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Shame, Guilt, & Gossip
The felon is a sociopath incapable of feeling shame or guilt, two distinct but closely related human emotions. Hence, we do not anticipate finding any evidence what so ever of these being associated with him. It is no more likely than your pet dog is to speak Latin. What is perhaps more interesting is why those that inhabit the closest levels to him also appear to be immune to shame or guilt.
For sake of conversation, I will focus on both: "shame" -- the feeling that "I am not a good person" -- and "guilt" -- "I did a bad thing." Obviously, the two are related.
Now, I like the systems model of a mobile over an infant's crib. It seeks balance. In the felon's first administration, there were people who, to different extents, resisted the gravitational pull of the felon. They were the pieces of the model that were isolated and removed.
The felon's mobile is modeled on an atom, or solar system in their minds. The felon is the nucleus, with high-level cult members being the electrons. The "shell" prevents shame or guilt from entering. The nucleus demands that the electrons deny he has ever been wrong, and justify his actions by attacking anyone who dares attribute wrong-doing to him. This shell is then surrounded by the cowards we know as the republican party, who are willing to do their best -- or worst -- to deny the shame and guilt they feel for kissing the felon's ass publicly, though not behind closed doors.
Shame and guilt have played an evolutionary role in our species. As such, they have both good and bad potentials. Throughout much of human experience, in traditional societies, they helped build social cohesion. They tended to encourage individuals to avoid behaving in manners that resulted in shame or guilty feelings by breaking with social norms.
It is interesting, at least I think, that the form of communication known as "gossiping" had close relationships with shame and guilt. In the early, extended family systems everyone knew each other and knew what they did. As clans expand to tribal units, gossip served in one of its positive potentials. That is not to imply life was perfect ..... for it involved humans that also have both good and bad potentials.
Even traditional societies produced sociopaths ever so often. In some, the sociopath was shunned, told to leave the community, and to never return. But they didn't tend to become "leaders" until humans reached the level of city-state/nations. In others, the sociopath went out with others to hunt, and never returned.
When nations arose, as documented in Erich Fromm's 1973 classic, "The Anatomy of Human Destructiveness," some of the worst sociopaths would rise to power. There is a general pattern of how they accomplish this detailed in the book. And of course there have been a number of them who never reached that level of power. We might also note that this is associated to the list of infamous cult leaders ..... some in small groups, closer to extended family units resembling clans.
In such an unealthy environment, we frequently find the negative aspects of sham, guilt and gossip rise to the surface. For example, in a healthy society, no woman would experience the shame of being a victim of rape as in our country. No person would feel guilty for being the victim of domestic abuse, as if they were at fault. Now consider the gossip that too often surrounds these types of cases.
In the realm of politics, we see the felon attempting to shame others for simply disagreeing. He accuses his opponents of being guilty of the very things he is does. And his inner circle of electrons parrot those same sick lies, without a pang of shame or guilt. Then the masses participate in the negative forms of gossip, from Fox News to internet forums.
It is, of course, essential that we defeat the felon in November. More, many of us might find entertainment value in defeating the cult members we are exposed to -- maybe relatives, neighbors, co-workers, or even former friends. Even those wearing a felon's hat or shirt in public, or have yard signs or bumper stickers. But it is so important that we beat those around him, including the ass-kisser in the House and Senate.
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I would add that we not only have the sociopath, but also the ACOA (adult child of alcoholics) vp candidate to deal with. It's a really bad combo. Vance is not going to have the self esteem & inner strength to stand up to the Felon the way Pence did. He's going to willingly do whatever he asks. 
