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Separation

(1,975 posts)
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:50 AM Sep 2018

Had to become a star member and the deletion of Facebook.

Since deleting Facebook a few weeks ago, there were certain groups and people that I missed talking to. However, deleting Facebook has been one of the best things I've done in a long time. Once I realized how poisonous Facebook is, I could not justify participating in it anymore.

I mean sure, who doesnt want to know what a friend from high school had for lunch. Or trying to explain why a meme is racist to somebody who you thought was a friend.....for the 10th time. Or hitting that "Like" button so little Jimmy can get that operation he's always needed, only to find out that it's a BS account that does this sort of thing for the clicks.

I was literally called a conspiracist whacko who suffers from Trump Derangement Syndrome because I KNOW that Russians have been behind one of the most successful disinformation programs in the world history. These were by people who I thought were "real life friends" and have know for 15-20 years. So it got to the point where I said, "Ya know what? I'm not playing anymore". I'm have also now appropriated "Trump Derangement Syndrome", and apply it to anyone in Trumps cult of personality.

The people in my life who I considered real family and friends, I gave a heads up, I gave em either my address or phone number. Told em, I'm not doing Facebook anymore and said, "Ya know how to get a hold of me."

It was almost like quitting smoking the first few days. I was like, "Oh, I'll just pop on for a second and see what's going on in the world." And I was like damn, I deleted it!

Now though, it's like letting go of a really toxic relationship. I started looking up social media and its influence. The average person checks their account 15-20 times a day! It's no wonder how Russia has been so successful, well add the fact that our Naked Emperor likes to claim all news is fake news...well it's a no brainer these days.

So, at least now I know there is a place where I can find like minded individuals (which has it's own pitfalls of becoming an echo chamber, but I've always recognized them and made sure to get diversifying opinions. So, long story a little more longer. I'm glad to be here.

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Had to become a star member and the deletion of Facebook. (Original Post) Separation Sep 2018 OP
It feels good to be out of that toxic environment, doesn't it? fleur-de-lisa Sep 2018 #1
Yeah, I dropped FB a while back when I realized it was impossible to compartmentalize my life. Girard442 Sep 2018 #2
I would say facebook has made me see some things about people I really dont like standingtall Sep 2018 #3
Facebook is like any other tool Sherman A1 Sep 2018 #4
You are correct Separation Sep 2018 #6
K & R. n/t LuckyCharms Sep 2018 #5
I have a fake account on FarceBook that's still active but I stopped using it. peekaloo Sep 2018 #7
I have two FB friends mikeysnot Sep 2018 #8
That takes a certain type of discipline Separation Sep 2018 #9
More cow bell! Totally Tunsie Sep 2018 #10

fleur-de-lisa

(14,624 posts)
1. It feels good to be out of that toxic environment, doesn't it?
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:53 AM
Sep 2018

I pretty much stopped posting there right after the election and then deleted my account last year. Don't miss it at all.

Girard442

(6,070 posts)
2. Yeah, I dropped FB a while back when I realized it was impossible to compartmentalize my life.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:55 AM
Sep 2018

It takes a certain kind of person to love living life in a bell jar and I ain't him. I once asked a school teacher how he deals with FB and his answer was succinct: "I don't use it."

It was later on that FB became the sewer that it is.

standingtall

(2,785 posts)
3. I would say facebook has made me see some things about people I really dont like
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:56 AM
Sep 2018

and not just friends, but relatives too especially relatives.

Sherman A1

(38,958 posts)
4. Facebook is like any other tool
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 10:56 AM
Sep 2018

It works for what it works for, just as does this board and other discussion groups.

I personally enjoy information from many groups related to my hobbies and information updates from local museums, botanical gardens and the library on events along with keeping in touch with folks that would normally have fallen off the radar long ago.

If it didn't work for you, then you did what is best in your case.

Separation

(1,975 posts)
6. You are correct
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:02 AM
Sep 2018

I've found that I can still do all those things without Facebook, like I did prior to Facebook.

peekaloo

(22,977 posts)
7. I have a fake account on FarceBook that's still active but I stopped using it.
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:03 AM
Sep 2018

Mainly to avoid people I went to school with although I did reconnect with one who hasn't turned to the dark side. I used it to mostly troll the trending stories but once that was eliminated my interest waned. I'd rather talk to my relatives/friends on the phone or face to face.

I did connect with some pretty cool people though and had way too much fun at times but screw it.

mikeysnot

(4,756 posts)
8. I have two FB friends
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:07 AM
Sep 2018

I get all my band news feeds, craft beer specials announcements and follow my political heros.

Do not see or deal with any of that shit.

Not even friends with my wife or kid.

Separation

(1,975 posts)
9. That takes a certain type of discipline
Fri Sep 21, 2018, 11:17 AM
Sep 2018

That I just dont have.

I also never formed that band that my buddies and I promised to form. I still, play though. (Guitar, Bass, Drums and a mean cow bell )

🤘

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