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Edited on Sun Jun-26-05 01:26 AM by Senior citizen
refer to native English speakers in this particular society.
There are many elderly Chinese and Japanese immigrants to this country who have not completely mastered the English language and get confused about sex-based pronouns. This may be the case with Policat's boss in the post below. Their confusion is understandable since, as you point out, such pronouns do not exist or were only recently introduced in their native tongue. That doesn't mean that they cannot distinguish between the genders, only that they're not familiar with our language. And, of course, as you also noted, their societies can be even more sexist than our own.
In many languages they have sex-based pronouns for inanimate objects. I enjoy recounting the true story of how, when I was learning Spanish in Honduras, I would often resort to picking up an object, turning it upside down and looking underneath it, and my landlady would respond by supplying the sex of the object. For example, if I wasn't sure if an ashtray or a bowl was masculine or feminine, I'd turn it upside down look underneath it, and my landlady would laugh and tell me its sex. This worked fine until one day I noticed that on the table before me were a small, dainty, floral jelly glass, and a large, thick, dark brown coffee mug. Having already learned their sex, I asked my landlady why the little glass was masculine (el vaso), while the big cup was feminine (la taza). All my landlady could do was shrug and say, "Tradition." And that's all it is with people too.
That's why I believe that if we got rid of sex-based pronouns for people, we'd have no more problem than native Spanish speakers have learning to refer to inanimate objects without regard to sex in English. It is easier, not harder. And it would really be nice for little kids learning to speak, who wouldn't have to determine the sex of an adult before they could refer to them. That's asking a whole lot of a kid, in my opinion, and is quite unnecessary.
On edit: When we teach kids that they have to distinguish between people based on sex and refer to them differently based on sex, we are teaching them divisiveness based on sex. We are telling them that there are two kinds of people and they should be treated differently. If we ever want an egalitarian society, we are going to have to teach kids that there is only one kind of person, and that everyone should be treated the same. Patriarchy teaches sexism differently in different societies, but in English-speaking countries people may hear themselves referred to in terms of their genital status literally hundreds of times a day, and it constantly reinforces something that probably isn't relevant 90% of the time. I've observed many instances when there was a mixed group discussion and everything was fine until a female spoke up, at which point a male will say, "Well she (however they finish the sentence)" and from that point on the males exclude the females from the conversation. All it takes is that one reminder and group unity can be completely destroyed. Could they do the same thing without the pronoun? Sure, but not as easily or as subtly.
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