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FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 09:25 PM Apr 2021

My daughter got her first College acceptance letter! UC santa cruz! ** UPDATE: GO SLUGS!

Last edited Sat Apr 24, 2021, 03:25 PM - Edit history (1)

It's her second choice after Berkeley, and it might be more feasable cuz housing for students at least exists in santa cruz, the Bay is crazy. Besides, we're from Tahoe so the vibe of mtns would make her happy.

We're gonna take a trip to go really see how it feels... and she applied to a bunch of schools so we still dont know...probably be getting letters all month.

Im just so damn proud of HER...she is the one who pursued homeschooling aso she could graduate HS a year early. SHe is the one on student senate and comittees with her community college, she is the one to know what she wants to do and gets it done Meanwhile she has major disabilities (blind in her left eye since birth, cyst in her brain, major athsma and possibly fibromyalgia) and she just keeps truckin.

I hardly want to take credit for such an amazing young lady, but you know...she's pretty cool

Update: we went down last weekend and had a blast. Really beautiful and great vibe. She saw lots of young and LGBT folks she could get to know, so that was fun (our little town has no young LGBT community) She was holding out for Berkeley, but they didnt accept her...so it's gonna be USCS Banana Slugs!

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My daughter got her first College acceptance letter! UC santa cruz! ** UPDATE: GO SLUGS! (Original Post) FirstLight Apr 2021 OP
Congrats! SheltieLover Apr 2021 #1
Congratulations! nt tblue37 Apr 2021 #2
Go Banana Slugs! Nevilledog Apr 2021 #3
Good for her. panader0 Apr 2021 #4
My alma mater! Foolacious Apr 2021 #5
Congratulations! So happy for you both. onecaliberal Apr 2021 #6
The campus is truly Gorgeous !! alittlelark Apr 2021 #7
Yeah! You go girl! MLAA Apr 2021 #8
Congrats bobnicewander Apr 2021 #9
Uncle Charlie's Summer Camp cojoel Apr 2021 #10
I dont even know if she knows this but I have a freind that works there too... FirstLight Apr 2021 #11
Congratulations, to you and your daughter! rsdsharp Apr 2021 #12
my mom was happy but sad that she might be "far away" FirstLight Apr 2021 #13
I think congrats are in order to the whole family... but especially your daughter!!! Karadeniz Apr 2021 #14
Very cool... tonedevil Apr 2021 #15
Congrats to you both! c-rational Apr 2021 #16
Hey! How great is that!! What an amazing lady. You should be proud! Shaddox Apr 2021 #17
Congrats! wysimdnwyg Apr 2021 #18
Dont know if you recall, she was the one invited ot Stanford Summer Law program in 2019 FirstLight Apr 2021 #19
It sounds as if both of you have much... 3catwoman3 Apr 2021 #20
YAY!!! Iggo Apr 2021 #21
That's my alma mater; &, at least when I attended, there wasn't a finer school for an undergraduate wackadoo wabbit Apr 2021 #22
She's holding out for Berkeley, I like UCSC better... FirstLight Apr 2021 #48
Congrats to her and to you! My girls had same priority...berkeley first, UCSC second. Gorgeous wiggs Apr 2021 #23
Poli-Sci and Sociology...she wants to go into public office FirstLight Apr 2021 #49
Massive congrats to both her and you! Celerity Apr 2021 #24
Huge congratulations to your daughter, obviously. BobTheSubgenius Apr 2021 #25
congrat's to you too... WarGamer Apr 2021 #26
Awesome. You SHOULD be proud! Congratulations to you KPN Apr 2021 #27
UCSC is freaking awesome as is Santa Cruz area in general ... Hugh_Lebowski Apr 2021 #28
Cal Poly SLO! My Alma Mater. MineralMan Apr 2021 #39
she only applied at UC's FirstLight Apr 2021 #50
Banana Slugs forevah greenjar_01 Apr 2021 #29
Mystery spot is definitely on the list!!!! FirstLight Apr 2021 #51
Nice! Good going! Dream Girl Apr 2021 #30
Congratulations! So very happy for both of you! niyad Apr 2021 #31
an interesting link is that I spent 2 summers at camp in those woods FirstLight Apr 2021 #32
I remember UC Santa Cruz! CaptainTruth Apr 2021 #33
Former Santa Cruzan here - congrats! Here's some tips: Fiendish Thingy Apr 2021 #34
thanks for the tips! FirstLight Apr 2021 #52
I went to UCSC and majored in History StrictlyRockers Apr 2021 #35
Nice! FirstLight Apr 2021 #53
Congratulations LetMyPeopleVote Apr 2021 #36
Tom Lehrer was a math professor there central scrutinizer Apr 2021 #37
OMG. This brings back so many memories. Please keep posting Tom's fooleries! erronis Apr 2021 #47
Well, UCSC has a reputation for being a party school, MineralMan Apr 2021 #38
Good deal. It's an exciting time for her, her parents and friends skip fox Apr 2021 #40
That's wonderful wryter2000 Apr 2021 #41
Santa Cruz is an absolutely STUNNINGLY BEAUTIFUL place Sedona Apr 2021 #42
Noce reggaehead Apr 2021 #43
Would be proud to see her as a Banana Slug! Steven Maurer Apr 2021 #44
Great news Lemonwurst Apr 2021 #45
I'm really stoked for her! FirstLight Apr 2021 #54
That's awesome! She sounds amazing and I appreciate your pride. Best part of being a parent IMHO. Evolve Dammit Apr 2021 #46
Congratulations on the start of a new chapter! DFW Apr 2021 #55

Foolacious

(497 posts)
5. My alma mater!
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 09:32 PM
Apr 2021

Go Slugs!

The mascot wasn't officially The Banana Slugs in my day, but we all knew that's what we were.

Congrats to you and your daughter!

bobnicewander

(804 posts)
9. Congrats
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 09:49 PM
Apr 2021

to you both.

She's way cool!

I love love and knowing how happy this made you because of your love your post grabbed me and I got misty eyed as perhaps your family did.

cojoel

(957 posts)
10. Uncle Charlie's Summer Camp
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 09:49 PM
Apr 2021

Is a slang name it was called when I lived in Santa Cruz. The school is quite good in many areas and the campus is stunningly beautiful.

Congratulations to your daughter!

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
11. I dont even know if she knows this but I have a freind that works there too...
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 09:53 PM
Apr 2021

Old HS BFF, and she ended up being a career counselor at the university! I already emailed her and asked for any housing hook-ups she might know

wheeeee! Im more excited than she is, but she just got her 2nd vax shot and is low level and tired now

rsdsharp

(9,170 posts)
12. Congratulations, to you and your daughter!
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 09:54 PM
Apr 2021

That’s terrific.

I understand what you’re saying about Berkeley. A hundred years ago I was accepted by the law school (then Boalt Hall). I didn’t go primarily because of the housing situation in the Bay Area. Well, that and the financial aid package was basically move half way across the country and we’ll talk about it.

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
13. my mom was happy but sad that she might be "far away"
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 10:00 PM
Apr 2021

but she cannot let that stop her! My folks did it to me when I was younger and they didnt want me going anywhere beyond where I could live at home (which was hell)...

I will fight for scholarships etc and we will find a way so she has good housing ....

wysimdnwyg

(2,231 posts)
18. Congrats!
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 10:21 PM
Apr 2021

I love Santa Cruz. My sister is in the south Bay Area, and I make it a point to spend a day in SC every time I visit.

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
19. Dont know if you recall, she was the one invited ot Stanford Summer Law program in 2019
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 10:24 PM
Apr 2021

she decided that week that "stanford sucks" lol...but she was stuck in OLD dorms with no AC or elevators hahahha welcome to college

wackadoo wabbit

(1,166 posts)
22. That's my alma mater; &, at least when I attended, there wasn't a finer school for an undergraduate
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 10:48 PM
Apr 2021

education anywhere. I actually transferred to UCSC from UCLA after a year specifically because of this.

At UCLA (and, I'm fairly certain, at Berkeley as well), undergraduate students will find themselves to be just faces in the crowd in huge classes of literally hundreds of students. When I was at UCLA, tests were often just multiple choice scanton exams. I probably could have hired someone to take my exams for me.

At UCSC, on the other hand, classes were small and intimate. And you learned, a lot. The professors knew not just your name, they knew you. I was offered many opportunities — working in a lab training a monkey, being encouraged to take graduate classes while still an undergraduate, being invited to attend small teaching staff seminars given by visiting professors from other universities, etc. — that would have been unheard of in the feedlot-sized classes of UCLA.

Plus, there were some amazing alternative classes that I would have been unlikely to find at a larger, more traditional college. A course I took on utopias, in which, for my grade, I was tasked with writing a paper explaining what my idea of a utopia would look like and how it would operate, has influenced my thinking ever since.

Of course, things may be very different now from when I attended many moons ago, so what I'm writing may be totally out of date. But if UCSC is still close to what it once was, your daughter might want to seriously consider it.


P.S. And the campus really is gorgeous!


FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
48. She's holding out for Berkeley, I like UCSC better...
Sun Apr 4, 2021, 11:14 PM
Apr 2021

Looks like housing there would be easier too. We all know the bay Area is crazy expensive right now.


But she wants to go into Politial Science and knows that Berkeley holds more prestige in that field, then again she's also gonna get her Masters so THAT should be where she goes for the foo-foo college.

She's going as a transfer student, so at least she will be focusing on upper division.


We're going for a visit & virtual tour at UCSC in a couple weeks....she could fall in love!

wiggs

(7,812 posts)
23. Congrats to her and to you! My girls had same priority...berkeley first, UCSC second. Gorgeous
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 10:52 PM
Apr 2021

campus, great area. What does she want to study?

BobTheSubgenius

(11,563 posts)
25. Huge congratulations to your daughter, obviously.
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 11:05 PM
Apr 2021

But you can take a bow, as well. She didn't grow up in a vacuum. Be proud of both of you. But especially her.

 

Hugh_Lebowski

(33,643 posts)
28. UCSC is freaking awesome as is Santa Cruz area in general ...
Fri Apr 2, 2021, 11:19 PM
Apr 2021

I partied there a few times back in the day (at the school) and I've partied in SC and Capitola and Aptos more times than I can count.

My alma mater is basically the next large campus down the coast at SLO ... did she apply there or is she dedicated to UC? It's still a great school and way cheaper.

Congrats to your daughter, she sounds amazing.

I wish I was going to college on the Cali coast again ... I miss it like every day.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
39. Cal Poly SLO! My Alma Mater.
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 10:09 AM
Apr 2021

But that was long, long ago. I lived in the are for 35 years, though. Another great place to go to school and to live.

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
51. Mystery spot is definitely on the list!!!!
Sun Apr 4, 2021, 11:18 PM
Apr 2021

and she's never seen the Boardwalk...they are opening partially when we are planning a visit too!!!

and I will have one shot by then, she's fully vaxed

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
32. an interesting link is that I spent 2 summers at camp in those woods
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 12:05 AM
Apr 2021

"Frontier Ranch" at mt Hermon,,,,,very churchy, but also cool outdoors stuff

CaptainTruth

(6,591 posts)
33. I remember UC Santa Cruz!
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 12:11 AM
Apr 2021

I loved it when I lived in N CA. On a scale of "most serious to most laid back," Stanford would have been at the top (most serious) of my list, with Berkeley in the middle (a lot of very VERY smart & serious folks, plus a lot of "Berkeley" folks, kindred spirits), followed by UC Santa Cruz where you didn't have to show up for classes & you could invent your own major.

I don't mean that in a negative way. I think in many ways UCSC was way ahead of the curve, before other learning institutions caught up.

Fiendish Thingy

(15,606 posts)
34. Former Santa Cruzan here - congrats! Here's some tips:
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 12:24 AM
Apr 2021

UCSC, while known somewhat as a stoner/party school, has a lot to offer. Faculty ranges from Angela Davis to Tom Lehrer (now retired), and everything in between. The Greatful Dead’s archives are housed on campus.

As for housing, try to get something in Santa Cruz proper, preferably on the West Side, especially if she doesn’t have a car, or even if she does- traffic on highway 1 is a nightmare coming from the south in the morning, and returning south in the afternoon, so Capitola or Aptos might be difficult to get to class on time. Start looking for fall housing soon- it’s a cut throat market. I think UC prefers students to live on campus the first year or two anyway.

Santa Cruz is a very progressive town, although the city council is often filled with many local business owners. Certain parts of downtown can be risky at night. Other than that, it’s a vibrant town with lots of uniques shops and eateries, and of course beaches and redwoods, and the amusement park at the Boardwalk. It’s kind of like a smaller Portland near the ocean.

Hopefully, COVID restrictions will be relaxed somewhat as your daughter gets into her first year- Santa Cruz has/had an amazing live music and arts scene, especially for a town of its size and location away from big metro areas. Many great artists on tour who stop at Seattle, Portland, SF on their way down the coast, will add a Santa Cruz show before heading to LA.

Congrats again, and good luck to your daughter!

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
52. thanks for the tips!
Sun Apr 4, 2021, 11:26 PM
Apr 2021

I looked a bit at the rental market...definitely better then here in Tahoe or even the Bay for that matter!!!

She's a transfer student and has a partner and pets, so on campus isnt really an option.


Then again, she's also thinking she could avoid moving for another year and do most of her classes online ...she's pretty nervous about moving to the big scary city. I personally think Santa Cruz will be less of a culture shock since she's used to the mountain-town vibe.
But then again, I grew up in Oakland Hills/Berkeley and we have friends down there and visit, she's familiar with the area and has people there she can reach out to if needed...

StrictlyRockers

(3,855 posts)
35. I went to UCSC and majored in History
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 01:47 AM
Apr 2021

Because I didn't get into my first choice, which was Berkeley

I have also lived here in Santa Cruz for the past 46 years, it's a great town.

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
53. Nice!
Sun Apr 4, 2021, 11:28 PM
Apr 2021

I think the vibe is similar to Tahoe where we live now and she grew up. I think she'd be happier there...and her dog too!

But she's still hopeful for Berkeley! so we shall see...

erronis

(15,241 posts)
47. OMG. This brings back so many memories. Please keep posting Tom's fooleries!
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 08:06 PM
Apr 2021

He, along with George Carlin and all the other knives in the heart of pomposity and false sanctimoniousness are the best signs of real humanity.

MineralMan

(146,288 posts)
38. Well, UCSC has a reputation for being a party school,
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 10:07 AM
Apr 2021

but going to a University is what you make it as a student. the UC system can offer an excellent education at all of its campuses.

Sedona

(3,769 posts)
42. Santa Cruz is an absolutely STUNNINGLY BEAUTIFUL place
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 04:58 PM
Apr 2021

I'd live there in a heartbeat if there was work for me there.

Make some extra time to explore. You'll never want to leave

Steven Maurer

(459 posts)
44. Would be proud to see her as a Banana Slug!
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 05:22 PM
Apr 2021

My Alma Mater still sports the most delicious counterculture of the entire UC system.
I'm fairly certain that she'd feel at home there.

Lemonwurst

(285 posts)
45. Great news
Sat Apr 3, 2021, 05:30 PM
Apr 2021

It feels so good once you get to this point. Our youngest just committed to a college last weekend and boy, what a process it’s been! Best of luck to your daughter, she sounds like a remarkable woman.

FirstLight

(13,360 posts)
54. I'm really stoked for her!
Sun Apr 4, 2021, 11:30 PM
Apr 2021

I only finished my AA at Lake Tahoe Community College (as a single mom in my 20s)....I never got to go through that process as a teen...so it's been super exciting for me too



DFW

(54,372 posts)
55. Congratulations on the start of a new chapter!
Mon Apr 5, 2021, 01:41 AM
Apr 2021

Both of our daughters opted to go to school in the USA when the time came. Not anything as idyllic as Santa Cruz (from the description), but still pretty exotic for two girls who grew up in Germany.

But still, that feeling of leaving them off on their own, and then watching them succeed—as we all know your daughter will—is a very special time in any parent’s life. Take it from one who has been there twice. When you leave her there, your thought is, “I hope she’ll be alright,” where her thought is, “I’ve got this.”

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