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seriousstan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 10:50 AM
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Girl, 11, will be Britain's youngest mother (Her mother is proud of her.)
A girl is to become Britain's youngest mother after becoming pregnant at 11.

The girl smokes 20 cigarettes a day despite being eight months' pregnant. She conceived aged 11 when she lost her virginity to a boy of 15 on a drunken night out with friends.

The 15-year-old has since been charged with rape by police, and is due to appear again at Edinburgh sheriff court on July 10.

Her 34-year-old mother, who gave birth to her youngest child eight months ago, said she was 'proud' of her daughter.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/articles/health/healthmain.html?in_article_id=385968&in_page_id=1774&in_a_source=&ct=5
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Greeby Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 10:51 AM
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1. sigh, this country is going to hell in a handbasket
:(
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sasquatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 10:57 AM
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4. Your country, have you seen mine?
Maybe our handbasket will be made out of Asbestos hopefully.
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SoCalDem Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 10:52 AM
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2. Mom needs to be charged with parental neglect
11 year old girls should be playing with dolls..not having a real life baby :(

How sad for all concerned....especially the baby:cry:
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Missy M Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 10:55 AM
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3. It seems her Mum could use a few lessons in parenting....
and birth control.
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MindPilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 10:58 AM
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5. Doesn't sound to me like rape
Smoking and drinking by age ten, I'm guessing that sex was consenual.
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jbnow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:16 AM
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15. When a child is 11
it is always rape (statutory) even if consent is given.
Anyone could get a child drunk.
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ECH1969 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:58 AM
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21. Even if the man is only 15?
Sorry, but if the roles were reversed nothing would happen to her.

It is total fucking bullshit.
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Cronus Protagonist Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 05:18 PM
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38. Yup, it is total bullshit
Edited on Fri May-12-06 05:21 PM by Cronus Protagonist
If I were caught for any of the things I did when I was 15..... brrrrrr.... definitely not fair.

P.S. (I did nothing even close to rape, BTW)



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sasquatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 10:59 AM
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6. Jesus, a full blown whore at 11
:wow::eyes:
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Dora Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:01 AM
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8. That's a terrible thing to call a child.
:tsktsk:

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sasquatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:03 AM
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10. But it's true though
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Dora Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:04 AM
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11. That's your opinion, and it's a good thing this is a message board.
Or you'd be getting no dessert after dinner.
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sasquatch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:06 AM
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13. I could do without it though
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MindPilot Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:14 AM
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14. Sounds like she kind of resigned from childhood. nt
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Toucano Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:16 AM
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16. But an even worse thing to make a child. And that's what her mother did.
Neglect made this child a drunken slut (not really a whore, actually).

You've got to call a spade a spade sometimes.
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Raster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 10:59 AM
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7. On this side of the pond we'd call the lot "white trash"...
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BiggJawn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:14 PM
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26. That was my thought too.
They'd be happier over here. We have NASCAR and Wal-Mart. And they both could have a different honky-tonk angel, every weekend.
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Raster Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 07:52 PM
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39. "It wasn't gawwwd who made honky-tonk angels..."
It Wasn't God Who Made Honky Tonk Angels
Kitty Wells

As I sit here tonight the jukebox playin'
The tune about the wild side of life
As I listen to the words you are sayin'
It brings memories when I was a trusting wife

It wasn't God who made Honky Tonk angels
As you said in the words of your song
Too many times married men think they're still single
That has caused many a good girl to go wrong

It's a shame that all the blame is on us women
It's not true that only you men feel the same
From the start most every heart that's ever broken
Was because there always was a man to blame

It wasn't God who made Honky Tonk angels
As you said in the words of your song
Too many times married men think they're still single
That has caused many a good girl to go wrong
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Pirate Smile Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:02 AM
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9. Sad. Her mother obviously isn't fit and she is still only 11.
Smoking and drinking at 9 and 10, pregnant at 11.
She continues smoking saying it wont hurt the baby.:(
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htuttle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:06 AM
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12. Her name isn't 'Vicky Pollard' is it?
Edited on Fri May-12-06 11:07 AM by htuttle
"No but yeah but no but yeah but no but yeah but no but...."



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Malikshah Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:50 AM
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19. Don't be givin me the evils!


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htuttle Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:36 PM
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32. Oh my God, I soooo can't believe you just said that!
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DrDebug Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:25 AM
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17. It is such a relief that she is not in school anymore
She has been suspended from her first year of secondary school for fighting.
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TexasLawyer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:44 AM
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18. I wish she and the baby's father would consider adoption
For many couples, it is the only way for them to have a family.

And the baby could be raised by adults, instead of by another child.

I have three adopted children, who would not be my children if not for the loving, selfless sacrifice of their birth parents.
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ECH1969 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 11:57 AM
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20. I still can't believe this fucking bullshit
I can't believe the father is being charged with rape because he is 3 years 7 months older.

If the roles were reversed and the girl was 15 they would have never thought about bringing charges.

The UK and the US both treat men like shit when it comes to anything involving sex.
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muriel_volestrangler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:02 PM
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24. He got an 11 year old pregnant when she was drunk
and she was so ignorant she thought you couldn't get pregnant the first time you had sex? That doesn't sound like 'consent' to me.
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ECH1969 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:22 PM
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Was he drunk too or do you give a fig
Here is the question, would you be saying the same thing if the boy was 11 and the girl was 15.

I already know how different the response would be about it.
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muriel_volestrangler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:38 PM
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33. I'd be condemning her
although the situation is more serious for a girl, since she's now pregnant, and too ignorant to bring up a child well (she thinks smoking while pregnant can't be having any effect on the baby). She's suffering physically as well as psychologically, and the baby may be too.
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 02:07 PM
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35. I would also blame a 15 year old girl in such a case..
though getting a very young girl pregnant does have more damaging consequences than turning a very young boy into a father. Both have serious social, economic and educational consequences, but the first has far more serious PHYSICAL consequences to both the child-parent and the baby.

I don't think that the boy should be punished as severely as a 40-year-old man who forces himself on an underage girl; but I think he has broken the law, and should be charged. As I would say about a girl in such a case.
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Lars39 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:02 PM
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25. There's a lot of difference between an 11 yo and a 15 yo.
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ECH1969 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:24 PM
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28. Only because the girl was the 11 year old one
If the guy was there is zero chance she would be up on charges and you know it.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 04:17 PM
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37. I agree
If I had an 11 year old who has sex with a 15 year old, I'd notify the police regardless of their gender. I am glad that my dad took my advice and didn't let my little brother "date" a 14 year old girl at that age. At that age, a few years makes a big difference.
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Lars39 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:00 PM
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22. Having a child at that young of an age is dangerous to her health.
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texanwitch Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:22 PM
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27. That is what I was thinking, can her body handle having a baby.
Poor kid.
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KittyWampus Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:01 PM
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23. Girl probably just wanted someone to love. Rather then doll or pet, she
acted on her hormonal surges. :(
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LeftishBrit Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:25 PM
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29. Scary....
I tend to doubt anything published in the Daily Mail, but I suspect that this story is true. If so, then it's a truly tragic case; and while I don't go for 'blaming the parents for everything', I do think that the girl's mother must have been quite negligent if such a young child was able to go around drinking, having unprotected sex, and now smoking while pregnant.

I just hope the baby will be all right, physically and psychologically. Adoption would be by far the best solution IMO.
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muriel_volestrangler Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:34 PM
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31. Originally reported by The Sun, but it's on the BBC too
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McCamy Taylor Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:31 PM
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30. This is the FIRST 11 y/o to give birth there? Lots of them in the USA,
UK must be doing something right.
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TexasLawyer Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 12:50 PM
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34. My own state-- Texas-- leads the nation
in births to girls under age 14.
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Fri May-12-06 04:12 PM
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36. I was suprised she was the youngest
A lot of girls are menstrating by 9 or 10 in the U.S. Some of them are having sex, which is sometimes with kids somewhat close in age but a lot it is abuse by adults. I remembering reading when I was a teen that a 7 year old in Toledo, OH had an abortion, which was probably a good thing but the article never said if anyone was charged for making her preganant.
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Kipling Donating Member (929 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-13-06 09:17 AM
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40. Why does crap like this always have to happen in Scotland?
I mean, it's not like people don't think we're pissed, violent idiots already.
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StellaBlue Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sat May-13-06 08:44 PM
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41. I don't think you are, Kipling!
I love Scotland. And I lived in England for four years!

(Yes, I have been there. Several times. And, no I didn't buy any red wigs, Nessie ceramics, or "family crests"!)
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PaulaFarrell Donating Member (840 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Sun Jun-11-06 01:10 PM
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42. Proud she's keeping the baby
not proud she's pregnant. There's a slight difference.
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Nye Bevan Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Jun-14-06 01:49 PM
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43. OMG! It's Tasha Slapper (and her mam)
Edited on Wed Jun-14-06 01:49 PM by MathGuy
in case there are any Viz readers here!
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