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power of attorney for medical decisions. I've seen living wills not honored if some relative shows up and screams that s/he wants everything done. A power of attorney is different, and appoints a single person to make decisions for the patient in question. No screaming relative has broken one of those. I would strongly suggest you do this for your mother while she is still lucid enough to participate.
Now, as to your question about Switzerland, all that will be entirely up to you, but I'd strongly advise against sharing your plans with anyone lest some right to lifer crazy overhear and run to a right to lifer judge to prevent you from doing this. The only similar situation is the one my dad did for my mom when she was begging for help to die. He refilled Dalmane prescriptions for two months, didn't take any, and left the lethal dose within her reach. She never did use them, but she did stop begging us to help her to die. Just knowing they were there made her a lot more comfortable. It was a control thing, too, and she knew she could make the final determination on whether to take them or not.
I didn't know about it until after she did die, and he fessed up. I thanked him.
End of life issues are only beginning to be addressed in this country, because for too long we've just called the paramedics and had Grandma and Grandpa taken to the hospital to die in intensive care. Hospice care for your mom can go a long way toward keeping her comfortable for the time she has left, and they can be a big help for you and your dad, too. She may find that assisted suicide is a far less attractive alternative than comfort care and support to help her enjoy whatever she has left.
Good luck to you whatever happens, and get that power of attorney for medical decisions.
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