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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:28 AM Original message |
Do you use terms like "retard" (non) or "retarded" (adjective) derogatorily? |
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wndycty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:29 AM Response to Original message |
1. And it should be noted President Obama did not use either word |
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WI_DEM (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:33 AM Response to Reply #1 |
7. Exactly, if he had used such words then there should be real outrage |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:27 AM Response to Reply #1 |
29. Also should be noted I never said that either. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:30 AM Response to Original message |
2. Yes, I do. |
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wryter2000 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:31 AM Response to Original message |
3. No, I don't |
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depakid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:31 AM Response to Original message |
4. There are more apt and more penetrating words to express the sentiment |
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ogneopasno (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:31 AM Response to Original message |
5. I try to call people on it whenever they use it, both here and IRL. There's no need to use those |
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peace13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:32 AM Response to Original message |
6. 999 more post like this and I think the point will be made. Thanks. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:32 AM Response to Reply #6 |
30. Perfect? Nope, not my goal. A little humility among those of us who are |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:36 PM Response to Reply #6 |
54. Of course people aren't perfect, but having it pointed out that you are using offensive term and |
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peace13 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 03:48 PM Response to Reply #54 |
73. Your comment is very rude and does not deserve a response but I will say.. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
8. In some places, it's a localism |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:44 AM Response to Reply #8 |
36. It is a regionalism in New England. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:46 AM Response to Reply #36 |
38. It's spelled different in NE |
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Gormy Cuss (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:48 AM Response to Reply #38 |
39. Yep. |
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graywarrior (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:53 AM Response to Reply #39 |
41. We're so proud |
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tigereye (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
9. no, because I have often worked with folks with special needs |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
10. I can say with 100% certainty I have NEVER seen that word used derogatorily here |
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TahitiNut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:48 AM Response to Reply #10 |
17. Does "fucktard" count? |
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Peacetrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:54 AM Response to Reply #17 |
24. That does count in my book.. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:35 AM Response to Reply #24 |
32. It's interesting. I never really thought about it that way. It shows my own |
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Taverner (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:45 AM Response to Reply #24 |
37. Change 1 letter (the a to a u) and its all good |
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:04 AM Response to Reply #10 |
26. 1,830 uses of the term 'freeptard' on DU: |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:37 PM Response to Reply #10 |
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arcadian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
11. Most people in this country would probably just pass it over. |
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muffin1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:35 AM Response to Original message |
12. I confess... |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:36 AM Response to Original message |
13. There are a few posters over in the Sports Forum that love to throw |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 02:17 PM Response to Reply #13 |
68. Red Sox Fans? nt |
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RaleighNCDUer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:37 AM Response to Original message |
14. I only use it as a descriptive, as in referencing my developmentally |
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Betsy Ross (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
15. The aglomeration of your dexterity tends to instigate me |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
16. "...people with retardation ;;;" Is your asterisk * key broken? Can |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:40 AM Response to Reply #16 |
35. When I worked for the center that provided for people with disabilities, |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:01 PM Response to Reply #35 |
45. Yeah, I "get it." I am also aware of terms such as educable mentally |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:25 PM Response to Reply #45 |
50. Please. I was just telling you what I learned from people who themselves |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 01:08 PM Response to Reply #50 |
57. OK. I apologize for my tone. At one time I worked with what used |
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Believing Is Art (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:48 AM Response to Original message |
18. It slips sometimes |
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ORDagnabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
19. I like retardo |
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Fovea (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:50 AM Response to Original message |
20. I am disabled |
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Obamanaut (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:07 AM Response to Reply #20 |
27. I like your answer. Miz O "has issues" (as she likes to say) due to |
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nomorenomore08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 03:02 PM Response to Reply #20 |
72. " Pres. Obama is getting slammed because of our collective guilt." |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 06:43 PM Response to Reply #72 |
87. It sounds to me, from your last sentence, that you have a world of pain you do not want to |
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nomorenomore08 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 08:32 PM Response to Reply #87 |
88. Nah, not a world of pain. Perhaps a small nation-state. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-21-09 10:23 AM Response to Reply #88 |
90. And I agree about Obama. I love him and want to see him succeed. |
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dem629 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:51 AM Response to Original message |
21. Depends on the situation. |
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Schema Thing (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
22. When I've used "retard" in the past, it certainly wasn't intended as an |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
23. I Find Retard To Be Offensive, But Not Retarded. I'll Use Retarded Freely. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:48 AM Response to Reply #23 |
40. Unfortunately, the example you used is not really helpful. |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:54 AM Response to Reply #40 |
42. Let Me Assure You Of Something: |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:20 PM Response to Reply #42 |
49. Uh, would you use that statement in, say, a letter to the editor pointing out why Republicans are |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 04:28 PM Response to Reply #49 |
75. I Wouldn't Use 'Dumb' Or 'Stupid' Either. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 06:20 PM Response to Reply #75 |
85. Well, we are talking about our language. If you are hesitant about using it in a public forum,then |
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Viking12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:02 AM Response to Original message |
25. Only when people write "non" when they appear to have meant "noun" |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:54 AM Response to Reply #25 |
43. I was deficient in usage of my proofreading skills! Actually, I was lazy! |
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Viking12 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:08 PM Response to Reply #43 |
48. I appreciate that you can take a joke. |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:30 PM Response to Reply #48 |
52. You, too, Viking! |
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wtmusic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:14 AM Response to Original message |
28. Never. nt |
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40ozDonkey (730 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:34 AM Response to Original message |
31. For the Lurking Freepers who'll become Special Needs Advocates now... |
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KharmaTrain (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:37 AM Response to Original message |
33. It's Also A Generational Thing... |
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Baikonour (979 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:38 AM Response to Original message |
34. Are you comparing "retarded" to the "n" word? |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 11:59 AM Response to Reply #34 |
44. In the sense that it is an insult, yes. What I am saying is that if we would NOT use |
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Echo In Light (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:05 PM Response to Reply #44 |
46. Agreed. Context is everything. "Retard," "gay," "socialist," etc |
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tangent90 (787 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:06 PM Response to Original message |
47. I frequently use 'retard' as a verb. |
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Dorian Gray (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:30 PM Response to Original message |
51. Nope |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:33 PM Response to Original message |
53. Thank you. I've alerted on "retarded" posts and will be off DU is that term is ok to use, similar to |
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dysfunctional press (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 12:37 PM Response to Original message |
55. yep. |
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azmouse (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
58. I stopped using those words when I left elementary school. |
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marshall (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 01:15 PM Response to Original message |
59. More appropriately, do you compare your own inept skills to a handicapped person's? |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 01:18 PM Response to Original message |
60. As I understood it, "mentally retarded" is an acceptable term in the medical field... |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 01:21 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Being in the medical field, it isn't. |
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cynatnite (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 01:28 PM Response to Reply #61 |
62. Well, I don't know... |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 01:49 PM Response to Reply #62 |
63. Could be places I work/worked don't use it. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-21-09 10:36 AM Response to Reply #62 |
93. Its changing. Even the venerable journal Mental Retardation changed its name to... |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 02:19 PM Response to Reply #61 |
69. Developmentally delayed always sounded to my ear that someone would catch up... |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 04:01 PM Response to Reply #69 |
74. No, very often children with developmental delays do catch up. |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 04:31 PM Response to Reply #74 |
76. Well then you shouldn't call kids developmentally delayed that clearly are not. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 05:20 PM Response to Reply #76 |
81. Children with LD often have delays in some aspects of their development. |
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iamthebandfanman (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-21-09 10:39 AM Response to Reply #61 |
94. im sure there are some whod take offense to those as well |
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Odin2005 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 02:22 PM Response to Reply #60 |
70. "mental retardation" refers to an individual with an IQ below 70. |
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Catshrink (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 01:49 PM Response to Original message |
64. My cat is "Ricky Retardo" |
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madinmaryland (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 02:13 PM Response to Reply #64 |
65. I was going to ask the same thing. It's amazing the stupid things they do. |
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Lost in CT (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
66. retarded is a real word and has many uses besides mental illness |
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KamaAina (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 02:15 PM Response to Original message |
67. No, and I call people out here for doing it all the time |
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Fleshdancer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 02:24 PM Response to Original message |
71. Not anymore |
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timtom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 04:33 PM Response to Original message |
77. Nope. |
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Kip Humphrey (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 04:40 PM Response to Original message |
78. Let me check... |
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Mike 03 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
79. I used to, shamefully. But a couple of years ago there was a discussion of this here on DU that |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
80. Occasionally. |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 05:24 PM Response to Original message |
82. I don't, but then there is a problem of what is left to use |
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CTyankee (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 06:26 PM Response to Reply #82 |
86. Bush et al are people who had every advantage that society offered them and scoffed |
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omega minimo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 06:02 PM Response to Original message |
83. People who do that are douchebags |
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Orsino (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 06:09 PM Response to Original message |
84. These are among the ugliest and most cowardly of slurs. |
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Nye Bevan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Fri Mar-20-09 09:31 PM Response to Original message |
89. My kids sometimes do and I *hate* it |
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L0oniX (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-21-09 10:33 AM Response to Original message |
91. Eventually even "moran" will be politically incorrect ....pffft |
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Joey Liberal (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-21-09 10:34 AM Response to Original message |
92. No, I don.t. It's offensive. nt |
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No.23 (517 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-21-09 10:42 AM Response to Original message |
95. Speaking as a parent. |
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tinkerbell41 (722 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Sat Mar-21-09 10:43 AM Response to Original message |
96. Yes: I should be ashamed |
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