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ecstatic

(32,782 posts)
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:21 PM Jan 2018

Joan Walsh on CNN: Oprah has to answer for her support of "The Secret" (anti-science)

And Joan said Oprah also has to answer for her support of Dr Oz, Dr Phil, etc.

Wow! Really? I've heard the petty attacks related to Oprah (an entertainer) promoting other entertainers on her entertainment network, but I'm surprised that Oprah's interest in "The Secret" is now being questioned.

With regard to "The Secret," unless you've sincerely tried and failed at employing the principles of the law of attraction, you probably shouldn't comment on it. I'm a huge procrastinator so I haven't gone "all in," but the little I've done has been quite effective.

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Joan Walsh on CNN: Oprah has to answer for her support of "The Secret" (anti-science) (Original Post) ecstatic Jan 2018 OP
Just googled it. Sounds a bit like woo leftstreet Jan 2018 #1
It's moreso referring to changing your personal life. For example, ecstatic Jan 2018 #9
Uh . . . . . . hatrack Jan 2018 #10
What is confusing? ecstatic Jan 2018 #14
Well . . . hatrack Jan 2018 #16
I've seen first hand how powerful the images we put ecstatic Jan 2018 #18
OK, whatever hatrack Jan 2018 #22
The sex of a baby is determined by a man's sperm NickB79 Jan 2018 #25
OK, forget the gender. Just think baby. Although ecstatic Jan 2018 #29
Ever notice that Republicans take pix of themselves Orange Free State Jan 2018 #56
So that's why Mnuchin and his wife posed: Tanuki Jan 2018 #57
I Was Always Surprised By That Picture ProfessorGAC Jan 2018 #58
OK I am convinced! Orange Free State Jan 2018 #54
There is no law of attraction. That is bullshit. Orrex Jan 2018 #65
Eventually. lagomorph777 Jan 2018 #69
(Insert Snorting Noise Here) hatrack Jan 2018 #84
Rhonda Byrne... tonedevil Jan 2018 #24
It all starts with a thought. tinrobot Jan 2018 #49
doesn't sound like woo- It is full fucking blown woo LOL snooper2 Jan 2018 #71
She doesnt have to answer for shit. Nt NCTraveler Jan 2018 #2
THANK YOU, NCTraveler... Upthevibe Jan 2018 #15
It's one step removed from Reagan-style victim blaming misanthrope Jan 2018 #46
+1 uponit7771 Jan 2018 #32
If she wants to run for President she will. BannonsLiver Jan 2018 #45
In other words, she doesnt have to answer for shit. NCTraveler Jan 2018 #50
She's obviously under no obligation to answer Orrex Jan 2018 #66
I don't find it to be appropriate in any way at all. NCTraveler Jan 2018 #67
Excuse me, but who is demanding anything? Please provide links Orrex Jan 2018 #72
Stay focused. NCTraveler Jan 2018 #74
And I'm convinced that your judgment in this matter is questiontable Orrex Jan 2018 #75
precisely. n/t BannonsLiver Jan 2018 #77
It's a steaming pile of Woo . . . . hatrack Jan 2018 #3
Google Oprah + taxes, LOL. Its not going to happen. No more empires bettyellen Jan 2018 #6
The Secret is the worst kind of woo woo- just more bootstrap nonsense from idiots born on third base bettyellen Jan 2018 #4
If having a positive mindset and doing all you can do to be the best person Upthevibe Jan 2018 #17
If youre motivation for being the best person is personal gain.... and thats the sell there... bettyellen Jan 2018 #27
Exactly.. eating healthy and regular workouts Cha Jan 2018 #39
The secret blames illness and random tragedy on the people who suffer them.... bettyellen Jan 2018 #40
This message was self-deleted by its author BannonsLiver Jan 2018 #42
That wouldn't be me. Cha Jan 2018 #44
Im all for keeping things positive- but this never complain bullshit is more irrelevant than ever bettyellen Jan 2018 #47
I do.. Cha Jan 2018 #48
And the flip side of it, is the implication that people asked the universe bettyellen Jan 2018 #81
Do you think Oprah was born on third base? Beaverhausen Jan 2018 #35
Oprah didnt write the book. An Aussie who doesnt live by her own advice does- bettyellen Jan 2018 #37
It's called the Power of Postitive Thinking. A belief that has been around for ages Beaverhausen Jan 2018 #5
Thank you for your comment, Beaverhausen...n/t Upthevibe Jan 2018 #20
Would you say... tonedevil Jan 2018 #23
Of course I dont. Beaverhausen Jan 2018 #34
Yes, if only they had dreamed a little harder BannonsLiver Jan 2018 #43
There's positive thinking and then there's The Secret SwissTony Jan 2018 #80
I heard she tears those tags off mattresses. n/t Scurrilous Jan 2018 #7
Oh noes! Cha Jan 2018 #38
I'm sorry, but... Spider Jerusalem Jan 2018 #8
The secret is no different than religion marlakay Jan 2018 #11
Show biz vs. reality and politics BoneyardDem Jan 2018 #12
And guess what--the republicans will bring it up in any campaign. Kingofalldems Jan 2018 #13
How dare anyone doubt Oprah ! left-of-center2012 Jan 2018 #19
Why do I hear Palin re: Obama "pallin around with terrorists (Ayers) hlthe2b Jan 2018 #21
The Secret. Hahahahaha. Worst book I ever read Freethinker65 Jan 2018 #26
Not really... FarPoint Jan 2018 #28
wasn't that book part of the whole "prosperity" movement? eShirl Jan 2018 #30
Yes, it was. octoberlib Jan 2018 #36
The secret to the secret is that it's a con Bradshaw3 Jan 2018 #31
Did I miss the announcement where Oprah said she's running? tanyev Jan 2018 #33
We all missed it. Cha Jan 2018 #41
Do you think Gayle and Stedman would say the things they've said without her approval? melman Jan 2018 #51
There will be plenty of time for us all to fight about it after she forms an exploratory committee. tanyev Jan 2018 #60
If Oprah runs and gets the nomination, HopeAgain Jan 2018 #52
The Empirical Absolutists will agree with her.. whathehell Jan 2018 #53
It's just another "self-help" book DeminPennswoods Jan 2018 #55
No more so than any politician should have to answer 50 Shades Of Blue Jan 2018 #59
The Secret to the secret is called confirmation bias. raccoon Jan 2018 #61
Trump is a genius of law of attraction.. HipChick Jan 2018 #62
Exactly! Iwasthere Jan 2018 #79
"The Secret" is woo-woo bullshit. alarimer Jan 2018 #63
HILLARY CLINTON'S SPIRITUAL ADVISER WAS JEAN HOUSTON--that didn't seem to matter, so why make Oprah Mrs. Overall Jan 2018 #64
Did Hillary heavily promote anti-vaxxers and a nutjob pastor octoberlib Jan 2018 #68
Magickal thinking at its best or worst. There is nothing secret about "The Secret." nt Still Blue in PDX Jan 2018 #70
Im sorry, but thats just fucking stupid. nt Codeine Jan 2018 #73
For g's sake dawg day Jan 2018 #76
Reality is proceeded by dreams or thoughts of positivity or negativity. Are you aware of judesedit Jan 2018 #78
Poverty, abuse, cancer, mental illness- all because people asked the universe for them, right? bettyellen Jan 2018 #82
You actually can. You don't have to ask for it. judesedit Jan 2018 #85
Yeah. It's their own fault if they die of cancer. kcr Jan 2018 #86
So cancer happens because people are sunny enough- I guess they dont deserve to live if they cant bettyellen Jan 2018 #87
That book did a lot of damage to some vulnerable people. hunter Jan 2018 #83
Oprah's long-time support of anti-vaccination spokesmen disqualifies her. (nt) Paladin Jan 2018 #88

leftstreet

(36,119 posts)
1. Just googled it. Sounds a bit like woo
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:24 PM
Jan 2018
It is based on the pseudo-scientific 'law of attraction' which claims that thoughts can change the world directly.


riiiiight....

single payer healthcare can change the world
collective bargaining can change the world
public ownership of things like utilities can change the world

just 'thinking' about it, not so much

ecstatic

(32,782 posts)
9. It's moreso referring to changing your personal life. For example,
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:29 PM
Jan 2018

a woman who might be longing to have a son could buy a painting showing a woman with a baby boy. Or some people find that writing down specific goals is more effective than not writing down those goals.

hatrack

(59,602 posts)
16. Well . . .
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:34 PM
Jan 2018

"A woman who might be longing to have a son could buy a painting showing a woman with a baby boy."

Which, I presume, would produce the desired outcome?

ecstatic

(32,782 posts)
18. I've seen first hand how powerful the images we put
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:37 PM
Jan 2018

up in our homes can be. Personally, I think it's the quickest and easiest way to use the law of attraction, but I guess your mileage may vary.

NickB79

(19,297 posts)
25. The sex of a baby is determined by a man's sperm
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:42 PM
Jan 2018

What possible scientific explanation could anyone offer up to link a woman staring at a painting of a baby boy with which sperm fertilizes her egg?

Maybe I should hang up a painting of a stack of cash so I'll win the lottery next week.

ecstatic

(32,782 posts)
29. OK, forget the gender. Just think baby. Although
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:53 PM
Jan 2018

there are ways of making one gender more likely (at which point it's no longer about the law of attraction)...

ProfessorGAC

(65,381 posts)
58. I Was Always Surprised By That Picture
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 08:55 AM
Jan 2018

That those two would have a picture taken with a sheet of one's. I would have thought they wouldn't stoop to anything lower than Franklin's.

Orange Free State

(611 posts)
54. OK I am convinced!
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 08:22 AM
Jan 2018

Fortunately I can draw.

I will immediately make an image of a fat orange rolling off a cliff.

Who knows, maybe it will come true. Maybe it already is happening just by me thinking about it!

Excuse me, I am having multiple sarcasms today.

Orrex

(63,263 posts)
65. There is no law of attraction. That is bullshit.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 11:30 AM
Jan 2018

We're not talking about gravity or magnetism, but rather the "magical" "law of attraction" to which you're referring.

It's garbage, with no verifiable basis in anything but wishful thinking.

If Oprah endorses that bullshit, she absolutely shouldn't be anywhere near the White House.

lagomorph777

(30,613 posts)
69. Eventually.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 11:52 AM
Jan 2018

Keeping the baby image in your face every day could result in a series of babies being conceived (i.e. you're in the mood to conceive all the time). Statistically, eventually one of them will probably be a boy.

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
24. Rhonda Byrne...
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:41 PM
Jan 2018

says that the victims of the Holocaust would have been fine if only they had used the principals she lays down in The Secret.

tinrobot

(10,927 posts)
49. It all starts with a thought.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 02:12 AM
Jan 2018
single payer healthcare can change the world
collective bargaining can change the world
public ownership of things like utilities can change the world

just 'thinking' about it, not so much


Someone had to come up with the ideas for single payer health care, collective bargaining, etc. Those ideas all started out as thoughts.

In fact, someone must spend a lot of time "thinking about" these complex ideas in order to turn them into policies.

Thoughts are powerful things, and they can have a powerful effect on people's lives. Might as well make those thoughts as positive as possible.

Upthevibe

(8,106 posts)
15. THANK YOU, NCTraveler...
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:33 PM
Jan 2018

I'll repeat what you just said: She doesn't have to answer for shit! "The Secret" is about having a positive mindset and self-improvement. if someone has a problem with that, they can go F themselves...

misanthrope

(7,436 posts)
46. It's one step removed from Reagan-style victim blaming
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 12:55 AM
Jan 2018

"Everything bad that happens to you is your own fault. The unfortunate are in their position due to their own shortcomings."

BannonsLiver

(16,542 posts)
45. If she wants to run for President she will.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 12:40 AM
Jan 2018

See, that’s how it works. The good news is it’s also why she won’t be running for President.

Orrex

(63,263 posts)
66. She's obviously under no obligation to answer
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 11:44 AM
Jan 2018

Just as obviously--since her inner circle has been vaguely non-dismissive of her possible presidential aspirations--it is entirely appropriate to ask these questions.

 

NCTraveler

(30,481 posts)
67. I don't find it to be appropriate in any way at all.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 11:47 AM
Jan 2018

"her inner circle has been vaguely non-dismissive of her possible presidential aspirations"

One of the best sentences ever.



I demand you answer these questions considering the vaguely non-dismissive replies of your inner circle.

I do appreciate that. It helps to understand your mindset.

"vaguely non-dismissive"



My appologies if your reply was straight up sarcasm.

Orrex

(63,263 posts)
72. Excuse me, but who is demanding anything? Please provide links
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 12:00 PM
Jan 2018

We are asking entirely reasonable questions, and we are certainly not expecting her to answer, much less "demanding."

Are you as quick to jump on people who speak positively of her hypothetical presidency? Those comments are as baseless and unjustified as questions about her support of Dr. Phil, Dr. Oz, Jenny McCarthy, and The Secret.


For that matter, it's appropriate to question her endorsement of that bullshit even if she never runs for office.

hatrack

(59,602 posts)
3. It's a steaming pile of Woo . . . .
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:27 PM
Jan 2018

Not sure if that makes Oprah a believer, but it certainly makes her an enabler - and after all, it's $$$$$ that matters in the end in this society.

Last freaking thing this country needs is more magical thinking.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
6. Google Oprah + taxes, LOL. Its not going to happen. No more empires
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:28 PM
Jan 2018

Being run from the White House. No normalizing woo woo bullshit.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
4. The Secret is the worst kind of woo woo- just more bootstrap nonsense from idiots born on third base
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:27 PM
Jan 2018

Dr Oz andDr Phil are just as bad. Plus she hates paying her taxes. And she too would probably have a zillion conflicts.

Just no to devaluing expertise and reality. No woo.

Upthevibe

(8,106 posts)
17. If having a positive mindset and doing all you can do to be the best person
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:37 PM
Jan 2018

you can be, is "woo woo" then call me the biggest, badssest woo-woo around! I'll proudly wear that badge....

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
27. If youre motivation for being the best person is personal gain.... and thats the sell there...
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:43 PM
Jan 2018

Well you’re not the best, are you? I’m sorry that kind of crap is used to blame people for their random misfortunes all the damn time- bootstraps- they’re always recommended by the extremely well connected for some reason, LOL. What a scam!

Cha

(298,008 posts)
39. Exactly.. eating healthy and regular workouts
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 11:44 PM
Jan 2018

are important, too. We get out what we put into it.. Body Mind and Spirit.

I don't know about The Secret but I like your attitude, Upthevibe.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
40. The secret blames illness and random tragedy on the people who suffer them....
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 11:56 PM
Jan 2018

And claims that just a positive attitude is the cure. It goes beyond the fake it to make it, be cheerful stuff into bizarre woo that she claims is based on actual physics.

Response to bettyellen (Reply #40)

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
47. Im all for keeping things positive- but this never complain bullshit is more irrelevant than ever
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 01:51 AM
Jan 2018

these days- you get that too, I know.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
81. And the flip side of it, is the implication that people asked the universe
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 05:03 PM
Jan 2018

For their misfortune- and that the fortunate have been “blessed by god”- same as the prosperity gospel crap. It’s a way for people to rationalize their lack of empathy and generosity toward others. People LOVE simple answers. I get that some people need to hear that they’re more fortunate than they realize and need to accentuate the positive- but when they start claiming that’s the solution to literally all that ails you- it’s dangerous and junk science to boot. Cannot abide that.

Hope you’re well, my dear! Always good to see you here.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
37. Oprah didnt write the book. An Aussie who doesnt live by her own advice does-
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 11:36 PM
Jan 2018

But I guess that’s good because if she gets sick she’ll see a doctor instead of attributing the disease and it’s cure to bad or good vibes, LOL. What a total scam.

Beaverhausen

(24,475 posts)
5. It's called the Power of Postitive Thinking. A belief that has been around for ages
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:28 PM
Jan 2018

But by all means, get your panties in a twist over it.

 

tonedevil

(3,022 posts)
23. Would you say...
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:39 PM
Jan 2018

the victims of the Holocaust would have been OK if only they used positive thinking? Rhonda Byrne says that's the case in her book The Secret.

Beaverhausen

(24,475 posts)
34. Of course I dont.
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 11:05 PM
Jan 2018

But having a positive attitude can help us through a lot

You can believe it or not. Makes no difference to me.

BannonsLiver

(16,542 posts)
43. Yes, if only they had dreamed a little harder
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 12:36 AM
Jan 2018

Honestly some of the woo nuttery embraced here is fascinating.

SwissTony

(2,560 posts)
80. There's positive thinking and then there's The Secret
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 02:14 PM
Jan 2018

You can decide to...

get fit
lose weight
enroll in a university course
stop smoking
cut back on alcohol

or a million other possibilities. All positive thoughts.

But strongly believing and hoping you will win the lottery won't increase your chances.

 

Spider Jerusalem

(21,786 posts)
8. I'm sorry, but...
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:29 PM
Jan 2018

you don't need to try and fail to control the universe with your thoughts to be able to understand that it's nonsense.

https://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Law_of_attraction

marlakay

(11,533 posts)
11. The secret is no different than religion
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:31 PM
Jan 2018

Or belief of any sort, just Christian belief is more acceptable.

But if she ran they would use that against her plus a ton of other stuff like everyone else that runs.

If the media wants to trash her they will.

 

BoneyardDem

(1,202 posts)
12. Show biz vs. reality and politics
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:31 PM
Jan 2018

seriously haven't we learned yet that they are not in the same bed together.

Al Franken's Show biz, vs. his Senatorial tenure......they were and are NOT the same

Bashing Oprah seems suspect to me at this point.

hlthe2b

(102,509 posts)
21. Why do I hear Palin re: Obama "pallin around with terrorists (Ayers)
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:38 PM
Jan 2018

and being demonized for his own pastor's comments (Jeremiah Wright) with all this "guilty by association" going on? Pretty soon, no one who has had any kind of career unrelated to politics (cough, cough, Franken) will be able to pass muster to run for higher office, much less the Presidency.

Really, folks? There are lots of reasons to oppose Oprah or any other candidate, but do we REALLY believe she is Anti-Science? I don't. She presented a lot of crap, granted, but in the name of a talk show discussion and entertainment. But, I surely have never heard or seen a suggestion that she is a climate change denier (Gore was featured on her show on at least 2 occasions), or opposes clean air, water, food regulations, or supports destruction of our forests and National Parks in the name of profit, or is, herself anti-vaccine (I KNOW she vaccinates her dogs).

Can ANYONE pass muster in this current climate? Again, i'm not promoting an Oprah run, just saying we need to consider how we evaluate our potential candidates--all of our candidates.


http://www.cnn.com/2008/POLITICS/10/04/palin.obama/

Freethinker65

(10,105 posts)
26. The Secret. Hahahahaha. Worst book I ever read
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:43 PM
Jan 2018

And yes I read it. All of it for a book club. Some of it out loud while laughing at how stupid it was.

For the first time ever, everyone in the book club agreed it was just awful. I did not even know it was an Oprah suggested book. The book club member that suggested it for us apologized for it (and she later died around the age of 50, the result of a horrible invasive uterine cancer...guess she did not know “the secret”?).

To this day when we get a good parking spot, my husband or I will exclaim “we know the secret!” and chuckle.

eShirl

(18,507 posts)
30. wasn't that book part of the whole "prosperity" movement?
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 06:56 PM
Jan 2018

That was the impression I had at the time but I never read it.

Bradshaw3

(7,544 posts)
31. The secret to the secret is that it's a con
Tue Jan 9, 2018, 07:00 PM
Jan 2018

It's based on bullshit, just like many "self-help" programs, Scientology, and Trump University. Just because some are gullible enough to fall for it like they did for trump's bullshit university and the anti-vaxxer stuff (another Oprah promotion) doesn't make it ok. Do we really need another person in the WH who promotes cons and charlatans?

And Oprah doesn't just promote Phil and Oz. They work for her.

 

melman

(7,681 posts)
51. Do you think Gayle and Stedman would say the things they've said without her approval?
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 08:01 AM
Jan 2018

Come on.

tanyev

(42,669 posts)
60. There will be plenty of time for us all to fight about it after she forms an exploratory committee.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 09:25 AM
Jan 2018

HopeAgain

(4,407 posts)
52. If Oprah runs and gets the nomination,
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 08:03 AM
Jan 2018

this party is dumber than anyone could have imagined. I want an experienced leader and a message, not a celebrity.

DeminPennswoods

(15,294 posts)
55. It's just another "self-help" book
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 08:23 AM
Jan 2018

IIRC, Oprah had a pretty awful childhood. Everything she's accomplished, believes, does comes from that background, imho. If you've watched her over the years, she's consistently attracted to emotion-based ideas and sob stories. No one should be surprised she related to "The Secret". Trump is mercurial and then some. Oprah would be overly influenced by her emotions. I doubt she'd be able to make a hard choice that might help a lot of people if it hurt some in the process. She should stick to what's made her rich.

50 Shades Of Blue

(10,096 posts)
59. No more so than any politician should have to answer
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 09:16 AM
Jan 2018

For trying to ram Christianity down everyone's throats! Oprah wasn't in office and any bullshit she promoted was on her own time. It doesn't endear her to me but it's completely different from prayer in schools or Merry Christmas political crap.

raccoon

(31,131 posts)
61. The Secret to the secret is called confirmation bias.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 09:26 AM
Jan 2018

The Secret to the secret is called "confirmation bias."

It's absolute horseshit.

alarimer

(16,245 posts)
63. "The Secret" is woo-woo bullshit.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 09:48 AM
Jan 2018

From a scientific point of view it is complete bullshit. From the self-help side, it elevates self-centeredness to an art form. Here is one self-help blogger's take on it. It is, basically, confirmation bias in book form. You see only what you want or expect to see and ignore the rest that doesn't fit.

https://markmanson.net/the-secret

The Secret is actually just a candied up version of an old psychological concept called the ‘confirmation bias.’ The confirmation bias is well-studied; researchers have known about it for decades.3 It also makes a hell of a lot more sense than the “Thoughts as Vibrations” theory.

As human beings, we have a limited amount of attention for all the stuff going on around us. Therefore, whether we realize it or not (usually not), we are always choosing what we pay attention to. The confirmation bias is the human mind’s tendency to notice and pay more attention to objects and experiences that match its preexisting thoughts and beliefs. It does this for the simple reason that it is biologically economical and efficient.4

We’ve all experienced confirmation bias a million times, you’ve probably just never realized it before. For example, you spend years not really paying attention to what kind of car people drive. But then the time comes for you to start thinking about buying a car and suddenly you notice the make and model of cars all over the place. You start making decisions about which styles you like and what features you care about. You start noticing these details because for the first time they are salient and relevant to your thoughts and desires, whereas before they weren’t.

Or let’s say that a close friend breaks your trust and you have a huge fight. Suddenly you find yourself thinking back and noticing all sorts of shady and questionable behavior from your friend that you never noticed or thought about before. Things you can’t believe you overlooked or missed. But before, because you trusted your friend, you didn’t notice them. Now that you don’t trust them, you notice a long trail of red flags.

Mrs. Overall

(6,839 posts)
64. HILLARY CLINTON'S SPIRITUAL ADVISER WAS JEAN HOUSTON--that didn't seem to matter, so why make Oprah
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 11:00 AM
Jan 2018

answer for her spiritual beliefs?

octoberlib

(14,971 posts)
68. Did Hillary heavily promote anti-vaxxers and a nutjob pastor
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 11:49 AM
Jan 2018

who claims he can cure cancer with psychic energy? Oprah's anti-science and that's dangerous.

dawg day

(7,947 posts)
76. For g's sake
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 12:05 PM
Jan 2018

How about we Dems don't knee-cap each other from the get-go.

There is a man sitting in the White House who conspired with Putin to sell out our country-- AND, it looks like, our military. Not years ago, not just on a TV program-- but last year. And from the White House.

Anyone-- anyone-- who can beat him would be better.

judesedit

(4,443 posts)
78. Reality is proceeded by dreams or thoughts of positivity or negativity. Are you aware of
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 12:41 PM
Jan 2018

Quantum physics? Just looking at an inatimate object will cause its atoms to activate. Thoughts are things you can use to improve your attitude and life. The opposite is also true. Women have false pregnancies that go full term. Plenty of psychosomatic illness around so they had to create pretend pharmaceuticals. Get with the program preople. Thoughts have the power to heal or hurt you.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
82. Poverty, abuse, cancer, mental illness- all because people asked the universe for them, right?
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 05:05 PM
Jan 2018

Oy vey. You CAN make this shit up. LOL.

judesedit

(4,443 posts)
85. You actually can. You don't have to ask for it.
Thu Jan 11, 2018, 10:51 AM
Jan 2018

You just keep thinking about the negative aspects and wallow in it. Of course we all have obstacles to overcome. But how many times have doctors told patients they're going to die or will never walk again to have the patient defy them and go win a marathon. You don't think that takes major positive thought projection? And determination. I guess some people just like to be controlled by outside influences without doing anything to change them. I choose not to when I can control my thoughts and enjoy my life. It starts with your thinking. Try it.

kcr

(15,326 posts)
86. Yeah. It's their own fault if they die of cancer.
Thu Jan 11, 2018, 11:00 AM
Jan 2018

They just didn't want it bad enough!

Thank you for showing why that kind of thinking is poisonous. You've presented a perfect example.

 

bettyellen

(47,209 posts)
87. So cancer happens because people are sunny enough- I guess they dont deserve to live if they cant
Thu Jan 11, 2018, 01:15 PM
Jan 2018

Keep it sweet, LOL. The only people I have met who believe this crap used to be chronic depressive complainers and it was great for THEM. They think everyone is like them. No thanks to lurching from one extreme to another, I prefer a variety of genuine emotions, thanks.

hunter

(38,349 posts)
83. That book did a lot of damage to some vulnerable people.
Wed Jan 10, 2018, 07:48 PM
Jan 2018

"The Secret" is no cure for mental illness. It's not even good advice for healthy people.

People blamed themselves when it didn't work, and maybe worse, others blamed victims of mental illness for not somehow making it work.

Off-my-meds there's no amount of positive New Thought energy that is going to make me functional. The hallucinations won't go away, and the overwhelming desire to feel anything, anything at all just to ground myself, even potentially harmful to myself, does not go away.

I've no patience with woo. In my experience meds work, and very practical approaches to dealing with life work, even in times things get really strange for me. I take my meds, I cope with realities gone sideways, and I accept that's who I am. When I'm at my best I'm on the docks mending my social safety nets. I've no longer any expectations of cures, or even meds without unpleasant side effects. I hate my meds. I've quit them at times cold-turkey. That never ends well. Today I take them.

I landed in a locked psych ward in 2016 when the effectiveness of one of my meds faded. Shit happens. It was my good fortune to get nothing but practical advice and new variations of prescription meds that are helpful. It's wonderful to be living in the 21st century. Some of my ancestors suffered far worse than I ever have without helpful meds. Some did not survive much longer than to reproduce. Is that positive thinking, or what?

In the psych ward I met a lot of people who were beating themselves over the head (sometimes literally) because they hadn't been able to pull themselves up by their bootstraps with positive thinking, "The Secret" or other religion, seven-day-a-week-12-step-higher-power sobriety, or anything else.

I'm a spiritual person, but I'm also trained as a scientist. I'm skeptical, maybe even hostile, toward anyone who thinks they can influence outcomes by thoughts or prayers.

Sometimes you have just got to take the pills and reflect upon the times Mother Nature smacked you in the head with a 2 X 4 or stuffed your face into the sand and nearly broke your neck and drowned you because you are stupid, hard headed obstinate, Mother Nature utterly indifferent to an otherwise trivial imbalance in your brain chemistry.

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