Have/Would You with your SO ever...

[Nuclear Unicorn]

...videotape yourselves doing what you love to do?

How long would you have to wait to be in a relationship before you were confident enough?

Assuming it was purely for domestic consumption (and would you actually watch?).


This is kind of a follow-up to the "watching pr0n with your SO" thread from a week or so ago.

[trof]

1. Nope, but I'm a prude.

;-)

[Lyric]

2. No way. First of all, I have no desire to see myself

nude in that context, because I'll hyper-focus on every flaw. It'll ruin my sex life because I'll never be able to relax again without cringing and thinking, "Oh god, does my ass really look that big??"

Second, there's too much opportunity for someone to gain access to it. I've taken a naughty photo or two in my day, but not with my face included, know what I mean?

[Brickbat]

3. Mmmmmmmmmmmmmaybe.

[azmouse]

4. Tape ourselves doing "what we love to do"?

You mean eating, watching movies, and drinking.... sure! :7

[Nuclear Unicorn]

5. I suppose...

...food could be involved.

:evilgrin:

[geardaddy]

6. lol

[Kali]

7. I don't even want to see clothed, still shots of myself

sure as hell don't want to watch naked, jiggly action:puke:

[mcctatas]

8. Of course!

but I don't know what would be so interesting about us doing what we love to do, watching TV and sleeping :P

[MrCoffee]

9. Yes/Yes

Minutes after meeting someone for the very first time

I would tape myself watching.

[bamacrat]

10. Yes/yes sounds fun.

I dont know what type of time frame you have to wait but I think that if a woman wants to it will happen. If she doesn't it won't.

[BeachBaby]

11. Yes and yes.

[flvegan]

16. I'm watching it again now, matter of fact. Thanks for letting me shoot it.

[BeachBaby]

17. But you told me you DIDN'T "shoot it"!

Oh, wait. :hide:

[redqueen]

12. Hah yep... I have.

No SO to do that with now, but I've ... I'll just shut up now.

[Nuclear Unicorn]

13. Who got to keep the vid?

I still have mine as a precondition.

[CBR]

14. Yes I would with my hubby. nt

[yawnmaster]

15. A hint. Just video the up close shots. real close. Doesn't matter much if it gets out then...

unless you have distinctive tatoos, moles, piercings, etc. in the area being recorded.

I mean really close.

[MiddleFingerMom]

18. A very good friend who had gone through a recent traumatic split with his wife...

.
... put on "another movie" and, as it started (this was VHS days), told me
that he really wanted me to give him my honest opinion about it.
.
It floored me when I realized that it was their "sex tape" (probably ONE of
their sex tapes, but I didn't wanna ask). I told him that I was really not
comfortable watching something so private about his ex and he insisted that
I watch "for me do it for me". I didn't for more than a coupla minutes total.
.
I got up and turned it off.
.
By the way, it was the most boring, sad, unimaginative, unenergetic, formulaic,
dull "erotica" that I had ever seen. I not only hadn't wanted to see it, but I
was giving it two thumbs DOWN!!!!
.
Yes... I said thumbs.
.
He asked me "what I thought".
.
I'm an honest guy. A VERY honest guy.
.
This was a struggle. Finally, I came up with, "It's obvious you both loved each
other very, very much."
.
It was, at least, an honest appraisal of the, um... you know... alleged performance.
.

[LeftyMom]

19. Haven't, but totally would.

He's hawt and I like looking at him.

[Fleshdancer]

20. yes and yes

and it troubles the both of us that we can't find the tape.