I think I may have met "the one". (crosses fingers)

[amitten]

This is a big deal for my soft romantic Leo heart! I've been dating an Aries man for over a month and though he is in almost NO way "my type", there is just something about him and the way we feel when we're together. I've never felt quite this way for anyone else. I don't have a "passion" for him, or butterflies, but I have a warm, glowing soft and tender feeling for him that makes me feel so at home. We are both able to be totally vulnerable with each other, and it just feels right.

I don't know--I don't want to get hurt! I hardly dare to be happy, but I am!!! :loveya:

On edit: I thought this was the best forum to share this, since all the people here are so loving and pro-love! :)

[Kind of Blue]

1. You KNOW I'm sending you

all my best! :hug: I just love this and am so happy for you, Amitten. Sounds so tender and mature. :hug: again.

[amitten]

3. Thank you!

I just hope my intuition is right. Something about him just feels...special.

And I don't feel all obsessed and crazy about him. I just feel solid and warm and good!

[gblady]

2. awwwww......

you made me grin from ear to ear...
Just bask in the happiness...and enjoy!

[amitten]

4. I will! Thank you! n/t

[LaurenG]

5. What a lovely story - I'm so happy for you!

I'll bet he's happy to have met you too. :hug:

[amitten]

12. He seems pretty crazy for me! Very romantic and mushy.

Lots of compliments. I just eat it up and want more! :)

[Missy Vixen]

6. amitten, I am so happy for you!

I know you probably already knew this, but the "real thing" is like that -- warm, gentle and lasting.

I married my husband because I could tell him anything.

This could not be happening to a nicer person! :loveya: Congratulations!

[amitten]

10. Oh, thank you! I've been searching for all sorts of "signs" on

astrology websites, etc. that he's the one.

But the real sign is that I'm feeling that way on a very deep level. I just hope it's not wishful thinking! :)

Thanks for your sweet post.

[Cleita]

7. He well could be particularly because he's not your type.

You have looked beyond the superficial and into his heart. I'm sending both of you a lot of love light. However, about being hurt. There is an old saying that goes, "Better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all." Plunge right in with all the optimism you can muster and take your chances that all will turn out right in the end. If it doesn't, pick yourself up, dry yourself off and start looking around for another love pond to swim in.

[amitten]

33. Thanks Cleita.

I hope I don't get hurt! Let me know if that is a vibe you're getting on this...!

[Cleita]

35. I'm not getting any vibe actually. I hope this relationship works out for

you.

[amitten]

37. Thank you!

I have a lot of hope! :)

[BanzaiBonnie]

8. I aadore my Aries man

Good for you. Best to you.

[amitten]

13. Are Aries pretty good guys? I've never dated one! n/t

[ricochetastroman]

9. You can't go by the Sun sign

what it SOUNDS like to me (besides love) is that your MOONS are compatible - that is what makes one feel like sittin on the couch and enjoying popcorn and a movie and then...

hee hee

I'm glad for you

(Compare your Moon placements)

Aries are great , they're refreshing! Like a cool mint.

[amitten]

11. Well, I don't know his moon, but he's an Aries and my moon is

in Aries, so...I guess that'a a good start! :)

Also, my Venus is in Libra and his Mars is in Sag. We do have a great, ahem, chemistry! :)

But beyond that, we seem to truly treasure each other and care for one another's feelings. I hope it will last--it feels strong and real...

[ricochetastroman]

17. Yes

it an awesome start when YOUR Moon is in His Sun Sign
great

THat's why YOU are comfortable (Moon) with his basic solar energy

The Moon is like a couch...silly, but true, it's what you are COMFORTABLE with.
You like his directness and innocence (Aries)

[amitten]

18. Cool. I have to say that I don't understand about love charts,

though. Like, if my Moon is in his Sun sign, but the same isn't true vice versa, do they "cancel" each other out...? When I read my sign's aspects to his, the chart looks great. But reversed, the chart doesn't look as great. Which to believe...? Or do you average them out...?

[ricochetastroman]

22. It's a very, very complex subject.

It's also not-figure-out-a-ble.

Suffice it to share moons, then we can look closer later on at Venus/Mars, etc.
It takes years to be able to do that type of "synastry"
if you feel good with him; that's enough!
enjoy

[amitten]

23. Thank you! n/t

[MorningGlow]

14. Hooray!

So happy for you, Amitten! Enjoy your special guy! :hi:

[amitten]

31. Thank you--I am! n/t

[OneGrassRoot]

15. Please do dare to be happy......

I wish you every happiness you can imagine!!!!

:hi: :hug: :loveya: :hug:

[amitten]

19. Thank you. I can't help but dare, I guess! n/t

[Why Syzygy]

16. That's lovely, amitten.

I know "they" say don't go by sun signs, but I'm Leo and I love Aries energy too. So motivating!
I'm pleased you are happy :D

[amitten]

20. Thank you! n/t

[I Have A Dream]

21. Congratulations, amitten! I'm so happy for you both.

It's difficult to make your heart vulnerable, but love is worth it.

:hug:

[amitten]

26. Thanks. I wrote to someone in the Lounge the other day that

"fear kills love". I know it deep down, and now I need to take my own advice!

[latebloomer]

24. It sounds very good!

Going against "type" and being with someone with whom you feel happy and comfortable can make a much more lasting and true connection than that head-over-heels passion thing that so often goes awry.

[amitten]

25. That's what I'm thinking.

It's strange not to feel "butterfiles" but instead to feel something warm and relaxing. It's nice in a totally different and more genuine way! :)

[latebloomer]

27. I needed years of therapy

before I could accept someone warm and caring who wasn't one of those charismatic "bad boys".

We've got 20 years now, and still goin strong.

Hope yours goes as well!

[WhiteTara]

28. I am so happy for you

no butterflies is a good sign (anxiety signal.) Deep respect and friendship make the romance all the deeper, IMHO of course.
:hug:

[Shine]

29. This Aries woman is thrilled for you.

my very first lover was an Aries man, and honey, lemme tell ya, they know how to burn in bed. :evilgrin:

Woohoo! Leo and Aries together makes a lotta nice fire. Enjoy.

[amitten]

30. Well yes, that seems to be the case!

It doesn't hurt that I also have an Aries moon...

(whew!) }(

But this is also an extremely tender, sensitive and warm-hearted guy. A great mix!

[Kind of Blue]

32. Same here and I can vouch for that! :)

:evilgrin:

[Sanity Claws]

34. Congratulations!

All the best for you and your love!
Keep us informed on how the romance progresses.

[Celebration]

36. Sounds wonderful

Perfect, perhaps.

[MagickMuffin]

38. I hope he is "the one" for you amitten

Dare to be happy and enjoy the journey. This seems like someone you can have that warm glowing soft and tender relationship with that will continue to develop.

I'm so happy for you and your Aries man.

[amitten]

41. Thanks for your sweet post! :)

[I Have A Dream]

39. My first husband was an Aries man with lots of Pisces in his chart.

Although we were not destined to be together for the rest of this life, he really was a kind, sweet and gentle man. I feel blessed by the Universe that he was my first love -- my heart was safe with him.

It sounds as though this man might have some water in his chart to make him so comfortable with his emotions. Have you had a chance to look at his chart?

[amitten]

40. Thank you! I'm glad you had that nice experience.

I have had a look at our charts. He has a lot of fire and not much water in his chart, actually! Here are some basics:

Him: Sun in Aries, Moon in (?) possibly Libra (don't have exact birth time), Venus in Aries, Mars in Saggitarius, Saturn in Aries

Me: Sun in Leo, Moon in Aries, Venus in Libra, Mars in Leo, Saturn in Taurus

All the other planets (Uranus, Pluto, etc.) aren't as nicely aspected, but I'm trying not to fret about that! :)

I think this could be serious in a good way--hope I'm right! I just need to get past my fears. I have a big, irrational fear of being betrayed, and it puts me on edge for no good reason. :(

[NuttyFluffers]

42. just go out there and have fun!

just believe you deserve it! :hug:

and whatever comes down the road, think how fun the ride was while it lasted.
:bounce: O8)