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We put my foster dad in hospice care this afternoon (Original Post) gopiscrap Dec 2014 OP
I am so sorry. riverbendviewgal Dec 2014 #1
I am so sorry. I hope he does too! peace13 Dec 2014 #2
I've had two relatives in hospice in recent years. JEFF9K Dec 2014 #3
If he does, you know he will be as comfortable as possible Warpy Dec 2014 #4
Thanks good to know! gopiscrap Dec 2014 #6
All the VERY best wishes to you and yours Bigmack Dec 2014 #5
best wishes to you and your dad Liberal_in_LA Dec 2014 #7
I'm so sorry to hear this sharp_stick Dec 2014 #8
I'm so very sorry. ColesCountyDem Dec 2014 #9
My mom went into hospice care last month project_bluebook Dec 2014 #10
My heart is with you gopiscrap. sheshe2 Dec 2014 #11
I'm so sorry to hear that and for all the DUers who have lost loved ones BrotherIvan Dec 2014 #12
very hard but very good decision oldandhappy Dec 2014 #13
I am so sorry blondie58 Dec 2014 #14
I am so very sorry, and I wish you peace. nt msanthrope Dec 2014 #15
So sorry to hear this. When I put 840high Dec 2014 #16
Sorry to hear about your dad. Hospice is one of the best organizations we have in this country and jwirr Dec 2014 #17

riverbendviewgal

(4,252 posts)
1. I am so sorry.
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 09:50 PM
Dec 2014

My son and husband were in hospices too. The people who work there are so wonderful. I hope your wish come true.

 

peace13

(11,076 posts)
2. I am so sorry. I hope he does too!
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 09:51 PM
Dec 2014

He will be in good hands with Hospice. I send you love and healing energy. He sounds like a good man!.

JEFF9K

(1,935 posts)
3. I've had two relatives in hospice in recent years.
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 09:51 PM
Dec 2014

Surprisingly, there were some happy moments visiting them.

 

Bigmack

(8,020 posts)
5. All the VERY best wishes to you and yours
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 09:56 PM
Dec 2014

Hospice workers, in my experience, are saints. Your dear father is in good hands.

sharp_stick

(14,400 posts)
8. I'm so sorry to hear this
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 10:00 PM
Dec 2014

the people that work in hospice care are among the best I've ever met, as an atheist I have to say they are truly the only angels I've ever met.

I hope all works out well for you and your family.

 

project_bluebook

(411 posts)
10. My mom went into hospice care last month
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 10:07 PM
Dec 2014

Best wishes to your foster dad and hope he has a restful Christmas. Went through hospice with my dad 3 years ago. They are a very good organization and will make your foster dad as comfortable as possible.

sheshe2

(83,751 posts)
11. My heart is with you gopiscrap.
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 10:09 PM
Dec 2014

My dad and BIL were both in hospice care for a short time, we lost them both before Thanksgiving. Hospice workers are wonderful and dedicated to ease the pain at end of life and they do it with respect to the patient. They also offer grief counseling to loved ones left behind.

Hugs and love to you and yours and especially your dad.

BrotherIvan

(9,126 posts)
12. I'm so sorry to hear that and for all the DUers who have lost loved ones
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 10:21 PM
Dec 2014

I will echo the fact that hospice care was wonderful for my mother. They truly are angels on this earth and I owe them so much. Ask when you need help, even if it is just talking with a counselor about what you're going through. I know this is a very scary and tough time and I wish you all the love and peace you need during this time.

oldandhappy

(6,719 posts)
13. very hard but very good decision
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 10:58 PM
Dec 2014

Hospice folk are the best. Are you with him? Sending hugs and prayers for all involved.

blondie58

(2,570 posts)
14. I am so sorry
Wed Dec 24, 2014, 11:19 PM
Dec 2014

I just lost my father at hospice on Wednesday. But he lived a good long 81 years and they were all about his comfort at hospice.
They are all about the patients comfort.
Take care and try and visit as often as you can.

 

840high

(17,196 posts)
16. So sorry to hear this. When I put
Thu Dec 25, 2014, 12:35 AM
Dec 2014

my stef-dad in hospice care (he raised me) - at least I knew they made him comfortable. Hugs to you.

jwirr

(39,215 posts)
17. Sorry to hear about your dad. Hospice is one of the best organizations we have in this country and
Thu Dec 25, 2014, 12:38 AM
Dec 2014

when my brother was there it was so comforting to know that the care was actually helping him to rest comfortably and relatively pain free. A pastor who was a regular visitor encouraged us to talk to him and even sing to him because they can often hear what we are saying. The staff agreed and they gave us a lot of time with him to do just that.

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