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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 04:56 PM
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My son bought Father's Day Dinner for TWO Dads. (one he didn't know)
We had Father's Day Dinner at one of Dad's favorite places, and as we were entered, there was a scruffy guy sitting at the bus stop by the entrance to the restaurant. He made eye contact and said "hi".. We went in and had our dinner..as we left the crowded restaurant , he was still there..This time he asked if we had any spare change.. My son said "wait a minute", and went back inside. We thought he might have left his phone, so we followed.. he went to the front counter and ordered a meal for the guy, then went out and sat with him until it was ready ..(He said he was not sure the restaurant would actually deliver the meal to a homeless guy who apparently hangs out there "begging"...that's what the host at the counter told him.."the guy's a 'regular'..claims to be a vet"..)

My husband and I went to the car and waited until our son was sure that the meal had arrived..

When he got to the car, he said.. "Mom, that guy cried when the food arrived".. He claimed to be a GW1 vet.. no need to doubt him.. ..he was very slim, did not appear to be alcoholic, and just seemed like a very sad guy... My son said his son and daughter live in Arizona...somewhere..
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prodigal_green Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 04:59 PM
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1. That sounds like a terrific Father's Day present
because it shows what a good father you must be to raise such a boy.

Congratulations.
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Viva_La_Revolution Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 04:59 PM
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2. You raised a good kid
good on you, and good on him!
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ThomCat Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:00 PM
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3. You've raised a good kid.
:)
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malaise Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:01 PM
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4. You and your hubby did something right
Congrats. You have a caring son.
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:02 PM
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5. WOW, Your son is a GREAT guy!
Edited on Tue Jun-20-06 05:03 PM by MarianJack
And, if I may say so, a proud reflection of his own parents. After all, he had to learn that basic sense of decency from someone. I'd make book it was you!

ChicaAzul and I were both moved by your story. We hope our son turns out to be that sort of man.

BTW, I love your sig line!
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:05 PM
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10. He is a great guy.. We did something right
Edited on Tue Jun-20-06 05:07 PM by SoCalDem
(pats self on back)

He said he felt gulity after blowing a coupple of thousand dollars going to Germany to watch soccer..the least he could do was spend $20 buying dinner for someone who probably didn't even have a warm place to sleep..

My son dos this a lot..so we were not surprised.. he lets the guys with the greasy rags clean his windows at gas stations..gives them a couple of bucks, and then grabs the windex behind the seat :)
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MarianJack Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 07:19 PM
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21. Like I Said,...
...a good guy! :bounce:
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Booster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 07:23 PM
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22. I'm proud of your son and also impressed that he stayed with the
guy until his dinner was ready - that was really thoughtful and smart.:toast: A toast to your son.
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CrispyQ Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:02 PM
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6. Wow!
That is the 2nd great story I read today about someone buying someone in need a meal.

You have a lovely son!
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Minnesota Libra Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:03 PM
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7. That is compassion and love in practice - that is so cool, you......
....have lots of reason to be O8) VERY PROUD of your son. O8)
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wryter2000 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:04 PM
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8. What a great thing for him to do
You should both be very proud of him and yourselves.
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Divernan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:05 PM
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9. That was really a wonderful thing to do. We all have opportunities
to make a difference to people who need some help - but we go through life in such a hurry that we often don't see our opportunities to do good. Your story reminds me to be on the lookout for chances to do some good.
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karlrschneider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:06 PM
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11. Good for him and don't get upset when some trolls claim you just
told the story to get some 'glory'...it happened earlier today and was ugly.
:toast:
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:10 PM
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14. i don't get upset by foolish trolls
Edited on Tue Jun-20-06 05:11 PM by SoCalDem
My son does this a lot...

Remember when McDonalds had their beanie baby promotion? The only way you could get them free was to buy a child's meal.. My "childs" are grownups, but I would often buy the child's meal, and give it to the homeless people who hung out there:)..It was worth it to get the beanie babies and feed some one too:)

My kids always said..Mom why don;t you just eat the child's meal.. McDonalds?? get serious:)
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karlrschneider Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:22 PM
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15. LOL! I hear ya. I've often done things like what your son did
but don't like to talk about it, for the obvious reason but I think that if it encourages others to emulate, I can live with a bit of "unseemly" criticism. I've been WAY wealthier than I am now, and I've been dirt-poor too - right now I'm just comfortable and do what I can now and again.
:-)
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gator_in_Ontario Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:08 PM
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12. Unbelievable...
great kid! Maybe there is some hope?
But I'm gay and mentally ill, so what do I know? lol
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madokie Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:09 PM
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13. Tears flowing, sobs being muffled, what a wonderful son you have.
Thanks for sharing that with us. we all need to let that be a lesson to us that what we need as a country more than anything is compassion.
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Mnemosyne Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:49 PM
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16. You've got a great human being for a son SoCalDem. n/t
Good job! :hug:
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PWRinNY Donating Member (456 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 05:57 PM
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17. What a great son you have
Thanks for sharing this story. :)
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Gregorian Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 06:28 PM
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18. It's a myth that this is an uncaring world.
Edited on Tue Jun-20-06 06:31 PM by Gregorian
I find acts like this to be of the greatest inspiration. On one end is such sadness. I can hardly bear it. On the other is a brilliant lightness that comes from sharing and uplifting and caring. I honestly believe there is no greater height in humanity. And yet it appears that we have all receded into private world's of our own making. Sad and selfish lives that appear normal. We really do care. I would even go as far as to say this was an act of liberalism.

Thank you for being so kind. And thank you for telling us. Every one of these is important.





Edit- Why am I not surprised that some hungry Americans were fed by people from this forum?
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driver8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 07:24 PM
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23. You are absolutely right.
Just when I think that the human race cannot be more uncaring...I read a story like this that completely gives me hope.

There are stories like this that happen everyday; we just never hear about them. I have a feeling that most people that help out other people keep it to themselves. They don't want the praise or to be in the spotlight -- they just want to help.

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Jazz2006 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 07:00 PM
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19. That's a wonderful story.
Thanks for sharing!

You've obviously done a darned fine job of raising a thoughtful and caring son.

:toast:

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Crabby Appleton Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 07:03 PM
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20. very nice
You did a good job raising your son.
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driver8 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 07:25 PM
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24. That is an amazing son that you have there.
He must have some amazing parents! :hi:
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mike_c Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Tue Jun-20-06 08:07 PM
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25. thanks for posting that story....
:hug:
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