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beachmom Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-12-08 10:25 PM
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A moment of grace:
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wisteria Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat Apr-12-08 10:35 PM
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1. I don't know what to make of this. I have to think about it for a while. n/t
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WildEyedLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-13-08 01:59 AM
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2. She doesn't owe anyone an apology for defending the Clintons
She does, however, owe a BUNCH of people an apology for relentless and vicious personal attacks, and she does owe the Senator an apology (in a manner of speaking, of course) for peddling untruths, distortions, and smears about him all over DU solely to "get back" at the JK group people she'd come to hate so blindly. I remember that AK was probably the biggest promoter of the heyjohn.org smear campaign on DU, and that she posted a (very quickly locked) thread in GD calling out the *entire* Kerry group. Her vendetta against us was almost irrationally vitriolic. Yes, it all started because AK and a few Kerry people, myself included, found ourselves on opposite "sides" of threads that related to the Clintons' conduct in 2004, but it soon went way, WAY beyond disagreement. I am no shrinking violet when it comes to bare-knuckles brawling on DU, and I think I called her a Clinton shill. That was probably not called for (even though it wasn't inaccurate) and I apologize for my role in the whole sordid affair, but the point remains that she got personal, ugly, and vicious to a degree that I honestly have not seen since on DU *anywhere* since. She hated me and a few other Kerry people and as a result decided that she hated Kerry and every Kerry supporter on DU.

I had to log out to view that thread as I came to the conclusion a long time ago that my DU experience would be far more peaceful if I put her on ignore and no longer allowed her to bait me into fruitless and ugly flamefests. I guess I can take her off ignore now, but frankly, though I do appreciate your reply to her, I - speaking solely for myself, of course - don't think her apology goes nearly far enough, because it doesn't really touch on WHY there is such bad blood between her and nearly the entire JK group.

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karynnj Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-13-08 12:38 PM
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3. You are correct, but so is AK in what she is saying
Edited on Sun Apr-13-08 01:29 PM by karynnj
I was one of the people who was called out personally - which more than anything else stunned me, because I never saw myself as someone who would engender attacks. In reality, the reason we did have those attacks was that we were responding with facts that they did not want to hear that challenged very comforting myths about the Clintons. The Clintons and their allies spread as truisms two myths; that the Clintons did an exceptional job in fighting the RW and that the Clintons were completely vetted and had no baggage. This was comforting as it offered an easy solution - back HRC and we would have an easy ride to the WH again.

We were saying in 2005, what most of DU sees as true now. We challenged with facts - linked to reputable sources - both of these myths. The Clintons actually did NOT do a great job defeating the lies of the right wing. Arguably Kerry did a better job and he was very honestly saying that clearly he did not do enough. He, not the Clintons, was analyzing what had to be done in the media of 2004, 2006 and 2008. (Kerry was a major factor in the 2006 vet races where they beat the RW.) He is now helping Obama defuse RW (and Clinton) bombs before they build up. The fact is that the Clintons, with the WH in their hands, did no better in eliminating the lies (such as Vince Foster) than Kerry did with the SBVT by November 2004.

In addition to the myth that the Clintons always beat the RW, there was a myth about John Kerry that was needed. They needed to believe that Kerry was an awful candidate. No one wanted to hear what Kerry did - they wanted to stick their fingers in their ears and believe that the problem was not the toxic environment, which would still be there in 2008, but that we had the "wrong candidate". The reason here is that Kerry not HRC fit the criteria better as the person who really was completely vetted and as clean as a politician will likely ever be and as the person who really had ideas on how to fight back. This is why even posts that we thought of as innocent and not controversial - just showing Kerry for the statesman, man of integrity and capable politician he was and is, bothered them. If a person could be as good as we said Kerry was could lose - it meant that 2008 was not a sure thing. The intensity of the attacks to that likely was because the attackers knew what we were saying was true. (Read Beachmom's thread that contained an August 2004 Dkos thread) Some reverted to attacks by Dean especially in February 2004 where he attacked Kerry - every bit as harmfully and as dishonestly as the Clintons attacked Obama - returning to the IWR litmus test.

The second Clinton myth was where there were fireworks. The RW did lie about the Clintons and Ken Starr went over the top. But, the idea that the Clintons had no baggage was laughable. When we simply countered that claim, we were called "Republican", "RW" and were said to be lying. Our response was to link to reputable sources showing that, as someone wittier than I said, they not only had no baggage, they were the Samonsite factory of political couples. The excesses of Ken Starr and people like Schaif in some ways immunized the Clintons on the left - but the fact is that many of the charges were true and would surface in the general election.

I think AK's statement was very honest and gracious - and does match what she said then. On Kerry, even then, she admired him for what he did in 1971. That and his actions in the 1980s and the 1990s likely made his the hardest to accept IWR vote for her and some others who saw Kerry as different from other politicians. Dean and Trippi made the IWR into a litmus test, ignoring that Kerry spoke out against going to war and spelled out the disastrous consequences far more than many who voted against it. I never saw her as hating Kerry as other posters with Hillaryis44 signatures do. I think she did hate us - but I think it was because we were willing - on a Democratic board to say that the only successful Democratic President in the last 45 years was not the hero they needed him to be and that he had no magic answer to the uneven playing field.

Tay Tay mentioned a friend having a signature saying that ships were safest in the harbor, but that's not what ships are for. She then pointed out that that was a good analogy for Senator Kerry. He could have stuck to safety - and likely would have been President - without going to Vietnam and without protesting, without fighting the Contras, and BCCI, but he wouldn't have been John Kerry. We, in much less dangerous, anonymous, quieter ways followed the Senator's lead. We questioned the clear desire of most of the powers in the Democratic party, who clearly wanted a coronation of HRC and a return in triumph of the Clintons to the White House. Though I, for one, never saw myself as challenging anyone - all of us were standing together and naively questioning the powers that be in the Democratic party - even when some of us never saw ourselves as doing that.

It took Obama, helped by people like Kerry and Kennedy, to get people to open their eyes. Here, AK is being incredibly honest and generous in saying that we were right in saying those things years ago. We are on the same side now and to not accept AK's comment as graciously as she extended it is pathetic and counter productive if our goal is to help the Senator. Some people have said that part of why Kerry did not run is because in 2007 was that there was still too much anger (or at least the inability to trust him to win) from the 2004 loss. Here is one case of someone who seems to have moved from that reaction. Senator Kerry is better off, even if he never runs for President again, having more people move this way. It would help him in the role he seems to be taking now as elder statesman.



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Inuca Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-13-08 01:02 PM
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4. Beautiful post, Karyn n/t
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blm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-13-08 01:37 PM
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6. Great post, karyn.
I wish every DUer opened themselves to hearing the wisdom of your voice.
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WildEyedLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-14-08 12:16 AM
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8. I am not trying to be pathetic, just honest
Your post is very thoughtful and I agree with 95% of it, particularly your analysis of the Clinton apologists' knee-jerk anger when confronted with any facts that contradicted the established mythology of the Clintons as proven, effective fighters against the RW. My post was, as I said, not meant to speak for anyone other than myself, and while I appreciate AK's apology, I stand by what I said, although I do offer the caveat that perhaps she has apologized elsewhere and I have just missed it because I had her on ignore. She apparently apologized to blm personally in pm, and that's good enough for me. I think you are being too generous in stating AK's prior feelings about JK; whatever else she said, she DID push the heyjohn.org crap hard and often. I don't think that's consistent with respecting him, and it also had nothing to do with her (understandable) objection to the IWR. That said, her comment that beachmom linked to indicates that she now realizes that she was wrong to support Clinton-led efforts to smear him, and I'll take her word for it, and I appreciate her forthright ability to admit it. It's not easy to admit that you were wrong and it takes a lot of courage to own up for it in public.
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blm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Apr-13-08 01:34 PM
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5. I should've given the heads up to JK forum that she did apologize to me in a PM some time ago.
And several times on the forum threads in recent months.

Maybe the Ignore feature blocked a similar exchange attempt in your case.
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WildEyedLiberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-14-08 12:07 AM
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7. Perhaps
I won't apologize for ignoring her because at the time, it was simply the best way to avoid being drawn into unproductive and fruitless flamewars with someone who clearly had a personal vendetta against Kerry supporters, but I have taken her off ignore now.
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blm Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Mon Apr-14-08 08:17 AM
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9. heheh.... don't *I* know it, kiddo....and.......
no apology necessary.
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