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Nevilledog

(51,122 posts)
Sat Apr 8, 2023, 12:07 AM Apr 2023

Jessica Valenti: The Men Who Ruin Us

https://jessica.substack.com/p/the-men-who-ruin-us

Tonight, a judge ruled that a drug that’s safely ended pregnancies for over twenty years should no longer be available—not just in anti-abortion states, but everywhere. We knew the ruling was coming, just as we did when Roe was overturned. As was the case then, foreknowledge doesn’t make the moment any easier.

There’s no real way to prepare for the feeling of despair that rises in your body as you’re reminded, once again, that you’re no longer a full citizen in your own country.

I want to be useful, and smart. I could write about how this decision lays bare the lie of ‘states’ rights’, or how a singular activist judge being able to wave away decades of science and progress is a sign of our decaying democracy. I could write out the ways that the FDA could respond, or what the Biden administration should say and do. But others will do a better job of all that. Besides, that’s not at all what’s on my mind.

What’s weighing on me—almost literally, my head and body feel heavy—is the look on my 12 year-old daughter's face each and every time I have to tell her another piece of bad news about women. But it’s not just her face I keep seeing. It’s the looks on the faces of the men who are ruining us.

Donald Trump. Brett Kavanaugh. Matthew Kacsmaryk. Smug and assured, ignorant and shameless. Somehow we’ve ended up with the dregs of humanity robbing us of our own.

*snip*


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Jessica Valenti: The Men Who Ruin Us (Original Post) Nevilledog Apr 2023 OP
The anti-abortionists have won nothing. OAITW r.2.0 Apr 2023 #1
AMEN! LoisB Apr 2023 #3
Men who do not care at all about fetal cells. Irish_Dem Apr 2023 #2
Hear, hear! I believe you have nailed it. LoisB Apr 2023 #4
What they have stolen LostOne4Ever Apr 2023 #5
K&R Solly Mack Apr 2023 #6
Hell yes. These piece of crap males Sky Jewels Apr 2023 #7
A judge practicing medicine/science with out a license. LittleGirl Apr 2023 #8
You mean like MTG? grantcart Apr 2023 #9
Great piece. And don't miss the headline below it for the next piece: "Hell hath no fury lik a man Scrivener7 Apr 2023 #10

OAITW r.2.0

(24,504 posts)
1. The anti-abortionists have won nothing.
Sat Apr 8, 2023, 12:11 AM
Apr 2023

The backlash coming will kill Republicanism....and the self-righteous morons have no clue.

Irish_Dem

(47,131 posts)
2. Men who do not care at all about fetal cells.
Sat Apr 8, 2023, 12:13 AM
Apr 2023

It is all about power, control, getting votes and raising money.

And yes, a deep hatred of women.
They get off on killing and torturing women.

Sky Jewels

(7,113 posts)
7. Hell yes. These piece of crap males
Sat Apr 8, 2023, 12:43 AM
Apr 2023

who so ruthlessly destroy our lives … we’ll, I can’t say what I’m thinking.

Scrivener7

(50,955 posts)
10. Great piece. And don't miss the headline below it for the next piece: "Hell hath no fury lik a man
Sat Apr 8, 2023, 08:29 AM
Apr 2023

rejected."

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