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Edited on Sun Mar-08-09 02:29 AM by RoyGBiv
I try not to bring personal issues to DU, but sometimes I just feel compelled. With this subject in particular, I felt DU would be the best place for it.
I have a friend from high school I have not seen in ten years. He's a great guy. I've even mentioned him obliquely in some of the stories I've told about my hacker days. I'll always have fond memories.
He just sorta disappeared those ten years ago. I knew he'd moved to Georgia. He basically packed up and moved in the middle of the night, to get away from a family of leaches and a number of other "friends" who were trying to lead him down an unproductive path. I have heard from him a few times within these years since I've seen him, but he was distant and not all that willing to talk about himself and his situation. I didn't question it. He had a lot of family issues that were problematic for reasons I won't go into.
A few weeks ago, this friend found me on Facebook. We got to talking. He's the same as he's always been. We've shared jokes, caught up. He's married now, which is incredibly cool to me because when we were in high school he always had so much trouble with women, and I remember a night we spent in my house with him drunk off his ass lamenting the recent realization that a woman he'd fallen for had been using him.
A couple days ago I was browsing around his profile for not particular reason, just to see what all things he was involved with that we hadn't talked about, and I found he'd become a "fan" of Bobby Jindal the night the latter gave the Republican response to Obama's speech. Well, okay, I thought ... we've always had political differences. He had voted for George Bush the First for his first vote. I'd voted for Dukakis. It was never a big thing. He was mostly a libertarian, and on all of what I consider the major issues that allow me even to be able to associate with someone, we were generally compatible.
But then, today, I looked at his Wall and noticed he'd been posting on Free Republic's Facebook page. I checked out some of his posts, thinking, at first, he'd been giving them hell since he tends to do that with people who are clearly too in love with their dogma. But, no ... the first post I saw was a racist rant about Obama. What makes that even more interesting to me is that this guy is a Native American and has been subjected to racism himself. I suppose that shouldn't surprise me, but it does.
My inclination is to remove him from my friends list and just not mention it anymore. I don't want to make this more dramatic than it is. Facebook is not Life. However, we've been talking quite a bit lately, getting back into the old "friend" groove, and this just put the brakes on it for me. I could deal with him being a Republican. I have a number of Republican friends who aren't complete idiots. But this guy is a Freeper, apparently a racist Freeper ... but I repeat myself.
What I have done is gone and subscribed to every last liberal "cause" I could find on Facebook with more than a few members and opened up my viewable info to include my politics and (lack of) religion, I suppose in something of a passive-aggressive ploy to let him decide whether he wants to continue to communicate.
So, DU ... what would you do if you found out a long-time, long-lost friend was a Freeper?
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