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The Doctor.

(17,266 posts)
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:00 PM Nov 2012

Okay, I give up. DU 'Bashes' Duers from 'Red States'.

This discussion thread was locked as off-topic by REP (a host of the General Discussion forum).


That's been a theme here of late, and by GOSH there are plenty of links 'proving' it. I'm done trying to defend DU. It's apparent, even obvious by now that all of the Duers from Red States are universally hated on This Site.

My silly and juvenille attempts to show otherwise or request evidence to show it as being so were appropriately shut down.

I'm embarrassed.

I really am.

I should never have questioned those who claimed that DU is hostile to 'red state' Liberals and Democrats. Obviously.

As such, I suppose I'll have to really think about being here, as I have friends and family in 'red states' and am personally very much opposed to the notion that they are 'stupid' or 'foolish' for living there.

If any of you want me to leave, just say so, and I'll take it under advisement.

Thank you.

Dr. E
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Okay, I give up. DU 'Bashes' Duers from 'Red States'. (Original Post) The Doctor. Nov 2012 OP
Don't be a Hater Fence rider Nov 2012 #1
They can't help it? Avalux Nov 2012 #3
Don't leave because of a few bullies Democratopia Nov 2012 #2
Don't give up, I haven't. Avalux Nov 2012 #4
I don't think people here hate DU'ers from red states BeyondGeography Nov 2012 #5
I am from SC and if I try to say anything about my state other than an apology renie408 Nov 2012 #15
It's not an overstatement to say that South Carolina made Obama possible BeyondGeography Nov 2012 #21
Thanks. renie408 Nov 2012 #24
Thank you, SC BeyondGeography Nov 2012 #25
Fired up? :) renie408 Nov 2012 #27
Can you get any bluer than Boston? HockeyMom Nov 2012 #6
Stick Around If You Want To. Paladin Nov 2012 #7
I didn't see the other thread and took this one at face value. renie408 Nov 2012 #26
I believe in equal opportunity "bashing" snooper2 Nov 2012 #8
Try being pro 2nd amendment and against the democratic platform for gun control former-republican Nov 2012 #9
Yeah. It's almost like they're saying that 47% of Americans are worthless. :-) eom tledford Nov 2012 #10
As a Texan and DUer, trust me on this blogslut Nov 2012 #11
^^ This! ^^ (n/t) Amaril Nov 2012 #36
It's really nothing new Gman Nov 2012 #12
Almost celebrated by some. cordelia Nov 2012 #14
And don't get me going about Yankees Gman Nov 2012 #42
Is this sarcasm? bunnies Nov 2012 #13
Are you from a red state? Because I am... renie408 Nov 2012 #16
No. bunnies Nov 2012 #46
I've stayed as far away from these debates as possible, but..... marmar Nov 2012 #17
see that really really red square up there in the texas panhandle? that is where i live, lol. nt seabeyond Nov 2012 #33
I love that large map Tsiyu Nov 2012 #34
Not sure where you are going with this, but... renie408 Nov 2012 #18
Dude. Chill. Stop obsessing. Tommy_Carcetti Nov 2012 #19
I imagine there's a very dramatic difference in questioning a thing LanternWaste Nov 2012 #20
Trashing - another post-election useless thread. nt. OldDem2012 Nov 2012 #22
Cool semi-GBCW thread, bro. pintobean Nov 2012 #23
Sorry you feel this way. hrmjustin Nov 2012 #28
Shouldn't this be posted in Meta? That's where the I Hate DU rants go. nt valerief Nov 2012 #29
. . . . . WilliamPitt Nov 2012 #30
Ya, this disturbs me. PowerToThePeople Nov 2012 #31
Don't leave... Sekhmets Daughter Nov 2012 #32
Don't leave. Just think of all the Intelligent Red-staters socialindependocrat Nov 2012 #35
only the thin-skinned ones... BlueMan Votes Nov 2012 #37
After your hidden thread, why should anyone take this seriously? ceile Nov 2012 #38
I live in blue Michigan but I get jumped on 1gobluedem Nov 2012 #39
"...universally..." Iggo Nov 2012 #40
My promise: DonRedwood Nov 2012 #41
Look at the red in your own state marions ghost Nov 2012 #43
Step outside the city here and you are in a red red red world. DonRedwood Nov 2012 #45
You sound SO sincere.... marions ghost Nov 2012 #44
Locking REP Nov 2012 #47

Fence rider

(48 posts)
1. Don't be a Hater
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:06 PM
Nov 2012

Come on. They can't help it if they are outnumbered. I am an ex-pat from a southern state. I was outnumbered but I have always stood firm. Good luck to all of those red state brothers and sister. Keep on fightin the good fight!

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
3. They can't help it?
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:11 PM
Nov 2012

Just because us red-state DUers are 'outnumbered' doesn't mean we have to take abuse from those of our own party. Yes, I choose to live in BLUE San Antonio Texas; I have raised my children here and it's home. Dems in Texas fight hard and struggle more than Dems in blue states just because we are a minority.

We should have support but instead we're ridiculed by some. It's really discouraging sometimes.

 

Democratopia

(552 posts)
2. Don't leave because of a few bullies
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:10 PM
Nov 2012

You have been here too long to give in to bullies. Although I have never mentioned I am from a red state, I have been bullied and called a troll simply because I am new here. But these bullies are in the minority, and most DUers are nice people. We know who the bullies are, and they continue to show themselves up by their own behavior.

Avalux

(35,015 posts)
4. Don't give up, I haven't.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:13 PM
Nov 2012

We need to stick together.

BeyondGeography

(39,370 posts)
5. I don't think people here hate DU'ers from red states
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:13 PM
Nov 2012

They do have a problem with deep red states, though. That sometimes carries over (or could be read as) contempt for every sentient being in those states, which is really wrong.

When it looked like the popular vote was going to be pretty tight, I think people remembered the value of all Democrats pretty quickly, if they needed to be reminded in the first place.

renie408

(9,854 posts)
15. I am from SC and if I try to say anything about my state other than an apology
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:18 PM
Nov 2012

I get attacked mercilessly.

There is NOTHING good about South Carolina. NOTHING. The people are ALL ignorant hillbilly racists. Period. If I try to say anything else, I get attacked. I have actually stopped posting here more than once because of it.

BeyondGeography

(39,370 posts)
21. It's not an overstatement to say that South Carolina made Obama possible
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:26 PM
Nov 2012

Had he lost the primary there, it would have been over and done. Not to mention what the many brave and dedicated progressive people there have done to advance the history of this nation.

No apologies needed, IMO.

renie408

(9,854 posts)
24. Thanks.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:35 PM
Nov 2012

BeyondGeography

(39,370 posts)
25. Thank you, SC
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:37 PM
Nov 2012

renie408

(9,854 posts)
27. Fired up? :)
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:38 PM
Nov 2012
 

HockeyMom

(14,337 posts)
6. Can you get any bluer than Boston?
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:34 PM
Nov 2012

When we were in Ma. a few weeks, we saw a man standing on an overpass to the Mass. Pike HOLDING a huge Romney sign. Of course, all the Obama signs far outnumbered HIM.

By the same token, we know a man (old, white, not rich) from Alabama, now living in very red, Naples, Florida (home of Space Alien Governor), who had Obama and 99% stickers all over his car. Nope, it didn't get vandalized, but the Romney stuff were far more numerous in this place.

While it certainly is very nice to live in a majority Dem State (NY Native), all it means is is that you just have to try harder, and take no shit, as in, voter suppression.

Paladin

(28,254 posts)
7. Stick Around If You Want To.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:39 PM
Nov 2012

But just for the record, I thought your earlier thread was rightfully shut down. It was beneath contempt. We Red State liberals have it rough enough without being shit on by people who are supposed to be our political allies. End of rant.....

renie408

(9,854 posts)
26. I didn't see the other thread and took this one at face value.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:37 PM
Nov 2012

If this thread is sarcasm, he's wrong. I have been harassed here before for saying something nice about my very red state.

 

snooper2

(30,151 posts)
8. I believe in equal opportunity "bashing"
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:46 PM
Nov 2012

LOL


You might be from Boston if...

You think of Philadelphia as the midwest.

You think it's your God-given right to cut someone off in traffic.

You think there are only 25 letters in the alphabet (no R's).

You think three straight days of 90+ temperatures is a heat wave.

All your pets are named after Celtics or Bruins.

 

former-republican

(2,163 posts)
9. Try being pro 2nd amendment and against the democratic platform for gun control
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:52 PM
Nov 2012

from a blue state.

You are the devil to some members here.

tledford

(917 posts)
10. Yeah. It's almost like they're saying that 47% of Americans are worthless. :-) eom
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:56 PM
Nov 2012

blogslut

(38,000 posts)
11. As a Texan and DUer, trust me on this
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:56 PM
Nov 2012

"hide thread" and "ignore" are what make this site not suck.

Amaril

(1,267 posts)
36. ^^ This! ^^ (n/t)
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:54 PM
Nov 2012

Gman

(24,780 posts)
12. It's really nothing new
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 12:56 PM
Nov 2012

It's gone on for years now. Comes and goes but the sentiment is always here. It's another reason I don't hang out here as much. Too many immature loud mouth kids.

cordelia

(2,174 posts)
14. Almost celebrated by some.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:14 PM
Nov 2012

Gman

(24,780 posts)
42. And don't get me going about Yankees
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 02:40 PM
Nov 2012
 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
13. Is this sarcasm?
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:05 PM
Nov 2012
If not, thats a mighty broad brush youve got there. DUers from red states are universally hated?! Come on. Thats bullshit.

renie408

(9,854 posts)
16. Are you from a red state? Because I am...
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:19 PM
Nov 2012

and they may not hate ME, but if I say one thing about my state that isn't an apology or if I try to defend anything about it, I get steamrolled. It has happened way more than once.

 

bunnies

(15,859 posts)
46. No.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 03:50 PM
Nov 2012

And maybe thats why I dont notice it so much. But being from NH I absolutely DREAD primary time. All the 'why should those hicks from a tiny state get to choose' type threads really get to me. So I can relate.

marmar

(77,078 posts)
17. I've stayed as far away from these debates as possible, but.....
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:19 PM
Nov 2012

...... is the bashing of the states themselves, or of DUers? I've seen a lot of bashing of the states, but not the DUers from those states. But then again, I tend to avoid those posts.

Besides, here's a much better representation of red/blue America.




 

seabeyond

(110,159 posts)
33. see that really really red square up there in the texas panhandle? that is where i live, lol. nt
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:43 PM
Nov 2012

Tsiyu

(18,186 posts)
34. I love that large map
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:50 PM
Nov 2012

And I note the large river of blue that courses through the Southeastern states.

I think alot of DUers are color blind, actually, because they don't appear to see it.

AS I posted elsewhere:

From 2008:

ALABAMA: 813, 479 people voted Obama; roughly TOTAL population of VERMONT

FLORIDA: 4,282,074 people voted for Obama; roughly the TOTAL population of CONNECTICUT

GEORGIA: 1,844,137 people voted for Obama; roughly the TOTAL population of NEW HAMPSHIRE



renie408

(9,854 posts)
18. Not sure where you are going with this, but...
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:23 PM
Nov 2012

I have had a hard time of it if I ever try to defend the southeast in any way. Especially if I say anything about liking it here. If I try to make ANY positive comment about the people or my state, DUers tend to jump down my throat. I have stopped posting a couple of times because of it.

If you are being sarcastic, I have quit posting before from the attacks because I said something about how I don't like my state politically, but I do like living here. I like South Carolinians. I like the South in general. It feels like home. It isn't a perfect place by a long shot, but it's home.

Tommy_Carcetti

(43,181 posts)
19. Dude. Chill. Stop obsessing.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:24 PM
Nov 2012

We won last week. Enjoy that.

 

LanternWaste

(37,748 posts)
20. I imagine there's a very dramatic difference in questioning a thing
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:25 PM
Nov 2012

I imagine there's often a very dramatic difference in questioning a thing, and the manner in which one questions a thing.

And, as evidence was indeed, offered in evidence (rather than as a 'proof')...

That being said, I do not think DUers from the south are universally hated, merely minimized and trivialized by a handful of prolific posters for no other reason than for living where they do. While I don't think that is evidence for "universal hatred", it does allow us the opportunity to see closed, dogmatic and intractable opinions that will not be swayed by evidence, often in others, and sometimes, even in ourselves.

OldDem2012

(3,526 posts)
22. Trashing - another post-election useless thread. nt.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:28 PM
Nov 2012
 

pintobean

(18,101 posts)
23. Cool semi-GBCW thread, bro.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:32 PM
Nov 2012

I don't think very many care if you stay or go.

 

hrmjustin

(71,265 posts)
28. Sorry you feel this way.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:40 PM
Nov 2012

valerief

(53,235 posts)
29. Shouldn't this be posted in Meta? That's where the I Hate DU rants go. nt
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:40 PM
Nov 2012
 

WilliamPitt

(58,179 posts)
30. . . . . .
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:41 PM
Nov 2012

<----------------------

 

PowerToThePeople

(9,610 posts)
31. Ya, this disturbs me.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:43 PM
Nov 2012

It is not all peoples of a region. There are many progressives in red areas.

The issue, as I see it, is entrenched bigotry that has been passed through the generations. Us that understand the reasons this hatred is unfounded need to "educate" them.

We need to look at our message because it is not working currently. I do not have the answer to the delivery of a progressive message that will be accepted, but I believe it is possible. Greater minds will hopefully figure it out.

Sekhmets Daughter

(7,515 posts)
32. Don't leave...
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:43 PM
Nov 2012

Just accept that there are as many ignorant people living in Blue States as there are in Red States and don't take their nonsense personally....after all you know You are smarter than they are.

socialindependocrat

(1,372 posts)
35. Don't leave. Just think of all the Intelligent Red-staters
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:53 PM
Nov 2012

When I was in college, back in 1970, I met a guy from Georgia and he was very progressive in his thinking. Being from MAss. I was amazed that a young person could grow up in a state like Georgia and still have liberal thoughts.

I just read a post (see link below) by someone from a red state who talked about how it was to be a liberal and be surrounded by conservatives, racists, whatever you want t call them. It really made me thing that we need to start to support these people because they stand with us under very dangerous circumstances (against their neighbors and relatives) while we sit in Blue and see that our votes actually elect liberals and keep this country from fallling into a very dark place where wealth is power and the ruling class is prejudiced against everyone else and there is no American Dream to work toward.

Hey Red State DUers. A message for y'all.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=1815944

I think we need to think of a way to send these people reminders in our posts that show we are thinking of them and are glad they are on our team.

 

BlueMan Votes

(903 posts)
37. only the thin-skinned ones...
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 01:56 PM
Nov 2012

and surely you don't fall into that category...?

ceile

(8,692 posts)
38. After your hidden thread, why should anyone take this seriously?
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 02:01 PM
Nov 2012

Did you forget the sarcasm smilie?

1gobluedem

(6,664 posts)
39. I live in blue Michigan but I get jumped on
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 02:05 PM
Nov 2012

When I defend the US auto industry and the UAW and point out that there is a massive trade imbalance with Japan when it comes to importing and manufacturing US automobiles to and in Japan. I am lectured about the perceived poor quality in US cars, reminded how many are made in the US (by non Union labor), and given meaningless statistics about the trade balances with other goods.

Don't let it get you down and don't let it drive you away.

Iggo

(47,552 posts)
40. "...universally..."
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 02:07 PM
Nov 2012

Oh come on.

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
43. Look at the red in your own state
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 03:24 PM
Nov 2012

look at it, feel it, know it. Then incorporate your whole state into your worldview. I realize that's hard for people who have to shore themselves up by tearing others down. Otherwise you're just perpetuating the media myth of "red vs blue."

There's no place for South baiting/bashing on DU. It's nasty and alienating. People who do it look smug, superior, and ignorant.

DonRedwood

(4,359 posts)
45. Step outside the city here and you are in a red red red world.
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 03:38 PM
Nov 2012

marions ghost

(19,841 posts)
44. You sound SO sincere....
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 03:34 PM
Nov 2012


Suggest to try backing away from the "red state/blue state" koolaid.

But maybe it's just too irresistable...?

REP

(21,691 posts)
47. Locking
Wed Nov 14, 2012, 03:50 PM
Nov 2012

Please feel free to repost in Meta. Thanks!

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