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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:26 PM Original message |
Poll question: Does a man have a right to know he fathered a child? |
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flvegan (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:26 PM Response to Original message |
1. Prediction: this goes poorly. |
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Gold Metal Flake (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:29 PM Response to Reply #1 |
6. Have some faith. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:32 PM Response to Reply #1 |
8. maybe, just wanted to see some opinions on it. |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:31 AM Response to Reply #1 |
133. Depends on your point of view |
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stevedeshazer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:27 PM Response to Original message |
2. Oh, boy. |
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Fox Mulder (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
3. I say yes, he does. |
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d_b (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:31 PM Response to Reply #3 |
7. woo |
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robinlynne (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:28 PM Response to Original message |
4. I recommend you rent a movie called "after the wedding". Fantastic movie, |
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OmmmSweetOmmm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:14 AM Response to Reply #4 |
149. Excellent film and an excellent point! |
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Hamlette (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:12 PM Response to Reply #149 |
242. it was an excellent movie but it doesn't change my opinion |
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Mass (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:29 PM Response to Original message |
5. Does the child has the right to know he has a father and to know him?\nt |
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WiltedFlowerChild (131 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:34 PM Response to Reply #5 |
10. I've gave birth to three kids |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:13 PM Response to Reply #5 |
58. Same here..and all three looked exactly like him.. whodathunkit? 35 years here n/t |
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Wizard777 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:36 AM Response to Reply #5 |
104. Absolutely! It's devistating for a person to not even have a mental image of a parent. |
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MillieJo (147 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:33 PM Response to Reply #104 |
169. I grew up with friends like that.... |
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WernhamHogg (378 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:39 PM Response to Reply #104 |
179. It must be a "grass is greener" kinda thing... |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:30 PM Response to Reply #179 |
191. Yours is a poignant story that demonstrates how important it is. |
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lynettebro440 (950 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:54 PM Response to Reply #191 |
221. I wished I had never met mine |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:53 PM Response to Reply #221 |
230. that's terrible |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 07:59 AM Response to Reply #5 |
120. No, sperm donors should be allowed to remain anonyous. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:32 AM Response to Reply #120 |
123. I agree. Amazing. nt |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-08 06:02 PM Response to Reply #123 |
255. Even a stopped clock is right twice a day. |
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Toucano (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:33 PM Response to Original message |
9. I'm inclined to say the man does have a right to know. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:59 PM Response to Reply #9 |
75. If he is a danger to the mother or child. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:44 AM Response to Reply #75 |
88. the mother is addicted to meth, the father isn't |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:18 AM Response to Reply #88 |
96. Of course the moral standards are the same. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:45 AM Response to Reply #96 |
106. Ah-ha!! |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:10 AM Response to Reply #106 |
109. So this isn't about discussing the best interest of children, it's about gotcha games for you. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:55 AM Response to Reply #109 |
116. Now you're just being silly. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:10 PM Response to Reply #116 |
174. Deleted sub-thread |
Cleita (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:35 PM Response to Original message |
11. I said yes, but |
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MadMaddie (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:36 PM Response to Original message |
12. Sure..the man should be given the opportunity to decide if he |
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TomInTib (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:37 PM Response to Original message |
13. I am one of those fathers. |
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Quantess (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:54 PM Response to Reply #13 |
22. Wow. Just curious... |
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Mojambo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:38 PM Response to Original message |
14. In the vast majority of cases, yes. |
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Grey (933 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:39 PM Response to Original message |
15. I say it all depends..... |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:40 PM Response to Original message |
16. I don't know. Is he a pain in the @ss? |
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rucky (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:51 PM Response to Reply #16 |
21. That is the correct answer! |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:03 PM Response to Reply #21 |
27. LOL! |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:31 PM Response to Reply #16 |
40. Or will he drink with said child? |
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Leeny (298 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:15 PM Response to Reply #16 |
233. Right! |
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frogmarch (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
17. No. n/t |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
18. A woman has a right to privacy |
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hughee99 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:01 PM Response to Reply #18 |
25. I was unclear on the question after reading this response... |
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undeterred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:43 PM Response to Reply #25 |
43. You're right, that is the question. |
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bonito (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:48 PM Response to Original message |
19. Not specific enough to vote more info needed.n/t |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:49 PM Response to Reply #19 |
20. There is no specific information. |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:56 PM Response to Original message |
23. Can you define the word 'right'? |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 08:57 PM Response to Reply #23 |
24. Legal |
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Matariki (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:07 PM Response to Reply #24 |
29. Well then, it probably depends on the state. |
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uppityperson (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:27 AM Response to Reply #24 |
121. Too bad I didn't read this reply, voted yes for moral right, not legal. |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:02 PM Response to Original message |
26. of course |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:03 PM Response to Original message |
28. I can't vote yes or no because I think it depends |
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Mojorabbit (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:11 PM Response to Reply #28 |
49. Perfect answer. nt |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:44 PM Response to Reply #28 |
53. I take issue with your second point, Heddi |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:54 PM Response to Reply #53 |
55. You make a number of good points. |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:24 PM Response to Reply #53 |
62. I think emotional abuse and manipulation is "abusive" |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:40 PM Response to Reply #62 |
67. There are two sides to every story. That's why we let a court decide. |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:06 AM Response to Reply #67 |
76. Of course there are bad parents |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:37 AM Response to Reply #76 |
105. If she gets any kind of benefits, she will have to identify the father. |
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Nevernose (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:26 AM Response to Reply #62 |
86. Well hell, maybe you're right |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:44 AM Response to Reply #86 |
89. I agree with every one of your points |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:07 AM Response to Reply #28 |
77. Your number 2 scenario is why I'd be hesitant to support a law requiring disclosure |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:17 AM Response to Reply #77 |
82. exactly |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:22 AM Response to Reply #82 |
84. Bingo. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:33 AM Response to Reply #84 |
87. No, it's about the best interests of the child. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:02 AM Response to Reply #87 |
92. So in the case of Heddi's friend, |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:11 AM Response to Reply #92 |
95. I'll trust the judge more than I will a poster's version of what happened. |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:24 AM Response to Reply #95 |
99. well my darling poster |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:32 AM Response to Reply #99 |
101. If there were a legal basis to terminate the father's rights, the judge would. |
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The Stranger (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:14 AM Response to Reply #28 |
150. I actually laughed at this part: |
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EFerrari (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:08 PM Response to Original message |
30. I finally voted "yes" for reasons that may make no sense. |
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GoneOffShore (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:14 PM Response to Original message |
31. You needed a third choice there. |
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LisaL (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:15 PM Response to Original message |
32. Not always. |
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SeattleGirl (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:16 PM Response to Original message |
33. In most cases, I'd say yes. |
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BlooInBloo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:19 PM Response to Original message |
34. This is going a lot better than I would have bet real money on it going. |
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mmonk (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
35. Hard question. Many think we're (males) not part of the process. |
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stray cat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
36. Does he have a right to know if the mother is having an abortion of his offspring? |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:21 PM Response to Reply #36 |
38. I gave my answer, I don't think he has a right to know either. |
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Iggo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:20 PM Response to Original message |
37. Sure. Why not? (n/t) |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:30 PM Response to Original message |
39. It's child abuse to deny a child the identity of his father. |
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bemildred (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:33 PM Response to Original message |
41. Yes, and he has a right to know, insofar as it is possible, if it's his. |
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alphafemale (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:39 PM Response to Original message |
42. Once the child is born...yes. |
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realisticphish (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:45 PM Response to Reply #42 |
44. this |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:36 PM Response to Reply #42 |
52. Agreed. |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:49 PM Response to Original message |
45. No, Consider how weak his relationship with the woman |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:34 PM Response to Reply #45 |
51. That matters not. He's the parent of the child. |
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Rage for Order (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:44 PM Response to Reply #45 |
71. Or perhaps she's not committed to him? |
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karynnj (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:15 AM Response to Reply #71 |
113. Ther point is that if they had ANY real ongoing relationship he would |
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Blue_Tires (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 09:54 PM Response to Original message |
46. depends...this isn't a yes/no answer in every case |
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Kurt_and_Hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
47. Fuck No. |
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kiranon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:05 PM Response to Original message |
48. Obligation on part of man to check back 9 months afterwards |
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noamnety (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:24 PM Response to Original message |
50. Nope (nt) |
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1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 10:47 PM Response to Original message |
54. if the father would be financially responsible for the child's upbringing, then yes... |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:04 PM Response to Original message |
56. Pfft. I told my son's father, and he |
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mrs_p (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:37 PM Response to Reply #56 |
65. that is horrible |
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Lyric (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 04:47 AM Response to Reply #65 |
111. If I had a ton of money, I could hire an attorney in Australia |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:53 PM Response to Reply #56 |
171. Trust me, you and Oktoberkid are better off without him. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:11 PM Response to Original message |
57. Maybe , maybe not.. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:18 PM Response to Reply #57 |
59. It's not her right. |
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SoCalDem (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:25 AM Response to Reply #59 |
85. I think most mothers would tell them, but it's always going to be up to the individuals involved |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 07:11 AM Response to Reply #85 |
118. It's not up to the individuals. It's up to society. |
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raccoon (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:39 AM Response to Reply #57 |
125. Thank you! nt |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:19 PM Response to Original message |
60. no. he'll most often find out of he's a good caring person and |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:22 PM Response to Reply #60 |
61. Yes, you can force a woman to share parenting with a one night stand. |
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bettyellen (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:38 PM Response to Reply #61 |
66. if paternity can't be determined, who's she going to share parenting with? |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:47 PM Response to Reply #66 |
72. Paternity can be determined with DNA testing. |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:13 AM Response to Reply #72 |
80. huh? |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:21 AM Response to Reply #80 |
83. your point of view is based upon what is best for the woman |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:58 AM Response to Reply #83 |
90. I notice you fail to address the more salient issues in my post |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:07 AM Response to Reply #90 |
93. I don't respond to your many points because I don't care to. |
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Heddi (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:19 AM Response to Reply #93 |
97. ah, so you can't answer |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:26 AM Response to Reply #97 |
100. Here's the difference. |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:27 PM Response to Original message |
63. Confess! You saw mamma mia and you liked it... |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:29 PM Response to Reply #63 |
64. Huh? |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:59 PM Response to Reply #64 |
74. Three guys, one daughter. None of them knew... |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:09 AM Response to Reply #74 |
79. Must have missed that one. |
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mrs_p (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:42 PM Response to Reply #63 |
69. haven't seen the movie |
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hunter (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:08 AM Response to Reply #69 |
78. I enjoyed it, but I'm easy. |
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mrs_p (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:41 PM Response to Original message |
68. what if the woman |
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Rowdyboy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:43 PM Response to Original message |
70. There's a difference in a "man" and a "sperm donor"...A "man" would want to know |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Tue Aug-05-08 11:58 PM Response to Original message |
73. It depends. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:21 AM Response to Reply #73 |
98. We agree entirely on your statement in this post. |
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The Straight Story (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:15 AM Response to Original message |
81. It takes two to tango, how much more clear can it be? |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:00 AM Response to Reply #81 |
91. Thanks and agreed. |
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CaliforniaPeggy (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:09 AM Response to Original message |
94. I say yes... |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:34 AM Response to Original message |
102. I voted "NO" . . . |
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defendandprotect (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:09 AM Response to Reply #102 |
108. ....and, btw, how would male enforce that "right" if he didn't know . . ??? |
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emilyg (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:35 AM Response to Original message |
103. Not in all cases. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:49 AM Response to Reply #103 |
107. Alleged or proven? |
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MrSlayer (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:15 AM Response to Original message |
110. No, not really. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:04 AM Response to Original message |
112. Yes, of course. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:59 AM Response to Reply #112 |
117. Absolutely correct. |
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Political Heretic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:40 AM Response to Reply #112 |
126. Why is this not the obvious answer to this question? |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:23 AM Response to Reply #126 |
129. Agreed. And that is the almost universal view of everyone involved in child custody issues. |
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H2O Man (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:05 PM Response to Reply #129 |
173. As so often happens |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:54 PM Response to Reply #173 |
182. All good and accurate comments. |
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MiniMe (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:24 AM Response to Original message |
114. If he was a sperm donor, I would say no |
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shadowknows69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:28 AM Response to Original message |
115. I voted yes but it's a complicated question |
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malaise (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 07:13 AM Response to Original message |
119. Yes he does n/t |
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bryant69 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:30 AM Response to Original message |
122. I would not say an absolute right - because there are children fathered by rape |
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Political Heretic (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:35 AM Response to Original message |
124. If you say a man has "no right to know" then he also has no obligation to support. |
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DailyGrind51 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:55 AM Response to Original message |
127. As an aging childless dude, |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:08 AM Response to Original message |
128. Perhaps men need to take responsibility for whom they stick their penis into. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:26 AM Response to Reply #128 |
131. Fortunately, our laws are more sane than that. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:55 AM Response to Reply #131 |
135. Yes, taking personal responsibility |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:04 AM Response to Reply #135 |
136. If she fails to identify the father, she's not being responsible. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:17 AM Response to Reply #136 |
138. We can all take comfort in the fact |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:40 AM Response to Reply #138 |
139. It's the child we want and have to protect, not the father or the mother. |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 04:14 PM Response to Reply #139 |
208. Unfortunately, for the many single mothers and children |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:13 PM Response to Reply #208 |
223. Deadbeat dads who don't support their kids must be pursued. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:02 AM Response to Reply #128 |
145. "I don't believe in government mandated relationships" |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:13 PM Response to Reply #145 |
187. how about the men pick more suitable sex partners? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:49 PM Response to Reply #187 |
198. Perhaps. But this thread is not in response to the question: "Does mom have a right to be a parent?" |
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snooper2 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:28 PM Response to Reply #128 |
190. Perhaps women need to take responsibility for whom they let in their vagina |
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Scout (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:31 PM Response to Reply #190 |
192. it's not the women complaining.... n/t |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 04:16 PM Response to Reply #190 |
209. That's how society traditionally sees it. Isn't it? |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:24 AM Response to Original message |
130. Does a rabbit have the right to know he fathered a child? |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:47 AM Response to Reply #130 |
140. Good analogy |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:03 AM Response to Reply #140 |
146. How so? n/t |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:35 AM Response to Reply #146 |
152. For reference... |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:37 AM Response to Reply #152 |
154. What would that have to do with it? |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:40 AM Response to Reply #154 |
155. Exactly. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:52 PM Response to Reply #155 |
199. Bunnies wearing pancakes? I don't get it. n/t |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:58 PM Response to Reply #199 |
205. Me either. n/t |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:34 AM Response to Reply #140 |
151. I thought you might approve. |
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Richardo (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:04 PM Response to Reply #130 |
185. Only if you shin a light on his car. |
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EstimatedProphet (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:29 AM Response to Original message |
132. It's the RGBolen show! |
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SarahB (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:33 AM Response to Reply #132 |
134. lol |
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Odious justice (117 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:12 AM Response to Original message |
137. IN a nutshell.... |
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Donald Ian Rankin (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:52 AM Response to Original message |
141. Certainly not an absolute one, but arguably failure to inform the father should lessen child support |
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treestar (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
142. Impractical to enforce |
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SidDithers (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:53 AM Response to Original message |
143. Only after the child has been born... |
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Mushroom (309 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:55 AM Response to Original message |
144. He has the free will |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:05 AM Response to Reply #144 |
147. He also has equal rights to the child, by law. |
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Name removed (0 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:39 PM Response to Reply #147 |
219. Deleted message |
TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:28 PM Response to Reply #219 |
224. deleted |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:11 AM Response to Original message |
148. Yes. Period. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:36 AM Response to Reply #148 |
153. He's just trying to get a rise. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:51 AM Response to Reply #153 |
158. No, I wanted honest opinions, and from most that is what is here. Apparently from you all anyone |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:53 AM Response to Reply #158 |
160. Oh please, now where have I been smartass? |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:54 PM Response to Reply #153 |
201. Indeed he is. |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 04:01 PM Response to Reply #201 |
206. His questions often are. |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 04:09 PM Response to Reply #206 |
207. I hate myself for hopping into the petri dish. I guess it's a compulsion. n/t |
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Terran (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:48 AM Response to Original message |
156. Too complicated an issue for "yes" or "no" answer |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:50 AM Response to Original message |
157. Does a man have an obligation to pay child support? |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:04 PM Response to Reply #157 |
161. He only has that obligation if the mother identifies him and asks for child support |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:19 PM Response to Reply #161 |
164. A woman has the right to withhold child support payments? |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:24 PM Response to Reply #164 |
165. No one has that right. But if a mother doesn't identify the father and request child support |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:26 PM Response to Reply #165 |
166. That would be withholding child support. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:30 PM Response to Reply #166 |
167. How exactly do you withhold child support to a child in your custody? |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:31 PM Response to Reply #167 |
168. By preventing the father from paying it. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:38 PM Response to Reply #168 |
170. Oh, I see it's in the best interest of the child to have a man provide for it. |
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HiFructosePronSyrup (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:52 PM Response to Reply #170 |
196. So you're saying men should be able to withhold child support. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:53 PM Response to Reply #196 |
200. No I didn't say that. I said a custodial parent does not have to ask for child support |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:37 PM Response to Reply #170 |
226. the gender of the non custodial parent is irrelevant to the duty to pay child support |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:16 PM Response to Reply #226 |
243. I know that is irrelevant, the person kept saying that a father has to pay |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:45 PM Response to Reply #243 |
248. the rules are the same, no matter which gender you pick |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-08 12:00 AM Response to Reply #248 |
250. Sorry about that, someone else had compared them to kidnappers. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-08 12:09 AM Response to Reply #250 |
252. I do not favor making it a crime |
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debbierlus (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:29 PM Response to Reply #226 |
245. Naive. Most mothers DON'T voluntarily take child support as a means to protect the child |
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Milo_Bloom (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:52 AM Response to Original message |
159. Yes, unless... |
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peanut2010 (78 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:13 PM Response to Original message |
162. Not only should he know,but DNA tests should be done on every baby born |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:37 PM Response to Reply #162 |
178. Absolutely! DNA on every child at birth. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:52 PM Response to Reply #178 |
181. A custodial parent has to request child support, if they don't want it |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:44 PM Response to Reply #181 |
195. Child support is for the CHILD, not the parent. |
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RB TexLa (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:56 PM Response to Reply #195 |
203. And if a custodial parent feels she or he can provide well enough for the child they do not have |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:02 PM Response to Reply #203 |
222. Like I said, the child support is for the child. |
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peanut2010 (78 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:57 PM Response to Reply #178 |
204. Exactly |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:45 PM Response to Reply #204 |
228. As you note, this would nail down the fathers from birth. |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:16 PM Response to Original message |
163. It's all contextual. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:18 PM Response to Reply #163 |
176. But even then, you have to look at the context of the relationship |
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Dora (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:05 PM Response to Reply #176 |
186. I agree, as I did not intend my examples to be exclusive. nt |
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Midlodemocrat (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 12:55 PM Response to Original message |
172. I think he does. |
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aikoaiko (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:12 PM Response to Original message |
175. Except under extreme circumstance, yes. The father is financially liable the day the child is born |
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Faygo Kid (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:27 PM Response to Reply #175 |
215. That's my point, too. He is legally responsible. Unless there is a husband. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:33 PM Response to Original message |
177. In virtually all cases, YES. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:00 PM Response to Reply #177 |
184. Awesome post. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:24 PM Response to Reply #184 |
189. It's a form of vigilantism, and it's already illegal. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:35 PM Response to Reply #189 |
193. Agreed. The kidnapping parent almost always loses custody when caught. |
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Nikki Stone1 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:41 PM Response to Original message |
180. If he's a rapist, no. |
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DevonRex (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 01:59 PM Response to Original message |
183. I don't think he has an absolute right that overrides all other |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:14 PM Response to Original message |
188. No |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 02:39 PM Response to Reply #188 |
194. It's a slippery slope to banning abortion. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:54 PM Response to Reply #194 |
202. This has nothing even remotely to do with abortion. |
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mrreowwr_kittty (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:04 PM Response to Reply #202 |
210. Anti-choicers will seize upon anything to attack reproductive rights. |
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Xithras (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:24 PM Response to Reply #210 |
213. But reproductive rights END once the reproduction ends. |
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ismnotwasm (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:27 PM Response to Reply #210 |
214. I agree |
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BalancedGoat (255 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 03:26 PM Response to Original message |
197. Absolutely. |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:06 PM Response to Original message |
211. I voted "no." nt |
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NashVegas (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:14 PM Response to Original message |
212. Because Your Question Is So Broad As To Include Every Possible Scenario, I Voted "No." |
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LWolf (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:33 PM Response to Original message |
216. Yes. nt |
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Howzit (918 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:50 PM Response to Original message |
217. This poll is a trap |
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OPERATIONMINDCRIME (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 05:59 PM Response to Original message |
218. Hell Yeah He Absolutely Should! |
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ZombieHorde (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 06:46 PM Response to Original message |
220. I voted yes, he has such a right in most situations, perhaps all situations. |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:34 PM Response to Original message |
225. No. If you are not particularily concerned where your sperm goes. |
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DaveJ (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:46 PM Response to Reply #225 |
229. I think you misread the question |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:00 PM Response to Reply #229 |
231. I didn't misread the question. The question presupposes that a man might |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:12 PM Response to Reply #225 |
232. Whether the man ever calls the woman after their sexual encounter is irrelevant. |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:33 PM Response to Reply #232 |
235. I see no inherent right to fatherhood. It is a privilege earned...... |
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Sparkly (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:39 PM Response to Reply #235 |
236. Thank you. nt |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:55 PM Response to Reply #235 |
238. Contrary to your opinion, fatherhood is biological, and with it comes a host of LEGAL duties |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:49 PM Response to Reply #238 |
239. Contrary to your opinion, no law requires that a woman identify the father of her child. |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:04 PM Response to Reply #239 |
241. That's not my opinion, and never has been. You have misstated my position. |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:17 PM Response to Reply #241 |
244. Fair ball. I should clarify that I think fathers have responsibilities as well |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:33 PM Response to Reply #244 |
246. I agree that bad fathers should have their parental rights terminated. |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-08 12:06 AM Response to Reply #246 |
251. In my own |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-08 12:12 AM Response to Reply #251 |
253. ok, we'll have to agree to disagree on that last part |
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Monk06 (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-08 12:31 AM Response to Reply #253 |
254. A minor point by inherent rights, I mean the standard useage in philosophy |
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Zuiderelle (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 08:45 PM Response to Original message |
227. KUDOS to you for getting such passionate responses. |
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yellowcanine (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:23 PM Response to Original message |
234. It depends. If it is a loving committed relationship, yes. |
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Canuckistanian (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 09:43 PM Response to Original message |
237. No, it shouldn't be a "right" |
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Ramonna Villota (57 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 10:55 PM Response to Original message |
240. All Men |
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Howzit (918 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:42 PM Response to Reply #240 |
247. Now there is an idea |
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TexasObserver (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Wed Aug-06-08 11:52 PM Response to Reply #240 |
249. that's absurd |
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lumberjack_jeff (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore | Thu Aug-07-08 06:05 PM Response to Reply #240 |
256. I think all people with an IQ greater than their thermostat setting should pay a smart tax. |
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257. Kudzu. n/t |
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258. If he believes he may have fathered a child, it is his responsibility |
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