Woman, 34, charged with raping boy, 13

[FreakinDJ]

Woman, 34, charged with raping boy, 13

(May 9, 2006) — A 34-year-old Rochester woman was arraigned today on charges of rape of a 13-year-old boy, at knifepoint.

Marylin Rosario of 176 Sherman St. was arrested yesterday and charged with first-degree rape and first-degree robbery. Officers were called to the victim's residence on Plymouth Avenue about 5:50 p.m., said Officer Kate Springer.

The victim told police a woman coaxed her way into his residence by telling him she was an employee of the Health Department and wanted to talk about sexually transmitted diseases, Springer said.

Once inside, the boy reportedly said, the woman produced a knife and raped him.

http://www.democratandchronicle.com/apps/pbcs.dll/article?AID=/20060509/NEWS01/605100306

WOW

[Selatius]

1. How many women a year commit assault and rape on others? nt

[Heidi]

2. Like all rapes and assaults, I suspect

rapea and assaults by women are under-reported.

[don954]

3. yep, and with men

its almost never reported. Society has basically made it so that men feel like they should just take it and they are supposed to even like it. In the case of anal rape, the homophobia complex most men have keeps them from reporting it from extreme deep shame.

[Heidi]

7. I don't disagree.

My husband and I were just discussing how penetration of the victim seems to make rape a more egregious crime in the eyes of many, when, in fact, loss of personal power by force, whether penetration is involved or not, is what makes all rape offensive and clearly wrong. None of us, whether male or female, have the right to take away another person's right to choose what he or she does with his/her body.

[FreakinDJ]

9. Whole Hartedly AGREED

Rape is a discusting subject to even debate. Very hard for me to even imagine being able to sustain an erection while slapping / threatening some one into submission. Although I realise there are devients out there capable of doing exactly just that.

For those I feel punishment to the fullist extent of the law is justified.

[dysfunctional press]

15. the deviants aren't just "capable" of doing that-

(sustain an erection while slapping/threatening some one into submission...)

for a lot of them, that's how they get the erection in the first place.

but i know what you mean- the first time my then-virgin girlfriend(i was "experienced") and i tried to have intercourse, her uncomfortable reactions to the pain involved quickly gave me a raging soft-on...(although we got that all worked out just fine the next time).

and while i can enjoy some good porn- i'm by no means an addict- i'm one of the few guys i know that doesn't keep a secret 'stash' on my computer, or in my closet- i've never been comfortable with simulated 'rape' scenes in movies. it just doesn't do "it" for me.

i just can't comprehend the mindset of a rapist...but- despite what people and "experts" always like to say- i don't believe that rape is always about violence & power, and not sex...IMO, many "date rapes" especially, really are about sex, rather than violence & power. that's NOT meant in ANYway to justify the act- but the sex drive in males can be a very tricky animal, especially when social mores are used to artificially "cage the beast" that can be the male libido. and saying that it's ALWAYS about violence & power is just as wrong as saying that it NEVER is.

[BoneDaddy]

31. I am curious

Why when it comes out that a woman raped a boy or a female teacher had sex with a male student there is rarely no outrage from the hard core male bashing women on these boards, some even go so far as to point to men and patriarchy as the cause, yet they are typically incredibly reactive when the shoe is on the other foot.

Why not simply point out that it is a horrible story and the woman who did this should pay the price for it?

[FreakinDJ]

5. Some claim it is not possible to rape males

I think the trend to deny the possibility is disturbing

[kurth]

6. It's the water

or maybe too much sex and violence on TV.

[Heidi]

8. "Some" are full of crap,

if that's what they're saying.

[baby_mouse]

20. Of course it's possible to rape males.

Haven't these people heard of anal rape? It happens in prisons constantly.

[proud2BlibKansan]

21. Tell that to that guy who was 'raped'

by the cops in NYC with a broom handle.

[BoneDaddy]

32. Yeah

I agree, they typically are people who think they have cornered the market on "victimhood as power" and deny anything that happens to individuals who are considered part of the cultural/gender power system, even children. Fucking pathological if you ask me.

[rkc3]

4. So how (or how soon) will the defendant portray this as the boy's fault?

[dysfunctional press]

10. a woman needing a knife to rape a 13-year-old boy...?

i'm guessing that she's not exactly a "looker"...



:hide:

[pitohui]

30. they had a picture of her

i'm thinking the kid had to explain the missing cash from his home used to pay a hooker but who knows

people trying to make this an anal rape/broomstick case are probably off-base on this particular situation altho i am in general agreement that rape of males and boys is under-reported and under-prosecuted

[BlooInBloo]

34. Ouch! I just HAD to go look....

Curiousity & cats n what-not....

[High Plains]

11. How many people get an erection at knifepoint?

This story sounds odd.

[FreakinDJ]

12. How many get an erection in the Hangmen's noose

Better yet how many men can actually control their erection....

[High Plains]

14. I don't know...

...but I suspect I would be in full shrivel mode if I had a weapon pointed at me.

[RagingInMiami]

24. For me also

But when I was 13, it seemed as if I was always erect.

[heart of darkness]

13. yeah, sounds a little suspicious..

I don't doubt that boys can be molested, abused or raped by other guys, but if this kid felt threatened I highly doubt he'd be aroused.

Is that even an issue..I mean the kid was 13, so its rape whether he consented or not.

[Solon]

22. What the fuck type of bullshit is this?

Seriously, all of you, listen to yourselves, your attitudes show both ignorance of your own bodies and a callous attitude to rape, its fucking disgusting, I can't believe it.

The kid is 13, no offense, but at 13 I had a problem controlling my erections, and it was probably the same for ALL of you other guys as well. In addition to that, even into adulthood guys get erections without a conscious thought involved. How many of you woke up with stiffies in the morning? Also there are other responses, stress hard-ons aren't uncommon, such as getting a knife to the throat, in addition to being a simple physical response due to rubbing and other stimulus. And the key here is that a hard-on does NOT imply consent, what the fuck type of attitude is that. Do women who get wet during rape also consent?

:puke:

[FreakinDJ]

25. Article doesn't say HOW he was raped.

Anal rape

Forced oral copulation

at knife point

Does any of this sound familiar??

[Solon]

26. So, what is the point there?

The post I was responding too implied that an erection means he consented, I went off the handle on that one. Its a disgusting attitude, and shows ignorance as well. Does rape HAVE to include what you said, or could it have been simply forced penetration?

[FreakinDJ]

28. Responded to wrong post

I was agreeing with your position in protest to the above post

[Solon]

29. OK, that's cool. n/t

[sendero]

33. It amazing..

.. but expected. You can't be too surprised that folks who don't have a penis don't know much about them, but you can be surprised that they seem to think they do :)

[dysfunctional press]

16. a 13-year-old boy getting an erection...

isn't usually a problem.

[FreakinDJ]

17. Exactly - when does a 13yr old boy NOT have an erection

Even then a rape charge would include "forced oral sex" or "anal penitration"

[ComerPerro]

18. no kidding

[baby_mouse]

19. Well, was he was forced to penetrate her, in his story?

Or did she penetrate him with something?

Um. I don't know, of course, but this whole thing sounds...er...implausible... if it's true, it's awful, but a peek at the article doesn't really give an awful lot more information away.

[BoneDaddy]

38. LOL

What a stupid thing to say.

[kurth]

23. Imagine a 34 y/o man charged with raping a 13 y/o girl at knifepoint

He'd be looking at life and no bail.

[uppityperson]

27. naw, it'd be her fault for leading him on (angry sarcasm)

:sarcasm: Some 13 yr old boys run around with erections all the time, but they can be raped without an erection so don't assume anything here.
this is why I do not respond to rape posts, sorry

[BlooInBloo]

37. The trollop!

Pure sarcasm, of course.

I just love that word - lol

[etherealtruth]

35. So should she

This is the rape of a child.

[BoneDaddy]

39. Didn't you know

only women can be victims...that's the only way some of the whack jobs in this forum get their power.

[OPERATIONMINDCRIME]

36. Hope She Rots In Jail If It Turns Out She's Guilty.

[lukasahero]

40. I agree 100%

and I don't even need the qualifier. To me the "if it turns out she's guilty" is obvious and implied - it doesn't need to be said. My empathy lies with the victim right now and I feel no need to question his actions in this matter.

For the record, I'm one of those "male bashers" so politely being discussed up thread. WTF? I am disgusted by anyone of my gender or another who would abuse and rape another human being - male or female. Who the fuck wouldn't be?