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I missed Oprah yesterday, when she had a panel on to discuss the Imus thing and the resultant rap/hip hop criticism ... but I caught her today, which was a continuation of yesterday's discussion.
Among the panelists were Russell Simmons whom I respect greatly, someone who is a VP at Warner Records (or some such), a former NAACP head (I think, and almost remember his name), and Common who is a rap star.
Gail went down to Spelman and had several gorgeous young women who had a few things to say tho didn't get nearly enough time to say them for my taste.
I didn't get to watch the show completely uninterrupted. For one thing I was surfing, and I was dealing with my husband wandering through, interrupting, and so forth.
Afterwards there are other things grabbing my attention but I notice I'm in an increasingly bad mood. REALLY foul. Depressed and foul. About an hour later I left for an errand, and my drive time was 1/2 hour so I had lots of time to explore this newly creeping, really foul mood.
What caused it was these men on Oprah who just didn't get it about the goddamned sexism in rap lyrics. Russell Simmons defended them as "poets" who are merely reflecting what society has been for them, growing up in poverty and the 'hood and so forth. He told us repeatedly that poets will ALWAYS be attacked because we will always be "uncomfortable" with what they have to say.
The Warner guy was all self-congratulatory about how HE in reality "uplifts" these people and how hip hop has done more for race relations in the last decade or two than all the civil rights people (or was that Simmons? or maybe both).
And Oprah said, repeatedly, but your videos don't have to GLAMORIZE the misogyny. No response to that that I can recall. There were some clips shown that were just soft porn, no two ways about it -- complete with body parts blurred out. LOTS of body parts.
Russell Simmons claimed that what society has to do is address those things which the poets are describing from their own experience which make us uncomfortabe. (But apparently the poets are off the damn hook for promoting and glorifying it.)
I get it about poets (and other artists) and making us uncomfortable, etc. I agree with that, I laud and salute that. But I think there are limits, frankly.
My bad mood was about the inability for anyone to reach these guys that not only is there a problem (this they at least acknowledged, finally), but that they are PART of the problem. No, not them. Society, not them. Not the rappers and hip hoppers who are just the messengers about this "problem."
I felt so angry, so powerless -- which IS, after all, the primary message of all sexism, isn't it? Powerlessness and worthlessness.
One great line from the show: Rappers didn't CAUSE Imus to use those words (or be a racist).
One shocking thing: Simmons seemed genuinely surprised that those gorgeous Spelman women were being called ho's by --- everybody, they said. (Because, you see, rappers are supposedly making a distinction between the ho's from the hood and the non-ho's from elsewhere. Nevermind that there should be NO reason any woman has a gender slur used against her. Do they also think it's okay for African Americans to be called the N-word if they "deserve" it??)
Sorry to ramble so. I just needed to vent a bit.
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