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Liberal_in_LA

(44,397 posts)
Tue Jun 21, 2016, 09:49 PM Jun 2016

After son says his surgery scar made him feel like a monster, dad gets matching tattoo scar



A father has gone to extraordinary lengths to show his love and support for his sick young son by getting a tattoo on his head matching a scar the boy bears from brain surgery.
Gabriel Marshall of Kansas, eight, was diagnosed last year with an anaplastic astrocytoma, a type of malignant brain tumor, the treatment for which was surgery.
While the surgery didn't get all of the tumor out, it has been nine months since he stopped treatment and is currently stable.


However, after the surgery, Gabriel's father Josh, 28, became concerned about how the scar left behind on his son's head from the surgery was affecting his self-confidence.
In fact, the little boy told his dad that he felt like a 'monster' with the scar. A fact that simply broke his father's heart.
So, to help his son feel normal, Josh came up with the idea of getting a tattoo on his head to look identical to his son's cancer scar.
'I told him if people wanted to stare, they could stare at both of us,' the doting dad told BuzzFeed.
The moving gesture came to wide attention after Josh entered the St. Baldrick’s Foundation’s #BestBaldDad competition in honor of Father's Day.


Read more: http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-3651435/Touching-photo-father-s-tattoo-matches-huge-scar-young-son-bears-brain-cancer-surgery.html#ixzz4CGj18SAY
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After son says his surgery scar made him feel like a monster, dad gets matching tattoo scar (Original Post) Liberal_in_LA Jun 2016 OP
Okay. sheshe2 Jun 2016 #1
^^^^^^^^^ fantase56 Jun 2016 #5
INDEED. Welcome to DU. calimary Jun 2016 #17
I have a similar scar elljay Jun 2016 #2
A healing act of solidarity Equinox Moon Jun 2016 #3
Beautiful dad! avaistheone1 Jun 2016 #4
That is parenting done right. LonePirate Jun 2016 #6
+1 Baitball Blogger Jun 2016 #16
There needs to be more guys like this dude in the world. PoliticalMalcontent Jun 2016 #7
Now, that's a dad! eom Festivito Jun 2016 #8
My eyes are leaking AwakeAtLast Jun 2016 #9
Mine too. ffr Jun 2016 #19
Yep. But, I'm smiling too for both those guys. Hoyt Jun 2016 #26
Great Dad! Egnever Jun 2016 #10
That is a good pops. nt MADem Jun 2016 #11
All this pollen in the air making my eyes water! EllieBC Jun 2016 #12
Can't help but tear up at this xfundy Jun 2016 #13
I think I got some dust stuck under my contact lens Aerows Jun 2016 #14
What a cool Dad! chervilant Jun 2016 #15
He's doing it RIGHT! Iggo Jun 2016 #18
I have always been told that I have the perfect head to be bald. Dustlawyer Jun 2016 #20
Josh - udaman NoMoreRepugs Jun 2016 #21
Anyone want any onions? bigwillq Jun 2016 #22
apparently OriginalGeek Jun 2016 #24
Good dad Angry Dragon Jun 2016 #23
Wow Soxfan58 Jun 2016 #25

sheshe2

(83,934 posts)
1. Okay.
Tue Jun 21, 2016, 10:05 PM
Jun 2016

I think I will cry here.

My youngest niece, fell and had to have surgery at age 2. Her head was shaved and she had a huge scar and droopy eye. People stared and made her cry. It is okay, it is love that surrounds you that makes the difference. Gabriel's dad Josh did good.

Love.

elljay

(1,178 posts)
2. I have a similar scar
Tue Jun 21, 2016, 10:12 PM
Jun 2016

from having a tumor removed and I walked around for weeks with a partially shaved head, a large swelling, and visible staples. Got lots of stares- people can really be jerks. Being older, it didn't bother me at all but I can certainly see how it might affect a child. Great dad!

7. There needs to be more guys like this dude in the world.
Tue Jun 21, 2016, 10:34 PM
Jun 2016

I'm sure he's going to get some shit for it somewhere down the line. People often assume things without asking questions. That's such an amazing bond he's going to have with his kid though.

Wish the kid the best of luck too.

Dustlawyer

(10,497 posts)
20. I have always been told that I have the perfect head to be bald.
Wed Jun 22, 2016, 12:34 PM
Jun 2016

I must concede immediately that I am not even close to this dad's coolness!!! My vote for 2nd best bald head goes to this dad, right behind his son's who is #1!!!

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