26,071 posts)And, love seeing Rachel House in so many big movies now (she played Shilo in WR).
oberliner
(58,724 posts)You make some very strong points.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Do you understand the cultural significance of a Puletasi, Taovala, Masi, Tabua, Salusalu, Lei, Valatao, Kiekie? No. OK then dont wear them. Its a slap in the face taking something so deeply loaded with cultural significance, chucking it on your child and letting them run around, jump in mud, and rip it to pieces. Our people have deep spiritual connections (even if they dont understand them all of the time) with our cultural attire. Using it as a dress up costume for a fun party is not OK.
Tatau? Just dont. Dont attempt to draw a Taulima, Pea, Malu or Ta Moko tatau (tattoo). These too have deep cultural significance and are not up for grabs in the world of costume. Tatau have specific meanings dependent on specific patterns and these date back thousands of years to when our ancestors didnt have a written language but had tatau and oral traditions. It is not OK to use something that our ancestors created as your entertainment.
https://thespinoff.co.nz/parenting/01-02-2017/how-to-dress-your-pakeha-child-up-as-maui-or-moana-without-appropriating-pasifika-culture/
sl8
(13,766 posts)Along with explaining a bit about Polynesian culture & cultural appropriation in general, the author gives parents some practical advice for parents helping their kids emulate their favorite movie characters, without disrespecting the culture.
#3 It is OK to dress your child up in an official Disney/Warehouse/K-Mart/any other unofficial knock off Moana or Maui costume minus the face paint, stick-on tattoos, and brown skin coloured bodysuit
...
#4 Do it yourself! Make your own costume and keep it simple
...
So I think its a good idea to teach your children how to respect different cultures and explain to them that whilst it may only be a store bought costume, it is important to be respectful and understanding of where the costume comes from. You could show them the Pacific on a map or look at some pictures online of traditional Polynesian attire. You could learn how to say hello in different Pacific languages together. Use it as an educational tool while also having fun with it.
Moana and Maui are characters in a Disney movie that our children absolutely adore, so it is only natural that like every other Disney character, they want to dress up as them. It is fine to let them do this minus the body paint, tattoos, brown skin-coloured body suit and legitimate cultural attire.
...
Hekate
(90,674 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)GulfCoast66
(11,949 posts)You saved me a bunch of typing.
Totally agree
Crabby Appleton
(5,231 posts)FSogol
(45,484 posts)so we have plenty of time to scold children and parents about Halloween costumes.
Hekate
(90,674 posts)Buns_of_Fire
(17,175 posts)For Halloween, the safest thing to do is probably to dress up like a zombie. I don't think they have a group representing them yet.
ExciteBike66
(2,357 posts)views of black people (in the context of The Walking Dead, at least).
http://www.theroot.com/a-black-persons-guide-to-the-walking-dead-1819751001
jmowreader
(50,557 posts)It'll be like that episode of South Park where every kid in class dressed as Chewbacca.
Last Friday I took a friend to Goodwill so she could look for stuff to sell in her eBay store, and while waiting I looked at all the little cards they posted around showing how you could transform ordinary items in the store into Halloween costumes, each card featuring two different characters. All the cards had "zombie" as one of the characters. If you owned a special-effects makeup set you could get filthy rich turning people into zombies at $20 a head.
This year I'm going to dress up as an offset printer, which is how I dress every year because I'm always at work on Halloween.
Not Ruth
(3,613 posts)I assume that this character will see some culturally inappropriate cosplay in the future.
http://entertainment.inquirer.net/247009/daniel-dae-kim-takes-whitewashed-role
Orrex
(63,208 posts)He's a very handsome fellow.
Not Ruth
(3,613 posts)They are using 6 members of the original London cast.....including WOC Hermione!
Apparently Hermione was very brown in the books and Emma Watson went Trump on her.
Cultural misappropriation is everywhere.
https://scifi.stackexchange.com/questions/105467/what-is-hermione-grangers-ethnicity
Orrex
(63,208 posts)Rowling has made a number of interesting but inconclusive statements about Hermione's ethnicity, but the books don't explicitly confirm it one way or the other. If JKR is satisfied with the casting of Emma Roberts in the films, then the discussion is over.
Beyond that, I'm not sure that casting a white actress in the role of an ambiguously described "very brown" character really qualifies as "cultural misappropriation." There are far better examples to cite in support of such claims.
crazycatlady
(4,492 posts)Orrex
(63,208 posts)You're right, of course. Apologies to Ms. Watson.
I blame American Horror Story.
Hekate
(90,674 posts)...was an unruly mass of "bushy" brown hair. I had that when I was an adolescent, too, and I am of Irish descent. Nothing in the way of clues about race.
One of Rowling's gifts as a writer and as a human being is how she encourages readers to have a fluidity of interpretation of her characters. She encourages her readers to see themselves in the story. She does not tell all she knows, or saves it for the opportune time. Who knew Albus Dumbledore was gay? Until Jo Rowling mentioned it.
When the play came out and she was questioned about the casting, her response was why shouldn't there be a black Hermione?
If all you know about the text of the original books is something someone told you, I suggest you read at least the first one. Harry has coarse black hair and bright green eyes. Ron, like all the Weasleys, has bright red hair and freckles.
I recently read a very interesting and thoughtful essay on Mugglenet, in which a Potter fan with an Indian name talked about the sheer joy and sense of liberation he was feeling at some of the fanfic and fan illustrations depicting Harry as biracial, Indian and English. The fans were reading themselves into the story. Who knows? Jo Rowling isn't saying.
Hekate
(90,674 posts)Just what the hell kind of statement is that?
You have not read the books. Apparently you have not seen the movies either. So let me clue you in: the young people in the Harry Potter movies were children when they started. They were all about 10 or 11 years old, for gods' sake.
What does that even mean to say that the 11 year old Emma Watson "went all Trump"?
Kee-rist
Not Ruth
(3,613 posts)Much like Moana
Hekate
(90,674 posts)One rides a broomstick and uses a wand, and the other sasses back to a demigod. As far as I'm concerned they are both role models for all little girls, as they are both smart, very brave, and unstoppable, and neither of them is artificially physically perfect or skinny.
You are ruth-less in pursuing this nonsense through the lens of racial grievance. Just read the book and get back to us with your critique of the student body of Hogwarts (Spoiler alert: like modern London, it reflects the peoples of the former Empire). Get back to us when you find something to be outraged about. I'm sure you'll find something.
RelativelyJones
(898 posts)Please explain...
Not Ruth
(3,613 posts)RelativelyJones
(898 posts)Jose Garcia
(2,595 posts)There were a lot of little girls dressed as Anna and Elsa from the movie Frozen. Many of these little girls were not white.
How about we let little girls be little girls?
tymorial
(3,433 posts)This type of shit just feeds the alt-right. So apparently all of those kids who dressed as Jasmine (for fucking years) were being racially insensitive? Give me a god damned break.
obamanut2012
(26,071 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)If so, do you find anything about that film to be offensive?
B2G
(9,766 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)I remember there being some protest from Arab-American groups.
X_Digger
(18,585 posts)Blue_Adept
(6,399 posts)some nuggets that should be talked about but the vast majority is a mountain of bullshit
Nonhlanhla
(2,074 posts)This isn't the same as blackface, which was clearly aimed at ridiculing people of color. If a child loved the Moana movie (it was a fun movie - we went to see it with our DD), and wants to dress like her, let them. Isn't it great if kids can see that not all princesses are white, and that non-Western dress isn't the only way to dress up and look nice?
My DD plays with black and Latina dolls too - is that also not allowed? Ironically, I've made a point of including darker-skinned dolls in her doll collection, specifically because I want her to see beauty in all its variety, and doll play is a good start for that. Same with dress-up.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)But I think your dissenting view is also a valid one.
I appreciate all the thoughtful comments from DUers about this topic on this thread.
Proud Liberal Dem
(24,412 posts)Kids have always been dressing up in all kinds of costumes ever since Halloween became an annual tradition and I don't understand why dressing up as a particular character from a Disney movie whom happens to be Polynesian counts as being racist? I hope that I'm not being racially/culturally insensitive about this, but I don't get it how/why some people are digging this hard into costuming decisions. Elsa is "white privilege"?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)There have been a number of issues related to culturally insensitive Halloween costumes - at schools, in particular.
B2G
(9,766 posts)Can't dress up as a white Disney princess I suppose.
I just lost 20 IQ points reading this tripe. I feel sorry for the author's kids.
This nonsense is why people laugh at our party.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)It specifically and exclusively addresses white people, who, by definition, have white privilege. Not girls of color.
Coventina
(27,115 posts)The Fey are pretty pissed over that cultural appropriation as well!
And you really don't want the Fey pissed at you!
FSogol
(45,484 posts)samnsara
(17,622 posts).....or a porn star.....
petronius
(26,602 posts)Thor_MN
(11,843 posts)I'd say let's just get rid of Holidays, but corporations would love to ditch any days off with pay.
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Obviously, people are free to do whatever they want, but it might at least get folks thinking about how such a costume could be problematic. Then they can make their decision accordingly.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Who is they involved in their decision, if a little girl wants to dress up as a character she admires.
Or is the point to start them young to understand that as girls, they have no autonomy, and their personal choices in something as designed to be for their amusement must be subject to veto by someone elses ideology?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Since the young children, as you point out, don't really have the wherewithal to purchase their own costumes (or make one without outside assistance).
TlalocW
(15,381 posts)That they're wanting to emulate the Moana character, who is has many admirable qualities.
And I know I'm speaking from White privilege, but when you see it go the opposite way (kids of color wanting to be Elsa), it's because they admire the character. White kids should be able to (and just should) admire characters of color.
Two of my favorite costumes for Halloween as a kid was Zorro, who I understood was Mexican, and Groucho Marx, who I knew was Jewish (I was a big fan of the Marx Brothers as a kid so I had read about them). They were chosen because I admired the characters... and my mom was tired of my going as Batman every year.
This shouldn't be our War on Halloween. Our War should be fought against those who insist on having Harvest Parties and Fall Festivals. Those religious zealots who will bother you while you're in your garage about their church having one of these that will consist of costumes, treat, games, hayrides, bonfires, etc. but they refuse to call it Halloween! I say enough! Who's with me?
TlalocW
oberliner
(58,724 posts)Who understand things that the kids do not.
It doesn't have to be a war, but I think there are some legitimate points to consider.
cwydro
(51,308 posts)Is that ok?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)And other folks have a right to express why they find a particular costume to be insensitive. It seems like a worthwhile discussion at least to have. Take a moment to consider the other point of view, if even just to dismiss it, and then do whatever you feel is right. That would be my humble advice.
SharonClark
(10,014 posts)X_Digger
(18,585 posts)Thank you!
grossproffit
(5,591 posts)cwydro
(51,308 posts)Too funny!
treestar
(82,383 posts)that can't go dressed as Moana?
Coventina
(27,115 posts)Shortened from "All Hallows Eve," referring to the night before All Saints' Day.
If you really want to go pagan, you call it Samhain.
TlalocW
(15,381 posts)Asking them why they don't just call it Halloween, explaining the basic etymology of the word, and its Christian roots ad saying that it's not an evil, magical word. They actually misunderstood me when I first asked why they weren't calling it Halloween by proudly stating, "That's right, sir. We would never call it, 'Halloween.'" as if I were praising their stupidity.
What's fun is I'm a balloon twister/magician, normally for kids parties, festivals, etc. More twisting than magic, and I got my start when I lived in super-religious Tulsa. Around this time of year, I would be getting a lot of calls from churches to entertain at Harvest Parties, Fall Festivals, etc. A normal conversation would go like this:
Client: We were wondering if you had any availability to come to our church's Fall Festival on the 28th.
Me: Oh, I love Halloween parties. Let me check.
Client: Fall Festival.
Me: So what else are you planning on having at your Halloween party other than a balloon twister?
Client: Fall Festival. Oh, face-painting, we'll do trunk-or-treat in the parking lot, games, costume contests.
Me: Sounds like fun. Aaaaand, it looks like I am available on the date of your Halloween party.
Client: Fall Festival. Great, how do I book you?
Me: Just give me an address and a time you want me there, and you've booked me for your Fall Festival.
Client: Fall F.... *pause* Oh, okay. It's at...
I estimate doing that five or six times every year, and always getting them to start to say, "Fall Festival," that last time.
TlalocW
Coventina
(27,115 posts)You're my hero!
Mosby
(16,306 posts)oberliner
(58,724 posts)Unless I am missing something.
The article specifically says that singing the songs is not a problem at all.
Mosby
(16,306 posts)The whole thing is stupid and if anything, the author is reinforcing stereotypes.
JCanete
(5,272 posts)of objectification and discarding of the people underneath, to say nothing of the profiting on the marketable aspects of those cultures, music, etc. which amounted often enough to outright thievery. that has left some deep scars.
That said, I wonder if this keeps us at arms length of each other. People adopt affects and speech patterns, etc. when they converse with one another. Getting into the other person's skin is a builder of empathy. If we constantly need to remind white people that they are not that other person and that they should not adopt any of their culture because that is appropriating, then aren't we reinforcing the otherness that white culture has itself reinforced for centuries? Aren't we keeping that rift from ever closing?
Sen. Walter Sobchak
(8,692 posts)They would be damaged for life.
Although whether they would have been more scarred by the six women from a bank who attended together as "Trump's Cabinet" and appropriated the likeness of Eastern European prostitutes and each described themselves as the "Secretary of (a different sex act)" or a black Canadian man who appropriated the likeness of John Bull and was being followed around all night by a white woman dressed as Angela Merkel dressed as the grim reaper.
EllieBC
(3,014 posts)Is a popular pastime. Here in Canada there's a healthy mix of the obscene and the pearl clutching. The US seems to be all about the pearls.
romanic
(2,841 posts)Aka its just as crazy and stupid of an issue cooked up for political brownie points. You reap what you sow I guess.
WinstonSmith00
(228 posts)Is that culturally insentive or is it okay because MJs skin was white?
I teach my kids to be color blind. Skin color is only skin deep and only the concern of superficial people and if my daughter wanted to be Moana she would be.
The PC culture is becoming racist itself by limiting the possibilities for others based on the color of ones skin.
Squinch
(50,949 posts)Hekate
(90,674 posts)...to be sure. No one in their right mind would wear blackface and go as Aunt Jemima, and good riddance to that, say I. My uncles used to commit minor acts of vandalism (Trick or Treat!) tipping over outhouses and at least one Model T Ford. We don't laugh that off as boyish hijinks any more, do we?
However, my late sister in law Patty used to lead her girls on excursions to TP selected houses. Jack-O-Lanterns on my street routinely get rolled downhill by older kids after the littles have gone home.
Disney Princesses, some have argued, are already bleached-out representations/ stereotypes of womanhood and girlhood. Little girls of all ethnicities really, really want to be "princesses" and ride sparkleponies. For gods' sake. They're under 10. They need to role-play, and if imagining themselves as a different ethnicity at least leaves a trace that opens them, a few years hence, to try to see the world a different way...
As for Moana and Maui, as a mythologist and kama'aina I watched the movie with just a bit of gritted teeth, but tried to take it for the entertainment it is. The kids adored it, here in California, and my niece wanted a Moana doll for her birthday -- I got the last one at the mall.
Maui is a demigod, and Trickster -- not a complete buffoon, really. Iz wrote a song about him callling Maui the Hawaiian Supahman. He's a culture hero across Polynesia. The marks on his skin are Polynesian tattoos, and a costume that replicates those is hardly racist. From my seat they looked authentic enough, but I don't have a picture in front of me. As for Moana, points to Disney for giving her a somewhat authentic body-type, and making her a spunky girl.
I do not know what is going on with a site that calls itself raceconscious.org -- are they by any chance the same people that tried to tell all of us we can't wear hoop earrings unless we are Latina? Because of cultural appropriation?
lunamagica
(9,967 posts)Isn't that a good thing?
Hekate
(90,674 posts)smdh
Doreen
(11,686 posts)Let the kids dress up as their hero. The kids do not give a crap whether their hero is one color or the next. They are going to see the adults freak out about this and that will be when the children start to question right or wrong of different color. This is children's holiday just let them be and dress the way they want. It is not time to be dragging them into our shitty adult problems. It could be worse you know, they could be dressing up as trump.
elehhhhna
(32,076 posts)because that would be white face? Hmmm. Hope not.
Personally, the whole Princess Disney thing is lost on me our daughters, the youngest of whom looks exactly like Ariel the mermaid - without the tail, obviously - insisted on being Dracula, big muscle guy Superman Batman, the good witch and Dorothy from the Wizard of Oz, the Blue's Clues guy, a male trucker, a male cop, Winnie the Pooh... the random list goes on and on and on. we always let the brats make their own decisions and trust me, those decisions were made on a whim based on whatever they were enthralled with at the moment.
And why hasn't anybody mentioned that the closest thing to an African princess the Disney has ever produced is probably Nala from the Lion King. Like, "Okay, whew, we covered Africa. Next?" * Oops, forgot the black princess Tiana, featured in a 2009 film , the Princess and the Frog. Get this when she kissed him he turned into a white guy prince . I am not making this up. They did not promote this film and it was awful. Good lord Disney's backwards and poisonous.
So, to wrap up this rant, when it comes to young children and Halloween costumes I think intent is critical. We can't enjoy, understand, and appreciate (celebrate?) our differences if we can't LOVE THE COOL DIFFERENT STUFF about each other. Cultural appropriation is often an expression of flattery. It's also a scientific fact of human
P.S. the whole "white women are are appropriating wigs from black women" kerfuffle is gonna get very real when Greek women hear about it. Unless we only go back to the modern era (A.D. vs. B.C.), then the British women get to come in with a claim. European MEN have an even older claim!
Bottom line, it's evolution . If you love something about another culture and want to adopt it, is that a terrible thing?
stevenleser
(32,886 posts)I am half Latino. Is that enough for my daughter to avoid the cultural appropriation charge?
When you start thinking of things that way and realize these are children this whole thing sounds silly.
As a multi-ethnic, multi-racial and multi-religioned (background) person, the whole idea of cultural appropriation seems pretty weak in terms of the arguments for it.
BainsBane
(53,032 posts)FFS.
The cultural appropriation in question is of Disney. We live in Trump's America, with White supremacists and Nazi defenders in the White House. Hate crimes are rampant, and DOJ is working to strip away civil rights. Disney characters don't rate in that list of horrors. This is the kind of shit the right touts to stoke the culture wars. I have no doubt that's why the NYPost published it, and it doubtless is making the right wing media circuit.
Hekate
(90,674 posts)JHan
(10,173 posts)Just the thing to get some people's blood boiling.
treestar
(82,383 posts)even Disney is OK - they are trying to include, not make fun of, the nonwhite people with these characters.
nini
(16,672 posts)Theyd be thrilled that litlle girls would want to pretend for one day to be Moana. This notion that its rcist is odd. Sharing culture is important, especially these days.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)Why isn't it a good thing for ALL children if dolls and Disney characters come in all colors? How can it be a bad thing if white children love a brown skinned character or a black doll?
oberliner
(58,724 posts)I do appreciate reading all the feedback from folks here. Many have made very good points. I am not sure how I feel about the whole thing at this point. I thought the article had raised some points that were worth considering, and I still do feel that way, but the counterpoints are also strong.
RelativelyJones
(898 posts)LostOne4Ever
(9,288 posts)BainsBane
(53,032 posts)It's an idiotic article intended to stoke the RW culture wars.
RelativelyJones
(898 posts)against real racism.
mainer
(12,022 posts)It would mean that heroines of color have become role models for everyone.
pnwmom
(108,977 posts)how can that be a bad thing?
Oneironaut
(5,494 posts)costumes!
Fix The Stupid
(948 posts)or someone paid to disrupt the US and divide them even further...
This is exactly the OP I would post...
Just sayin'