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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:47 PM
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How many virgins have you converted? I'm only sure about two.
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Blayde Starrfyre Donating Member (428 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:48 PM
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1. One (n/t)
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AndyP Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:49 PM
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2. one
My current girlfriend. It was like 6 years ago too. Jeez, I feel like I'm married already.
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mhr Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:50 PM
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3. Zero
eom
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Noon_Blue_Apples Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:50 PM
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4. are you counting yourself?

Bill
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tigerbeat Donating Member (475 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:51 PM
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5. two....
....that i'm aware of.
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arcane1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 03:52 PM
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6. hmmm...
2 directly, anyway. Who knows what kind of indirect effects I've had :P
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chemp Donating Member (569 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 04:10 PM
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7. do lesbians count?
2, back in HS
add the former lesbian about six years ago.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:34 PM
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11. no they dont
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:41 PM
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15. Why not?
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:44 PM
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21. cos they have had sex...thats why
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:55 PM
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23. You're assuming they have.
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:01 PM
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25. yes it was how the original question was framed
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:11 PM
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8. 2
One was my husband. The other was my ex boyfriend who regretted it afterwards, thought that I must be a whore, and still hates me.
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amandae Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:28 PM
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9. 2
and I'm a girl :)
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Triple H Donating Member (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:30 PM
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10. None.
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ohiosmith Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:41 PM
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14. Why not?
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Triple H Donating Member (714 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:41 PM
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16. Because I'm still a virgin.
That's why. :cry:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:34 PM
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12. 4
Edited on Wed Mar-31-04 05:35 PM by lionesspriyanka
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Melsky Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:36 PM
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13. I used to know
but I lost track.

:D
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GoddessOfGuinness Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:42 PM
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17. One...years ago
I was 23, and I had no idea that he was a virgin until afterward; though he was clearly inexperienced. He was also younger than I thought he was; but he was at least of legal age...just barely.

The relationship didn't last very long, and I felt very foolish when it was over.
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:43 PM
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18. 4
2 female and 2 male. Ah, the memories... :evilgrin:
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:43 PM
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19. hey me too !
:toast:
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:46 PM
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22. ^5
:toast:
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TrogL Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:43 PM
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20. That depends
I work both sides of the street and I've dragged a few people across the street.

Probably four or five.
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Runcible Spoon Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 05:58 PM
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24. none, but I did "educate" 3 men
who only had 1 lover before me! They might as well have been virgins!
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camero Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:02 PM
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26. None
But one was her second time. I think I got her addicted. :(
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VelmaD Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:03 PM
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27. two...although one I didn't know it at the time
Edited on Wed Mar-31-04 06:03 PM by VelmaD
The very first guy I had sex with it was his first time too. It was actually a lot better than you'd think. :)

The second one was in college. He was 19. He didn't tell me ahead of time it was his first time or I probably would have been a lot easier on him. ;)
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DS1 Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:05 PM
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28. Virgins are horrible in the sack
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La Lioness Priyanka Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:09 PM
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29. not necessarily
just cos they are "technically virgins" does not mean they have nto been slutty
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Nikia Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:14 PM
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30. They learn what you want better though
My first boyfriend that I had sex with only had one girlfriend before. He still thought that she was wonderful but she moved away to another state and went to an all woman's college. She taught him how she liked it and he insisted to me that the way she liked it was the right way. We had sex how she had wanted sex and he didn't care what I wanted.
Another guy, who was rather experienced, who I had sex with liked having sex in a lot of differnt positions in the same sex session. I couldn't get off because he kept on changing positions every minute and a half. He insisted that this was exciting and most of the women that he had been with thought that it was exciting too.
My husband, who hadn't been with anyone else, learned rather quickly what I liked and got good at that. He may not have started off as the world's best lover, but he is my custom taught lover.
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:16 PM
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31. I don't agree, not always.
Some of them can be QUITE fun, once they get past the 'first-time jitters' stage; that's why I always made sure we had the WHOLE night with nothing else planned. ;)
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Mass_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:48 PM
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32. I'm a virgin quite open to conversion
:evilgrin:
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:00 PM
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34. Hmm....
*estimates driving time to Massachussetts* :P
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Mass_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:03 PM
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36. where do you live?
(not to be a stalker or nuffin). A city, right?
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:05 PM
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37. East of Decatur, IL.
We live in the 'very flat' part of Illinois. :)
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Mass_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:07 PM
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38. where's decatur
sorry, I'm a city dude. So the question is: anywhere near Chicago?
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:08 PM
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39. We're 180 miles south of Chicago.
Slightly east of the dead-center of Illinois.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:10 PM
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41. I'm telling Paddy
Edited on Wed Mar-31-04 07:12 PM by bigwillq
:silly: Or maybe he will join in..hmm...


edit: Shit I spelt his name wrong don't tell him that.
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:11 PM
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42. I was betting he'll want to join in!
If history is any indicator, he will want to...:evilgrin:
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:13 PM
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43. Bad bad boys
:evilgrin:
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:14 PM
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46. Sex is a matter of what....
... any 3 or more consenting people decide to do in the privacy of their own home. ;)
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:16 PM
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47. I here that
why don't you go tell my b/f about it. He's not very open and doesn't like to explore other "options" but I still love him.
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Cuban_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:18 PM
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48. A little spice is nice.
It's an issue we agree on: sometimes a little variety is pleasant. :)
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:30 PM
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49. Hey if you and Cuban_
ever got 'together' neither would have to change their 'last'names!}(
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MnFats Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 06:58 PM
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33. three. ok, don't tell anybody but
i had almost identical conversations with two of them.
at a critical moment:
me: "Am I hurting you?"
her: "A little."
me: "Do you want me to stop?"
her: "No."

the feeling good part was catching up.

my very first, believe it or not, is after being the wanderer for a number of years, my wife now.
way back then we were both virgins. we went slowly, slowly, each time we were together going a little further than the last. so each made sure the other was comfortable before proceeding. when we were very ready, i made sure we had 'protection,' having had an older sibling that got pregnant and seeing what a shitstorm that had caused. my folks were out of town, the siblings were otherwise occupied, and it happened on a warm summer night.
i think that for a first experience, it was about as nice as it gets. I would recommend the same sequence to anyone still a virgin but thinking of losing it. Stretch the progression over a month or so, make sure you're both completely comfortable.
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:01 PM
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35. Just one
and it was a girl. I want a virgin male so I can teach him some tricks but I've been with my man for three years so that's not happening anytime soon I guess.
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Parrcrow Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:09 PM
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40. 500 ----I've made it to 500 posts
how many virgins do I get?
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bigwillq Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:14 PM
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44. Congrats on 500
posts.If it were 500 virgins, you would be one busy but happy DUer.
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Bill of Rights Donating Member (424 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:14 PM
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45. It's kind of complicated
I think my technical answer is a big, fat zero. I have, however, been the first lesbian lover to 4 women.
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GalleryGod Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:39 PM
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50. Three.
:evilgrin: It was wonderful!
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dwckabal Donating Member (854 posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 07:55 PM
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51. Five
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Mass_Liberal Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 08:25 PM
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52. thats a lot
n/t
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neverborn Donating Member (1000+ posts) Send PM | Profile | Ignore Wed Mar-31-04 08:31 PM
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53. 0
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