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cilla4progress

(24,733 posts)
Mon May 22, 2023, 01:57 PM May 2023

Seething.

The filthy ugly "new" neighbors as of the last couple of years - the ones that erected 3 Fuck Biden flags on their storage shed in our peaceful, pastoral rural valley - have now erected Fuck Biden, Gadsden, and other foul signs right along the road. On a school bus route.

Law enforcement won't respond to my request for help. I already wrote in to a community bulletin board and 95% of comments agreed with me that it is damaging to civil society. I am considering a LTTE, but, other than exposing them (and me), what good will it do? I'm taking pics and sending them to my like-minded neighbors.

Any other ideas?

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Seething. (Original Post) cilla4progress May 2023 OP
Law-enforcement: they aren't in drag so what's the problem Walleye May 2023 #1
Assuming it MOMFUDSKI May 2023 #2
I would think so SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #3
Wish I couldnl get to your level of cilla4progress May 2023 #4
Your reaction is just what your neighbor wants. wnylib May 2023 #47
Yes. Cohen v. California, 403 U.S. 15 (1971), rsdsharp May 2023 #8
it's republican for "don't waste your time trying to befriend us" unblock May 2023 #5
We went to PA up through Greenville, DE yesterday. woodsprite May 2023 #9
Reconfigure the signage The_Casual_Observer May 2023 #6
Propert tax records are public info GenXer47 May 2023 #7
Are they possibly in the public easement? hippywife May 2023 #10
Looking into it. cilla4progress May 2023 #20
Perhap it is time to organize a ninja paintball party. pandr32 May 2023 #11
Years later the neighbors still remembered fondly, the night of the ... sanatanadharma May 2023 #12
You might want to check with local zoning. Tesha May 2023 #13
What's to report? It's speech Sympthsical May 2023 #14
Exactly inthewind21 May 2023 #30
I think the use of f'k is an issue Dave says May 2023 #38
Supreme Court quite famously said no Sympthsical May 2023 #39
Cohen v. California (1971) Celerity May 2023 #40
Zoning probably can't do a thing about what's on the signs... Tesha May 2023 #46
It happens in California too shanti May 2023 #15
That's America for you. maxsolomon May 2023 #16
Request for help to do what? WhiskeyGrinder May 2023 #17
Talk to them?? cilla4progress May 2023 #21
So keep screaming cilla4progress May 2023 #18
Publicity in surrounding communities... but choose wisely Tetrachloride May 2023 #19
There's not much you can do. Elessar Zappa May 2023 #22
I have often thought that a few flaming arrows hitting their mark would be quite satisfying ms liberty May 2023 #23
Unless it violates locale statutes about signage, there's nothing to do but go on with life. progressoid May 2023 #24
Become an activist and get local signage rules changed. live love laugh May 2023 #25
Dark Brandon has signage too (I hope) Hekate May 2023 #26
No clever ideas, but taking them seriously rewards their efforts, Hortensis May 2023 #27
Sounds good. cilla4progress May 2023 #31
Law enforcement? inthewind21 May 2023 #28
1. It's provocative, in the worst way. cilla4progress May 2023 #29
A town in New Jersey recently tried this tack. Sympthsical May 2023 #36
Some of us do n/t SickOfTheOnePct May 2023 #37
Apparently inthewind21 May 2023 #52
huh inthewind21 May 2023 #53
Does this work? cilla4progress May 2023 #32
Morons! Just laugh at them and ignore them. madinmaryland May 2023 #41
Awww....thanks. cilla4progress May 2023 #42
Work inthewind21 May 2023 #54
This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver May 2023 #33
They have the right to be assholes. tritsofme May 2023 #34
Definitely true. cilla4progress May 2023 #35
Paintball guns aren't terribly expensive . . . hatrack May 2023 #43
I wish... cilla4progress May 2023 #44
Make your own "extra nice" sign, apologizing to passers by, with flowers and a happy saying. Mopar151 May 2023 #45
What the he!! is LTTE? Sogo May 2023 #48
Letter to cilla4progress May 2023 #49
Ignore it Zeitghost May 2023 #50
It's freedom of expression. They have the right to fly those flags on their property. Jedi Guy May 2023 #51
This would be kind of a sneeky way to get at least maybe a break on your property taxes. Prairie_Seagull May 2023 #55
Good Luck inthewind21 May 2023 #56

SickOfTheOnePct

(7,290 posts)
3. I would think so
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:03 PM
May 2023

although there may be some kind of obscenity law that could address it.

I don't let stuff like that bother me personally, but I know that others have issues with it.

wnylib

(21,466 posts)
47. Your reaction is just what your neighbor wants.
Tue May 23, 2023, 11:33 AM
May 2023

He is diberately provocative with his signs in order to upset people. So don't give him the satisfaction. He gloats every time you express anger over his signs.

One way to deal with it would be to post your own signs on your own property, visible from the road, that have very positive, uplifting messages. They don't need to be about politics. Better, maybe, if they're not. Uplifting, positive messages would emphasize by contrast how ugly and crude your neighbor's signs are. It makes him look small in comparison. And, it could spread a little cheer and inspiration in a world that can use it to balance out the ugliness.

rsdsharp

(9,177 posts)
8. Yes. Cohen v. California, 403 U.S. 15 (1971),
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:28 PM
May 2023

Cohen was charged with disturbing the peace for wearing a jacket with a sign saying “Fuck the Draft” in the corridor of the county courthouse. The Court, in a 5-4 ruling, held that the First Amendment prohibited a state from criminalizing display of a single expletive.

God knows what the current Court would do.

unblock

(52,227 posts)
5. it's republican for "don't waste your time trying to befriend us"
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:18 PM
May 2023

people like that do the rest of us a favor by outing themselves as bigots, sexists, and intolerant jerks.

don't waste your time and effort on them.

woodsprite

(11,915 posts)
9. We went to PA up through Greenville, DE yesterday.
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:31 PM
May 2023

Or "Biden country" as some call it. I saw several "Let's go Brandon" and "Fuck Biden" signs hanging in front of estates, as well as cars w/ bumper stickers. I told my family, "The only thing that does is self-identifies them as assholes."

It started a discussion among us about the Biden/Harris merch. I'd really love to get a Dark Brandon t-shirt, but the only place I'd wear it would be to bed. I feel that with the crazies, labeled merch, including bumper stickers, just paints a target on your back that they would all too willingly utilize.

 

GenXer47

(1,204 posts)
7. Propert tax records are public info
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:26 PM
May 2023

so find out their names.
Then erect your own sign saying "Fuck (so-and-so)".
Or, dress up in full body armor and go ring the doorbell!

hippywife

(22,767 posts)
10. Are they possibly in the public easement?
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:31 PM
May 2023

If they're close to the road, they might be, and depending on where you live, that might be illegal?

pandr32

(11,584 posts)
11. Perhap it is time to organize a ninja paintball party.
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:36 PM
May 2023

Make it clear everyone is to remain nameless throughout. Have a blast!

Tesha

(20,854 posts)
13. You might want to check with local zoning.
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:46 PM
May 2023

There often are rules about where to put signs.

It would be nice if they could be shamed into removing them, but in my experience?
They have none of that foolishness.

My hackles rise too when I see those - hate him all you like, but don't make the kids on the bus read that every day.

Sympthsical

(9,073 posts)
14. What's to report? It's speech
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:50 PM
May 2023

You may not like it, but if it's on their property, there's not a whole lot to be done for it.

First Amendment isn't for the stuff we like. It's very specifically there for the stuff we don't.

Dave says

(4,617 posts)
38. I think the use of f'k is an issue
Mon May 22, 2023, 06:47 PM
May 2023

But I’m inclined to lean toward free speech and leave the signs alone.

Now, if it does violate zoning regulations, away with them!

Sympthsical

(9,073 posts)
39. Supreme Court quite famously said no
Mon May 22, 2023, 06:51 PM
May 2023

That an expletive in political speech wasn't sufficient cause to restrict it. Cohen v. California.

People weren't this het up when there was Fuck Trump stuff everywhere. Geese and ganders.

Celerity

(43,372 posts)
40. Cohen v. California (1971)
Mon May 22, 2023, 06:59 PM
May 2023




In Cohen v. California, 403 U.S. 15 (1971), the Supreme Court established that the government generally cannot criminalise the display of profane words in public places.

Tesha

(20,854 posts)
46. Zoning probably can't do a thing about what's on the signs...
Tue May 23, 2023, 11:22 AM
May 2023

however, there may be zoning regulations on the use of signs near the road,.

There was this huge political sign down the road that blocked the view on a corner and the city required it be moved.

I think it's childish and hurtful to lots of people, but it is free speech which the law supports.

shanti

(21,675 posts)
15. It happens in California too
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:53 PM
May 2023

Near the beginning of my street is a "Let's go Brandon" bumper stickered pickup, as well as a Trump 2024 banner in their backyard that everyone can see upon entering the neighborhood. The owner is an old white guy. Nobody else but him though, thank God.

maxsolomon

(33,345 posts)
16. That's America for you.
Mon May 22, 2023, 02:58 PM
May 2023

Sorry your tolerance is being tested. Probably best not to provoke them with a Dark Brandon sign looking at their property.

ms liberty

(8,574 posts)
23. I have often thought that a few flaming arrows hitting their mark would be quite satisfying
Mon May 22, 2023, 03:32 PM
May 2023

But destruction of property is a crime. Better to erect your own counter protest signs, like something that says "Every neighborhood has that one a*****e" with an arrow pointing to his house.

Hekate

(90,686 posts)
26. Dark Brandon has signage too (I hope)
Mon May 22, 2023, 04:14 PM
May 2023

Our only aggressively Trumpy neighbor is an orthopedic surgeon with an in-your-face New Jersey wife. They are currently in quiet mode as regards their signage and nasty flags.

But how I wish we had the below on a yard sign…..











Hortensis

(58,785 posts)
27. No clever ideas, but taking them seriously rewards their efforts,
Mon May 22, 2023, 05:15 PM
May 2023

like asking for more, and laughing at them hurts. Strongly recommend making fun of them, as publicly as you care to.

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
28. Law enforcement?
Mon May 22, 2023, 05:34 PM
May 2023

What exactly is law enforcement supposed to do about something on someone else's property you don't like?

cilla4progress

(24,733 posts)
29. 1. It's provocative, in the worst way.
Mon May 22, 2023, 05:35 PM
May 2023

2. If it's on county right-of-way it's violative of the law.

If that still matters at all...to anyone.

Sympthsical

(9,073 posts)
36. A town in New Jersey recently tried this tack.
Mon May 22, 2023, 06:40 PM
May 2023

They gave up when it rapidly became clear they were about to have their ass handed to them.

The ACLU sided with the asshole with the flags.

We still like civil liberties, yeah?

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
53. huh
Tue May 23, 2023, 01:09 PM
May 2023

So are short shorts "provocative"? T shirts that say 0 Fucks given? How about rainbow flags? How about fuck Trump flags? How about a man dressed as a woman or a woman dressed as a man? All of those "provocative" too? Some would say yes to all of those. Be very careful what you wish for.

 

inthewind21

(4,616 posts)
54. Work
Tue May 23, 2023, 01:16 PM
May 2023

for what? There are signs all over where I live just like that. It's not what I would put in my yard, but it's not my yard. Letting my idiot neighbors send me into a hissy where I start calling law enforcement on them about their poor taste makes me no better than them. I just smile and wave. When we start acting just like them because we don't like their yard signs or flags or (fill in the blank here), then we become them. I'd rather not. I have bigger issues to contend with, as does law enforcement, than what signs or flags someone else has on their property.

Response to cilla4progress (Original post)

tritsofme

(17,378 posts)
34. They have the right to be assholes.
Mon May 22, 2023, 06:01 PM
May 2023

Lucky for you and your neighbors, they let everyone know who they are.

cilla4progress

(24,733 posts)
35. Definitely true.
Mon May 22, 2023, 06:08 PM
May 2023

I used to be more tolerant of these kinds of assholes.

Now I just want something very bad to happen to them.

Mopar151

(9,983 posts)
45. Make your own "extra nice" sign, apologizing to passers by, with flowers and a happy saying.
Mon May 22, 2023, 10:09 PM
May 2023

" Please excuse our neighbors. They are working through issues, and are acting out!" A quick example or 2 of stock signage you could incorporate:




Or a DU Smiley!

Sogo

(4,986 posts)
48. What the he!! is LTTE?
Tue May 23, 2023, 11:59 AM
May 2023

I googled it, and Liberation of Tamil Tigers Eelam comes up.

Stop writing in code, people!!!!

Zeitghost

(3,858 posts)
50. Ignore it
Tue May 23, 2023, 12:34 PM
May 2023

Move on and don't let it affect your life. Your displeasure is exactly what they are trying to cause.

Jedi Guy

(3,190 posts)
51. It's freedom of expression. They have the right to fly those flags on their property.
Tue May 23, 2023, 12:49 PM
May 2023

Law enforcement isn't responding because they know full well the flags are perfectly legal, and any attempt on their part to "do something" would result in the municipality getting sued for violating the property owner's First Amendment rights, and rightly so.

That 95% of the comments from your neighbors agree with you is utterly irrelevant. A letter to the editor will be absolutely pointless, apart from expressing your personal distaste for their choice of expression. Neither of those things trumps someone else's right to freedom of expression under the First Amendment.

Freedom of expression isn't just for expression we like or agree with, and as someone pointed out upthread, I don't recall any hand-wringing about civil society or "won't someone think of the children" when the "Fuck Trump" flags were being paraded around and people were chanting the same in the streets.

The courts recognize very, very narrow limits to the First Amendment, and these flags don't fall foul of those limits and are thus protected speech, however you, your neighbors, or anyone else might feel about them. I would suggest giving up this crusade since it'll go exactly nowhere and they'll just get their jollies from your outrage. Worse, if you goose the municipality into "doing something" your neighbors might get a payday from a lawsuit.

Sometimes the best thing to do when confronted by speech with which one disagrees is to simply ignore it. This is one of those times.

Prairie_Seagull

(3,320 posts)
55. This would be kind of a sneeky way to get at least maybe a break on your property taxes.
Tue May 23, 2023, 01:25 PM
May 2023

Indicate the next time you go to pay your taxes that you want to appeal your valuations and your property should be taxed at a lower rate due to sale value being less due to those signs. Someone will come out a generally access what your claim is. it's possible the tax man would be on your side. If you get my meaning.

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