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No DUplicitous DUpe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 12:30 PM
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Preparing My 3 Year Old Grandson For War
Preparing My 3 Year Old Grandson For War
(posted with the author's permission from http://sane-ramblings.blogspot.com)

My family thought he was too young for he was too little for his local pre-school, stood only as tall as my belt buckle and just wanted to swing on his play set, but I knew better.

His cousin is turning 11 and he was just a baby when the U.S. invaded Afghanistan and he was 21/2 when the U.S. invaded Iraq for the 2nd time, wars that continue today, so I knew it was time to prepare my 3 year old grandson for war. After all, the Pentagon is already preparing to fight future wars, including cyber wars, as it sees potential U.S. enemies everywhere.

To capture the spirit of being a soldier, I took him to our local giant discounter and bought him little Army fatigues, including a shirt that read, "Support our Troops" and got him small Army boots, just his size. Of course all these things were made in China, as was the American flag I bought. Yet how could I train him properly without toy guns, tanks and grenades, so I bought him the best of those toys the Chinese manufacture.

But while all those jobs and millions more had gone to China, I knew many American jobs came from these wars and the preparation for new ones. In his neighborhood, there are several dads and moms working for giant defense contractors. In my neighborhood are retired men who worked for defense contractors their entire careers. All of these people produce or produced products America never used, but in the name of defense, are worth all the taxpayer money that paid for and continues to pay for them.

As I took my tiny grandson to a local park to teach him combat, he asked, "Grandpa, how will I know when we have won?" "I don't know," I replied. "I'm 66 years old and in my memory, the U.S. didn't win in Korea, lost in Vietnam and has been driven to a standstill in Iraq where it has fought twice and to a standstill in Afghanistan.

"In the 45 year Cold War, we nearly went to nuclear war several times. And even our 40 year War on Drugs has been a disaster. But what I do know," I assured him, "Is that when it comes to war, we are the best in the world because we are always fighting. And rest assured, we will blow-up anyone who gets in our way. That's what keeps us so safe."

He got scared and began crying. To calm him, I smiled and said, "If all these wars were wrong, with the support of their religious leaders, Americans would unite to stop them, instead of celebrating them in presidential speeches and in movies, television shows and games. For we are people of compassion and conscience, who care for all of humanity."

(posted with the author's permission from http://sane-ramblings.blogspot.com)

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No DUplicitous DUpe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 02:00 PM
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1. ..he asked, "Grandpa, how will I know when we have won?" "I don't know," I replied.
:cry:
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sabrina 1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 03:42 PM
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2. Very nice piece.
Forever war! For which there is always money to spend.
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No DUplicitous DUpe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 04:02 PM
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4. Re: Forever war! For which there is always money to spend.
Imagine if all that money was spent on things that made the world better, instead of things that destroy.
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sabrina 1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 06:06 PM
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9.  I do try to imagine that sometimes.
The first benefit of that would be, the US would have friends, not enemies. If we used our military to go help when there are natural disasters eg, instead of creating disasters, imagine the goodwill it would generate?

The homeless would disappear mostly and people would have dignity. Crime would drop as people's needs were met, jobs, a liveable wage, healthcare for all, a good education.

Someone should write a thesis on how different things would be for millions of people, if we had a 'war on war'.
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No DUplicitous DUpe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 06:28 PM
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10. Beautifully put, Sabrina
:hi:
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Tierra_y_Libertad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 03:53 PM
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3. "If it's natural to kill, how come men have to go into training to learn how?" Joan Baez
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truedelphi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 04:11 PM
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5. Ah and so it continues -
Edited on Sat Jun-04-11 04:12 PM by truedelphi
1954 and somewhere in a sunny Chicago park, on a swing set, a man pushes the swing his three year old daughter is on.

On the walk home, he will mention to her, that when he was her age (back in 1915) there was a "War to end all Wars." And that the title of that war had to be changed into World War One, as the wars never ever, just never ever ever end.

The kid was not really old enough to understand what he was talking about, but he was a recovering soldier, still plagued with World War II battleground nightmares, and the subject of war was something the kid's mom had forbidden inside the house.

Years later, when that three year old kid was a "peacenik," the father was quite confused as why she wasn't supporting President Nixon and his efforts to end Communism by fighting the Vietnam War.


"You taught me not to support war - don't you remember that, Dad?"

And maybe sometimes a part of him did remember.

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Cid_B Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 04:14 PM
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6. Sounds like a preachy jerk of a Grandpa...
The three year old got screwed.
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Pharaoh Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 04:45 PM
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7. I think he was being facetious n/t
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BOG PERSON Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-05-11 12:29 PM
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13. n/m
Edited on Sun Jun-05-11 12:30 PM by BOG PERSON
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csziggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Jun-04-11 04:49 PM
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8. He forgot - we also lost the War on Poverty
Poverty won and has come back stronger than ever.
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No DUplicitous DUpe Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-05-11 01:26 AM
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11. Thank you for adding that. nt
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csziggy Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-05-11 12:21 PM
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12. In fact the only war that has been won - the War on the Middle Class!
That seems to be the most successful war the US has engaged in since World War II.
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