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As Lousy As Obama's Choice of Rick Warren Was, Threads Here Rationalizing & Excusing It Are Worse.

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As Lousy As Obama's Choice of Rick Warren Was, Threads Here Rationalizing & Excusing It Are Worse.
Last night I was truly disappointed to see how quickly some felt compelled to rally behind a very hurtful decision by Barack Obama against the GLBT community in selecting an outspoken bigot to be honored and spotlighted in front of the entire world next month.

Let's clear the smoke and the bullshit, shall we?

Rick Warren is not just a homophobe who keeps his loathing of my GBLT sisters and brothers to himself.

Rick Warren has built his career making horrible statements about my community. His hateful comments inspire discrimination and violence against a vulnerable group of Americans who still are denied fundamental rights in employment, housing, military retirement benefits, and even the right to a fair trial.

Rick Warren has used his power and influence and money to systematically oppress my family and my loved ones.

The threads that have appeared here at the DU in the last 24 hours to defend Obama's choice have grasped at every straw to defend the indefensible. And the threads have been all over the map in offering knee-jerk "rationale" to honoring Warren, and thereby insulting GLBT Americans.

Let me clear some of the air about some of these threads:

1.) Rick Warren did not help Obama win the election or help him carry Virginia.

2.) Barack Obama did not pick Rick Warren to win him over from his loathing of my community or his underwriting hateful campaigns against us.

3.) Barack Obama is not "balancing" the Inauguration with Rick Warren. If that was his intention, then he should also honor a racial bigot like David Duke, as BlueBear has pointed out.

4.) It's not just a "little thing" that some of us are "whining" about as a surprising amount of posters have said.

Are you interested in knowing what's almost as bad as being fired from your job because you are gay, being beaten in a parking lot because you are gay, being evicted from your apartment because you are gay, being discharged from the military because you are gay, being thrown out of your home as a child because you are gay, being bullied every day at school because you are gay, being kept from your companion in a hospital because you are gay, being denied a funeral because you are gay, and more?

You want to know what's almost as bad as all of that? Coming to a "progressive" blog and seeing how quickly millions of gay Democrats are rapidly dismissed by a heterosexual majority of pseudo cyber liberals who never miss a chance to weigh in about how my community should "prioritize" our concerns, how we "over-react" to events, how we "should focus on the big picture" instead of our "narrow agenda". Such pompous "advice" which is usually replete with homophobic giveaways in your language is, at least, informative of where you stand.
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   Right On - The Equivocators At DU Are Uniformly Disgusting, Proverbial Yes Men And Woman At Heart  lostnotforgotten   Dec-18-08 12:36 PM   #1 
   K&R  katandmoon   Dec-18-08 12:39 PM   #2 
   yep  enigmatic   Dec-18-08 12:40 PM   #3 
   Obama is a Clinton-like Middle of the Roader  el_bryanto   Dec-18-08 12:43 PM   #4 
   It's very perverse  nichomachus   Dec-18-08 12:55 PM   #8 
   Yes, and like Clinton  demokatgurrl   Dec-19-08 10:18 AM   #129 
   Can I Rationalize It Without Excusing It?  Crisco   Dec-18-08 12:43 PM   #5 
   It is irrational to piss off a significant portion of your base  nichomachus   Dec-18-08 12:52 PM   #6 
   And Yet It Is Strategic  Crisco   Dec-18-08 01:05 PM   #11 
      No, I'm not surprised  nichomachus   Dec-18-08 01:12 PM   #14 
      If it's political calculation, then he's terrible at math.  girl gone mad   Dec-18-08 05:59 PM   #31 
      Not just LGBT people and their families..  Fumesucker   Dec-18-08 09:08 PM   #49 
      right  Two Americas   Dec-19-08 02:47 AM   #99 
      It's not strategic to piss off your base. I no longer support Obama  Sarah Ibarruri   Dec-19-08 10:49 AM   #134 
      It's irrational to kiss up to them at all. They won't buy it.  baby_mouse   Dec-20-08 06:48 AM   #222 
   Except that its considerably more than 10%.  Le Taz Hot   Dec-18-08 10:09 PM   #68 
   DAMN RIGHT!!!  Carolann   Dec-19-08 02:42 AM   #98 
   no excuse, no justification, no sane rationalization, in fact ....  msfiddlestix   Dec-19-08 04:55 PM   #172 
   I don't mind if you speculate on the rationale.  yardwork   Dec-19-08 05:37 PM   #183 
   It may be more than 10%  varelse   Dec-19-08 10:31 PM   #208 
   The cult of personality is alive and well  Stoic   Dec-18-08 12:54 PM   #7 
   Bravo -- you have defintely re-won me with your last two threads  LostinVA   Dec-18-08 12:57 PM   #9 
   K&R  notsodumbhillbilly   Dec-18-08 01:01 PM   #10 
   As a straight mom with a son who is gay, I'm deeply offended by Obama's choice.  mnhtnbb   Dec-18-08 01:08 PM   #12 
   You are a great mom.  David Zephyr   Dec-18-08 09:55 PM   #66 
   I'm sorry you didn't feel lucky with your mom. Figuring out what was going on with our son  mnhtnbb   Dec-18-08 11:03 PM   #74 
   Good for you  Barbarien   Dec-19-08 08:02 PM   #198 
   Straight dude giving a K & R for some well-said truth.  tom_paine   Dec-18-08 01:11 PM   #13 
   thanks tom_paine.  David Zephyr   Dec-18-08 01:17 PM   #17 
   The honor is mine, sir.  tom_paine   Dec-18-08 01:40 PM   #22 
   K&R from another straight guy.  snake in the grass   Dec-19-08 01:41 AM   #90 
   Ditto.  ihavenobias   Dec-19-08 12:13 AM   #77 
   Although Warren did work to elect Obama,  Freddie Stubbs   Dec-18-08 01:12 PM   #15 
   I guess you didn't see the "debate" he staged between  Libertyfirst   Dec-18-08 01:32 PM   #19 
   I did see it. Obama did very well  Freddie Stubbs   Dec-18-08 01:37 PM   #20 
      I heard it and it was the "Rick Warren Show"  glinda   Dec-18-08 08:24 PM   #38 
      Yes. Jim Wallis. n/t  eridani   Dec-19-08 05:51 AM   #107 
         That is a thought although  glinda   Dec-20-08 12:22 AM   #217 
            Wallis is evangelical, but not a sleazebag  eridani   Dec-20-08 02:48 AM   #220 
      McSame got a cheat sheet from Warren, who lied about it  eridani   Dec-19-08 05:50 AM   #106 
   This Is One Thing That I Cannot Excuse  NikolaC   Dec-19-08 10:59 AM   #136 
   K&R  musette_sf   Dec-18-08 01:14 PM   #16 
   K&R  bvar22   Dec-18-08 01:18 PM   #18 
   K&R!  OmmmSweetOmmm   Dec-18-08 01:39 PM   #21 
   Spot-on  IAmJacksSmirkingRevenge   Dec-18-08 01:47 PM   #23 
   Nominated.  H2O Man   Dec-18-08 01:57 PM   #24 
   That means a lot, H20 Man.  David Zephyr   Dec-18-08 09:09 PM   #50 
   Wrong. A good debate is just that, good.  Festivito   Dec-18-08 02:23 PM   #25 
   What's to debate? Either you're FOR full and equal civil rights for all humans, or you're a bigot.  RandomKoolzip   Dec-18-08 03:29 PM   #28 
   There's plenty of room for debate.  Festivito   Dec-18-08 04:04 PM   #30 
   Who will debating these things at the inauguration?  yardwork   Dec-19-08 11:14 PM   #215 
   not true, imo  Enrique   Dec-19-08 05:15 AM   #101 
   No gray area  mentalslavery   Dec-19-08 07:14 PM   #189 
   Shall we debate whether gays are comparable to child molesters or not?  mondo joe   Dec-18-08 08:28 PM   #40 
   Strongly. That an implication of one to the other is flatly false./nt  Festivito   Dec-18-08 08:54 PM   #42 
      Okay. You take the position that gays are comparable to child molestors.  mondo joe   Dec-18-08 08:56 PM   #43 
         I said it's false. False, as in NOT TRUE. There is no implication.  Festivito   Dec-18-08 09:02 PM   #44 
            Oh sorry! I thought you were saying debate was good and I got all confused.  mondo joe   Dec-18-08 09:08 PM   #48 
               When one debater invokes bad logic, as you do, then it's not good.  Festivito   Dec-18-08 09:14 PM   #54 
                  That contradicts what you said in Post #25.  mondo joe   Dec-18-08 09:17 PM   #56 
                     You omit the "good" in "good debate." All a part of the post.  Festivito   Dec-18-08 09:30 PM   #61 
                        We're not having any debate at all, at present.  mondo joe   Dec-18-08 09:33 PM   #63 
                           Isn't it nice that we agree on that first part.  Festivito   Dec-18-08 10:54 PM   #72 
   Have you ever had a 'good' debate with a fundamentalist?  Qibing Zero   Dec-19-08 02:53 AM   #100 
   Yes. Underneath all our aspirations lie real human beings,  Festivito   Dec-19-08 05:49 AM   #105 
      Are we talking about the same thing here?  Qibing Zero   Dec-19-08 03:01 PM   #164 
         I think so.  Festivito   Dec-19-08 04:07 PM   #168 
            The discussion ending issue is logic itself  Qibing Zero   Dec-19-08 05:31 PM   #181 
               Simple mistake.  Festivito   Dec-19-08 10:25 PM   #207 
   I wasn't aware that anyone would be debating Rick Warren. I thought he was being honored.  yardwork   Dec-19-08 11:13 PM   #214 
      The OP was talking about "threads here." /nt  Festivito   Dec-22-08 06:30 AM   #224 
   change....inclusion not exclusion.  spanone   Dec-18-08 02:25 PM   #26 
   I voted for exclusion  Two Americas   Dec-19-08 02:31 AM   #92 
   Exclusion in policy shouldn't mean exclusion of people  Political Heretic   Dec-19-08 10:47 PM   #209 
      agreed  Two Americas   Dec-20-08 12:39 AM   #219 
   Including racist, sexist, homophobic -- anti-democratic thinkers ..???  defendandprotect   Dec-19-08 02:37 AM   #95 
   Warren would/will destroy Obama/throw Obama under the bus -- in a flat second  judasdisney   Dec-18-08 03:20 PM   #27 
   He will be in good company with himself since so many here are tossing obama under the buss aswell  Bodhi BloodWave   Dec-18-08 11:26 PM   #75 
      Please don't jump to conclusions...  AntiFascist   Dec-19-08 01:13 AM   #87 
         Thats why i said many rather then most or all  Bodhi BloodWave   Dec-19-08 01:29 AM   #88 
   Thank you, David.  Ignis   Dec-18-08 03:43 PM   #29 
   He is right. And Warren will or now feels he has a barter chip.  glinda   Dec-18-08 08:26 PM   #39 
   That is exactly the way I feel. Coupled with McClurkin, there is a disturbing pattern developing  LaydeeBug   Dec-20-08 06:37 AM   #221 
   Poignant, heartfelt post, as usual.  Mike 03   Dec-18-08 06:07 PM   #32 
   And you are one terrific guy, Mike.  David Zephyr   Dec-18-08 09:11 PM   #52 
   It is sad that those of us who are staight feel the need to say that  dflprincess   Dec-18-08 09:34 PM   #64 
   This is the second post here today that is so good that it reminds me why I care about DU  Mike 03   Dec-18-08 06:09 PM   #33 
   k+r  Blue_Tires   Dec-18-08 06:15 PM   #34 
   I am very sorry you have been demeaned, even if unintentionally, by DUers.  MasonJar   Dec-18-08 07:22 PM   #35 
   Excellent comments.  David Zephyr   Dec-18-08 09:14 PM   #53 
   I think that the "anybody else sick of the whining" type posts demonstrate that there is no debate  glitch   Dec-18-08 07:52 PM   #36 
   Your rights are my rights  Warren Stupidity   Dec-18-08 08:03 PM   #37 
   Thanks Warren.  David Zephyr   Dec-18-08 09:14 PM   #55 
   K and R...  tnlefty   Dec-18-08 08:42 PM   #41 
   Fucking A  slay   Dec-18-08 09:04 PM   #45 
   K/R  Harvey Korman   Dec-18-08 09:05 PM   #46 
   The only thing I can say is  BeFree   Dec-18-08 09:05 PM   #47 
   Rec #53  sarcasmo   Dec-18-08 09:10 PM   #51 
   Sing it! K&R  sfexpat2000   Dec-18-08 09:20 PM   #57 
   recommended  ruggerson   Dec-18-08 09:21 PM   #58 
   K & R nt  LWolf   Dec-18-08 09:25 PM   #59 
   And the DEAD SILENCE of some of DU's most ubiquitous posters is noted as well  ruggerson   Dec-18-08 09:27 PM   #60 
   ruggerson, you are not the only one that has seen the pattern.  David Zephyr   Dec-18-08 09:31 PM   #62 
   Excellent rant. Love it.  Neshanic   Dec-18-08 09:37 PM   #65 
   Someone should tell Warren that gluttony is mentioned more times in the Bible than Homosexuality  vssmith   Dec-18-08 09:55 PM   #67 
   lol  unapatriciated   Dec-19-08 11:54 AM   #146 
   Christ was all about condemning greed & hypocrisy; He pretty much placed sexuality low on His list.  WinkyDink   Dec-19-08 07:46 PM   #196 
      Think Warren might have those two non-virtues?  vssmith   Dec-19-08 09:34 PM   #202 
   K&R -- spot on. [n/t]  stranger81   Dec-18-08 10:26 PM   #69 
   A proud K&R  no limit   Dec-18-08 10:49 PM   #70 
   AWESOME! Gladly K&R!  Behind the Aegis   Dec-18-08 10:53 PM   #71 
   I Agree 100%  Dinger   Dec-18-08 10:56 PM   #73 
   Most of us stand with you and denounce this slap in the face choice  debbierlus   Dec-19-08 12:00 AM   #76 
   KandR. Thank you. n/t  Dystopian   Dec-19-08 12:15 AM   #78 
   I stand with you, David.  Krakowiak   Dec-19-08 12:19 AM   #79 
   K&R  Orwellian_Ghost   Dec-19-08 12:23 AM   #80 
   k&r  MPK   Dec-19-08 12:27 AM   #81 
   Can someone say what the cable channels are doing?  sfexpat2000   Dec-19-08 12:30 AM   #82 
   Wow, a thread supporting threads bashing threads bashing threads... that's a new one to me.  nothingtoofear   Dec-19-08 12:30 AM   #83 
   k & r  paulk   Dec-19-08 12:32 AM   #84 
   Enthusiastically rec'd. Rationalizing the denial of human rights is despicable.  scarletwoman   Dec-19-08 12:48 AM   #85 
   Another K&R.  SarahBelle   Dec-19-08 12:56 AM   #86 
   I'm sick of the cries of "genius" and the unfounded faith  PurityOfEssence   Dec-19-08 01:34 AM   #89 
   I am shocked, SHOCKED, that this is happening...  newtothegame   Dec-19-08 02:05 AM   #91 
   Skinner committed the DU to supporting homosexuals and gay marriage ...  defendandprotect   Dec-19-08 02:31 AM   #93 
   K and R  Two Americas   Dec-19-08 02:34 AM   #94 
   HEY!  Carolann   Dec-19-08 02:38 AM   #96 
   Thank you, Carolann.  David Zephyr   Dec-19-08 01:34 PM   #155 
   It's not just "your community" being insulted here  silverojo   Dec-19-08 02:42 AM   #97 
   I am three of the three!  IndianaGreen   Dec-19-08 04:48 PM   #170 
   Kicked And Highly Recommended.  wellst0nev0ter   Dec-19-08 05:32 AM   #102 
   True, True! There is no excuse for a bigot & homophobe.  santamargarita   Dec-19-08 05:32 AM   #103 
   Truth, truth, and more truth.  Chovexani   Dec-19-08 05:36 AM   #104 
   K&R  spiritual_gunfighter   Dec-19-08 05:56 AM   #108 
   K&R  cal04   Dec-19-08 06:21 AM   #109 
   I am both black and gay  ejbr   Dec-19-08 06:21 AM   #110 
   Hurtful.  David Zephyr   Dec-19-08 01:40 PM   #158 
   kr  Progs Rock   Dec-19-08 06:26 AM   #111 
   delete  LuckyTheDog   Dec-19-08 06:44 AM   #112 
   Perhaps Obama should first run all choices and decisions past DU so we could approve them.  elocs   Dec-19-08 07:10 AM   #113 
   Or, he can expect backlash when honoring bigots.  tekisui   Dec-19-08 08:32 AM   #118 
      No, it would be simpler to just the people at DU make all decisions.  elocs   Dec-19-08 11:17 AM   #141 
         no need for snarky and lame comments  msfiddlestix   Dec-19-08 05:31 PM   #182 
         Don't try to suggest this is limited to DU ---the criticism is widespread ...  defendandprotect   Dec-19-08 09:47 PM   #203 
   Hear, hear!  Daemonaquila   Dec-19-08 07:17 AM   #114 
   K & R.  kenzee13   Dec-19-08 07:55 AM   #115 
   Great post.  Bluenorthwest   Dec-19-08 08:21 AM   #116 
   knr!  tekisui   Dec-19-08 08:27 AM   #117 
   K&R  gollygee   Dec-19-08 08:38 AM   #119 
   .....  lame54   Dec-19-08 09:24 AM   #120 
   or seeing your daughter's rapist not arrested or prosecuted because she was gay  unapatriciated   Dec-19-08 09:27 AM   #121 
   OMG -- I'm so sorry  LostinVA   Dec-19-08 10:03 AM   #125 
   It's been over ten years but I saw it change my daughter's view on humanity.....  unapatriciated   Dec-19-08 10:17 AM   #128 
      I have no words  LostinVA   Dec-19-08 10:19 AM   #130 
      thanks for your hugs...  unapatriciated   Dec-19-08 11:05 AM   #139 
      I Am Terribly Sorry For Your Daughter's Nightmare  NikolaC   Dec-19-08 11:02 AM   #137 
         it was hard at first ...  unapatriciated   Dec-19-08 11:32 AM   #143 
   You just summed it all up. And I thank you.  David Zephyr   Dec-19-08 01:39 PM   #157 
   I agree!  marew   Dec-19-08 09:39 AM   #122 
   K&R  D23MIURG23   Dec-19-08 09:47 AM   #123 
   Well said. Sad that your NOT on a progressive blog n/t  Bryan Sacks   Dec-19-08 09:49 AM   #124 
   Another recommendation. Thank you.  terrya   Dec-19-08 10:04 AM   #126 
   K&R Thank You!  matthieu   Dec-19-08 10:14 AM   #127 
   Welcome to the DU.  David Zephyr   Dec-19-08 01:42 PM   #159 
   I agree that Rick Warren is Jerry Falwell in a Hawaiian shirt but ...  NNN0LHI   Dec-19-08 10:24 AM   #131 
   Yeah ... something "good" always comes from oppression ...!!!  defendandprotect   Dec-19-08 09:57 PM   #204 
   Best OP I have seen on this topic yet!  racaulk   Dec-19-08 10:43 AM   #132 
   I took 10 days of MY vacation for the sole purpose of campaigning for Obama door to door....  Sarah Ibarruri   Dec-19-08 10:47 AM   #133 
   Gratefully, some new, shiny distraction will emerge soon to get us all upset.  Buzz Clik   Dec-19-08 10:55 AM   #135 
   how nice of you......  unapatriciated   Dec-19-08 11:15 AM   #140 
      Somehow your daughter's rights have been fused with Warren?  Buzz Clik   Dec-19-08 12:09 PM   #147 
   Rick Warren? Who?  mikehiggins   Dec-19-08 11:04 AM   #138 
   He ran the "Value Voters" forum/debate  Dinkeldog   Dec-19-08 11:29 AM   #142 
   FWIW  wryter2000DU Moderator   Dec-19-08 11:37 AM   #144 
   Obama is reaching across the aisle.  bc3000   Dec-19-08 11:48 AM   #145 
   I am gay and I'm tired at being angry at people  stevietheman   Dec-19-08 12:24 PM   #148 
   EXACTLY!!!!  Mimosa   Dec-19-08 04:59 PM   #174 
   Wallowing in self pity...  Rudyabdul   Dec-19-08 12:48 PM   #149 
   And women and African-Americans also "wallow in self-pity" ...????  defendandprotect   Dec-19-08 10:57 PM   #213 
   Straight K&R  Richard D   Dec-19-08 12:58 PM   #150 
   Now, the rationalizers and equivocators are trying to drown out the  greyhound1966   Dec-19-08 01:03 PM   #151 
   Should I kick my mom out of christmas dinner?  bc3000   Dec-19-08 02:19 PM   #160 
      Boy, did you pick the wrong tack.  greyhound1966   Dec-19-08 02:54 PM   #163 
      Obama is making friends and forging alliances  Mimosa   Dec-19-08 05:04 PM   #175 
   I don't like this choice. No reason, no excuse will change my mind.  flblu2   Dec-19-08 01:09 PM   #152 
   Amen. Wrong person, wrong place, wrong time, wrong message. n/t  Spryboy   Dec-19-08 01:28 PM   #154 
   Kick  greyhound1966   Dec-19-08 01:15 PM   #153 
   Kick  greyhound1966   Dec-19-08 01:36 PM   #156 
   I don't know what the political calculations were  Gore1FL   Dec-19-08 02:31 PM   #161 
   Sad that you have to even post this, but that's perfectly stated.  jobycom   Dec-19-08 02:42 PM   #162 
   Re  bc3000   Dec-19-08 03:08 PM   #165 
      ?  jobycom   Dec-19-08 03:14 PM   #166 
      Obama's agenda includes civil equality for gays and lesbians  Terran   Dec-19-08 07:49 PM   #197 
   Thank you for writing what I've been thinking.  kiva   Dec-19-08 03:58 PM   #167 
   excellent rant.. completely agree  msfiddlestix   Dec-19-08 04:41 PM   #169 
   Great post, David!  IndianaGreen   Dec-19-08 04:52 PM   #171 
   seat at the table  bc3000   Dec-19-08 07:05 PM   #188 
   NOT ALL GAYS THINK ALIKE  Mimosa   Dec-19-08 04:58 PM   #173 
   Hell yes there are the log cabin'ers, lets not forget them nt  ooglymoogly   Dec-19-08 05:22 PM   #178 
   I, the grand duchess of all gays have appointed Zephyr  ooglymoogly   Dec-19-08 05:28 PM   #179 
   THANK YOU  Skittles   Dec-19-08 05:16 PM   #176 
   I call these folks who blindly support anything Obama  ooglymoogly   Dec-19-08 05:18 PM   #177 
   Obots or Obamatons? Am I on Free Republic?  Mimosa   Dec-19-08 05:30 PM   #180 
      Blind support of anything "my country right or wrong"  ooglymoogly   Dec-19-08 05:38 PM   #184 
      Given the posts saying you can be against rights for gays without being homophobic,  mondo joe   Dec-19-08 07:39 PM   #194 
   This sucks  mentalslavery   Dec-19-08 06:34 PM   #185 
   Right on!  Toonces27   Dec-19-08 06:38 PM   #186 
   David, thank you for this beautiful post. NT  mondo joe   Dec-19-08 06:40 PM   #187 
   How did you get the image in your signature line?  prostock69   Dec-19-08 07:27 PM   #191 
      I don't have an image in my sig line.  mondo joe   Dec-19-08 07:38 PM   #193 
   I'm disappointed....not destroyed, but definitely disappointed....  Rowdyboy   Dec-19-08 07:26 PM   #190 
   Decertifying Straight Marriages  mentalslavery   Dec-19-08 07:30 PM   #192 
   I admit to wanting to rationalize it. I want so much to support Obama. But it's true; RW is a bad  WinkyDink   Dec-19-08 07:45 PM   #195 
   They are much worse nt  Sarah Ibarruri   Dec-19-08 08:02 PM   #199 
   Yes - The DU Apologists And Appeasers Are Truly A Sad And Hateful Lot  lostnotforgotten   Dec-19-08 09:11 PM   #200 
   K & R  russ1943   Dec-19-08 09:29 PM   #201 
   Thank you so much for your eloquence. Kick. nt  LaydeeBug   Dec-19-08 10:07 PM   #205 
   Rick Warren has always struck me as a snake oil salesman.  EmeraldCityGrl   Dec-19-08 10:21 PM   #206 
   ChristoFacisist  jetphixer   Dec-19-08 10:48 PM   #210 
   Thanks. Obama has made a mistake and there is no rationalizing it. It hurts  Jersey Ginny   Dec-19-08 10:52 PM   #211 
   slap in the face.  LaydeeBug   Dec-20-08 06:57 AM   #223 
   Olive branches for all eternity?  RedCloud   Dec-19-08 10:55 PM   #212 
   Isn't this diplomacy?  sureiachan   Dec-19-08 11:45 PM   #216 
   I've run into many "progressives" who really don't get what gay civil rights is all about.  trickyguy   Dec-20-08 12:27 AM   #218 
 
lostnotforgotten (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 12:36 PM
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1. Right On - The Equivocators At DU Are Uniformly Disgusting, Proverbial Yes Men And Woman At Heart
eom
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katandmoon Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 12:39 PM
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2. K&R
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enigmatic Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 12:40 PM
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3. yep
It's disgusting.
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el_bryanto Donating Member (967 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 12:43 PM
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4. Obama is a Clinton-like Middle of the Roader
That's been apparent since the Democdatic Primary Debates. It amazes me that people are surprised at this behavior on his part.

Certainly he's head and shoulders above McCain or any potential Republican nominee. And he will be head and shoulders above McCain for the Gay community as well, in my opinion. But to have imagined he would be somewhat of a transformative candidate who would finally right all these wrongs, well when was that in the cards?

Bryant
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nichomachus (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 12:55 PM
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8. It's very perverse
but you can depend on the Republicans. They tell you what they're going to do and they do it. That's much easier to prepare for and fight against.

With people like Obama, you can't depend on them. You never know whether they're going to support you or kick you to the curb. That's a shitty way to live.



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demokatgurrl Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 10:18 AM
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129. Yes, and like Clinton
gay people are among the first he dumps under the bus.

(Straight woman here)
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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 12:43 PM
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5. Can I Rationalize It Without Excusing It?
Edited on Thu Dec-18-08 12:44 PM by Crisco
If so:

Rick Warren is the current "it" man in God circles and Obama *obviously* has decided that when it comes to choosing who he's going to piss off on this matter, has chosen to piss off the 10% and their friends and family. He will spend the rest of his presidency choosing who he will piss off, as well.

I'm so sorry for everyone who's hurt by this particular decision.
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nichomachus (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 12:52 PM
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6. It is irrational to piss off a significant portion of your base
If he does spend his presidency, deciding on a daily basis who to piss off, as you suggest, then he is a man without principles -- someone we can't depend on.

I'm sorry, but I cannot support someone I can't depend on.

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NashVegas Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:05 PM
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11. And Yet It Is Strategic
Edited on Thu Dec-18-08 01:07 PM by Crisco
After all, if you're going to kiss up to Jebus-lovers at the expense of "the base" (hmmm, maybe we need a new word/phrase there?) in the name of unity, far better to do it on day one than year 4, going into another election.

On edit. That's looking close to an excuse, which is not my intention. Overall, I can only say that if you didn't imagine Obama was capable of such cynicism, you weren't watching very closely during the primaries.
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nichomachus (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:12 PM
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14. No, I'm not surprised
I just thought he would wait until he was in office before he pulled this shit.

Oh well, it frees up my day on Jan 20.

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girl gone mad Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 05:59 PM
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31. If it's political calculation, then he's terrible at math.
He won't win over any of the "Jebus-lovers" until he adopts their platform. Republicans will run a Huckabee or a Palin and every fundie will do what they've done for over 25 years now: vote Republican.

LGBT people and their families, however, might just decide to withhold donations and not volunteer the next cycle.

I don't think Obama can afford to keep burning bridges in hopes of winning over the Right. Clinton made the same mistake and look at how his second term went. Give the Right an inch and they'll take a mile.
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Fumesucker Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:08 PM
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49. Not just LGBT people and their families..
No one in my family is gay and if Obama throws gays to the wolves I won't support him either and neither will my wife.

You have more friends than you know.

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Two Americas (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:47 AM
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99. right
This is one of the strangest political decisions I have ever seen. The public has thoroughly rejected the right wing, the religious right has lost its power over people and Reaganomics have been repudiated. The people are through with that nonsense, why aren't we? Other than a hard core, 30% at most, who will never come around no matter how much kissing up we do to them.

There is no political need to cater to the right. It can only revive and rejuvenate them, with nothing to gain in return.

There are people who are going to vote against the Democrats until and unless the Democrats adopt the religious right platform, as you say. They can't be won over, everybody else already has - they voted against the right wing. One would think that it was the Left that had been repudiated and banished to the wilderness, rather than the right.
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Sarah Ibarruri Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 10:49 AM
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134.  It's not strategic to piss off your base. I no longer support Obama
How could I? I'd have to be insane.
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baby_mouse (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Dec-20-08 06:48 AM
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222. It's irrational to kiss up to them at all. They won't buy it.

And Obama is well aware of that.
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Le Taz Hot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 10:09 PM
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68. Except that its considerably more than 10%.
That's an approximation of the gay population in the U.S. Add to that the multiple millions of "straight" Americans that actively support civil rights for the LGBT community and you're talking probably 50% or higher. The fact that this comes on the heels of Prop. H8 -- wounds that are still open and bleeding -- he could not have made a worse choice. Piss off a million here, a million there and pretty soon your talking one-term presidency.

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Carolann Donating Member (50 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:42 AM
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98. DAMN RIGHT!!!
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msfiddlestix (57 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 04:55 PM
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172. no excuse, no justification, no sane rationalization, in fact ....
if the LGBT community is 10% of the population, (is that data in a Census report?) factor in friends and family members and the 10% percentage has increased substantially. Smart Political Judgment? hmmm... Not so much .
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 05:37 PM
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183. I don't mind if you speculate on the rationale.
I'm irritated by the number of posts telling me to shut up and sit down and wait nicely for my human rights.

My early responses to the Warren thing were fairly mild. I said I thought it was a mistake and I was ready to move on, until I encountered dozens of threads and hundreds of posts telling me that (1) I'm a pervert, (2) it's my own fault I have no rights because I could always pretend to be straight, (3) it's my own fault I have no rights because I'm not willing to move to the one or two states that currently give me rights, (4) I don't deserve rights because I haven't suffered as much as some other people in the history of the world, (5) it's rude and arrogant of me to suggest that my rights are important as other people's rights, (6) it's bigoted of me not to want to welcome bigots, (7) if I would just make nice everyone would give me rights, they promise, (8) if I wait a couple of years I'll have all the rights I need unless I'm rude and ruin the surprise, (8) it's understandable that people don't like queers because we engage in perverted sex acts, (9) the Bible says I'm an abomination and if I disagree I'm guilty of religious intolerance, (10) my needs aren't important as those of other people's, (11) my pet issue is going to have to wait while smart people work on the real problems facing the world, (12) I must be racist if I disagree with Obama on anything, (13) I must wish that McCain was elected since I disagree with Obama about something, (14) I must have been Hillary supporter and this is nothing but faux outrage on my part, (15) I'm an Obama hater because I disagree with him about something, (16) I'm ruining it for everyone.

Repeat hundreds of times. Every single one of those statements has been made here on DU - most of them numerous times. That's why I'm in a bad mood about this.
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varelse Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Fri Dec-19-08 10:31 PM
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208. It may be more than 10%
just sayin
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Stoic (880 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 12:54 PM
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7. The cult of personality is alive and well
If on the other hand you think issues and performance are important, well, you'd better STFU.
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LostinVA Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 12:57 PM
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9. Bravo -- you have defintely re-won me with your last two threads
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Individualist Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:01 PM
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10. K&R
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mnhtnbb Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:08 PM
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12. As a straight mom with a son who is gay, I'm deeply offended by Obama's choice.
I worry about my son constantly. In a country with people who could do to Matthew Shepard (and others
not so well known) what they did, I do not see how Obama could invite this bigoted phony "Christian"
to have a place in his inaugural. It indicates a complete lack of sensitivity to the war over basic civil rights that is going on in this country between the smug, self-righteous, hypocritical Christian bigots and the gay community.

It was an extremely bad choice.
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:55 PM
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66. You are a great mom.
And your son is so lucky to have you as his mom. I didn't have that, but I honor it whenever I see it. Thanks!
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mnhtnbb Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 11:03 PM
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74. I'm sorry you didn't feel lucky with your mom. Figuring out what was going on with our son
was made so much easier when he finally came out to us when he was in 10th grade. It explained everything. I wish he had felt comfortable coming out sooner; it would have saved a lot of anguish
for all of us.
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Barbarien (6 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 08:02 PM
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198. Good for you
A straight mom looking out for her gay kid is doing the most important work of all. The worst thing about being a gay child is the sense of isolation. Knowing that a parent is behind you all the way means more than you can possibly imagine. I didn't have it, but your son is so lucky he does.

You may not realize it, but you're making a HUGE difference in your son's life, both present and future. I can't praise you enough.
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tom_paine (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:11 PM
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13. Straight dude giving a K & R for some well-said truth.
:toast:
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:17 PM
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17. thanks tom_paine.
Our community knows who stands with us.

You have no idea how powerful it speaks to my community when "straight dudes" and straight women stand with us. It is an honor to have known you all these years here. You've never felt a need to "lecture" my GLBT brothers and sisters: You just stand with us. Thanks.
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tom_paine (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:40 PM
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22. The honor is mine, sir.
:patriot: :toast:
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snake in the grass Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 01:41 AM
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90. K&R from another straight guy.Updated at 7:31 AM
This issue is far too important to be poked fun at or downplayed as I have seen here on DU of all places. It burns me up when I hear words like 'lifestyle' or 'choice'. Just a few days ago two brothers were attacked and one was killed because some hominids thought they were gay. Rick Warren is one of those guilty of planting the seeds of hatred that lead to such crimes and by catering to his ilk, Obama signals a lack of concern for the oppression of homosexuals, even though I'm sure he isn't a homophobe himself. This was not only a very dumb move, but also a cowardly and despicable one.

When I read someone on DU saying it isn't important or that gays should get their priorities straight, I hear, "Shut up and get to the back of the bus!".

We really still have a very long way to go as a species.
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ihavenobias Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:13 AM
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77. Ditto.
And a very, very well written OP.
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:12 PM
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15. Although Warren did work to elect Obama,
he also did not work against him. That is a big improvement over the likes of Fawell and Robertson.
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Libertyfirst Donating Member (534 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:32 PM
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19. I guess you didn't see the "debate" he staged between
Obama and McCain. Was that is your idea of not working against Obama?
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Freddie Stubbs (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:37 PM
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20. I did see it. Obama did very well
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glinda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 08:24 PM
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38. I heard it and it was the "Rick Warren Show"
Edited on Thu Dec-18-08 08:25 PM by glinda
inflated, caustic, hate provoking, intolerant, self grandiosity, overweight and full of puffery, tv type Evangelical, manipulative, hoping to convert Obama, untruthful, fake, hoping to get more power. ALL of these struck me in regards to Warren's physical, facial and body language observations. This comes from someone who has done a ton of portraits and photographs people. I am straight, married and swing progressive on many things. I think Obama meant well but should have given this more thought. I hope to heck this man does not hang around the White House. Very sad. Is there not another Evangelical that could be found somewhere? Someone who is not power hungry??????
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eridani Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 05:51 AM
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107. Yes. Jim Wallis. n/t
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glinda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Sat Dec-20-08 12:22 AM
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217. That is a thought although
I think Obama wanted someone who was not super critical of the Right but I think Wallis would have been a better choice for sincerity.
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eridani Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Dec-20-08 02:48 AM
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220. Wallis is evangelical, but not a sleazebag
Major recommendation
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eridani Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 05:50 AM
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106. McSame got a cheat sheet from Warren, who lied about it
He would have done much worse without the cheating.
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NikolaC Donating Member (948 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Fri Dec-19-08 10:59 AM
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136. This Is One Thing That I Cannot Excuse
I understand Obama wanting to make the "right" moves as far as cabinet choices and the political chess game that he is constantly playing with the right and their media. However, I loathe Rick Warren and what he stands for. Warren's support for Prop H8 sickens me. I cannot help but think that Obama and his staff thought that they had made a political coup with this choice and were willing to upset their LGBT supporters. I will wait until Obama is in office to see what kind of a job he and his administration does before I say anything about the job that they are doing. However, that does not mean that anyone should be silent and not critical about the selection of Warren.

I am with the OP in my dismay, disgust and anger over this choice. I am straight, married and have an eight year old son. If my son were to tell me that he is gay one day I will not turn my back on, or be disappointed in him. He is my son, always will be, and the love that I have for him would not alter in any way. I believe that the LGBT community are entitled to all of the rights and respect that their heterosexual brothers and sisters have. To me Warren and his ilk are the antithesis to my beliefs and an affront to me as a human being. No excuses should be made for this decision IMO.
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musette_sf Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 01:14 PM
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16. K&R
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bvar22 Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:18 PM
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18. K&R
DU has been over run by a herd of "Centrists".
What do you expect from people who are proud to claim that they are Half-Republican?




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OmmmSweetOmmm Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 01:39 PM
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21. K&R!
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PVnRT Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 01:47 PM
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23. Spot-on
I just don't get how the inauguration is a place for his whole reaching-across, etc. If he wanted to invite Warren as part of a group of religious leaders from across the American spectrum, that would be one thing, and I could go with that. This, however, just makes no sense.
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H2O Man Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 01:57 PM
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24. Nominated.
I've been finding DU a less meaningful place to inhabit recently, but have read a few threads in recent days. What I read last night was troubling. There are many comments that I could make about Rick Warren and why he should not be participating in the events in January. I also have been tempted to respond to some of the more thoughtless things I've read here from others, including people that I have grown to both like and respect over the years. Instead, it's probably better if I just remain silent for the most part. However, your OP deserves an appropriate response -- and so I thank you, very much.
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:09 PM
Response to Reply #24
50. That means a lot, H20 Man.
We know who our friends are and you are one.
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 02:23 PM
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25. Wrong. A good debate is just that, good.
If some people have a different, even wrong, idea, they need to be debated, and set on the better path. This should be done using their words. Not undermining the whole conversation by denying debate.
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RandomKoolzip (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 03:29 PM
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28. What's to debate? Either you're FOR full and equal civil rights for all humans, or you're a bigot.
This is not one of those fabled political "grey areas" full of "nuance" that Democrats are so famous for. This is a straight-up, binary question: are GLBTers human beings, or something less?

I just don't understand how that's debatable (and I'm a straight white male, BTW). Maybe the HOW of the issue is debatable, as in "HOW does the government allow for the full spectrum of human rights to apply to the GLBT community in terms of legal documents, legal standing, etc.?" However, as far as I'm concerned, the WHAT, the WHY, the WHERE, and especially the WHEN (i.e "right fucking now") of the issue are not up for debate.
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 04:04 PM
Response to Reply #28
30. There's plenty of room for debate.
Edited on Thu Dec-18-08 04:05 PM by Festivito
What constitutes full civil rights?
What constitutes equal civil rights?
What are civil rights?
What is full equal civil rights?

Is NAFTA for example attempting to step us into giving more civil rights to people from poorer countries, rights to a civilized wage compared to the rest of the world? If that could be a civil right, then is there to be no more debate because: "Either you're FOR full and equal civil rights for all humans, or you're a bigot."

EDIT ADD: I miss your coolzip dance videopic.
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yardwork (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 11:14 PM
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215. Who will debating these things at the inauguration?
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Enrique Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 05:15 AM
Response to Reply #28
101. not true, imo
if someone isn't offended by Rick Warren, or even likes Rick Warren, it doesn't mean they are a bigot. Imho.


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mentalslavery (215 posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 07:14 PM
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189. No gray area
I agree that there is no room for debate about whether GLBT community is a community of human beings, however, the "debate" is about whether we are going to enforce civil rights. So far, the country has failed. Ironically, this is an issue of religious freedom as well as sexual freedom. As a UU, my religious freedom to participate in a wedding of two same sexed couples that is recognized by the state as marriage is violated. This is a powerful argument for the GLBT community. Why should the state allow a certain set of "Christians" define marriage? My church defines marriage as a union between two adults. Why should that union, and label, not be recognized? Why is the state getting involved in defining marriage?

It is commonly overlooked that not all Christians believe that marriage is between a man and a women. It is also commonly overlooked that not all religions believe the same. Thus, those religions should be allowed to practice their rituals and beliefs without state intervention. What we have here is the state establishing religion via the institution of the family. It needs to be exposed as such.

If any organizers want to holla I have some tactics and arguments that will be effective. I can model them to specific conditions. I am pragmatic and issue specific in my tactics and arguments, so don't expect any abstract heady rhetoric. Real organizers with appropriate information and goal specification only, please. I can't work miracles and will tell you if I don't see a viable solution. I won't be testing ideas or new tactics.
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 08:28 PM
Response to Reply #25
40. Shall we debate whether gays are comparable to child molesters or not?
?
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 08:54 PM
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42. Strongly. That an implication of one to the other is flatly false./nt
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 08:56 PM
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43. Okay. You take the position that gays are comparable to child molestors.
Live it up.
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:02 PM
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44. I said it's false. False, as in NOT TRUE. There is no implication.
...Therefore no comparison.

Perhaps you're reading faster than you can comprehend.
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:08 PM
Response to Reply #44
48. Oh sorry! I thought you were saying debate was good and I got all confused.
You can show me the way!
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:14 PM
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54. When one debater invokes bad logic, as you do, then it's not good.
There are people who will say anything. Our air is a solid, not gaseous. We don't torture. Saddam has WMDs.

There are others who through logic find common ground and build better unions.

You're one of the former, and hopefully falling out of a state of confusion.
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:17 PM
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56. That contradicts what you said in Post #25.
Edited on Thu Dec-18-08 09:31 PM by mondo joe
"If some people have a different, even wrong, idea, they need to be debated, and set on the better path. This should be done using their words. Not undermining the whole conversation by denying debate."

But now you say "When one debater invokes bad logic, as you do, then it's not good."

Let me know when you decide which position of the two you're adopting. :-)
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:30 PM
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61. You omit the "good" in "good debate." All a part of the post.
And yes, bad logic is not good. Does this seem remedial to you, at all?

Right now, for example, we're not having a good debate because of bad logic. I'm only continuing, not for the sake of debate, but for the sake of helping you discover your need for further help.

Alas, I must leave my computer connection for a while.

Night.
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mondo joe (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:33 PM
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63. We're not having any debate at all, at present.
You are being schooled.
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 10:54 PM
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72. Isn't it nice that we agree on that first part.
Edited on Thu Dec-18-08 10:55 PM by Festivito
As to that second part, I'm only too happy to play the part of the teacher.

Night night.
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Qibing Zero (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:53 AM
Response to Reply #25
100. Have you ever had a 'good' debate with a fundamentalist?
Normally some presence of logic on both sides would be required for that.
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 05:49 AM
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105. Yes. Underneath all our aspirations lie real human beings,
which we can reach with real human feelings.

It helps to know their facts, and some facts they seem to ignore, but most especially, how to remind them of those facts. Then it can be a breeze.

The real problem is that political money has entered the mix behind the scenes in insidious ways.
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Qibing Zero (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 03:01 PM
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164. Are we talking about the same thing here?
If you disagree on even the most base issues, how can there be rational discussion? Hell, fundamentalists disagree on the idea of debate itself! There is no open inquiry allowed, so how would you even begin?

Referring to this as being a 'breeze' tells me that you've likely never had any real experience in it.
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 04:07 PM
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168. I think so.
1. base issues
Sure, there can be discussion-ending issues, unless you realize there are really many paths to continue discussion. For Christians, the belief of in-errancy of the Bible for example might stop some people. But, instead of arguing errors, why not go to a rich book full of other points, some of which can support your position. Deeper example concerning gays, the story of Ruth, or "It is not good for man to be alone", and others.

2. debate itself, not open
Yes, they don't want to hear certain things about errancy ad naseum. Look at DU. We don't allow the CON posters who could start with.. That Bill Clinton, but instead start with.. That stupid, slime bucket, sex addict, .... (need I include more?). And so we ban them. Our debate is not open. Neither is theirs. (For the record, I'm a big fan of Bill Clinton, faults and all.)

3. doubt my experience
Fine. I doubt your sincerity in saying that.
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Qibing Zero (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 05:31 PM
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181. The discussion ending issue is logic itself
If empirical knowledge is completely discounted from the start, what basis do you have to continue on? Once you start arguing over bible passages, you've accepted their faulty framework (as an attempt to 'reach' them, yes, I understand). It's like when people argue that the Iraq War was wrong because it was handled incompetently - that accepts the framework that the war would have somehow been okay if things 'went well'.

The point I'm trying to make is that if you don't argue the base issues (which are really what you disagree on in the first place), no real progress is going to be made.
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 10:25 PM
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207. Simple mistake.
"...you've accepted their faulty framework ..."

Well, you don't need to accept their faulty framework... You can, however, acknowledge it instead and treat as their empirical knowledge or dispense with further empiricism as unnecessary. You can even acknowledge it as false, but that you understand that it is theirs to hold. It's harder to debate that way, but no one promised it would be easy.


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yardwork (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 11:13 PM
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214. I wasn't aware that anyone would be debating Rick Warren. I thought he was being honored.
Who will be debating Rick Warren at the inauguration?
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Festivito (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Mon Dec-22-08 06:30 AM
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224. The OP was talking about "threads here." /nt
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spanone Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 02:25 PM
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26. change....inclusion not exclusion.
nwmhtt
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Two Americas (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:31 AM
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92. I voted for exclusion
I voted to exclude certain ideas from government, to exclude the people promoting those ideas from having access and influence, from having a platform, from being given any legitimacy at all.

I voted to exclude bigotry.

I voted to exclude torture.

I voted to exclude war crimes.

I voted to exclude corporate domination of the government.

I voted to exclude off-shoring of wealth and jobs.

I voted to exclude bailing out the wealthy and powerful.

I voted to exclude Reaganomics.

I voted to exclude privatization.

I voted to exclude the war on the poor.

I voted to exclude the destruction of organized Labor.

I voted to exclude profiteering on medicine and food.

I voted to exclude neglect of the homeless and the suffering.

I believe this is what the people voted for, as well.

"Inclusion" means welcoming in those who have been previously excluded, not welcoming in those who have dominated the media and the government for years.
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Political Heretic Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 10:47 PM
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209. Exclusion in policy shouldn't mean exclusion of people
Whether we like it or not, half this country are at least LGBT ignorant, if not downright homophobic - either on religious grounds or by simple bigotry.

What a bunch of people seem to be saying here, is that these people and groups of people like evangelical Christians for example, should have no place and the new president should not be "their president too" as he said he would be in his acceptance speech.

I guess some people feel like exclusion and disengagement is the way to move forward -- a huge number of people have wrongheaded and ignorant ideas, so let's just completely shun them, push them to the fringe, and marginalize them and expect that to lead to a social structure in which we really do move past homophobic ignorance and toward greater unity and acceptance.

I don't think that works. I think the more you disenfranchise people, rather than gently bringing them along in a process that they might even be resistant to, the worse divides become. Of course we look at prop 8 and other horrible acts and say "what do you think that was?" Well, it was disenfranchising, of course! Terrible. But guess what, we are the enlightened ones. And I know it sucks, and I know that we would like nothing more than to treat these assholes the exact same way they've treated us, and exclude them form everything, never try to dialog, never try to bring them along, never try to work together, never gently try to move them into less ignorance. But we know better. And we need to act better if its ever going to work. It's the only way it does work. Period.

Rick Warren may not have been the right call to represent the attitude that I've just described above. But because I strongly believe that the attitude above is what Obama is all about, I'm willing to give him a break. I also believe we have far more deeply serious matters to worry about than who gives a prayer at a ceremony. I say that only because I believe I understand what Obama wants to do - and even if this was an inexperience "noob" move, I still think his intentions are good. Therefore, I'm ready, if not eager to move back to the substantive and crisis issues that face us right now. Like economic catastrophe, and the big three among other things....

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Two Americas (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Sat Dec-20-08 12:39 AM
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219. agreed
Edited on Sat Dec-20-08 12:47 AM by Two Americas
I would have no problem with working with people on the other side. This is different. This isn't work. This is symbol, and it is bad as a symbol, politically speaking. See what I mean?

For example, if Warren wanted to start a construction company, I think it would be OK if he paved roads under federal contract. That is, unless he used discriminatory hiring practices - which is not all that far-fetched to imagine. That is work. That is a contribution. But showcasing him - as a personality and as a symbol - and giving him a platform - he gains, and we lose.

This is a tacit legitimization of his views and career as a leader of the religious right. Giving him a contract to pave roads would not do that. The second is "working with all sides." The first is inviting the fox into the hen house.

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defendandprotect Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:37 AM
Response to Reply #26
95. Including racist, sexist, homophobic -- anti-democratic thinkers ..???
I think you're confused about "change" ... domething different --

Bush could have had Warren ... any Repug could --
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judasdisney (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 03:20 PM
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27. Warren would/will destroy Obama/throw Obama under the bus -- in a flat second
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Bodhi BloodWave (898 posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 11:26 PM
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75. He will be in good company with himself since so many here are tossing obama under the buss aswell
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AntiFascist Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 01:13 AM
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87. Please don't jump to conclusions...

I notice a common pattern to those who try to defend Obama's choice of Warren, you tend to group everyone who opposes your point of view together. I, for one, am nowhere near to throwing Obama under the bus, but at the same time I see no point in remaining silent about how I feel. I hope Obama has not been deluded into thinking that he can do no wrong because this clearly should count as a mistake.
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Bodhi BloodWave (898 posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 01:29 AM
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88. Thats why i said many rather then most or all
since I've seen a lot of people state that his on his own from now on, that he is a traitor, that he is this, that he is that and so on

So i am well aware there is a fair number here who hasn't tossed him under the buss, I'm simply saying Obama would have good company with himself since so many here have tossed him under it as well(and since you are not one of those tossing him under the buss then i was not referring to you :)
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Ignis Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 03:43 PM
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29. Thank you, David.
You said it much more clearly and rationally that I could have at the moment, since I'm still sputtering with outrage.

:hi:
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glinda Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 08:26 PM
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39. He is right. And Warren will or now feels he has a barter chip.
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LaydeeBug Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Sat Dec-20-08 06:37 AM
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221. That is exactly the way I feel. Coupled with McClurkin, there is a disturbing pattern developing
here, and I feel we should be saying something about it.
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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 06:07 PM
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32. Poignant, heartfelt post, as usual.
Edited on Thu Dec-18-08 06:11 PM by Mike 03
For some reason it seems fashionable to say "I'm straight but I agree with this." There's some pathetic part of me that still says it too, but you are one hundred percent dead on right.

Who can argue with this?
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:11 PM
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52. And you are one terrific guy, Mike.
We learn who our friends are in times of adversary. Thanks.
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dflprincess Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:34 PM
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64. It is sad that those of us who are staight feel the need to say that
but maybe we have to - maybe it will make other people understand that this is not a Gay issue, it is a civil rights issue. If GLBT can have their rights limited, we could backslide to denying rights based on sex, race or religion or some other reason that makes no sense.

During the Civil Rights movement in the 50s and 60s whites who were involved didn't have to say "I'm white and I support..." - people could see they were white. And I bet seeing some white people involved in the marches and other demonstrations made other whites take notice and join the cause. With this fight, we may have to declare ourselves verbally to help wake other straights up.

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Mike 03 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 06:09 PM
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33. This is the second post here today that is so good that it reminds me why I care about DU
in the first place and enjoy being here.

Bookmarked for printing out.

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Blue_Tires Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 06:15 PM
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34. k+rUpdated at 8:36 PM
i don't get it, either, but truth be told there has been a LOT of weirdness (even more than usual) on DU after the Obama win...it's looking like bizarro world sometimes
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MasonJar Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 07:22 PM
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35. I am very sorry you have been demeaned, even if unintentionally, by DUers.
Edited on Thu Dec-18-08 07:31 PM by MasonJar
It seems that rationale on DU to excuse Obama is ever present. Obama may make a great president; he certainly will be a good one. However, he makes mistakes, sometimes egregious ones. This decision, regarding Rick Warren, was a very poor and in some ways thoughtless one. According to a report tonight on NPR, Obama and Warren have a history of respect for each other in certain areas of thought...assistance for AIDS victims in Africa, for example. FINE! After Obama is sworn in, he can invite the bigot to dinner at the White House. This so-called minister is no Christian; Christ went out of his way to cultivate the ones others despiseed and to salve their wounds. By placing Warren on the platform at his inauguration and allowing him to speak for the great founder of the Christian religion, whatever one's personal beliefs or non-beliefs, is offensive to me. Whether one is Christian or not, one is likely to agree that Jesus Christ's philosophy was/is one of great care and concern...as are most of the world's religions. It is man that perverts religion. Rick WARREN IS SUCH A MAN! It is irritating for sure for Duers to excuse anything Obama. Yesterday some were saying it wasn't Obama, but the Inauguration Committee of Feinstein, etc. that made this horrendous choice. No, DUers, this is the choice of Barack Obama and it is a hurtful one. He will not win one Evangelical vote with this ploy, but he may just lose many progressive ones. Progressives worked tirelessly for him and do not expect to be discounted. I may not be gay, but I understand the battle, and I am adamantly pro-choice. Note where the Warren idiot stands on that and many other significant issues. DUers need to stand united with each other on this despicable decision, and we need to let Obama know our dissatisfaction. Otherwise he will continue to ignore our ideas.
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:14 PM
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53. Excellent comments.
I also appreciate you mentioning the various knee-jerk rationalizations that 'Obama didn't choose Warren, but his committee did." That was yet another lame attempt at defending the indefensible.

Your comments were spot on and I appreciate them very much.
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glitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 07:52 PM
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36. I think that the "anybody else sick of the whining" type posts demonstrate that there is no debate
if there were a legitimate debate on the showcasing of promoters of denying basic human rights to a minority we'd be seeing much more interesting and debatable points coming from the other side.
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Warren Stupidity Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 08:03 PM
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37. Your rights are my rights
it is that simple.

K&R my brother.
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:14 PM
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55. Thanks Warren.
Much appreciated.
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tnlefty Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Thu Dec-18-08 08:42 PM
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41. K and R...
I don't think that the Warren choice helps those of us in the south who are trying to change hearts and minds either when it comes to treating EVERY American equally. :hug:

I saw a post yesterday, I think, and the author of the post mentioned trying to not be offended if a southerner was elected president and chose to play Dixie at the Inaugural. My brain short circuited for a while, and I thought of the hate groups who use that song as an anthem, and it would just set a horrible tone, as does Warren, IMHO.
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slay Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:04 PM
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45. Fucking A
We can NOT have the ""morality"" of this Rick Warren asshole be the guide by which we live our lives - and the fact that some DU'ers here are making excuses for it shocks me. I apologize for my other DU'ers and please know that me and my family stand AGAINST Warren and behind the GBLT community 100%!!
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Maven (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:05 PM
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46. K/R
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BeFree Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:05 PM
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47. The only thing I can say is
That IF Obama is doing this in order to get them to come to the table and begin ending the acrimony and begin restoring GLBT rights then it would be a good thing.

Having said that your post makes a lot of sense. Were Obama to withdraw his request, I would fully support that. But as a follower of politics I really do believe it is Obama's way of reaching across the divide in order to bridge it and end the divide. But I could be wrong, eh?
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sarcasmo (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:10 PM
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51. Rec #53
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:20 PM
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57. Sing it! K&R
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:21 PM
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58. recommended
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LWolf Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:25 PM
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59. K & R nt
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ruggerson Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:27 PM
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60. And the DEAD SILENCE of some of DU's most ubiquitous posters is noted as well
you know. The ones who will write self important screeds on almost any subject. But when it comes to GLBT rights ----- ((( crickets. )))
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:31 PM
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62. ruggerson, you are not the only one that has seen the pattern.
We know who they are.

As you say it perfectly: "The ones who will write self important screeds on almost any subject. But when it comes to GLBT rights..."

They are always absent and occasionally weigh in with their "advice" or with some idiotic insult that they don't think we pick up on.

Your post says it all.

And then, on the other hand, there are a number of straight DU'ers (men and women) who have no dog in the fight and yet, jump in on our side every single time. Those are people here that I have come to love.

You are a precious soul, ruggerson.
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Neshanic (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:37 PM
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65. Excellent rant. Love it.
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vssmith (835 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 09:55 PM
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67. Someone should tell Warren that gluttony is mentioned more times in the Bible than Homosexuality
Maybe a proposition should be put on the ballot in California that gluttonous people cannot marry.
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unapatriciated Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 11:54 AM
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146. lol
add sloth...


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WinkyDink Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Donate to DU! Fri Dec-19-08 07:46 PM
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196. Christ was all about condemning greed & hypocrisy; He pretty much placed sexuality low on His list.
Edited on Fri Dec-19-08 07:47 PM by WinkyDink
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vssmith (835 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 09:34 PM
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202. Think Warren might have those two non-virtues?
Think he maybe the proverbial Pharisee? I suspect a fair number of these evangelical ranters are modern day Elmer Gantrys--and possibly worse.



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stranger81 (988 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 10:26 PM
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69. K&R -- spot on. [n/t]
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no limit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 10:49 PM
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70. A proud K&R
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Behind the Aegis Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 10:53 PM
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71. AWESOME! Gladly K&R!
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Dinger Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Thu Dec-18-08 10:56 PM
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73. I Agree 100%
Excellent post.
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debbierlus Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:00 AM
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76. Most of us stand with you and denounce this slap in the face choice

It is outrageous.

The man is a hate mongerer in the vein of the Falwells of the world.

I am so angry at Obama right now I could spit.
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Dystopian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:15 AM
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78. KandR. Thank you. n/t
peace~
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Krakowiak (185 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:19 AM
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79. I stand with you, David.
Edited on Fri Dec-19-08 12:20 AM by Krakowiak
There should be no place in this nation for bigotry to be applauded, much less on this grand a stage. Political points be damned, some things are not a game for votes. It's about the rights of all. For the same reason that it wouldn't be right to have a racist speak on this stage, back at a time when blacks weren't allowed to vote, this is so obviously wrong I am shocked that it is even being debated. And I feel silly saying so, but I must add that I am straight myself, and have been a big supporter of Obama.

Thanks for the reminder that this is about humanity, not politics.

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Orwellian_Ghost Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:23 AM
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80. K&R
The contortions and rationales are disgusting. I wish I could say I was surprised.

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Starry Messenger Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:27 AM
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81. k&r
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EFerrari Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:30 AM
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82. Can someone say what the cable channels are doing?
I've been reading on line but only saw a minute of some woman telling David Gergen that he was an idiot (in the nicest possible way) for defending this choice of Warren.
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Fearless Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:30 AM
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83. Wow, a thread supporting threads bashing threads bashing threads... that's a new one to me.
Can't wait for a thread bashing threads bashing threads bashing threads...
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paulk (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:32 AM
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84. k & r
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scarletwoman Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:48 AM
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85. Enthusiastically rec'd. Rationalizing the denial of human rights is despicable.
Rationalizing the actions and decisions of Obama just because he's Obama -- when he has clearly demonstrated a shallow, opportunistic side of himself -- at the expense of the rights of our fellow human beings is contemptable.

I stand with you, David Zephyr, and adamantly stand against those who would dismiss and trivialize the utter offensiveness of Obama's choice to give that smarmy asshole Rick Warren a place at his inauguration.

There's no covering up the stench of it, no matter how many DUers scramble to mask the odor with their "hope and change" scented oil dispensers.

sw
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SarahB Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 12:56 AM
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86. Another K&R.
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PurityOfEssence (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 01:34 AM
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89. I'm sick of the cries of "genius" and the unfounded faith
By what blithering delusion do people think that this guy is going to do anything but more of the same elaborate dancing and serial appeasement?

Having said that, the point is well made that callous as this act was, those who would justify it as either tactical brilliance or permissable cozying up to swing voters are fools or just plain mean. Whether enabling the ugliness is worse than the ugliness itself is something I have to take issue with, though: flaks and beards are disgusting, but leaders who make broad and smiling gestures of this sort aren't cut from very fine cloth themselves.

I'm glad I've been very busy of late; this is all just too revolting.
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newtothegame Donating Member (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:05 AM
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91. I am shocked, SHOCKED, that this is happening...
Who woulda thought that insisting on a "historical" candidate instead of a liberal one would cause this?

:sarcasm:
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defendandprotect Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:31 AM
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93. Skinner committed the DU to supporting homosexuals and gay marriage ...
I object to any suggestion that ONLY homosexuals are protesting Warren ...

we are ALL protesting it I hope --!!

And hasn't Skinner committed the website to supporting homosexuals --

including gay marriage--??? That's my understanding ---

Posters here are frightened of criticism of Obama and Democrats ...

and that needs to change --
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Two Americas (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:34 AM
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94. K and R
Thanks, David. Well said.
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Carolann Donating Member (50 posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:38 AM
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96. HEY!
You don't have to be GLBT to be madder than hell about the Warren choice. Don't just ASSSUME that heteroes aren't pissed, too! I'll never give the s.o.b. another dime or another minute. Warren = HATE = I'M OUTTA' HERE! Just when he had a chance to show he really believed in diversity, the rotten, sleezy pol proved he's no different than the rest of the scum in Washington. I just KNEW I shouldn't give my heart away...and by God, I was right! Not another dime - not another minute!
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David Zephyr Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 01:34 PM
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155. Thank you, Carolann.
:)
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silverojo (1000+ posts) Click to send private message to this author Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 02:42 AM
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97. It's not just "your community" being insulted here
This asshole is bigoted against women and Jews, etc. Being lesbian, I'm two of the three....
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IndianaGreen Donating Member (1000+ posts)  Journal Click to send private message to this author Click to view this author's profile Click to add this author to your buddy list Click to add this author to your Ignore list Fri Dec-19-08 04:48 PM
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170. I am three of the three!Updated at 12:10 PM
And a LGBT military veteran to boot!
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