The Wisconsin guy who was "gang glued"? He's been arrested

[CatWoman]

FOND DU LAC, Wis. — A Wisconsin man who prosecutors say was tied up, humiliated and assaulted by his wife and three other women has been jailed on accusations of child abuse and other misdeeds.

Fond du Lac Police Capt. Steven Klein said Wednesday the 36-year-old man was arrested Tuesday on allegations that also include theft, unlawful phone use and harassment with a death threat in a domestic abuse investigation.

The man has not been formally charged.

Four women, including the man's wife and two women alleged to be his lovers, are accused of luring the man to a hotel room, tying him up and gluing his penis to his stomach. Each is charged with being party to false imprisonment, and one is charged with fourth-degree sexual assault.

http://www.huffingtonpost.com/huff-wires/20090805/us-cheater-assaulted/

[hlthe2b]

1. Whoah boy....

:popcorn:

[seabeyond]

15. puttin head down and

well hell... gigglin myself. with the open yeed wonder where THIS thread will go.

oooosh....

[Eric J in MN]

2. Is he guilty, or did his wife make false accusations against him? NT

NT

[bobthedrummer]

9. And be "seduced" by the coercion of corrupt "justice" power elite?-kick

[CatWoman]

16. that, my dear, is the question

:shrug:

[seabeyond]

20. i read the article and i think this was all before the super glue incident. nt

[joeybee12]

70. My first thought...

...people get crazy in these types of proceedings.

[LanternWaste]

99. Maybe it was his girlfriend

" did his wife make false accusations against him..."

Maybe it was his girlfriend who made the false accusations. Or his mistress who made the false accusations. Or his evening date who made the false accusations.

So many women to blame-- so little blame to go around, you see... :sarcasm:

[vadawg]

3. i wonder how many of the allegations will be false

not uncommon for a guy in the middle of a divorce or seperation to find all sorts of accusations of child abuse flying... i guess it will all come out in the wash...

[underseasurveyor]

10. My brothers ex wife lied during their divorce

and nothing could have been farther from the truth. My brother may be a lot of things but an abuser he is not. After all was said and done and sorted out her lies came back to bite her in the ass.

[musette_sf]

52. my sister's ex-husband lied during their divorce

and nothing could have been farther from the truth. He was, is, and remains a serial abuser of females. After all was said and done and sorted out his lies, and karma, came back to bite him in the ass.

[TCJ70]

77. Lesson is:

People lie sometimes.

[underseasurveyor]

84. Yup

Dats it.

[LanternWaste]

100. Especially the one's with a wife...

"People lie sometimes..."

Especially the one's with a wife, a girlfriend, a date, and a mistress. I'd hazard that particular demographic lies more often than not.

[joeunderdog]

144. Super-glued penises don't lie.

This is a pretty harsh standard for vigilante justice if they let that one go. It's a coordinated sexual offense and not just a knee jerk defensive response to a bad situation.

[jbnow]

170. Another lesson:

Sometimes accusations are true.

Sometimes people do abuse children
commit theft, harass and make death threats in a domestic abuse investigation.

[TCJ70]

171. I don't doubt that...

...I just read the "response" (in quotes since it almost doesn't deserve the label) and thought it was ridiculous. Men and women are both perfectly capable of lying in a courtroom or on the phone to 911.

[gaspee]

26. Yeah, because

It's TOTALLY uncommon for a guy to be an abuser.

[seabeyond]

29. totally. nt

[vadawg]

30. yeah because its totally uncommon for people to make shit up to get out of trouble

or to come out better in a divorce or seperation. You got to be kidding if you didnt realise that we were talking about cases where women lie, you know they do, hell both parties make lots of shit up about each other and thats why when its he said she said you have to be real careful...

[marshall]

148. All five of them seem suspect to me

These women tied up a man and basically tortured him. Any children that are in their care should be investigated.

[Mnemosyne]

36. Four women had a problem with this guy, four. I'm sure they all have no reason to

hate the prick.

[WI_DEM]

54. Yes, he sounds like a great guy.

[cherish44]

82. well in my divorce I (the wife) got accused of child neglect

stupid asshole called DCSF twice on me, even broke into my house and took staged pictures. Both times the charges were UNFOUNDED. Yes UNFOUNDED. I wrote a letter to his attorney telling him that my ex better be damn sure they're going to find something the next time he calls DCFS because I'm filing harassment charges next time and if he breaks into my house again, he'll be glad that his lawyer's specialized in criminal defense because I'll have his ass arrested....so, it happens to women too

[HopeHoops]

4. "Lucy, you got some 'splainin' to do..."

The plot grows thicker...

[Deja Q]

8. But for less than 4 hours?

:rofl:

[susanr516]

5. I know two wrongs don't make a right,

but this man is starting to sound like he needed a dose of Karma.

[Eric J in MN]

14. We don't know who gave the police the information they used for the arrest.

If it was his wife, who attacked him, then she may be lying.

[CitizenLeft]

6. ROTFL!

That'll fix 'im!

[Deja Q]

7. Given the following:

Did they only glue the outside of his willie? That thin tip makes for, obviously, easy insertion... *cough*

:scared:

[csziggy]

46. The story says they glued it to his stomach

Years ago a dental hygenist told me that she did that to her soon to be Ex while he was asleep. When he woke up, he got his usual morning erection and things got very painful for him.

Frankly, I think this started as an urban legend and has moved into real life:

http://snopes.com/risque/revenge/superglue.asp

Snopes says it was mentioned in Reservoir Dogs in 1992 and while it was urban legend prior to that, no confirmed cases can be found until 2000.

[Deja Q]

51. I know how to read.

I was trying to hint at something more sinister.

[uppityperson]

131. Obstruct someone's urethra and have them die. Ha. ha. Ha. How terribly funny you are

*cough*? Dying from kidney failure or having to have emergency surgery to repair a ruptured bladder. How funny.

wtf is wrong with people?

[Forkboy]

11. I predict a 100 responses, minimum.

:)

[CatWoman]

17. and I predict your's will be the funniest

:)

[TheCowsCameHome]

12. I wonder if these charges will stick, too.

[CatWoman]

18. ouch!!

:rofl:

[seabeyond]

22. the guy gets to joke about it, ... you dont. shame. nt

[CatWoman]

24. oh come on

it was a very good pun.

[seabeyond]

28. .

:shrug:

not my rules. wink

[omega minimo]

33. Dong Dong Dong -- We have a wiener!!

:wow: :bounce:

[Spike89]

13. No surprise

Hmm, he has his wife (and his girlfriend(s)) arrested. I expected them to file counter charges. As for the threats, hmmm, how many of you, tied up and having your genitals super glued wouldn't say some things that could be interpreted as threatening.

It really sounds like a group of stupid people that I'm glad I don't know. I'll never understand how people can justify the escalation to violence of this type. Divorce is easy enough and a hell of a lot less humiliating for everyone involved.

[TexasObserver]

19. More "blame the victim" nonsense.

This one is real hard to figure out. Wife learns she's in big trouble. Claims husband is violating laws and files a report. Police take it down, make the arrest required and announce it.

[seabeyond]

21. do you have that info for fact, or is it guess. i had read artile this was prior

to all this going down. you could be right, there is certainly the element of vindictiveness and not owning behavior.... but

you could be wrong

unless you know something you are not sharing

[BlooInBloo]

23. I hope this isn't part of the women's revenge - making shit up along those lines...

Because that's pretty low, if so.

[seabeyond]

31. yes it would be, about as low as using super glue on body parts.

but then we already know this about these women

the thing, i read briefly, this was all prior to this. so dont know. will see. though why we would be surprised if true? the guy isnt someone to write home about. and these women are not any better.

[Mnemosyne]

43. Any man stupid enough to get 4 women that pissed off is definitely no prize. These weren't

just some friend's that got together to take revenge for one woman 'wronged'.

They all must have hated his guts for some reason, otherwise I would be much more suspicious of his current arrest.

No excuse for the penile attack at all though. But it is funny still, cannot help laughing. Sometimes karma works quickly.

:hi:

[Gwendolyn]

57. To be fair, it was only three.

One of them was the sister of the glueress and only went along to cheerlead. She didn't know him.

The glueress is actually married herself, so should hardly be making judgment calls when her choice of adultery partner proceeds to screw around on her too. From some of the other articles posted up, it seems she gave him money and paid for their tryst lair, so that probably has to do with the rage factor. The wife and other, other woman may have acted out of passion hate though.

[Mnemosyne]

68. I'd just call the entire group morans and leave it at that.

:hi:

[Gwendolyn]

71. Hehe, correct you are!

:hi:

[Mnemosyne]

172. The group give new meaning to the word trash.

:hi:

[omega minimo]

32. Clearly a very dysfunctional situation. Other family problems would not be a surprise.

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[badgerpup]

27. When the wife and the girl-friendS (as in 'more than one')...

...get together and start comparing notes, the guy involved can invest in a jam-and-peanut butter jacket.
He are TOAST.
:nopity:

Dude's damn lucky that all that happened to him was some humiliation and his brain pee-pee glued to his belly.
Lotsa women might have taken the mantra of "What's gonna work? TEAMWORK!" :fistbump:
much further and his carcass may (or may not) have been found wrapped in plastic trash bags...
and deposited in various widely separated dumpsters around the town.

[Buns_of_Fire]

34. I guess a reconciliation is out at this point. n/t

[LostInAnomie]

35. Great! Another thread where women get to make jokes about a man who was sexually assaulted!

I can't wait until the next thread about a woman having her sexual organs attacked in some way. I'll just laugh and laugh and laugh... That will be funny, right?

I have a feeling the wife is just being vindictive and making shit up.

[CatWoman]

37. I don't see any women on this thread making jokes

you sound like this incident is pretty, um, er, 'close to home'.

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[omega minimo]

49. If you take a breath and read the post with an open mind, you might actually understand it.

:thumbsup: Just try. it won't hurt. :hug:


You'd have to stop hatin' for a moment. Can you do that? :hi:

[LostInAnomie]

67. That's funny coming from you.

The truth is that any time a story or study comes out where men are the victim there are plenty of hypocrites that think it's fine to diminish victim or somehow think that it is part of cosmic leveling. It's obvious, from some of the other threads on this topic, that at least a few of these hypocrites are some of DU's more outspoken/inflammatory "feminists".

I'll abstain from posting links to prove this, because apparently people run crying to the mods, but all people need to do is look at the other threads and see for themselves.

[omega minimo]

72. When you take responsibility for your own behavior, you will be better able to see clearly

Good luck :thumbsup:

[LostInAnomie]

74. When you can stop posting passive aggressive nonsense...

... and hit and run crap I'll start taking advice from you. Until then, I'll laugh at your hypocrisy.

[omega minimo]

85. Please get well soon

:hi:

[LostInAnomie]

90. You're the one that has a guilty conscious.

You cannot face your own documented bile. It's almost pathological.

[omega minimo]

92. I'm very sorry

for you. Good bye.

[LostInAnomie]

75. When you can stop posting passive aggressive nonsense...

... and hit and run crap I'll start taking advice from you. Until then, I'll laugh at your hypocrisy.

[omega minimo]

76. I wish you well.

:grouphug:

[musette_sf]

56. + 1 - 1

you shouldn't have self edited, i liked the original post.

[omega minimo]

58. Maybe people in general feel very fragile and frightened.

:hi:

This is a way for some to express extreme anxiety, a sense of victimhood encased in a sheath of hostility.

Seems not just TEH MENZ!!11 are feeling needy right now............

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[omega minimo]

141. observation

of assholes

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[gaspee]

41. Oh those women!

Oppressing men! Someone oughta stop them - this matriarchy we all live in is really horrible to the menz!

Rape jokes are only funny when men make them!

I think this might be needed to be pointed out - but there aren't any actual jokes about men being sexually assaulted on this thread. And the people who are most likely to to complain about and protest prison rape jokes and jokes about sexual assault are women. For the record. There are plenty of threads for you to research - but why let a silly think like facts get in the way!

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[omega minimo]

62. You can't link to open threads, or drag your BS fights around the board. You're just flamebating.

:puke:

[LostInAnomie]

66. Ooooo... are you going to try to have my post deleted again for proving hypocrisy?

If people make obviously flawed statements, people should be able to prove their points.

[omega minimo]

87. .

Your posts were deleted b/c you violated several DU Rules.

"If people make obviously flawed statements, people should be able to prove their points."

Not by violating numerous DU Rules.

Best wishes on your recovery.

:toast:

[LostInAnomie]

89. Just pointing out that you think sexual assault is fodder for jokes.

If you can't face it, that's your problem. No wonder so many of your posts get deleted and you meet hostility in almost every thread you post in with regards to sexuality and gender issues. You really should seek help.

[omega minimo]

91. I do not.

And I am not responsible for your lack of comprehension or your serial hostility that you drag around.

:shrug:


I did attempt, in the original post, to discuss with you, in this thread and in good faith. I also suggested we don't all have to fall for the tactics being used to divide us and disrupt discussion.

I didn't realize how deep your animosity was. I'm sorry. I won't try again.

[LostInAnomie]

93. Yes, you do. I would post the link to prove it...

... but we know you'd just go whining to the mods again. If you can't face what you've written, that's your problem.

Actually, you referred to those that took offense to how many on DU had made light of sexual assault as "self righteous", and "turdstirrers". You made light of our outrage and claimed it was feigned victimization. You can pretty much reread your previously deleted post in post #79 (isn't reposting a previously deleted post against the rules?).

Don't worry, I won't report you for it. I'm not a child.

[omega minimo]

94. Why would you imagine I was talking about you? I was trying to talk TO you. Okay. My mistake.

Won't try again. I do hope you get well and learn to take responsibility, for all our sake, including your own... and it would help your ability to NOT wildly misinterpret other DUers and NOT carry your precious grudge wherever you go (and NOT try to justify violating DU Rules).

:thumbsup: Bye now.

[LostInAnomie]

96. I think anyone can take a look at your post and decide if I misrepresented your words...

... or your tone. It's the same one they are used to seeing from you in your typical posts that usually get deleted (talk about respect for DU rules).

Like I said in other posts, you made light of sexual assault on numerous occasions (which is provable and the real reason you ran to the mods), and then you can't bear to face your own words. The common link in those cases is that men were the victims. That says volumes about you and your twisted worldview. Please seek professional help (I'm sure I'm not the first person to tell you that).

[Gwendolyn]

101. If OM was ostensibly a feminist, she would be active on the threads about the mass female killer.

She is not. All those threads about that POS convey the message that it was about his religion, his racism, his right wingerishness. Nothing really about the fact that he hated women. And you will never find OM on any of those threads bringing up that point because she just likes arguing with men. In the most ridiculous, emotional way. I'm ashamed for her.

[LostInAnomie]

102. +1

I can't believe how many people on here are trying to use that murderer for their own purposes, instead of stating the obvious fact that he hated women.

In regards to OM, I agree completely. She also only seems to care about the DU Rules when it suits her or helps her save face.

[omega minimo]

103. Please stop the personal attacks, Gwendolyn. Claiming someone should post in certain threads?

What they "should" do to meet your standards? As if everyone here sees all the same threads you do, anyway? :crazy:

Your attacks serve no one but yourself. "In the most ridiculous, emotional way"

[Gwendolyn]

107. I wish you well OM. And hope you find some self-esteem.

Because you have none. :hug:

[omega minimo]

108. Sad

How funny how important it is -- to those acting so self righteous -- to look for ways to hurt someone. Your projection is a reflection directly back at you.
:spray:

[Gwendolyn]

110. Okay I will.

I dislike what you say as a female, and your obvious 80s feminist propaganda is laughable today. I also remember you taking me apart one night in such a girlish, trollish way it was amazing to me. Also, it's quite true that the worst story of violence that has been perpetrated against women happened only a few days ago, and you, YOU, the armed guard of all things feminist, haven't even graced one thread with your comments. Honestly, your comments do disgust me, and all you seem to like doing is argue uselessly with men into the night. That's all I will say, and I find you a very negative person. Good luck.

[omega minimo]

112. Thank you.

You have underscored that your attitude is the problem.

The common issues, goals and views that we share are not served by intentionally being hostile to others and tracking that everywhere. Perhaps you will choose not to do so in future, to me or others whom you think should adhere to your policies and see and post in the threads you decree.

Rather authoritarian way to be, that. Rather nuts to think everyone sees the same news/posts/media you do, as well.

Good luck with that.

[Gwendolyn]

Smoochie baby.

Whatever you say. You're just so bad at spin it doesn't work for you. And you totally know, as does everyone else, that you argue with men into the night about nothing.

But I do like you all the same, and have never put you on ignore because what you say is so strange and I constantly feel you are so anti-feminist it's better to actually read what you say and slap myself upside the head and go, FUCK. This is feminism in America. I'm sure you're a good person, or maybe bloo's alter ego. You're just irritating without a goal.

[omega minimo]

105. Your personal attack may stand long enough to display the false accusations you perpetrate.

"The common link" is your misinterpretations of my words. And perpetuation of your incomprehension. Which is why it would be best to just quit talking to each other. At all.

I remember you and I tried to talk in good faith anyway. I will not make that mistake again. Take you bitterness and point it somewhere else. Please.

[LostInAnomie]

109. Didn't you already say "Bye now"? Seems like you just like arguing.

You seem to have a real sore spot for when your hypocrisy is on display. As I've noted, and I'm sure everyone else has noticed. Your "good faith" discussion is a collection of bitter words and dismissing of those that take offense to sexual assault. If you really gave a damn about the victims of sexual assault you would not jest about a man having his genitals attacked (as I demonstrated you did earlier). That is nothing to find humor in. And, you are a hypocrite for taking offense to such jokes down thread.

I await you next sneering, self righteous "goodbye" post.

[omega minimo]

113. Seems you just like misinterpreting.

There is no "sneering" here. I advocate for open discussion of these topics. Always have. I advocate against it being a battle of sexes, which it always turns into and the type of bitterness and misrepresentations and hostility that you are displaying is a major contributor to that.

It doesn't have to be a battle.

It seems a lot of people are really hurting and this is one way to express it and project it on others, rather than face the raeal fears.................

[LostInAnomie]

118. Haha... I knew you couldn't help yourself.

Talk about "hostility", you're the one that made fun of a sexual assault on a man. It does not get more hostile than that. It's disgusting and you should be ashamed of yourself.

"I advocate against it being a battle of sexes..." :rofl: :rofl: :rofl: Since when!? :rofl: :rofl: :rofl:

[omega minimo]

123. For the final time, I am not responsible for your misrepresentations

and you are responsible for spreading false accusations.

[LostInAnomie]

128. I seriously doubt it's your final time.

As I have said, people can read your post #79 and see if I misrepresented anything you said. They will find I have not.

And you are a hypocrite, because down thread you reprimanded a person for making fun of the sexual assault, but you yourself have made a tasteless joke about the same man's sexual assault and humiliation.

You do not enter any conversation that I have seen about sexuality or gender issues in "good faith" as you claim. You throw yourself at them with a thuggish and hackish "Dworkinism" that betrays your real point of view. You, simply put, hate men.

[omega minimo]

139. Your disgusting behavior is toxic to healthy discussion on DU.

:puke:

[LostInAnomie]

146. I knew you couldn't resist. You're like a moth to the flame.

If you don't like your hypocrisy thrown in your face, then don't make a hypocrite of yourself. You either think jokes about sexual assault are alright (which I have proven you do and can provide a link to anyone that needs proof) or you don't. If you approve of them, then don't admonish others for making them (as you did down thread).

As for healthy discussion on DU, perhaps you should take a moment to contemplate the number of threads you've had locked for flame-bait, and the number of your posts that get deleted any time you get into a discussion about sexuality. Would these people you get in flame wars with react in such a way if you were actually respectful or even attempted "healthy discussion"? No, they would probably react calmly and respectfully disagree. Instead though, you spring into Dworkin mode and attack while at the same time blaming others for being the bully. You should feel ashamed.

[joeunderdog]

147. Agreed. 8+ hrs on a thread to offer backhanded support to female (alleged) sexual offenders?

Agenda much? Not a good showing.

[LostInAnomie]

150. Who's offering support to sex offenders?

[joeunderdog]

155. you.

Touching and traumatizing someone's genitals generally constitutes a sexual offense these days...unless there's a double standard applied for women who perpetrate.

[LostInAnomie]

157. Where have I ever said anything approving of sexual offense?

This whole argument I've been having is that I disapproved of jokes made at this man's expense. Try to keep up.

[Gwendolyn]

126. Oh it's prob bloonbloo.

In any case, OM is prob a man. No woman would be so stupid. ;-)

[seabeyond]

129. fuck....

this is reminding me of the bushco argument. claim dems are stealing votes to cover votes stolen by them.

[Gwendolyn]

135. I read your posts and find you honorable. Even tho I disagree with you sometimes..

You really assume OM is a woman? I really don't care who posts what, but you can tell OM is a cartoon figure. And also, since I respect your opinion, I expect you will say something on the threads about why and who the fucker who killed a bunch of women was. Please. Don't be a silent woman who argues with men and doesn't actually denounce male to female violence.:)

[omega minimo]

145. Irony

Your posts raise the same questions about you:

"You really assume Gwendolyn is a woman? I really don't care who posts what, but you can tell Gwendolyn is a cartoon figure."

[Gwendolyn]

153. Keep talkin' dud-a-licious.

Oh wait, you don't get laid. :)

[omega minimo]

156. Yep, we were right.

:rofl:

[Gwendolyn]

159. As we have all learned... it's important to have sex.

Go have some. Then come back and talk about 2009 feminist issues.

[lumberjack_jeff]

95. You spoke too soon.

I knew it wouldn't be long before the Lorena Bobbit worshippers came out of the woodwork.

[LostInAnomie]

97. I posted other examples earlier...

... since it's a common occurrence in other threads, but someone whined to the mods.

[gaspee]

42. Oh those women!

Oppressing men! Someone oughta stop them - this matriarchy we all live in is really horrible to the menz!

Rape jokes are only funny when men make them!

I think this might be needed to be pointed out - but there aren't any actual jokes about men being sexually assaulted on this thread. And the people who are most likely to to complain about and protest prison rape jokes and jokes about sexual assault are women. For the record. There are plenty of threads for you to research - but why let a silly think like facts get in the way!

[seabeyond]

111. to this point, the only joke so far was made from a guy. you are going to ride his ass

arent you. of course you are cause you dont want to be a hypocrite of course

[fascisthunter]

174. lol

[dysfunctional press]

38. even IF true, doesn't justify their actions...lock them ALL up.

just not together, obviously.

[seabeyond]

114. no, it does not justify. not hard seperating events. i agree. nt

[Poll_Blind]

40. Well, let's put it this way. Four people who don't like this guy are facing...

...serious jail time/felonies for their behavior. It is not particularly an exotic concept to imagine that, after being caught, they tried to formalize whatever grievances they had with him in a way which justified their criminal behavior.

The accusers could be telling the truth, of course. It's not something I know the answer to. Circumstantially, though, the accuser's credibility comes into question and I doubt a judge would overlook the circumstances under which the charges were made.

If the accusers are found to be making false police reports to justify their crime they will get the book thrown at them.

I think in situations like this it's probably better to go to the police in the first place than to try to convince them (after you've been arrested committing a crime) that your crime was justified by having another crime committed against them.

PB

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[musette_sf]

60. i sure hope the abuse allegations are taken VERY SERIOUSLY

since what the women did was wrong, but they ALL had a reason to be p!ssed at this guy.

and p!ssed off men who have been cheated on...

(often)

KILL.

[slackmaster]

50. And to think I used to believe that only whores and football players lived in Wisconsin

:shrug:

[reflection]

55. Didn't take long for 'ignored' to infect this thread, I see.

It's a particularly virulent strain, apparently. Spreads like wildfire.

[omega minimo]

59. Bring back the Meta Ignore.

The misogynists can have a hate fest with each other.........

The rest of us can discuss how sociopolitical gender issues affect all of us -- fe/male -- and how crucial the subject is to many common issues.

:kick:

[musette_sf]

61. i'm surprised none of my current Ignores are on here (yet)

but that does give me hope that some of them have been TS'd.

[reflection]

64. Yep. How my lone 'Ignore' has escaped a TSing baffles me.

But then again some infections are very hard to treat.

[omega minimo]

65. The misery of some here

is so deep, it really would be helpful to find some way to have a healthy open discussion that doesn't reinforce their twisted assumptions.

That's not possible if all they do is show up and dump them.

[uppityperson]

133. funny when "ignored" replies to you.

good to have ignored on ignore

[reflection]

136. It is odd.

It's the first one I've ever put on Ignore, besides Grovelbot.

I used to take pride in not having anyone on that list. But Ignored exists solely to argue. Never sees another point of view. Never concedes another's idea may have merit. Ever. So I say 'meh', and move on.

[Pharlo]

63. This whole situation is beginning to sound like a Jerry Springer

Sweeps week two hour special.

And, to be perfectly honest, I'd be tempted to watch - and I don't even like The Jerry Springer
Show.

[Monk06]

69. Just goes to show that when four women glue your dick to your stomach, that ain't the end of it

That's just to get your attention.

[omega minimo]

73. A very wry point.

:think:

[CreekDog]

78. These charges are gonna stick

:D

[seabeyond]

115. another guy making a joke? but i thought it was all the women making jokes at this mans expense. nt

[CreekDog]

121. i guess it's not funny

but, if they used wood glue it would have been funny. :think:

[tuckessee]

168. "Wood glue"????

LOL! Thanks for starting my Thursday off with a big laugh!:P

[cherish44]

80. This whole scenario is like some bad Jerry Springer show

Let's just all agree that all parties involved are behaving like low life trash and move on with our day

[TexasObserver]

81. I smell a Reality Show for these five people.

The Flavor of Love - Wisconsin Style
cheese heads gone wild!

[omega minimo]

88. Now it's a joke to you?

:crazy:

[LostInAnomie]

106. Calm down. It's not like he said they should have stapled a things to his head...

... or something similar to that like I've seen on other threads. That really would be disgusting wouldn't it?

[seabeyond]

134. so, not only are you not bothered a man jokes about it, you defend and excuse it? nt

[LostInAnomie]

137. Please try to keep up.

It wasn't a dismissal of the joke, it was a reference to the hypocrisy of the other poster that had made a joke about stapling in another thread. Maybe you should try reading the rest of the thread and the other threads on this topic before your indignation makes you look foolish.

[seabeyond]

138. i understand what your post was about, and it didnt not admonish the men at all for jesting

at the expense of the man who had body parts glued to his body in a humiliating and degrading and abusive fashion

[LostInAnomie]

142. I didn't remark on any of them...

... by men or women. It should go without saying that making fun of sexual assault is distasteful.

[seabeyond]

143. well. i will agree with you there. nt

[seabeyond]

116. third guy to make a joke. but the women are to blame per poster above. nt

[LostInAnomie]

119. Maybe you should look at the Lorena Bobbit post below your's.

I posted a bunch of examples of women making fun of the man earlier, but someone decided to whine to the mods about it.

[seabeyond]

124. when you posted, blaming women on THIS thread, the only one to make a joke was a guy

went all down the thread and found three guys making a joke and i have yet to see you call them on the carpet and then saw.... low and behold, the bobbitt joke. and stupid it is.

not hard to own your position. unless of course you are sloppy in your accusations and just feeding a line that isnt true.

[LostInAnomie]

127. My assertion was based on previous threads.

And as I have stated, I posted a bunch of examples earlier but they were deleted (because of one mentally unstable poster's fear she would be exposed as a hypocrite). Admittedly, so far this thread has been fairly clean, and the jokes have been done mostly by men with poor tastes in humor. But, if I had a dime for every woman that posted something like "If I were on the jury, I wouldn't convict them.", I'd have at least $10.

[seabeyond]

130. and on the two threads i saw with the subject the strong majority of jokes were men. not a single

man was offended or responded to those posts.

kinda like this thread. 3 men made jokes and none of you are bothered. one woman.... and the sky is falling

[omega minimo]

149. "My assertion was based on previous threads."

That's your problem.

Everything from you in THIS thread has been violations of DU Rules, personal attacks (including this post), false accusations, false projections (as in this post) linking to threads, dragging fights from thread to thread, pretending your misunderstandings are the opinions of others, and refusing to take any responsibility for your own actions.

That's why your behavior is toxic and that's why DU Rules prohibit all of it.

[LostInAnomie]

160. I don't need a lecture from a demonstrable hypocrite.

It's amazing that someone who has had so many threads locked and posts deleted somehow now only cares about DU rules when they can be used to erase proof of their hypocrisy. You become more of a joke every post.

If my posts were against DU rules, I'm sure they would have been deleted, because I'm sure you've alerted on them.

Grow up.

[omega minimo]

163. They were.

Your credibility has been erased as well.

:shrug: :hi:

[LostInAnomie]

166. As were yours. I guess playing the victim cuts both ways.

Your glaring hypocrisy stays bolted in place though.

[omega minimo]

167. Mine simply bore witness

to your hatefulness.

:shrug: Don't know who you are showing off for. No one's buying your "if I say it, it's so."

[Politicalboi]

83. Where's Lorena Bobbit when you need her

[reflection]

86. I'm pretty sure she's in this thread.

:hide:

[CatWoman]

98. you rang?

}(

[reflection]

104. .

:yoiks:

[seabeyond]

117. ah you disappoint me. we were doing good. not a woman made joke as we all stand accused,

yet you had to pop in with a bobbit joke. and what part of bobbit joke is funny

[gaspee]

120. BUt don't you know that women

Are the real oppressors and that's why men kill so many of them each year - they needed killing. One thing I've learned at DU is that the bitch deserved it. I don't care what bitch it is, or what she deserved, but that seems to be the prevailing sentiment. Oh - forgot the other one -- all bitches are liars.

Between the misogyny and the homophobia, I don't know why I bother. Adios for another few months. I can't take it.

[LostInAnomie]

122. Care to give some examples.

Or are you just going to continue to talk out of your ass. Go ahead and post links. I won't report you.

[omega minimo]

152. Your behavior here exemplifies what that post says.

:shrug:

[LostInAnomie]

162. Really? Give me a few examples of where I approved of sexually assaulting/murdering women.

Or, are you once again talking out of your ass? Go ahead and post me a couple links proving that I think women deserve to be raped or killed? I won't even whine to the mods. Prove that I approve of the rape or murder of women, or shut the fuck up.

[omega minimo]

164. Time for bed, LIA. NIghty nite.

:hug:

[seabeyond]

125. yes.... i hear ya. nt

[omega minimo]

151. and when

they all bail or STFU, the few who speak out get to be "the bitch."

[BirminghamExaminer]

140. Oh how sad for that poor man.

Ahem.

:sarcasm:

[omega minimo]

154. It is sad. I wonder what the actual confrontation was like. What they said.

[mamaleah]

158. Somebody please put all the parties in this horrific Jerry Springer episode in jail for a along time

Because leaving them out to molest, assault, or have anything to do with real human beings is unthinkable.

[Laelth]

161. This thread is thoroughly fascinating.

It proves, if nothing else, that man/woman is the most important discussion our species has ever had or will ever have. Indeed, nothing is more important.

Man/woman is the most significant part of being human.

:dem:

-Laelth

[omega minimo]

165. and that is why

some refuse to have it?

:shrug:

[Odin2005]

169. Serves the bastard right.

How in the hell is this Krazy-Glue stunt in any way comparable to a woman getting raped?

[Cleita]

173. Gawd, when are they going to be on Jerry Springer?

This whole trashy crew is made for that TV program.