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Boy disciplined after waving gun-shaped pizza slice
SMYRNA, Tenn. -
For the rest of the semester, a Rutherford County elementary student has to eat lunch at the "silent table" for allegedly waving around a slice of pizza some say resembled a gun.
Nicholas Taylor attends David Youree Elementary School in Smyrna, about 30 miles southeast of Nashville.
School leaders say the 10-year-old threatened other students at his lunch table with a piece of pizza with bites out of it so it looked like a gun and when asked about it was initially not truthful.
Nicholas' mother LeAnn calls her son's punishment "absolutely ridiculous" saying he was just playing around and never said anything derogatory or anything about shooting anyone.
"The kid across the table from him said it looked like a gun so he picked it up and started shooting it in the air," she told Nashville's News 2 Investigates.
http://www.wkrn.com/story/16325409/gun-shaped-pizza-slice
Justice wanted
(2,657 posts)Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)...waving pizza around and pointing it at other kids is just begging for discipline. It's food. Sit down and eat it without getting pizza sauce on the head of the little girl next to you.
LeAnn needs to teach the boy some table manners.
Burgman
(330 posts)Posteritatis
(18,807 posts)proud2BlibKansan
(96,793 posts)Bjorn Against
(12,041 posts)If he were suspended I could understand the outrage a bit more, but the combination of lying, playing with his food, and pretending an object is a gun and pointing it at the other students adds up to something. I don't think the punishment should be too severe, but I don't think the six days at the quiet table he got is unreasonable. While I strongly disagree with schools suspending kids for obviously fake guns, I don't have a problem with schools banning toy or pizza guns as long as the penalties are reasonable and don't interfere with the child's ability to get an education.
Survivoreesta
(221 posts)I remember the time my house was robbed by a Jumbo with pepperoni and bacon!
This is ridiculous!
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)...to be respectful of others.
That's NOT The kid has zero respect and his mother is making excuses for him. What if you found out that this kid had a history of bullying smaller, weaker kids? Would discipline still be "ridiculous"? In my experience, kid's that behave this way have a tendency to be real little pricks with equally prickish parents. But, hey, he's just a kid. Let him off now and worry about it later.
We're all so eager to protect the rights of teachers, but when they discipline a kid, burn them at the stake! Teach the kids that they should lie to their teachers and others in authority. Great start to life. While we're at it, let's laugh when they behave like little neanderthals and let them intimidate others. It's not like he's a teenager...yet.
leftyohiolib
(5,917 posts)better not even get out of bed cause what if... that's right up there with the i-know-a-guy-who stories
Wait Wut
(8,492 posts)We should never think about what consequences our actions bring by saying "what if". We should just act on whatever impulse we feel at the moment. We should never consider what kind of adult our child will become by saying, "what if I let him behave this way now...what will happen when he grows up?"
I've been getting out of bed for 47 years. I don't live in a "what if" world, I'm just smart enough to know that every action has an effect. And, I do "know a guy". He's the son of a woman who planned ahead and didn't excuse him for being a brat so that he could become a conscientious, compassionate and polite adult.
Enrique
(27,461 posts)the punishment is just that he has to eat at a different table.
Tunkamerica
(4,444 posts)to a kid, hell to some adults, that would be a pretty harsh sentence.
Enrique
(27,461 posts)the rest of the semester, six days at the freaking silent table. And the mother alerts the media.
He continued, "The student didn't tell him the truth about it so he got silent lunch for six days."
Tunkamerica
(4,444 posts)def. not news.
LiberalAndProud
(12,799 posts)If for the rest of the year, this would be way over bounds, but the likelihood is that the semester ends at Christmas break, or soon thereafter. This may be too harsh as well, but it is best not to exaggerate.
Tunkamerica
(4,444 posts)the end of the year is next week. And I wasn't exaggerating. I misread.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)This is grade school. The marking period ends on Friday, which is itself probably a half day.
Tunkamerica
(4,444 posts)what's your point?
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Just that having a kid sit at the quiet table for a couple of days for waving food around at lunch, seems pretty mundane.
Tunkamerica
(4,444 posts)isn't the same as the end of the school year. I was corrected again and I pointed to the above correction and my comment that it wasn't really a big deal then and wasn't news... and now you're saying exactly the same thing as two others and myself.
So... what's your point?
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Posteritatis
(18,807 posts)The Genealogist
(4,723 posts)It was separated from the rest of the table, and the point was to embarrass and shame the child by isolating him or her as much as possible. Even one day spent there was a very shaming, embarrassing experience. It was no little punishment to be ostracized like that.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)The Genealogist
(4,723 posts)but no.
think
(11,641 posts)Matariki
(18,775 posts)are sometimes out of their fucking minds.
He might as well learn that early in life
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)They taught that lesson well!
RevStPatrick
(2,208 posts)I was SO excited to go to school!
The first couple of days were like heaven.
And then I go into trouble.
In the New York City school system, in the 1960's you had to stand in line in size place, and wait until the teacher came to let you into the class.
I was the second kid in line, and I heard footsteps coming down the hall.
It sounded like our teacher's footsteps, and I couldn't wait to get back into class.
She saw me jumping up to see over the kid's head in front of me, and that was it... I was in BIG trouble!
My fuck school/fuck authority attitude began on the 3rd or 4th day kindergarten.
Matariki
(18,775 posts)way to crush the joy of being in school right out of you.
JBoy
(8,021 posts)You can have my pizza gun when you pry it from my cold, dead hands.
McCamy Taylor
(19,240 posts)If he thought the pizza looked like the Shroud of Turin would we make him a saint?
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)...is not a "thought crime".
My friend once made a spaghetti catapult out of his tray and fork, leaving a red mark on the ceiling which lasted for four years.
He didn't get caught.
He's now an attorney with the SEC.
You see what happens?
etherealtruth
(22,165 posts)People can be complete jack asses ... he had to learn sometime.
limpyhobbler
(8,244 posts)I know it might seem to defy common sense at first, and maybe it does, but schools really do have to take a tough stand on these things, because of some things that have happened in the past. Every once in a while that's going to mean something a little strange happens for the sake of being consistent. This discipline says "Hey kids, we don't pretend to shoot each other." If the semester ends in January, that might be a month at the silent table.
Odin2005
(53,521 posts)Should a kid be punished because he goes "bang-bang" with his fingers? I don't think so.
limpyhobbler
(8,244 posts)Say for example if a kid makes his fingers like a gun an points it at another kid's head and goes 'bang bang', I think he should be asked to stop doing that. I'd probably give him a detention or something and call the parents. So I think there is a question of where you draw the line. And this school decided that the pizza-gun kid should be asked to stop, and they gave him a very lenient punishment just to let other kids know that they shouldn't pretend to shoot each other in school. They can pretend to shoot each other after school if they want. I think the teachers and principals have a tough job and sometimes it means making an unpopular decision that seems weird or overkill, but they are erring on the side of caution and sending a clear message that kids shouldn't pretend to shoot each other in school. They can do that after school. Twenty year ago I might have been with you saying that kids should be able to shoot pretend guns at school, but with all that's happened since, I think banning imaginary gunplay at school is reasonable and parents should support teachers and principals in this community effort. If the school wants to have a rifle class or gun safety class, that's cool if the community wants it, and I'm sure they will teach responsible firearm usage in the class.
abelenkpe
(9,933 posts)Politicalboi
(15,189 posts)It is thought crime. When I was in school we had an English teacher who didn't allow gum chewing. And if you got caught, she would have you put the gum on the end of your nose. LOL! We were well aware of the punishment if caught.
The Straight Story
(48,121 posts)DocMac
(1,628 posts)LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)I had to stay 45 minutes after school once for something I didn't do, I didn't realize I should have fought that injustice in the media.
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)These "weird thing happened at some school somewhere" stories seem to be getting undue circulation.
Every day, there are a gazillion disciplinary interventions in a gazillion schools. Every one of them now is potentially national news fodder.
LeftyMom
(49,212 posts)They didn't call the cops, expel the kid for violating the weapons policy, or otherwise do anything "zero tolerance" and stupid. They just have a kid who was being a bit rowdy at the lunch table eating quietly by himself for a pretty short period. I'm not sure how long the remaining days of the semester would be, but I'm thinking that represents at most a few weeks after the break?
jberryhill
(62,444 posts)Odin2005
(53,521 posts)pintobean
(18,101 posts)could put an eye out. All schools should ban pizza guns.
Pepperoni Control Inc.
nadinbrzezinski
(154,021 posts)it's not the three R's...
Quantess
(27,630 posts)Total over-reaction.
L0oniX
(31,493 posts)marasinghe
(1,253 posts)hopefully, the kid won't end up eating his pizza like Trumpelstiltskin.
http://www.thedailyshow.com/watch/wed-june-1-2011/me-lover-s-pizza-with-crazy-broad?xrs=share_copy
LeftishBrit
(41,205 posts)and received a fairly ordinary punishment (as kids sometimes do).
I suspect that the mother is making of it something that it isn't.
If this is taking a 'zero tolerance' gun policy to extremes, then it's ridiculous; but it sounds much more trivial than that: the boy was playing around with food at an age beyond that where this is acceptable table behaviour, and was persistently teasing the other children, and was disciplined in a fairly routine way for it.
ellisonz
(27,711 posts)*with a nod to Herman Cain*