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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:20 PM Original message |
Heterosexual Privilege- Some Talking Points |
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FSogol (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
1. You are entirely correct. Heterosexuals have no problems at all. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:25 PM Response to Reply #1 |
2. Thanks for your empathy n/t |
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Stellabella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:27 PM Response to Reply #1 |
4. Did you READ that list, or is this just a knee-jerk response? |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:31 PM Response to Reply #4 |
5. Maybe we could add that post to the link of privileges? n/t |
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FSogol (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:34 PM Response to Reply #4 |
6. Yes I did. Many of the items are not specific to GLBT people. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:38 PM Response to Reply #6 |
7. Where is that on the list? |
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FSogol (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:43 PM Response to Reply #7 |
9. Bullet point #5 is about bullying, the last one is about worrying about problems at a job. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #9 |
11. Lets repeate those bullet points shall we? |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:51 PM Response to Reply #9 |
12. Nope. |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 06:47 PM Response to Reply #9 |
35. The point of this exercise seems to have eluded you. |
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JackRiddler (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 03:57 PM Response to Reply #9 |
71. So you're saying kids are bullied on the assumption they're heterosexual? |
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foxfeet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #6 |
10. You demonstrate an amazing capacity for missing the point. |
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Stellabella (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:02 PM Response to Reply #6 |
13. Fail. |
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pepperbear (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 12:27 AM Response to Reply #6 |
52. but those problems aren't due to any kind of societal perception of their heterosexuality... |
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QC (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:05 PM Response to Reply #1 |
15. Excellent example of privilege! Thanks! n/t |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 05:37 PM Response to Reply #1 |
29. Your 'shrug' icon is entirely appropriate |
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PVnRT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 10:56 AM Response to Reply #1 |
58. Welcome to FAILtown, population: You (n/t) |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:26 PM Response to Original message |
3. Good post. Thanks for bringing it here. nt |
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izzybeans (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 01:40 PM Response to Original message |
8. K n R |
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Starry Messenger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:03 PM Response to Original message |
14. k&r |
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Cronus Protagonist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:08 PM Response to Original message |
16. I enjoy most of these privileges myself |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:12 PM Response to Original message |
17. one more k&r |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:35 PM Response to Reply #17 |
18. Excellent point - with privilege comes willful and unwillful ignorance many times |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:36 PM Response to Original message |
19. "Nobody calls me straight with maliciousness"...wrong. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:44 PM Response to Reply #19 |
21. I think your over simplifying it |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 03:49 PM Response to Reply #21 |
26. I have no wish to compare the depth or degree of our oppression. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 05:22 PM Response to Reply #26 |
27. I agree with you |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:46 PM Response to Reply #19 |
22. There's a world of difference |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 03:39 PM Response to Reply #22 |
25. I think I understand what you are saying. |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 05:43 PM Response to Reply #19 |
31. I don't think anyone's saying that straight people are incapable |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 12:55 PM Response to Reply #31 |
60. Please see post 26 for clarification. |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 01:41 PM Response to Reply #60 |
66. Maybe if you explained what happened |
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NoSheep (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-26-09 09:13 AM Response to Reply #66 |
73. I was quoting the OP. A statement was made that was false in my experience. |
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Beam Me Up (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-26-09 10:57 AM Response to Reply #73 |
76. Thank you! |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:41 PM Response to Original message |
20. There is also a version of this for women. Rigid gender roles affect all of us, F/M, LGBT, and are |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 01:33 PM Response to Reply #20 |
65. The Male Privilege Checklist |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:49 PM Response to Original message |
23. well done... |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 02:53 PM Response to Original message |
24. very good list |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 05:28 PM Response to Original message |
28. Yeah, there is that... |
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joeybee12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 05:39 PM Response to Reply #28 |
30. We have a winner! And by that I mean the winner of the stupidest, dumb-ass post |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 05:57 PM Response to Reply #30 |
32. Congrats! |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 08:16 PM Response to Reply #30 |
45. I don't think there is an equivalence at all, but there is a validity to the post you just trashed |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 08:20 PM Response to Reply #45 |
47. That is not the message I get from this: |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 08:10 AM Response to Reply #47 |
53. hmm. did I say that? |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 06:31 PM Response to Reply #28 |
34. The pressure to marry? Are you serious? |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 07:20 PM Response to Reply #34 |
39. I'm not downplaying what gay people go through... |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 08:19 PM Response to Reply #34 |
46. they aren't equal at all, vastly different scales, but there are unreasonable expectations |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 08:26 PM Response to Reply #46 |
48. No it does not. |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 08:11 AM Response to Reply #48 |
54. and I agree with you on that. |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 10:34 AM Response to Reply #46 |
56. That's a very small price to pay for privilege. |
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Lerkfish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 10:52 AM Response to Reply #56 |
57. I have always supported GLBT rights |
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Starbucks Anarchist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 12:04 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. No, I was referring to the general concept of pressure to marry, not your loss. |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 06:59 PM Response to Reply #28 |
37. Huh? |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 07:30 PM Response to Reply #37 |
41. Generally I agree with you on the point of the lists.... |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 08:10 PM Response to Reply #41 |
44. Um. No. |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 08:34 PM Response to Reply #44 |
49. I wasn't using the list in my example... |
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justiceischeap (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 08:38 AM Response to Reply #44 |
55. Like to point out a flaw in your argument |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-26-09 03:02 PM Response to Reply #55 |
81. I am aware of that tendency. |
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susanr516 (823 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 07:23 PM Response to Reply #28 |
40. I am a straight female reared in a fundy family |
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MellowDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 07:35 PM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Umm... |
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Ohio Joe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 06:04 PM Response to Original message |
33. Really good but missed one |
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proteus_lives (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 06:48 PM Response to Original message |
36. I'm holding quite a hand. |
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Realityhack (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 07:01 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. +1 n/t |
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Vidar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 07:45 PM Response to Original message |
43. Good post. Recommended. |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 08:41 PM Response to Original message |
50. A great night to be on DU! |
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bluedawg12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Jun-24-09 10:26 PM Response to Original message |
51. Good post! Thanks! n/t |
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county worker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 01:19 PM Response to Original message |
61. Question: Is someone to be guilty of something because others treat them in a certain way? |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 01:23 PM Response to Reply #61 |
64. I disagree. it is important to recognize the privileges that we each have. |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 01:45 PM Response to Reply #61 |
67. The purpose of 'these posts' |
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county worker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 02:33 PM Response to Reply #67 |
68. In a way I find these posts offensive but that isn't important. |
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FreeState (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 03:51 PM Response to Reply #68 |
69. Dont you think its a good idea for everyone to have diversity training? |
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county worker (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 04:40 PM Response to Reply #69 |
72. I am offended by the idea that I need diversity training. I would wait until someone |
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Toasterlad (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-26-09 10:04 AM Response to Reply #72 |
74. "I never understand these kind of posts." |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 03:56 PM Response to Reply #68 |
70. In my experience |
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SemiCharmedQuark (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 01:21 PM Response to Original message |
62. Further, I am not the punchline of a joke because of my sexuality. |
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lisa85 (10 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Jun-25-09 01:22 PM Response to Original message |
63. good post n/t |
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Strong Atheist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-26-09 11:04 AM Response to Reply #63 |
77. Welcome to DU! |
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liberal mikey (12 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-26-09 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
75. Directed to this thread by my straight, liberal, gay-friendly friend...... |
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Strong Atheist (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-26-09 11:05 AM Response to Reply #75 |
78. Belated Welcome to DU! |
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Beam Me Up (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Jun-26-09 11:18 AM Response to Reply #75 |
79. +1 and welcome to DU! |
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80. Hey babe! |
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