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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 08:55 PM Original message |
Attention DU, desperately need some advice! |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:01 PM Response to Original message |
1. She should go to her county or state welfare office tomorrow and sign up for TANF |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:04 PM Response to Reply #1 |
3. No disabilty insurance through work, it is optional and he did not |
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Emit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #3 |
16. Unfortunately, it appears that Missouri has no state plan for short term disability |
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Hawkeye-X (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:04 PM Response to Original message |
2. I'm sorry to say, but she must get an attorney to protect him, herself and her daughter. |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:07 PM Response to Reply #2 |
6. that is one of the things I told her. |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:05 PM Response to Original message |
4. Did your niece and her boyfriend have living wills? |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:10 PM Response to Reply #4 |
8. No living wills. |
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HamdenRice (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 07:06 AM Response to Reply #4 |
27. I think you mean a will or a living trust, not a living will |
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rainy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:06 PM Response to Original message |
5. He can't get fired because he was in an accident. He should still draw |
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FLDCVADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:12 PM Response to Reply #5 |
11. What? |
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Hello_Kitty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:21 PM Response to Reply #11 |
17. He probably does have long-term disability through work. |
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givemebackmycountry (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:10 PM Response to Original message |
7. I'm so sorry - be strong |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:11 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Thank you so much! |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:11 PM Response to Original message |
10. The hospital should have a social worker |
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FLDCVADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:13 PM Response to Reply #10 |
12. Not only life insurance |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:15 PM Response to Reply #10 |
14. He is listed on the birth certificate. |
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sandnsea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 10:14 PM Response to Reply #14 |
24. That is just heartbreaking |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
13. She needs to talk to social services ASAP |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:20 PM Response to Reply #13 |
15. She has tried to talk to a social worker at the hospital but his mom |
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FLDCVADem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:34 PM Response to Reply #15 |
19. IMO, the key here |
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kristopher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 07:07 AM Response to Reply #19 |
28. His official next of kin is the child in every state I've seen. |
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nadinbrzezinski (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:37 PM Response to Reply #15 |
20. Hip and pelvis is the same thing... |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:39 PM Response to Reply #15 |
21. I posted below before reading your reply above- one thing you |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 10:08 PM Response to Reply #21 |
23. I would be willing to do anything to help them that I can. |
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Bluerthanblue (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
18. I agree that the hospital SHOULD have a Social Worker that |
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cap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
22. Unless your niece is in a state that recognizes common law marriage |
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kristopher (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 07:10 AM Response to Reply #22 |
29. You forgot his child. |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 08:31 AM Response to Reply #29 |
30. Might be a good angle to pursue. |
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havocmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 08:38 AM Response to Reply #29 |
31. One might look into the way the young man filed his income taxes too |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 08:41 AM Response to Reply #31 |
32. Hadn't thought of that! |
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cap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-25-09 08:47 AM Response to Reply #29 |
35. the child is a minor and can't take custody... |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 09:45 AM Response to Reply #22 |
33. Niece has done incredibly well in dealing with the "in-laws" so far. |
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shraby (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sun Aug-23-09 11:17 PM Response to Original message |
25. Another thing to think about, was he involved in a one car |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 06:58 AM Response to Reply #25 |
26. It was a multiple vechiel accident, 3 to be accurate, and it was ruled |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Mon Aug-24-09 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
34. Thank you to all for your responses and advice. |
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AngryAmish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-25-09 08:50 AM Response to Original message |
36. Most hospitals have social workers |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-25-09 08:53 AM Response to Original message |
37. Is there a common law marriage code in your state? |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-25-09 09:05 AM Response to Reply #37 |
38. Not sure. |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-25-09 10:53 AM Response to Reply #38 |
40. Just looked it up for Missouri. No common law there. |
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madmom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-25-09 09:53 AM Response to Original message |
39. Did the young man belong to a union through his job? When my SO had a terrible |
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bighart (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-25-09 11:42 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. No union where he worked. |
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