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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:15 AM
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Judge Reportedly Questioned Whether Woman Was Raped Because She Was "On Top"
Newly elected judge Kevin Fine isn't your typical jurist -- he's been frank and outspoken about his missteps in life, which include a cocaine addiction.

Now he finds himself dealing with another alleged misstep -- accusations that he told a rape victim in his court that he didn't believe she was raped because she was "on top" during the act.

There are no transcripts yet to the July 31 hearing, which came after the defendant was convicted and before he was sentenced. Transcripts are being prepared for appeals. But observers in the courtroom have spread word of the alleged comment, and it will likely come up...


http://blogs.houstonpress.com/hairballs/2009/08/judge_reportedly_questioned_wh.php

I just happen to have served on the jury of a rape trial that ended about a week ago. There is no doubt that a woman can be raped, even if she's on top.

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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:20 AM
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1. If this is true, he should NEVER preside over a rape trial again!
Of course, there are those who still think husbands can't rape their wives, gay men can't be raped, women can't rape another woman, and women can't rape men. Anyone who thinks the aforementioned are true are fucking morons!
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:32 AM
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3. You would not believe
what a couple of the old white men on the jury I served on believed. Well, pretty much everything you listed.

When you add a gun, a knife, a beating, a threat...literally anyone can be raped. They can even be forced to be on top, take off their own clothes, give oral...
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:35 AM
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7. I would believe it.
My partner just sat on a trial for aggravated rape. Violence against women is often misdirected (it's the victim's fault) or dismissed (she's just being over-emotional/time of the month/trying to exact revenge). I find it amazing that in this day and age people still don't understand the nature of rape, its causes, or how it is accomplished.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:44 AM
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11. Being on that jury
really opened my eyes. I thought it took a certain kind of creep to believe that way (in this case, that she deserved what she got), but these old guys appeared to be really nice guys, until we started deliberations. I was stunned.
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:49 AM
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12. It can be very eye-opening.
Some of the most depraved people and biggest bigots seem to be the nicest people, but they always reveal the dark beating mass which is supposed to be their heart.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 08:27 AM
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29. My friend was accused of "attention seeking behavior" after she was raped.
She has some mental health issues along with physical disability caused by Shaken Baby Syndrome and can get a bit emotional over little things. The glib dismissals really pissed me off.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 11:53 AM
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32. I thought of you
and your friend when I heard this on the radio. I remember you posting a little about what happened to her in another thread. It makes me so angry. It is horrible enough to be raped but to have people call you a liar after, to blame you for what happened - I can't even tell you how it upsets me.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:42 PM
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53. Thank you!
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 02:44 PM by Odin2005
It made me furious. Typical "She's just being hysterical" sexist crap.
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moggie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:03 AM
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19. He should not preside over ANY trial
In this trial, the perp had already been found guilty. It's the jury's job to decide matters of fact, and the judge's job to decide matters of law. Once the jury has decided that rape took place, it's not for the judge to say that they're wrong: that's what an appeal is for.
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Heidi Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:30 AM
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2. Some of the comments at that link are just vile.
:(
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:33 AM
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5. I didn't read the comments.
I'm not sure I want to. :puke:
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:37 AM
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9. Never...NEVER...read the comments; it only causes pain and anger.
Pain from slapping your head and rolling your eyes so far back in your head you think they will stick and anger, well, for the obvious hate and stupidity. Again, never read the comments unless you are ready to spread the pain!
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:46 PM
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54. Ugh, I shouldn't have looked. That's just disgusting.
:puke:
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Missy Vixen Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:32 AM
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4. "No" means "No", and the position doesn't matter
Looks like the judge needs to find another line of work...

:mad:
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:35 AM
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6. You expect that (unfortunately)
from certain men, but a judge? He needs to go. What an creep.
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bkkyosemite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:36 AM
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8. Lately I've been calling a lot of people idiots (repubs) but this beats the cake idiot!
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 12:36 AM by bkkyosemite
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:01 AM
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18. As if the woman
hadn't been through enough. And this is exactly the kind of shit that makes women reluctant to report rape, or testify at trial. What an asshole.
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bkkyosemite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:08 AM
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20. True true........
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:38 AM
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10. Probably no difference in "difficulty" in raping a woman even though she's on top
as horrid as I feel for even thinking about how it would be possible. Rape invokes a certain form of...rage in me. Almost blind, irrational rage.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:54 AM
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16. The trial I just finished -
the woman took off her own clothes and laid down on the bed. But it was after having been assaulted/strangled, pinned down, and threatened (her life). She was willing to do whatever he told her, to save her life. He could have easily told her to be on top and she would have complied.

Yeah, it brings out rage in me too.
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omega minimo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:39 PM
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37. "Violence" -- the word is "violence," not "difficulty." "Difficult" for whom?
From whose point of view are you "even thinking about how it would be possible"?


This sounds like some still see it as a sexual act, rather than a violent act.


Rape is violence. Violation. That's what to keep in mind when "even thinking about how it would be possible" -- if that's really necessary.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:54 PM
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43. Your two deleted subthreads above wasn't clue enough for you?
If you're seeking to be outraged by misrepresenting the intent of what I said, then mission accomplished. Go fucking stalk someone else.
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omega minimo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:59 PM
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44. Would you mind reading the post and answering the questions? Considering how language matters?
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 12:59 PM by omega minimo
:thumbsup: I'm sure you can. Unless you want to hide behind your little fit.

Please read the post as written and drop the 'tude. We can all learn from whatever your response is.

Language matters.
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flvegan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:04 PM
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45. No.
Last night your little accusation that my thoughts/statements were alike the rapist's in this story earns you a big, fat "screw you"

Go stalk someone else.
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omega minimo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:21 PM
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48. Yes. Language matters.
And I clarified the wording to prevent that misunderstanding. Your words create some misunderstanding, hence the questions.

Your refusal to answer them indicates you won't or can't acknowledge the impression of your post and clarify, or acknowledge language matters.

Your false accusation of stalking and "screw you" just suggests more denseness.

You really don't get the concept, do you? YOU'RE RIGHT!! You don't have to DISCUSS anything. Being called on your language, asked to clarify, "Screw you!!"

:hi:
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omega minimo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:37 PM
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49. and I'm sorry I offended you
:toast:
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:51 PM
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55. Wow, WTF what happened in the deleted sub-thread?
Do I want to know? :scared:
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WinstonSmith4740 Donating Member (266 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:51 AM
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14. I heard this story years ago...
It may be an urban legend, but it still holds true.

During a rape trial, the defendent's lawyer made the claim that a woman can't be raped if she fought back at all, so she had to consent to the sex. To prove his point, he spun a soda bottle on the table and challanged anyone to stick a pencil into the neck of the bottle while it was spinning. The prosecuting attorney went over, picked up a heavy object, smashed the bottle to pieces, and then stuck the pencil through what was left of the neck of the bottle. Trial over.

Like I said, it might not actually be true, but I'd sure like to think it is.

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bkkyosemite Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:00 AM
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17. Now that proves a big point. Glad he did that!
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SwissTony Donating Member (240 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 04:08 AM
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23. I heard of a similar stunt in a British Court many years ago
This was in the days of inkwells and pens you had to dip into the inkwell to get ink on the nib. The defending council gave the victim a pen and held an empty inkwell on a surface in front of her. Whenever she tried to put the pen in the well, he'd move it and she'd miss. The accused was acquitted.

This story was related to me by a RW colleague and to him it proved it couldn't be rape. The logic of the comparison escaped and disgusted me. I then pointed out that had I been given that challenge, I would have stuck the nib in the council's hand...hard!!!!! Subsequently sticking it into the well would then have been easy. He walked away without saying another word.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 07:35 AM
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26. That an entire jury
would be so thick, is frightening. I'm surprised your RW colleague "got it". One has to wonder how many criminals have gone free over the years.
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:00 AM
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21. I hope this ruins his career. I hope he gets pulled off the bench
really damned quick. x(

Does that asshole not have any clue how coercive and violent a crime rape is? :wtf:

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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:00 AM
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22. Delete duplicate
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 02:00 AM by ThomCat


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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 05:59 AM
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24. Until someone more reputable than the Houston Press covers it ...
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 06:04 AM by TexasObserver
... I would withhold judgment. The Press is hardly a "newspaper." It hawks mainly sexually related businesses, and is known for attack pieces that often don't hold up. They did a hatchet job on Sheila Jackson Lee that was typical of their assassination style of article.

Wait until a real newspaper writes it up, then believe it.

If the story is true as told, he'll probably be removed from the bench.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 07:31 AM
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25. I actually heard about it
initially on the radio. I googled it, hoping to get more details. Who knows?
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TexasObserver Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 07:36 AM
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27. It's probably true, but the HP has run far too many stories that are hit pieces.
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 07:37 AM by TexasObserver
They're just not a source I'd want to quote for anything more than where to find someone who can no longer advertise their kink on Craig's List. They give them away at restaurant/bars.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 08:20 AM
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28. This victim-blaming dimwit should be impeached.
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 08:21 AM by Odin2005
No means NO, you dumbass!!!
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BlueIris Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 08:41 AM
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30. What a fucking psychopath that "judge" is. This is the twenty-first century, right?
Right?????
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 08:46 AM
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31. If DU is any indicator even plenty of "Progressives" are misogynists.
There are even some DUers that think DATE RAPE is OK. :puke:
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:02 PM
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34. You know what?
I was hesitant about posting this because of those DUers. There's actually a group of them who rush into rape threads, like moths to a flame. It is usually a matter of who sees it first - how the threads will progress. I'm pleasantly surprised that they haven't infiltrated this one (so far).
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omega minimo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:41 PM
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38. They're still trying to recover from the fact we had a huge, varied constructive thread
last week and they couldn't kill it.
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HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:42 PM
Response to Reply #38
39. lulz
Awfully funny comment, given the two locked subthreads.
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omega minimo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:48 PM
Response to Reply #39
42. Oh, see. He's here.
:thumbsdown: Licking his wounds.

"Awfully funny" considering the 800 replies.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:53 PM
Response to Reply #39
56. Well, Well, look who showed up.
:eyes:
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HiFructosePronSyrup Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 03:19 PM
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62. Oh, I was in the deleted subthreads before they were deleted.
Did you see them before they were deleted?

Really telling of who's got the real issues here.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:56 PM
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58. It's pathetic, innit?
The projection (Man-Hating Femi-Nazis!!!) is disgusting.
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Echo In Light Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 11:56 AM
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33. Remeber this from yesterday? JAILED FOR YAWNING
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:10 PM
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35. Yes, I do.
And I have to say, it is somewhat frightening to know what the "justice" system can get away with. I'm glad to read these stories, though, because it means they're getting caught and exposed.
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UndertheOcean Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:24 PM
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36. There is an easy retribution for rape , no jail , no fine , no need for parole and all that
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 12:27 PM by UndertheOcean
just castrate the guy , WITHOUT anesthesia , and send him on his merry way.

on edit , if it is a woman , don't know ? maybe Hysterectomy , again without anesthesia.

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omega minimo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:44 PM
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40. It's the violence, not the dick, that's the problem. What's Mr. NoDick gonna think up next?
Watch some porn/video mayhem with the only joystick he's got left and go violate with other weapons?
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Matariki Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 12:48 PM
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41. I seriously doubt that would solve anything.
And while it might be 'retribution' in a blood lust revenge sort of way - it won't stop the rapist from doing it again.

In fact, it would probably make the person even more hateful and bent on violence against women.
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Starry Messenger Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:42 PM
Response to Reply #36
50. He can still rape.
He will just use something else. :(
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anigbrowl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:08 PM
Response to Reply #36
52. Right. Because nobody has ever been wrongly convicted, evidence hidden, or lies told in court
Yep, abrupt irreversible punishments are the way to go. While it's true that a small percentage of such convictions turn out to be flawed, too bad. That's the pice of preserving an unconstitutional 'justice' system of the kind you propose.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:59 PM
Response to Reply #36
59. Won't work, sexual assault is about power more than it is about sex.
Edited on Tue Aug-11-09 02:59 PM by Odin2005
The rapist will just find some other way to violate his victims sexually.
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LanternWaste Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 03:07 PM
Response to Reply #36
61. Amadou Diallo...
I imagine that Amadou Diallo would vociferously disagree with your position.
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One_Life_To_Give Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:17 PM
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46. Must have liked the answer
Must have liked the answer as he gave the defendant 25 years.

Don't care for the way he went about getting his questions answered but looks like he realizes his mistake. And hopefully most of this is just one soundbite out of context. But the transcripts when available will either confirm poor tact or his being an ass.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 01:18 PM
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47. For Those Who Chose Not To Read the Full Article: Here's His Response
The manner in which I went about garnering answers to my questions that I had, and that I needed answered prior to assessing appropriate punishment for the defendant, was incorrect. I should not have gone about it in the manner in which I went about it.

In other words, I should not -- probably the better method would have been to call counsel into chambers and express my concerns directly to them, demonstrating all of the physical evidence that I was looking at that did not match what the complainant had to say during (the) guilt/innocence and during (the) punishment (phases of the trial).

And then let them flesh it out with the witness, rather than me question the witness, because of the appearance that I didn't believe the witness, or was picking on the witness, which I don't think a judge should do. Although in certain circumstances maybe it's appropriate.

I think in light of the nature of the offense the better means would have been to call counsel for both sides into chambers, express my concerns, explain my concerns based on the evidence I had in front of me -- and by that I mean the physical evidence -- and then let them flesh it out.


Perhaps it also needs to be pointed out, again, the question was asked after the defendant had been found guilty.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:02 PM
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51. Ok. I'll concede.
It was probably less traumatizing to have the judge make his despicable opinion known AFTER the rapist was found guilty, rather than before. But only slightly less traumatizing. I can't even imagine how the woman must have felt to hear his opinion in front of an entire courtroom. How she must have felt to hear his opinion at all. As far as I know, it was not his place to even offer it - except under proper circumstances. What he did was fucked up. He knows it.

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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 05:58 PM
Response to Reply #51
66. By leaving such things out, it gives the appearance that you were trying to hide that fact...
because you were worried about it not being outrageous enough if the whole situation were understood.

It's a pretty craven way to foment outrage. What's more: in this case, it wasn't even necessary - this is plenty outrageous all-things-understood.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 06:52 PM
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69. I didn't intentionally leave anything out.
I copied the first few paragraphs as per copyright rules. I was not in the least bit worried about it not being outrageous enough because, as even you have pointed out, it was 'plenty outrageous all-things-understood'. The fact that he said if after the conviction barely registered because it made no difference. It was the fact that he even thought it, and then said it in front of her that was so disgusting.

And when I wrote: 'Ok. I'll concede.' it just didn't occur to me that I would need to use the sarcasm thingy. I figured it would be understood.

Seriously, please don't tell me what I was thinking. You couldn't be more wrong.
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 06:54 PM
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70. I didn't say you did.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 07:15 PM
Response to Reply #70
74. OK.
It kind of sounded that way. But I can see where I may have taken it wrong. :)
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mamaleah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 02:53 PM
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57. I don't see why the judge would need that info at all period.
She was raped....what does it matter in what position???
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 03:02 PM
Response to Reply #57
60. Exactly, rape is rape.
By making such a remark for whatever reason he is exposing his contempt for the rape victim.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 05:10 PM
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63. That's Your Inference
Giving the benefit of the doubt, I think he was exposing his own lack of knowledge in the area. He's a new judge who just learned a lesson.
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 05:53 PM
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64. He may be a new judge
but he's not a new human. One doesn't have to expand the mind much to understand how rape could occur with the victim on top.

Giving the benefit of the doubt to the judge and not the victim? Wrong.
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 06:08 PM
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68. No, it was exposing his own misogynistic cultural biases.
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dem629 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 06:56 PM
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71. Are you trying to get a date?
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Odin2005 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 07:02 PM
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73. What's that got to do with anything?
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Control-Z Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 07:30 PM
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76. What does that mean? n/t
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marshall Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 07:01 PM
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72. I can see it being needed (along with a host of other evidence)
By itself I wouldn't think her being on top would prove or disprove the rape, it is just one piece in the puzzle that makes up the event. It helps explain to the jury or the judge what happened.

I assume most rape cases involve asking the victim questions like that. And the defense attorney tries to show inconsistencies in what the victim says. There was no inconsistency here, and the judge seems to have carried the question and answer overboard to the point of titillation. His conclusion and his statement regarding that conclusion are inappropriate.
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Aug-12-09 07:19 AM
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77. Why Was His Statement Inappropriate?
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BlooInBloo Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 05:56 PM
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65. Disgusting, even though it was after the verdict.
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Wednesdays Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 06:00 PM
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67. K&R
:kick:
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Aug-11-09 07:17 PM
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75. K&R
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