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Zywiec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:16 PM Original message |
What do you say to the parents of a friend who killed himself? |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:17 PM Response to Original message |
1. Tell them you know it's painful but |
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Az (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
2. Being there is the humane thing to do |
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Lars39 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
3. "I am so sorry, ________.", and a hug goes a long way. |
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blogslut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
4. Just be there |
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Clovis Sangrail (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:20 PM Response to Original message |
5. nothing |
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JVS (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
6. "If you need anything, please don't hesitate to call me" |
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RevCheesehead (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
7. You'll know what to say (if anything) when you get there. |
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youthere (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:23 PM Response to Original message |
8. "I'm so sorry..I'm here for you." |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:24 PM Response to Original message |
9. "We do the best we can." |
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JNelson6563 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 04:17 PM Response to Reply #9 |
32. That friend was lucky to have you. |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 06:49 PM Response to Reply #32 |
39. I'm a very rich person with the friends I have. |
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MuseRider (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:25 PM Response to Original message |
10. Just be there |
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porphyrian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:27 PM Response to Reply #10 |
11. I'll second that. |
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keopeli (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:28 PM Response to Original message |
12. Look them in the eye and say, "My heart weeps with yours" if you can get it out w/out balling. |
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Zywiec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:28 PM Response to Original message |
13. I appreciate everyone's response |
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AndyA (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:31 PM Response to Original message |
14. I've been in your situation before. |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 04:14 PM Response to Reply #14 |
31. Any parent woudl love that story |
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mnhtnbb (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:34 PM Response to Original message |
15. Very simply, "I'm so very sorry." And then let them talk. |
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Rosemary2205 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
16. Doesn't matter - they won't remember it anyway. |
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Laughing Mirror (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:35 PM Response to Original message |
17. You can talk about him as you knew him in childhood |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:36 PM Response to Original message |
18. I'm so sorry, Zywiec. |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:43 PM Response to Original message |
19. I'm sorry for you and all of you who lost friends that way. |
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Zywiec (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:45 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. That story about the little boy really breaks my heart |
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Sequoia (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 03:20 PM Response to Reply #20 |
27. Same here, and of course I can never forget it. |
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CC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 01:46 PM Response to Original message |
21. A simple I'm sorry for your loss |
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etherealtruth (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 03:16 PM Response to Original message |
25. I'm sorry |
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DU GrovelBot (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 03:50 PM Response to Original message |
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LaurenG (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 07:19 PM Response to Reply #28 |
42. LOL |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 03:52 PM Response to Original message |
29. How religious are they? |
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Madspirit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 03:56 PM Response to Original message |
30. I'm So Sorry....Hug...then just be there...and listen... |
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fed-up (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 04:23 PM Response to Original message |
33. sorry for your loss, when timing is right ask about any recent insurance policies |
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Syncronaut Seven (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 04:42 PM Response to Reply #33 |
36. I'm speculating that it wasn't a calculated event on his part |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 04:57 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. "I'm drunk, I'm tired, I'm sad...I am angered"" |
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Oilwellian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 04:28 PM Response to Original message |
34. I lost a son many years ago... |
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wicket (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 04:53 PM Response to Reply #34 |
37. What a wonderful tribute |
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Warren DeMontague (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 04:30 PM Response to Original message |
35. Say "I'm So Very Sorry", and don't overdo it beyond that. |
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Jed Dilligan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 06:51 PM Response to Original message |
40. Almost exactly the same story as my friend |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 07:01 PM Response to Original message |
41. You just hug them and tell them how sorry you are for their loss |
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woo me with science (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri May-25-07 08:15 PM Response to Original message |
43. Tell them how much you loved their son, |
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