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timtom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 05:53 AM
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It grieves me much to bring this news, but it affects us all
Edited on Fri May-15-09 06:02 AM by timtom
"Was it a hate crime? Gay Delray Beach man shot dead in his driveway" is the headline.

http://www.palmbeachpost.com/localnews/content/local_news/epaper/2009/05/14/0514delraymurder.html

I cried over this.

God help us all.
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Dennis Donovan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 05:59 AM
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1. Recommended...
:cry:
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elocs Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:02 AM
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2. I, too, am more than happy to Rec a self delete. 3 more and it's off to the Greatest. n/t
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timtom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:03 AM
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5. Self delete.
Edited on Fri May-15-09 06:05 AM by timtom
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Dennis Donovan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:02 AM
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3. It's early - there aren't too many DUers up yet...
You really shouldn't self-delete this...:shrug:
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:03 AM
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4. I just love listening to the cops when they say they don't have
"any particular evidence pointing to a hate crime."

Could it not be a hate crime?

Of course.

But the guy was shot multiple times and nothing was taken?

And he's gay?

That's suspicious to me.

And that sounds like circumstantial evidence of a potential hate crime to me.

Which of course is evidence.

I'll give the police department the benefit of the doubt for now, but let's hope they don't drop the ball on this one.
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timtom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:05 AM
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6. I agree
This is an obvious instance of a hate crime.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:54 AM
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9. If a straight person was found shot several times, we wouldn't automatically
Edited on Fri May-15-09 06:57 AM by pnwmom
call it a hate crime. Not without some evidence pointing in that direction.

We might call it a "drive-by shooting." Or wonder if it was a mob killing.

Are you sure the only reason that a gay guy could be killed would be because he was gay?
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Sentath Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 09:47 AM
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15. "Are you sure the only reason that a gay guy could be killed would be because he was gay?"
No.

But it is the data point that sticks up highest so far. Until something more likely to attract negative attention comes to light... *shrug* One works with the data available.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 02:16 PM
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21. Yes, that's exactly what I'm saying.
:eyes:

Did you miss the part where I prefaced my comments by saying, "Could this not be a hate crime? Of course."?

By the way, I don't need to see the lab tests of the red stain on my shirt after I eat ketchup, definitively identifying the substance as such, to know that it came from my fries.

It's called common sense.

You can call the multiple shooting of a minority, on his driveway, with nothing taken, whatever silly name you want.



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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 01:39 AM
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36. Statistics show most minorities are killed by someone of the same minority group.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 02:43 AM
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37. Right, but when a black person is hanging from a tree,
I don't start thinking a black person did it.

And when a gay person is beaten to death outside a gay club with a baseball bat, I don't start thinking a gay person did it.

100 percent of all hate crimes are committed by someone who hates.

That we know, without having to look at any FBI statistics like the ones you cited that hardly paint the full picture.

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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 12:11 PM
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39. I must have missed the part where he was killed by skinheads with baseball bats.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 01:41 PM
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40. No, all you missed was the point.
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 02:18 PM
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41. I got it completely you have tried to turn a shooting into something there is no evidence it is.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 04:43 PM
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42. You fail again.
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 07:08 PM
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43. What evidence of a hate crime is there other than the sexuality of the victim?
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:31 PM
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45. The more important question is why are you so bent out of
shape because I suspect this is a hate crime?

What harm does it do to start with the premise that this is a hate crime and work backwards?

Who is hurt by my insinuation that this is a hate crime because robbery doesn't appear to be the motive?

Right wingers are notoriously anti-hate crime anything and don't think there should be enhancements.

You come across as very, very insensitive and uncaring about the real life dangers gay people face in society by your fierce passive aggressive comments that this isn't a hate crime.

Why?
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:43 PM
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48. It may very well be, personally I'll wait and see what evidence the police find.
Sorry I may be a little to blunt for you. My gay friends appreciate it.

David
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:57 PM
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51. LOL. I'm not irritated because you're blunt. I'm irritated that
you sound like a right-winger.

And I know there's no way on earth you can be, isn't that true?

BTW, I doubt your gay friends appreciate you acting so casual about a possible hate crime against another gay person.
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-17-09 12:16 AM
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54. Aren't we sensitive?
I hope they find the perpetrator and send him to jail for as long as the law allows hate crime or not. You wouldn't fit in very well with my gay friends they can actually have rational discussions without resorting to name calling.

David
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Sebastian Doyle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:46 PM
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49. He's upset because it was a shooting.
All his buddies in the Gungeon don't want to hear about hate crimes committed with guns.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:53 PM
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50. Ah, that's why. I knew there had to be an explanation.
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Fire_Medic_Dave Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun May-17-09 12:14 AM
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53. No different from hate crimes committed with other weapons.
Most are committed with illegally possessed firearms anyway. Crimes committed with firearms should receive much longer sentences. Hate crimes should receive longer sentences also.

David
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:29 PM
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44. Wrong spot.
Edited on Sat May-16-09 11:31 PM by cboy4
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anigbrowl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 01:51 PM
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20. ? No it isn't
I agree, it could be. But there is no evidence either way. People get shot over things as stupid as being cut off on the freeway. People are murdered because they spurn someone else's sexual advances. People are murdered over years-long grudges - in short, for all kinds of stupid reasons. Until we know more info there's simply not enough evidence to make a decision.

Should the police work extra hard to find out what happened? Of course - as they should for any unsolved murder. Are the causes obvious? Far from it.
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timtom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 05:49 PM
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23. My reason for posting was more about the mourning
of such a senseless death, rather than its political implications.

I, personally, was deeply saddened by this. We had been out to Fredericksburg in 2007 and came back sometime around the time he popped into town.
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Feron Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 08:46 PM
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26. O Rly?!
Gianni Versace was murdered outside of his home by another gay man. It's possible that this man had a stalker or was the victim of some sicko without a homophobic agenda. There are many possible motives.

There isn't enough evidence to draw a definite conclusion.

Regardless it is a sad story. I hope they find the shooter and put him/her away.
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Solly Mack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:09 AM
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7. K&R
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AndyA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:40 AM
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8. 8:30 on a Monday night in the spring and no one was outside to see anything?
I find that unlikely.

Why was the man shot if not a hate crime? It wasn't a robbery, since nothing was taken.

There should be little doubt it was a hate crime, in my opinion. Sounds like a nice neighborhood with offensive symbols being painted on cars, and now this...

I'm sure the person who did the shooting had more of a right to bear arms than this guy had a right to live his life. :eyes:
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Jackpine Radical Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 07:25 AM
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11. I can imagine many reasons why a gay guy might be killed that have nothing to do
with his sexual orientation. And so can you. Just pretend he was straight and start thinking of possible reasons why someone might kill another person in that way.

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AndyA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 07:29 AM
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12. Yeah, and I can imagine many reasons why what Bush did was for the good of the country.
But that doesn't mean it's the truth.

The guy wasn't robbed. He apparently wasn't a gang member. Other hate crimes have happened in his neighborhood in the past.

Yeah, it could have just been random, but it's more likely it was a hate crime.
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Stevenmarc Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 07:51 AM
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14. Or
it could be a pissed off neighbor or a pissed off ex-employee also one doesn't have to be in a gang to be a victim of gang violence it could be a random nutjob, it could be anything including a hate crime but until they have a suspect and can determine intent we wont know and there's always the possibility we'll never know.

As a gay man I'm not willing to go all chicken little and pull out the hate crime card every time someone is tragically murdered, it dilutes the very concept of the reason for hate crime legislation and I certainly can't determine whether this was or wasn't a hate crime from the information that was in that link.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 11:31 AM
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17. My father's partner had a shooting occur on the sidewalk directly in front
of his house. A bunch of shots were fired, and someone was killed. If my father's partner had been in the line of fire, or if a bullet had gone through his window, someone might have decided it was a hate crime -- but it was really a matter of living in a rough neighborhood.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 02:20 PM
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22. LOL. There's a big difference between being shot by a
flying bullet through the window in a bad neighborhood -- otherwise known as Wednesday night -- and having someone pump multiple bullets into a person on their driveway in not such a neighbor, and by the way, not take his wallet.

Please never work in law enforcement. Our prisons would be empty.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 08:48 PM
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27. I'm just saying people shouldn't be jumping to conclusions
until more is known about this man and what happened to him.

I think the police should be investigating this from all angles, including the possibility of a hate crime. But it's too early for anyone to make that conclusion now.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 11:27 AM
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16. If he was straight, wouldn't we be calling it a "drive-by shooting"?
Or wondering if it was a revenge killing, or if he had gotten involved with the mob?
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readmoreoften Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 12:17 PM
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18. Yes. Because gay people don't go around killing straight people for being straight.
If they did, it would be logical to investigate as a hate crime. It is logical to pursue the hate crime angle. And its only a "drive by shooting" if there is suspicion of gang related incidence. It's only a "caught in the crossfire" drive-by if someone standing nearby is suspected of gang related activity. And, yes, it is possible that there is revenge killing or that the suspect is involved with the mob, but if there are no such indicators of mob involvement or armed, jealous wives or sour business deals, then a bullet from the religious right's death squad is the likely cause.

Man I hope if I'm ever shot for being gay that people like you don't encourage the police not to investigate my death. And, by the way, if I'm shot in front of my house it will likely be because I'm a dyke.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 08:26 PM
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25. I never said it shouldn't be investigated. I'm saying it's too early
to jump to conclusions.
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Bluenorthwest Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 06:05 PM
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24. Well that depends.
If the victim was black, yeah, that's a drive by. If the victim is white, then usually it is called 'a shocking mystery shooting in an affluent neighborhood.'
And let me tell you very clearly. When I hear that someone has been murdered, even a heterosexual, I do not rush to imply the victim was a mobster or in some way asking for death. I think, that poor sod, shot in front of his own damn house by a monster.
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 08:50 PM
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28. A person can be a victim of the mob without being part of the mob. Or a victim
of a shooting without being a victim of a hate crime.
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proteus_lives Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 03:29 AM
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38. Or it could be a gang ritual.
An initiation killing.


For any reason, it's very sad.
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rosesaylavee Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 07:18 AM
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10. ...
praying for his family and friends and of course his fiance.

I think the cops have to gather evidence after any crime before they make a final determination as to why or what happened. Sounds to me like a hate crime with just the evidence presented here.
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cabbage08 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 07:38 AM
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13.  K&R
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Duncan Grant Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 01:34 PM
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19. K&R
:kick:
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pnwmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 09:39 PM
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29. Here's another link. He was shot in an alley next to his apartment, not in a driveway
or a front yard.

So, a hate crime is a possibility. But another possibility is that he was shot because of something else that was going on in that alley. Maybe he was a witness to something -- who knows? The point is that until the crime is investigated, this is all just speculation.

http://www.cbs12.com/news/delray-4717881-shot-homicide.html

Mark Scott Harriss, 30, was shot several times as he got out of his car when he returned to his home in the 400 block of N.E. 7th Ave.

Harriss was openly gay so authorities may be dealing with a hate crime, but right now it is too early to tell.

That night Harriss had gone to Kentucky Fired Chicken on Linton Blvd. When he got home, he backed into the side of his apartment where he parks in an alley between 6th Avenue and 7th Avenue. That's when he got out of his car and was shot to death.

A white four-door car was seen near the alley where Harriss usually parks prior to and after incident.
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dionysus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 09:40 PM
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30. dear god....
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dionysus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 09:40 PM
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31. dear god....
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questforfreedom Donating Member (21 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-15-09 10:05 PM
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32. well according to them...
that is what Jesus would do
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InvisibleTouch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:38 PM
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46. When I read stuff like this...
...I worry for my gay friends and acquaintances. Sometimes I think the only hope is for the old bigoted generations to die off, and for young people to be raised in a more accepting way by the culture at large. I'd like to see more gay people shown in the media, so young people growing up will realize "this is normal, too." There's been progress made, but still a long way to go.
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Bluebear Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:41 PM
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47. 'but (his fiance) had to move back to Canada after his student visa expired'
So not only is he dead, he had to spend his last time on earth without his loved one because he couldn't marry.
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cboy4 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-16-09 11:58 PM
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52. Is that touching.
:puke:
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