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Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 05:55 PM Apr 9

Men would never tolerate it.

Men would never tolerate restrictions on their sexuality or related medical care.

Men would never tolerate being sent to a hospital parking lot to die.

Men would never tolerate being sent to prison for health care decisions.

Men would never tolerate their doctors being sent to prison for proving medical care to males.

Is this why the GOP targets only females when it comes to reproductive issues.
Men are half the reproductive equation, but women are the targets.

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Men would never tolerate it. (Original Post) Irish_Dem Apr 9 OP
What would men MOMFUDSKI Apr 9 #1
Insurrection. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #3
Would masturbation be allowed in jail? JoseBalow Apr 9 #12
I don't know that is it now. soldierant Apr 9 #33
The way I understand it, you don't want to be on laundry duty on sock day. Orrex Apr 9 #36
Not surprising - but that doesn't mean it's allowed, that means soldierant Apr 9 #38
If masturbation is made illegal, it will only be for females. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #62
Insurrection would be suicide by cop - or the U.S. military. Martin68 Apr 10 #108
No. White males become heroes and get a slap on the wrist. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #109
Only if there is a GOP president. Martin68 Apr 10 #110
No. Courts giving slap on the wrists now. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #111
Are...are you saying women "tolerate" these things? WhiskeyGrinder Apr 9 #2
The subject of my post is the psychosocial aspects of male behavior. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #4
But men *do* tolerate those things. WhiskeyGrinder Apr 9 #7
Would straight white males tolerate sexual control and punishment? Irish_Dem Apr 9 #21
You're eventually have to discuss women subjugation of women. MerryBlooms Apr 9 #44
Many women vote against their own interests intheflow Apr 9 #46
Excellent point. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #61
Some members of a subjugated class will align with the powerful oppressors. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #60
Some women do - and some, like men, revel in the fact they can force their views on other women. Probatim Apr 9 #6
Some members of a subjugated group willingly assist the power structure. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #63
Some people will just do anything for power. hadEnuf Apr 10 #84
Too many men bluescribbler Apr 9 #5
This! Fuck the patriarchy. onecaliberal Apr 9 #27
This is what I think bdamomma Apr 9 #45
And they pretend their no -existent sky wizard is a male. Sky Jewels Apr 10 #49
Males are taught they have a God given right to their sexuality and body. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #64
The first step on the way.... SergeStorms Apr 9 #8
Excellent point. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #65
I would never have to tolerate it Progressive dog Apr 9 #9
But men are half the reproduction equation. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #16
But men aren't ever pregnant Progressive dog Apr 10 #119
Yes I agree. Men should not control women for any reason. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #121
Also the issue is not really about pregnancy or abortion. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #23
Nailed it! This right here FakeNoose Apr 9 #35
Many men are pro-abortion and many women are not. twodogsbarking Apr 9 #10
"Pro-abortion"? marybourg Apr 10 #55
A vital point. Pro-abortion RIGHTS (or, simply, pro-choice) DFW Apr 10 #56
OK. Good greif. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #81
Well, excuuuuse. me. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #80
You've missed the point. Scrivener7 Apr 10 #104
So have you. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #106
Men still have an edge in money and parlay that to the (largely) male political class and bucolic_frolic Apr 9 #11
Thank you. raccoon Apr 9 #20
Yes white straight males targeting an historically subjugated class. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #22
I agree completely. onecaliberal Apr 9 #29
Woman's rights and Obama and religious backlash. lindysalsagal Apr 9 #13
This man doesn't want those restrictions for women either IronLionZion Apr 9 #14
Are you an outlier or the norm? Irish_Dem Apr 10 #72
There should be plenty of male allies on the left IronLionZion Apr 10 #78
Given this thread's points, and the current balances of power, Tetrachloride Apr 9 #15
Excellent question Tetra. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #17
Great topic SARose Apr 9 #25
Good points. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #28
Wondering about how women could pull off a tax revolt Attilatheblond Apr 9 #19
Yes several comments about a strike of some sort. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #30
But men seem to tolerate Hope22 Apr 9 #18
Women need male allies. Irish_Dem Apr 9 #31
I beg the men in my life to write the emails, make the calls! Hope22 Apr 9 #34
I hear you. I just get a nod or a "yeah" when I speak to men in my family Deuxcents Apr 9 #40
My heart goes out to you. Hope22 Apr 10 #54
Males are deeply habituated to female subjugation. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #66
Why do smart, good men do nothing? Irish_Dem Apr 10 #59
Yes women have suffered and sacrificed for our rights! Hope22 Apr 10 #87
Just the right to vote was a very brutal battle. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #98
If roles were reversed and women had all the power Tree Lady Apr 9 #24
I have actually seen women forced into psych care for reasons you describe. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #67
What if women held all the power on the planet? Irish_Dem Apr 10 #70
American women need to wise up dlk Apr 9 #26
"wise up"? Really? Not Heidi Apr 10 #53
How does a subjugated class obtain equal rights? Irish_Dem Apr 10 #68
Yes, too many women are passive about their rights dlk Apr 10 #93
A Hobby Lobby plot twist SARose Apr 9 #32
The religious right cannot convince people to willingly accept their rules. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #69
I think women will show they won't tolerate it either this November. Elessar Zappa Apr 9 #37
Only women?? Sogo Apr 9 #42
I for one, is one of those guys... William Gustafson Apr 9 #47
I for one support a women's choice, and I am a male... William Gustafson Apr 9 #48
No, many men too. Elessar Zappa Apr 10 #50
History tells us that the oppressor class does not rescue the subjugated class. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #71
Your lips to Bob's ears. n/t Not Heidi Apr 10 #51
Republicans offer this... keithbvadu2 Apr 9 #39
The GOP believes attacking subjugated groups will get them elected to office. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #73
era et tu Apr 9 #41
Highly unlikely the male power structure will pass the ERA. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #74
and that is exactly et tu Apr 10 #86
Excellent points. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #97
There is no pregnancy without a sperm donor. Why are the men not responsible for anything here? OMGWTF Apr 9 #43
The point of my OP is that men will never tolerate any sexuality restrictions. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #75
I'm not sure H2O Man Apr 10 #52
They aren't EVEN thinking about that scenario. Sorry to disappoint you, but those thoughts do not register TeamProg Apr 10 #57
And men would never do it, wouldn't even occur to them. betsuni Apr 10 #58
Wonen, not females obamanut2012 Apr 10 #76
You are 100% incorrect. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #77
I don't think we read the same post. It seemed pretty clear to me. Vinca Apr 10 #79
Then you need to educate yourself about the manosphere and the use of female as a noun obamanut2012 Apr 10 #112
I'm more concerned with actions than words. Vinca Apr 11 #124
Sure seems like people want to argue. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #82
....about what? N/t Hope22 Apr 10 #88
Exactly. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #89
Let me clarify... Hope22 Apr 10 #90
Some of the DU crowd seem to want to just disagree. Not a comment about choice. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #91
I am disagreeing with the OP , which I am allowed to do obamanut2012 Apr 10 #113
I wasn't referencing you. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #115
IMO its Christian perversion apnu Apr 10 #83
This this this SARose Apr 10 #92
Religions say women are to blame because men cannot control their sexual urges? Irish_Dem Apr 10 #102
You aren't wrong. apnu Apr 10 #103
Oh yes, the Taliban has made it clear how they see women. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #105
there was a case here in il a while back. a kid needed a transplant. mopinko Apr 10 #85
A most SUPERB and THOUGHT PROVOKING post. ProudMNDemocrat Apr 10 #94
Thanks Proud. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #101
This is proof that regarding the mechanics of starting human pregnancy LastDemocratInSC Apr 10 #95
Yes the recipient is the one who is sent to die or go to jail. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #100
OLD men would never tolerate it HAB911 Apr 10 #96
The old men are the ones sending the kids into battle. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #99
And they sell the honor every chance they get. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #107
no viagra for thee either. AllaN01Bear Apr 10 #114
This is not a male vs. female issue. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #116
The American power structure is mostly male. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #117
All that and more. It is not a male vs. female issue. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #118
Facts are facts. Irish_Dem Apr 10 #120
But this... twodogsbarking Apr 10 #122
Women's rights are totally on the whim of the male power structure. Irish_Dem Apr 11 #125
Men need to rally for the cause. It is their cause too. I am insulted to be included with twodogsbarking Apr 11 #126
It is not male vs female. Face the facts even if painful. twodogsbarking Apr 10 #123

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
62. If masturbation is made illegal, it will only be for females.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:12 AM
Apr 10

Male sexual activities will never be curtailed by the male power structure.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
109. No. White males become heroes and get a slap on the wrist.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 05:15 PM
Apr 10

And get a full pardon by a GOP president.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
4. The subject of my post is the psychosocial aspects of male behavior.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 06:15 PM
Apr 9

As it relates to current political trends.
And how this influences politicians.

Your question is another topic.

WhiskeyGrinder

(22,527 posts)
7. But men *do* tolerate those things.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 06:23 PM
Apr 9

Restrictions on gay sexuality took years to turn back, and only because small groups of vocal, revolutionary fringes protested. Mainstream gay men -- white, well off, possibly closeted or down low -- could afford to not have to fight for it. They definitely tolerated it.

Many men are currently tolerating -- and in fact driving the push for -- restricting IVF care.

Are men as a whole tolerating the current moves on abortion and related reproductive care?

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
21. Would straight white males tolerate sexual control and punishment?
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 07:15 PM
Apr 9

Gay males were a persecuted male subgroup.
Treated like other subjugated groups.
The target of draconian punishment and control.

But that is not the topic I am discussing.

I am talking about straight, Christian males subjugating women.

And would straight white males tolerate being persecuted like women are being persecuted now?

MerryBlooms

(11,777 posts)
44. You're eventually have to discuss women subjugation of women.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 10:33 PM
Apr 9

To me, that's worse, and something I can't wrap my brain around.

intheflow

(28,521 posts)
46. Many women vote against their own interests
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 11:15 PM
Apr 9

because they’ve been groomed to accept male dominance and/or feel trapped by economics if they have kids and a male breadwinner. So many white women just go along to get along, they end up succumbing to the propaganda pressure machine.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
61. Excellent point.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:08 AM
Apr 10

I just posted something similar.

Like all humans, any subjugated class has a Darwinian drive to survive, a deeply ingrained genetic
wiring to ensure the survival of themselves and especially their offspring.

For most of history women have had no rights, no power, no access to money or property.
They were at the mercy of their male family members.

To make sure their children survived, had food, shelter, etc. they had to play along
with the power structure. And they may have bought the story that women were inferior
and not smart enough to manage their own affairs.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
60. Some members of a subjugated class will align with the powerful oppressors.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:03 AM
Apr 10

That is historical fact.
It is not surprising.

People will do what they have to do to survive.
Some people buy the oppressors' propaganda and gaslighting.

Probatim

(2,552 posts)
6. Some women do - and some, like men, revel in the fact they can force their views on other women.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 06:22 PM
Apr 9

Ask my mother-in-law and her daughter. Ask half the women in their church.

They tolerate these things because they "know" they'll never be in these situations. These things only happen to the other. To those they consider undeserving.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
63. Some members of a subjugated group willingly assist the power structure.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:20 AM
Apr 10

They help the oppressors. They may see themselves as special and elevated.
And help the oppressors control and punish others.

bluescribbler

(2,130 posts)
5. Too many men
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 06:20 PM
Apr 9

Too many men want, (need?), to control women. Without that "power", they feel emasculated, diminished, and find that intolerable. And the problem is that too many men grow up believing, even if only subconsciously, that they have the "God Given Right" to control women.

Sky Jewels

(7,203 posts)
49. And they pretend their no -existent sky wizard is a male.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 12:32 AM
Apr 10

Christianity has been a patriarchal cancer on this country.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
64. Males are taught they have a God given right to their sexuality and body.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:23 AM
Apr 10

They are independent and autonomous.

Unlike women who must be controlled and punished.

SergeStorms

(19,208 posts)
8. The first step on the way....
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 06:29 PM
Apr 9

to a total dictatorship is always by demonizing one or more segments of the population. This time, republicans have chosen women, people of color, and immigrants, as amazing as that seems. They're attempting to remove anyone who doesn't look like, think like, or act like them.

The one segment that will always remain untouchable, though, is conservative white men. 🙄

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
65. Excellent point.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:28 AM
Apr 10

It is the exact point I am making here.

The white male power structure has deliberately targeted historically subjugated groups for a reason.
These groups have been habituated to oppression, have only recently been granted hard fought for rights.

Public support is not deeply ingrained as is the case for white male groups.

So these previously oppressed groups make good targets.
The old prejudices and gaslighting are easily enacted.
For the purpose of gaining power and votes for the oppressor class.

Progressive dog

(6,934 posts)
119. But men aren't ever pregnant
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 08:05 PM
Apr 10

that I know of. We risk a lot less. We should be out of the control loop except as much as our partner allows.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
121. Yes I agree. Men should not control women for any reason.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 08:09 PM
Apr 10

Women should control their own bodies and their own destinies.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
23. Also the issue is not really about pregnancy or abortion.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 07:28 PM
Apr 9

Most male politicians don't care about abortion issues.
Their wives, girlfriends, daughters will always have access to high grade medical abortions.

It is about using their power to control and punish and to get votes.

FakeNoose

(32,917 posts)
35. Nailed it! This right here
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 08:29 PM
Apr 9

This goes back to before the Roe v. Wade ruling. All access and power for "me" and none for "thee."

twodogsbarking

(9,970 posts)
10. Many men are pro-abortion and many women are not.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 06:37 PM
Apr 9

Last edited Wed Apr 10, 2024, 08:05 AM - Edit history (1)

It is an attack on people's rights. For those picking the fly shit out of pepper I should have stated pro-choice.
For those who believe it is men against women I have nothing.

marybourg

(12,650 posts)
55. "Pro-abortion"?
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 02:03 AM
Apr 10

Do they demonstrate outside maternity clinics exhorting women to get abortions, rather than giving birth? Do you mean “pro-choice”?😂

DFW

(54,524 posts)
56. A vital point. Pro-abortion RIGHTS (or, simply, pro-choice)
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 02:25 AM
Apr 10

No one is “pro-abortion” any more than they are “pro-chemotherapy.” It is an unpleasant solution to a problem that should be the right of everyone who wants or feels they need it.

bucolic_frolic

(43,548 posts)
11. Men still have an edge in money and parlay that to the (largely) male political class and
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 06:37 PM
Apr 9

the clergy chimes in so they can maintain their religious, psychological, spiritual, and money power.

These male people have nothing to do but think of ways to control women and keep them barefoot and cooking for men's pleasure.

The root of it is the Big Bamboo. Women should so go on strike. I mean it. I mean it in that way.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
22. Yes white straight males targeting an historically subjugated class.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 07:25 PM
Apr 9

They know straight white males would not tolerate draconian sexual control and punishment.

IronLionZion

(45,674 posts)
14. This man doesn't want those restrictions for women either
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 06:49 PM
Apr 9

so we can do whatever we can to elect Dems everywhere, even moderate Dems in red states, over these Gilead MAGA types. State legislatures and courts are an important place where the right is fighting for Handmaid's Tale. The GOP does have it's Aunt Lydias too.



IronLionZion

(45,674 posts)
78. There should be plenty of male allies on the left
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:47 AM
Apr 10

I was just saying as a party, Dems need to elect more pro-choice state legislators and judges. That's where GOP is putting in major restrictions on this issue.

SARose

(278 posts)
25. Great topic
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 07:53 PM
Apr 9

I believe the next step is two-fold:

1) So called liberal, main line Protestant leaders must speak up. I’m talking about Methodists, Presbyterians, Episcopalians, Unitarians, and Jews. None of us believe there is a “child” at 6 week gestation. There are various groups trying to get this information out to the public. The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

2) We have to convince young people to not only vote but to run for office. The DNC needs to spend money on young people like Rep Jasmine Crockett.

We must be patient and play the long game. Jest my two cents.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
28. Good points.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 08:01 PM
Apr 9

1. Male religious leaders speaking up.
2. Young people becoming more politically active and running for office.

I think we need short and long term strategies.

Women are dying, doctors are leaving the OB-GYN field.
We need immediate help.

But yes we know that a long term plan is necessary.

The white male power structure tends to go back to prior subjugated classes to score
political points and obtain power. It is going to be an ongoing battle.

Welcome to DU!

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
30. Yes several comments about a strike of some sort.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 08:03 PM
Apr 9

Civil disobedience.

Or a personal strike in the home of some sort.

Hope22

(1,912 posts)
18. But men seem to tolerate
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 07:05 PM
Apr 9

Just fine all of this and more being taken from the females in their lives. It really sucks to be female in this country and the outlook is getting bleaker. Until men stand up and join in nothing will charge for the good.

Hope22

(1,912 posts)
34. I beg the men in my life to write the emails, make the calls!
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 08:13 PM
Apr 9

Three educated males that seem to have brains in their heads have…done..nothing. I am a witness to the middle chapters of The Handmaids Tale! We have already gone too far down the path. Not only the do nothing but because as I see this I am noticing other ways that my ideas and my voice get stifled regularly. Things that I didn’t notice or let slide have become real problems because making a stand now equates to ‘scary mommy’.

Deuxcents

(16,456 posts)
40. I hear you. I just get a nod or a "yeah" when I speak to men in my family
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 09:58 PM
Apr 9

About the not so distant past that I needed permission to get credit, buy my first house and now in this time, I have less rights than I did when I bought my first house. You bet I’m angry

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
66. Males are deeply habituated to female subjugation.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:32 AM
Apr 10

It is part of their world view.

That is the point of my OP.

To show that men would never tolerate being subjugated like women are.
The male power structure knows it and would never treat men like women are treated.

And males take it for granted that women are oppressed and treated differently.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
59. Why do smart, good men do nothing?
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 05:54 AM
Apr 10

Even when a female family member asks them for simple help which would not cost them anything.

Are straight males so habituated to being part of the male power structure
they cannot cross lines to help subjugated females?

Historically men have given women rights only when forced to do so.
It was not done willingly.

Hope22

(1,912 posts)
87. Yes women have suffered and sacrificed for our rights!
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 09:45 AM
Apr 10

Nothing was given. They have been beaten, starved, imprisoned, punished and so much more for standing up! It is still a mind boggle to me. The fierce rejection of love and care to not stand up for women you love, women you work beside, is so unbelievable. Obviously we live in a wonderfully diverse world and there are many caring people that are supportive. What we need is a national strike. Inside and outside the home. It looks like it will take this to avoid a complete Handmaid’s Tale collapse, if it is even preventable at this point in time.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
98. Just the right to vote was a very brutal battle.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 02:43 PM
Apr 10

In the UK women were beaten, tortured, imprisoned as they marched for the right to vote.

The male power struggled eventually had to reluctantly allow women to vote.
They saw that women would die and be imprisoned in their battle.

Here in the US now, women have rights being taken away but also being jailed, tortured
and killed via refusal to give them healthcare.

Tree Lady

(11,544 posts)
24. If roles were reversed and women had all the power
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 07:48 PM
Apr 9

they might take it. I have watched a few househusbands take on the traditional role women use to do along with giving the woman more control and power. I think its a money thing.

The answer of course is equal rights for all.

I am reading a book for bookclub right now, true story about a woman in 1860 put in the insane asylum just for not submitting and having her own thoughts. I think the book should be required reading for all women seniors in high school. Would open their eyes to the power men use to have that we fought hard to undo. Might show them they need to start fighting now!

The book is called, The Woman They Could Not Silence.

What I have learned so far is back then women were property just like slaves. We had no legal say to our lives, either our parents or husbands controlled us.


Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
67. I have actually seen women forced into psych care for reasons you describe.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:45 AM
Apr 10

I am a retired mental health professional.
And early in my career I provided all kinds of crisis and emergency services.

Sometimes a husband would bring in a wife to have her committed to a psych facility
because the husband said she was crazy.

So of course a license professional has to do an intake to evaluate the situation.
Some times the wife was perfectly sane and there was some kind of money motive going on.

For example one criminal type husband who was in legal trouble had signed over all his
assets to his wife in the hopes of sheltering the money. She then turns right around and files
for divorce, claiming all the assets as hers.

He is furious and wants her institutionalized and declared "insane."

The wife was smart as whip and perfectly sane when I talked with her.
I tried not to laugh when the husband insisted she be pink slipped.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
68. How does a subjugated class obtain equal rights?
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:50 AM
Apr 10

History tells us they have to fight for those rights.
Oppressors never ever give them willingly.

In the case of women, they fought very hard decades ago and were granted rights.
Now those rights have been taken away.

What is the next step?

dlk

(11,606 posts)
93. Yes, too many women are passive about their rights
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 10:32 AM
Apr 10

Republican women, especially. Women are the majority of Americans and if more of us were actively supporting and voting for women’s freedoms, we wouldn’t be here.

Unfortunately too many men want to return women to chattel/personal property status, and there are women passively following along.

SARose

(278 posts)
32. A Hobby Lobby plot twist
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 08:04 PM
Apr 9

marks a win for abortion rights in Indiana

Snip

The unanimous ruling from the three-judge panel, which found that the state’s abortion ban burdens the religious beliefs of those whose faiths permit abortions, signals the possibility of a long overdue shift in the conservative bias of religious freedom jurisprudence. It also signals the emergence of a partial, albeit untested, argument for people needing an abortion in states that have banned it.

The Indiana case was brought in 2022 by five anonymous plaintiffs of faith and the group Jewish Hoosiers for Choice. They’re seeking a religious exemption from the abortion ban Indiana enacted following the U.S. Supreme Court’s reversal of Roe v. Wade that year. They said the ban violates their rights under the state’s Religious Freedom Restoration Act (RFRA), which, like the federal law the owners of Hobby Lobby successfully relied on to avoid providing contraception coverage, protects religious objectors from laws that “substantially burden” their “sincerely held” religious beliefs.

Snip

Still, the decision shows how, in the decade since the Hobby Lobby decision, there's been a backlash against the Christian right’s efforts to impose their religious beliefs on everyone else. The Hobby Lobby case grew out of the Christian right’s broader attack on Obama-era efforts to expand reproductive and LGBTQ rights. The Christian right cast those policies as tantamount to persecution of Christians.

With Republicans in control of the House of Representatives following the 2010 midterms, they staged a series of volatile hearings intended to portray Obama as “trampling” on the religious freedom and conscience rights of Christians who opposed contraception and abortion. In the process, those Republicans made it clear that they believed that religious freedom for conservative Christians took precedence over the rights of everyone else. In other words, they believed in religious freedom for me but not for thee. That’s why the Indiana Court of Appeals decision finding religious freedom for those with opposite beliefs on abortion is so momentous.

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This!

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
69. The religious right cannot convince people to willingly accept their rules.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 06:52 AM
Apr 10

So they must seek legal remedy to force their dogma on everyone.
Make laws to force everyone to be evangelical Christians.

But yes it is backfiring.

Elessar Zappa

(14,151 posts)
37. I think women will show they won't tolerate it either this November.
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 08:37 PM
Apr 9

Women aren’t going to ignore the assault upon their rights by the Republicans.

Sogo

(5,025 posts)
42. Only women??
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 10:30 PM
Apr 9

There must be men who care about the women in their lives getting the care they need, who will not tolerate it either.

William Gustafson

(299 posts)
47. I for one, is one of those guys...
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 11:28 PM
Apr 9

I have female family members, granddaughters and female friends that all deserve to make their own decisions about their body's and not the government..... I support the right for a women to decide with her doctor what is best for her.... equal rights under the law...

William Gustafson

(299 posts)
48. I for one support a women's choice, and I am a male...
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 11:29 PM
Apr 9

I have female family members, granddaughters and female friends that all deserve to make their own decisions about their body's and not the government..... I support the right for a women to decide with her doctor what is best for her.... equal rights under the law...

Elessar Zappa

(14,151 posts)
50. No, many men too.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 12:39 AM
Apr 10

But I believe it will be the amount of angry women going to the polls that will give us victory.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
71. History tells us that the oppressor class does not rescue the subjugated class.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:04 AM
Apr 10

It is the oppressed group who must fight for their rights.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
73. The GOP believes attacking subjugated groups will get them elected to office.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:07 AM
Apr 10

We shall see if it works or not.

et tu

(973 posts)
41. era
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 10:25 PM
Apr 9

needs to be made law, i think that is the first step
and it is way past time. laws are needed to fight
all the legal mumbo jumbo.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
74. Highly unlikely the male power structure will pass the ERA.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:08 AM
Apr 10

It goes totally against their belief system.

et tu

(973 posts)
86. and that is exactly
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 09:44 AM
Apr 10

why women need to vote and their allies-
past time for equal rights and it won't get done unless
women and their allies make it so. power is never easily
relinquished and women want to share, not dominate.
fragile men keep the patriarchy strong.
why acquiesce on this fundamental issue?

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
97. Excellent points.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 02:38 PM
Apr 10

You stated: "Power is never easily relinquished and women want to share, not dominate.
Fragile men keep the patriarchy strong."

And then you ask: "why acquiesce on this fundamental issue?"

A very good question.

Subjugated groups find it very difficult to take
on the power structure. It is often bloody and brutal.

If women have been socialized to share and cooperate,
and men to dominate, we can see the difficulties in a battle.

OMGWTF

(3,994 posts)
43. There is no pregnancy without a sperm donor. Why are the men not responsible for anything here?
Tue Apr 9, 2024, 10:30 PM
Apr 9

Women don't need men to have a good life and I am thrilled that the 4B movement has made its way to America -- https://www.thecut.com/2023/03/4b-movement-feminism-south-korea.html

I've been happily married for 30 years but my husband is 11 years older than me. If anything happens to him, I will never pursue another romantic relationship. Men are a lot of work and trouble. Besides, at my age, all they're looking for is a nurse with a purse. Fk that shit -- I will get a cat.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
75. The point of my OP is that men will never tolerate any sexuality restrictions.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:11 AM
Apr 10

Never.

Men are half the reproductive equation but are completely immune from restrictions.

H2O Man

(73,715 posts)
52. I'm not sure
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 12:45 AM
Apr 10

that there is any benefit accrued in making this a male vs female issue. Millions of men are pro-choice, and millions of women are anti-choice. That reality seems more important than a fantasy about what men would not stand for and similar nonsense. That's not to say it is not a women's issue, but rather to correctly identify who the enemy is.

TeamProg

(6,373 posts)
57. They aren't EVEN thinking about that scenario. Sorry to disappoint you, but those thoughts do not register
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 02:26 AM
Apr 10

any wave lengths on a conservative’s gray matter scale. “Does not compute.”




obamanut2012

(26,192 posts)
76. Wonen, not females
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:23 AM
Apr 10

You said men, not males. Do the same for women. It is such a dog whistle to say "female." Female is an adjective, not a noun, for humans.

Ironic you did this on a pretty victim blamey against women OP.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
77. You are 100% incorrect.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:32 AM
Apr 10

My motives are certainly not underhanded as you suggest.

My OP is not about females, but about male psychosocial functioning and how it impacts
oppressor class behavior.

The use of the world female is standard in social science research.

I deliberately use the word female because I am believe in rights for all females,
not just adults. Female children count too.

Nitpicking on standard word usage is counterproductive to the cause of female rights.

Vinca

(50,336 posts)
79. I don't think we read the same post. It seemed pretty clear to me.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:50 AM
Apr 10

And, FYI, according to the Oxford Dictionary, "female" can be used as a noun.

Hope22

(1,912 posts)
90. Let me clarify...
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 10:09 AM
Apr 10

Explain what you think people are arguing about. I see this as a fight for rights that are being taken even after the people of many states have voted that they want reproductive rights protected. Help me understand.

apnu

(8,760 posts)
83. IMO its Christian perversion
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 08:20 AM
Apr 10

I am male.

I have met so many priests and preachers, all male, who have lectured to me about the evils of women. And some nuns when I was in Catholic school. The lecture was always the same: women are at fault for Original Sin.

The very notion of forgiveness, the main tenet of Jesus, was out the window.

All this is Christian men injecting their twisted Christianity on everyone else, and the Republican Party has wedded themselves to these ‘men’.

Its a time honored tradition, see the Vatican rule of Europe from the Dark Ages onward.

They don’t go after men because they fear male backlash, they leave men out of it because they see men as innocent because of Original Sin.

I am an atheist because of this rank hypocrisy. I cannot tolerate being told what to do by people who don’t follow their own god’s commands. That there are contradictions in the Bible is for them to sort out, not me.

SARose

(278 posts)
92. This this this
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 10:30 AM
Apr 10

Ahhh yes original sin. Good ole Eve and her feminine wiles. But wait, what about Lilith - the first Eve? Why was she kicked out of Eden? Her sin was believing herself equal to Adam. She went on to have sex with monsters because she refused to sit down and shut up. Seriously? Sex with monsters - Trump? 😆

It’s funny Lilith has disappeared from so many “modern” Bibles. Hmmmm

Personally, I hate seeing this as a man vs woman issue. When this topic becomes heated we see some men in one corner and some women in the other both shouting.

I believe the issue of abortion is one more instance of the powers that be dividing our society for their own aims. Jest my two cents.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
102. Religions say women are to blame because men cannot control their sexual urges?
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 02:50 PM
Apr 10

That seems to be on ongoing male theme.
Enshrined in religions around the world.

In some countries women are now under house arrest because men cannot tolerate
their presence in public.

apnu

(8,760 posts)
103. You aren't wrong.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 02:58 PM
Apr 10

Most religions today do put women behind men, and find ways to blame women for all the bad things.

I remember going to a primitive village display on Kawaii and looking at a hut that said its purpose was to house ‘unclean’ women. ‘Unclean’ means ‘on their period’ in this context.

So its not isolated to Christianity.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
105. Oh yes, the Taliban has made it clear how they see women.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 03:24 PM
Apr 10

And the Asian cultures are hard on women too.
In fact Japanese and South Korean women have gone on strike.
They won't have sex with men or get married like in the past.

mopinko

(70,394 posts)
85. there was a case here in il a while back. a kid needed a transplant.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 09:27 AM
Apr 10

a kidney, iirc. the ex wife couldnt force the dad to EVEN B TESTED for compatibility. let alone force him to give up a kidney. u know if the genders were flipped, that mom wd have been on the table so fast it wd make your head spin. not that a mother wd have needed to b forced.

LastDemocratInSC

(3,658 posts)
95. This is proof that regarding the mechanics of starting human pregnancy
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 01:14 PM
Apr 10

it's definitely more blessed to give than to receive.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
99. The old men are the ones sending the kids into battle.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 02:45 PM
Apr 10

The old men in power send young people to die.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
117. The American power structure is mostly male.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 07:54 PM
Apr 10

The American ruling class is subjugating women, making them second class citizens.
Denying them life saving health care and sending them to jail.

twodogsbarking

(9,970 posts)
118. All that and more. It is not a male vs. female issue.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 08:02 PM
Apr 10

I am a white, elderly male and disagree with the ruling class that is mostly white, male and elderly.
It is not a male vs. female issue. Making it such does not help, in my opinion.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
120. Facts are facts.
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 08:07 PM
Apr 10

In the US, as in most parts of the world, the power structure is male.

And that power structure is killing women and denying them their basic rights.
The power structure is not doing this to white males at the same time.
Even though they are half the reproductive equation.

Whether we like it or not, that is the reality.

The most important step in solving any problem is first facing the truth and the reality.
Even it if is painful.



twodogsbarking

(9,970 posts)
122. But this...
Wed Apr 10, 2024, 09:28 PM
Apr 10

Who were the Supreme Court justices in 1973 when Roe V. Wade was decided.
Burger Court (1972-1975)
Warren E. Burger.
William O. Douglas.
William J. Brennan, Jr.
Potter Stewart.
Byron R. White.
Thurgood Marshall.
Harry A. Blackmun.
Lewis F. Powell, Jr.

Irish_Dem

(48,140 posts)
125. Women's rights are totally on the whim of the male power structure.
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 10:06 AM
Apr 11

Male rights are seen as inalienable and god given.

Not so much for females.

The male power structure giveth and taketh away women's rights.

You prove my point.

twodogsbarking

(9,970 posts)
126. Men need to rally for the cause. It is their cause too. I am insulted to be included with
Thu Apr 11, 2024, 10:13 AM
Apr 11

those who deny the rights of others because of my sex.
Had abortion been available in th 60s it would have changed both of my sister's lives
because they got pregnant and married and dropped out of school. They did both go on to lead
successful and fulfilling lives but it wasn't easy. Peace.

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