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Why do I keep reading things on here that suggest that pro-choicers don't want to reduce abortion?
I dunno. Why do you beat your dog?
I can only tell you why something happens if it happens.
You appear to be reading statements (like mine) that "abortion should be rare" is an inappropriate thing for someone who advocates reproductive rights to say as if the people making them (like me) were saying that "abortion should be encouraged" or "abortion is a good thing".
And that would be misrepresentation. You have asked a loaded question: the premise -- that things have been said here that suggest that pro-choicers don't want to reduce abortion -- is false. The question can't be answered.
What do *I* want? I want women to be able to avoid unwanted pregnancy.
I want women to have access to the technology they need for that purpose: for good technology to be readily available at affordable prices (which may mean free). I want women to have the personal resources, and social supports, that they need in order to organize strategies to avoid unwanted pregnancy: to understand risks and be able to assess risks, to resist coercion and other forms of pressure to engage in high-risk behaviour, to have and be aware of their opportunities for future successes of all kinds (education, employment, family) so that they are less attracted to the high-risk behaviour and have better reasons to avoid it.
I want women, and all of us, to understand that unintended pregnancy is not a plague that we can eradicate like smallpox. There is no vaccine against it: we cannot innoculate little girls against unintended pregnancy, no matter how much sex ed and how many pills we offer them, how high their self-esteem and how much respect their male peers have for them, and how wonderful their opportunities for success in life. Individuals engage in sexual activity, and sometimes, despite anyone's best efforts, unintended and unwanted pregnancy will result. It is not necessarily evidence of the individual's stupidity or ignorance or vulnerability. It is sometimes just evidence of the force of our emotional and biological make-up, our individual urge to connect sexually and our species' urge to perpetuate itself.
I want to reduce the rate of unwanted pregnancies just as I want to reduce the rate of illiteracy. At least some women could have avoided unwanted pregnancy if the various resources they need for that purpose had been made available to them. At least some people could have avoided illiteracy in the same way.
But given that we are human, with the wide range of individual characteristics that exist under that umbrella, some people will have unwanted pregnancies and some people will be illiterate, no matter what resources are available to them, or despite their best efforts.
I'm not going to advocate that the strategy that those individuals use to solve their problem be "rare". I won't proclaim that I believe that abortion should be rare, or that I believe that working at jobs that don't require literacy should be rare. What people do to solve their own problems is their business, not mine, unless they happen to ask for my advice. I have a responsibility to offer help to people so that they can try to avoid those problems if they wish. I have no business expressing an opinion about what they do to solve the problems.
NO ONE says that cardiac surgery should be rare, despite the fact that it would be better if fewer people needed cardiac surgery, and that much of the need for cardiac surgery could be avoided by encouraging less risky behaviours and providing better resources for engaging in less risky behaviours. We DO talk about those things: getting children involved in physical activity, teaching them about proper nutrition, providing resources to avoid or quit smoking (we don't do enough, of course, but that's another matter).
In short, we're the ones trying to prevent unwanted pregnacies. The anti-abortion movement is the one trying to get in the way of all of these things. Why don't people see that more? Why do I often get ignored whenever I point this stuff out?
I dunno; sounds like another loaded question to me. ;)
The anti-choice brigade doesn't give a shit about unwanted pregnancies and the women who have them, and you know it. They want to stop women from having abortions, and more broadly, from controlling their own bodies and lives. So why you think they'd be impressed that reproductive rights defenders want to assist women in avoiding unwanted pregnancies, I don't know.
Why would they want to spend all that money, and provide people with ways of engaging in the sexual activity that they (claim to) disapprove of without getting pregnant, when all they have to do is stop women from having abortions?
Yes, of course, not everyone who disapproves of abortion is a vicious misogynist deep down. Some might actually prefer their daughters to have the resources to protect themselves from unwanted pregnancy. So go ahead and play to them.
But if that's the response you're playing to -- genuine concern about other people (and society as a whole, which is also disadvantaged by unwanted pregnancies) -- why the hell not do it directly? Why not say that you want to help women avoid unintended pregnancies?
We don't say that cardiac surgery should be rare; we say that we want to help people avoid heart disease. That seems to be a pretty clear and popularly accepted message. The message would obviously be a whole lot murkier, and the campaign to help people be healthier would be a whole lot less successful, and people with heart disease would be potentially at greater risk of service reductions, if we just went around saying "cardiac surgery should be rare", don't you think?
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